Let me tell you something funny today. Now a days we all hear once in a while someone random comes online in YouTube or any other social media & says, “You don’t need a school/college/university degree to be successful in life”. Even Elon Musk once said “You can learn almost anything from internet for free”. My question is; “As a human & society as whole, do we value free things?”. I totally agree you can learn any skill for free if you have a strong willpower. But that doesn’t take away the fact that a good school/college/university education is important. Rich people don’t want competition. It’s beneficial for them if a major chunk of population stays under qualified, cheap labour you know.
Let me bust all these crap today. Roughly 7.9 billion human population in our world & 92% adults don’t have a college/university degree. And the rest 8% people who have a college/university degree own 74% of entire world’s wealth. So don’t take advice from people who haven’t walked that path. In most cases what happens; even getting into a good university or any ivy league school is a big deal here, that says your mind is ready for the big game.
Education is necessary. Qualification is important. Skills you learned will take you places.
We humans pack tons of flaws in us & we always try to hide it. Let’s be true, we all have done this. We share only that much information which will make other side feel better about us. My problem here is, “What’s the point of trying that if you are not YOU!!”. That’s not the right way to fit in to someone’s life or some group/ideology. It’s exactly opposite, you are entering somebody’s book of misunderstanding.
That’s the reason every grifter thinks she/he is RIGHT by sharing half information about his half TRUTH. When you try to hide something no matter how small it is, you act like you are hiding something. People who care about you will notice it. And there are high chances few are losing their mojo because of that behaviour. LEARN TO BE YOURSELF. FLAWS ARE BEAUTIFUL IN CASE YOU CAN OWN THEM TRUTHFULLY.
People really get confused when they see these two words together “POWER COUPLE”.
It simply means, you see TRUTH, TRUST & CONFIDENCE in your partner’s eyes. Each time you are face to face, you scream at your partner without opening mouth “You are going nowhere this lifetime. Your address is my arms. I own you.” There is no longer a day where communication will struggle. There is no chance for misunderstandings. Each words spoken are TRUTH or a PROMISE. That’s when you are sure about your forever next.
While typing this I can add one thing; I don’t know where i stand in terms of a romantic relationship or LOVE kinda bullshit. I was/am never ready to enter a relationship. Did that mistake just once, failed. Not ready to allow anyone close without a huge time tested solid foundation.
Now I assure, I see TRUTH in someone. Request is; please never lose it. My heart is healed & I am back on track towards usual flamboyance. Thanks for succesfully keeping my both heads active. Yes, I am trying to make you weak. And shhhhhhhhh, I know how to make twins.😂😘
Doesn’t matter you are in a relationship or not, there is always a journey which is just yours. Your career path, your business goals, your own hobbies; these are all yours which make you a better beautiful you.
Now if your love/relationship isn’t helping you grow towards a better you, then stop lying to yourself. We enter relationships with tons of TRUTH & LOYALITY to become a better version of ourselves. We do it for our own happiness. The other person is there for a push. We do the same for them as well. Emotional availability speaks when words fall short.
Till you discover your worth, your goals & life purpose; you can’t be in a relationship with anyone.
Right now your money/qualifications/lifestyle/savings may not be good enough as you want, still it’s OK. Everything has it’s own time. But if you don’t have a plan towards getting what you don’t have or what you want, you aren’t exploring your WORTH.
Without DESIRES and DEMANDS from self for a better tomorrow, we are nothing. You are born HUMAN for a reason, BE YOU.
In a relationship if someone is not moving up with time; just move forward with your life towards your goals & success, with or without them. You need a better you tomorrow. If deserving & you both are meant to be together, the other person will step up to catch up.
People who cheat/lie/manipulate/betray aren’t entitled to show EGO or TANTRUMS & raise their voice. It’s like cherry on top of shit, still it stinks and untouchable/unbearable.
Please keep on self examining, you deserve a better you for your own good before approaching anyone.👍
Yes, I was crushing over a raunchy brunette during those days. Definitely not Love, I was never ready for that. Once met that girl near bus stop during a rainy day. A tiny conversation lead to so much more later on, not a line. Just read it..😂
Girl: Heya Tap. Where you wanna go in this weather?
Tap: Hey not much. It’s spar, to buy chicken breasts & wine.
Girl: I heard a lot about those late night parties in your apartment.
Tap: Yeah, I would love to invite you someday.
Girl: Is there a barbecue party tonight as well?
Girl: You shouldn’t invite me, I am totally wet because of this rain.
Tap: Rather I would love to invite you right now. Let me show you the right way to getwet. 😂
(No further 18+ talks, I am a big flirt. & Yes I know how to scratch the right cord).
People may hurt, scold, betray, abuse & break your heart. Stay strong, don’t behave like a pussy. Everything happens for a reason. Your other side is earning their karma by misusing you. At the end someone beautiful is coming to clean all & adore you for what you are. Your Truth & goodness will be rewarded at any cost. Stay positive, vibe right.
Apparently my friends were suggesting to go on a banging spree last time when I told them about breaking up with a person who felt flat on standing on her ground to be a human. I just exited that part because that wasn’t serving me. If a relationship isn’t making you happy; you don’t need to break up from that person, you just need to come out from the bullshit they are trying to sell you. The day they will understand their own value, that person will figure out what’s best for them & you figure out what’s best for you.
In the name of break up, don’t go for stupid rebound sex bullshit. Some even end up in friends with benefits situations which attract more complications. That lowers your standard as a human even further. I make sure there is some standard in a person even when it’s a one night stand. That girl wasn’t even worth it. That was my reason for break up.
Life is like a concert. Don’t go ahead & argue/fight with/for somebody towards any reason good or bad, it’s like you are stopping your own fun by wasting time on someone else who is all about negative vibe.
Since the day you are born till today, all your actions are already written by your almighty. Call it destiny or call it your lifepath.
The only thing you can do is; understand your heart/head’s call & put it under logic to understand the truth, just follow it. You know where to move. Don’t prefer to live under regrets. You deserve happiness & love in your life. Smile..
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