If you tell a skiier to don’t lose balance or don’t get hit by a tree, they definitely will. So their trainer usually tells them to follow the path & nothing more.
Our Human brains are so stupid that we can’t comprehend the NEGATIVE. For example; If i tell you to not think about an elephant, you can’t follow that one. Didn’t you just think about an elephant right right now?
Life is like that & most people are exactly like that. The people who worry too much about failure/betrayal/getting cheated/behaving bad are the ones who usually do all those negative things as their first line of defence. And later overthinking makes everything worse with time.
Just become confident & stay consistent on your journey, i believe you can do that. Confident & consistent with your thoughts/mindset. Confident & consistent with communication/behaviour. Confident & consistent with your lifestyle/habit/choices/goals. Confident & consistent with the way you live. You don’t need different stories for different people. In short, you don’t need that negativity to prosper inside you. Follow the path of light. Life is fun, let it flourish.
Most people think i hate liars because i write about predicative patterns of a person who’s lying. Actually i love liars. The best thing about a liar is; his/her estimation of hiding something to avoid lying about it. And the catch is; “when you lie about something, your voice says you are lying because there’s too much inconsistency. And when you hide about something, your behaviour speaks about it. Again the same reason because there’s too much inconsistency”.
A liar is predictable either ways. I love it because I just want to applaud that effort behind creating so much nonsensical garbage in head. People lose their value & that can never be restored. Once that mojo is lost, it’s just gonna give bitter taste afterwards. Karma has the cure for everyone, you will get served exactly what you offer.
The average life span of a human is approximately 80 years. That’s equal to about 29,200 days. About 8030 of those are school days & university, leaving you with 21,170 days left. Let’s say you work for 40 years, that’s 14,600 days, leaving you with 6570 days. By the time you retire, you’ll be too weak to do as much as you could’ve. Almost 70% of your life is spent in school and work. So stop waiting until Friday, stop sleeping until 1:00 pm on weekends, stop telling yourself that the week will be over soon because that week might be your dream week. Spend every day like it’s your last & it’s your best. So go out with your friends, pull the all nighter, tell them how you feel, travel around the world, get your hair wet in pool, buy that expensive watch you desire, let go of toxic friendships, fix your GOALS and fetch them, do what your heart desires without hurting others. Don’t wait. Live a life you’d want to relive, or ur just cheating urself.
(Now that you read the entire post, calm the fuck down till this pandemic calms down. Follow rules of lockdown & get vaccinated when it’s your turn.)
What we don’t discuss about LIES? Some people lie to manipulate but few might be lying in an entirely different way. Lies of omission could be keeping you up at night. Maybe you’re unhappy with your relationship or your career. You could be lying to yourself or others, lying others that you’re satisfied when you aren’t. Are you hiding in the closet preventing others from knowing your true identity or maybe you told an outright lie and you’ve been carrying it with you for a long time!?! Whatever Secrets you’re protecting you can let the lie go by telling a trusted friend. Once you share the truth, the falsity fades away. Even when you believe that lying is the best or most moral decision, it can still take a toll on your conscience. You can move on from the regrets in a truce that are holding you back. Let go of the lies and live your life with honesty for happier existence.
Now if you saw this video, i would love to see every liar/cheater in this exact same position as this woman. Correction, there should be a database of cheaters so that people with healthy happy mindset can be aware whom to date & whom to wham bam thank you mam!! Not a single cheater understands these bold italic lines; “You are bound to sink if you put two legs in two boats. Just break up if you aren’t happy with someone. Be blunt & say it. Take a 3-6 month break to get rid of memories from previous relationship. That will help both to get rid of those up & down toxic cycles. Then start your next chapter from a clean slate”. When you lie about your income tax, property, anything illegal or criminal act, there is a law everywhere to deal with it. The fun part, there is no such things to deal with cheaters in a relationship. If you ever lie or cheat your partner, never expect a forgiveness. That’s just cheap & the only nature of CHEAP is; it gets cheaper with time. I can say the same for every inconsistent person. Learn to follow a consistent truthful life for your own happiness, that’s attractive & sassy af. Hope i was able to make little sense in my post.
While chasing your goals you will encounter two types of problematic people; one who will remind you that you can’t make any difference because they are afraid to try NEW, second who are afraid you might SUCCEED before them. Now let’s address the problem with both. Problem is only when you lose your independent way of thinking while reacting to such nonsense. Keep walking if you are true & confident, life is too short to entertain naysayers.
Most of the time your PROBLEM isn’t the problem, it’s the way you react. That REACTION is the real problem.
This video got nothing to do with the post above. I hate politics & religion related issues in general. But Donald Trump is a different kinda species, I mean he is such a liar/deceiver that now it seems fun to watch him. Just sharing it because this animated video seemed amazing. And I have played golf only 5 or 6 times, never cheated.
The worst IRONY OF 21ST CENTURY is: when people want to make money on internet, they start selling the idea/seminar/courses related to “HOW TO MAKE MONEY ON INTERNET”.😂 Some do the same in the name of STOCK MARKET, REAL ESTATE OR SOME SHITTY BOGUS APPS/SERVICES. I have a huge hate towards these fraudsters disguised as mentors/internet gurus. Seriously!!! I mean, what’s in that stupid head while planning such niche. Let me answer: “Let’s get in while the going is good. Right??” This blog is active since past 4+ years. There is one thing I never talked about is “HOW TO MAKE MONEY!”. That’s the only topic I hate to talk/read/see.
Your body hair, ego, goals & happiness; all are your responsibility. First find your purpose which will help you set goals. Life is not what you live on weekends, stay disciplined whole week. Goals require forward planning & execution, same applicable for your health. Your view, opinion, obligation, enthusiasm, intrest & attitude towards life are not same as mine. Your name isn’t TAP. What worked for me will never work for you. Learn to serve some respect to your identity.
People who cheat/lie/manipulate/betray aren’t entitled to show EGO or TANTRUMS & raise their voice. It’s like cherry on top of shit, still it stinks and untouchable/unbearable.
Please keep on self examining, you deserve a better you for your own good before approaching anyone.👍
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