Tag: tapan4evr

Tru2Day1853

I’m either aggresively passionate or completely detached.
I have no notion of doing things or loving people by halves.
It is not my nature.

Everything in my life is a YES or NO for me.
I never bring a “MAYBE” to anything/anyone.

True me.. Tap-1752..

Never let anxiety fool you into thinking you’re not strong enough for something.
Never let your anxiety fool you into thinking that you can’t achieve your biggest dreams.
Never let anxiety convince you that you’re not loved or that there’s something wrong with you.

Never let anxiety fool you into thinking that this is how you will be for the rest of your life.
Never let anxiety control you.

Tap..✌️

True me.. Tap-1751..

Negativity is contagious.
Unhappiness is contagious.
Fear is contagious.
But,
So is happiness.
So is optimism.
So is love.
So is life.

Surround yourself with people who bring out the best in you.
And,
Strive to be a reflection of what you want to receive.
Be happy & be yourself.

Tap..✌️

Tru2Day1851

Self confidence is sexy.
Indecisiveness is the exact opposite.
Try what suits you.

In basic terms; Learn to say a strong YES or NO.
Your “Maybe” says you have a weak personality.

True me.. Tap-1750..

Keep doing things for you,
just for you,
for your own recognition,
for your own approval,
for your own joy.

Keep doing things that spark confidence and self understanding.
Keep experiencing yourself.
Be you.

Tap..✌️

True me.. Tap-1749..

As I grew older, I learned that the key to surviving the day is not positivity, it’s acceptance.
Accepting that not all days are goood,
accepting that not all days are happy,
you will have bad days,
you will make mistakes,
you will fail,
you will mess up,
everything is not going to fall into place and that’s fine.

Positivity is a choice.
It’s your choice to choose it.
And sometimes if the day doesn’t turn out to be the best, then you have to accept it as it is with head held high in hope for a better tomorrow.
Acceptance is the key.

Tap..✌️

Tru2Day1849

The most important lesson I’ve learned over this past year is, don’t let anybody make you cruel.

No matter how badly you want to give the world a taste of its own bitter medicine, it is never worth losing yourself.

True me.. Tap-1748..

Indecisiveness causes insecurities.
Insecurities cause self-doubt.
You start expecting the worst, allowing yourself to take every wrong step & sabotage own growth in life.

Solution:
Find a motive to live.
Set a goal.
Take decisions rightfully: stay stuck to your decisions.

If you can’t find reasons behind your actions/words/moves; don’t do it because they are pure nonsense which may harm your peace of mind.
Be true to yourself first, everyone will acknowledge that with time.
Investment in self growth gratifies self-respect and self-esteem.
Be a TRUE you.

Tap..✌️

True me.. Tap-1747..

You don’t have to be positive all the time.
Different situations bring different feelings.
You are allowed to feel what you are supposed to feel.
It’s perfectly fine to feel sad.
It’s perfectly fine to feel angry.
It’s perfectly fine to feel annoyed.
It’s perfectly fine to feel frustrated.
It’s perfectly fine to feel scared.
It’s perfectly fine to feel anxious.

Having feelings doesn’t make you a ‘negative person’.
It makes you human.
But here the question is whether all those negative thoughts are dragging you down!!
Being optimistic about coming out from a negative scenario is more important than being postive all the time.

Tap..✌️

Tru2Day1847

There are people that will never support you because it’s you.
Then there are people that will always support you because it’s you.

You just have to know who they are.
Choose your people wisely.

True me.. Tap-1746..

Reminder to everyone that “your best” doesn’t mean pushing yourself to your breaking point.
“Your best” means the best you can do while being the best you.
“Your best” isn’t about competing with others who come from different situations, different upbringing & different walks of life.

Get enough sleep.
Give yourself breaks.
Listen to your limits.
“Your best“ is better when you’re happy and healthy.
Focus on superseding your past self.
Be you.

Tap..✌️

Tru2Day1846

A good apology has three parts:
1. I’m sorry.
2. It’s my fault.
3. What can I do to make it right?

Most people forget the third part, which puts a question mark on their integrity.

Tru2Day1845

The meaning of Karma is in the intention.
The intention behind action is what matters.
Those who are motivated only by desire for the fruits of action are MISERABLE, for they are constantly anxious about the results of what they do.

– Quote from Bhagwad Gita.

True me.. Tap-1744..

Most people think going on a vacation, meeting family, hanging out with friends, dining out & shopping may improve their happiness quotient of life.
Those are small doses of happiness, not the whole form of happiness.
That’s not how life works.

Stop chasing HAPPINESS like a temporary emotion.
Happy today.
Sad tomorrow.
Broke next day.
Heartbroken another day.

Being happy is a personal thing.
It got nothing to do with anyone else.
You gotta keep doing what you love to do.
Happiness is highly dependent on quality of your thoughts.
Happiness is about enjoying what you have while working on what you want.

Tap..✌️

Tru2Day1844

There are 3 steps to SUCCESS;
1. First Ambition.
2. Next Intention.
3. Last Action.

You can’t reach SUCCESS if you miss the directions from one step to another.

True me.. Tap-1743..

Everything in life starts with your mindset first,
your intentions next,
and,
final your actions.
Your actions follow your thoughts, your beliefs and ideas.

To make a shift:
start with getting your mindset right,
your intentions clean,
and then, take action.

Tap..✌️

Tru2Day1843

Sometimes I wanna reciprocate people’s disrespect. 
But then I look at their state of mind, their choices, their inconsistency, their lifestyle and how life treats them, that is enough punishment.

True me.. Tap-1742..

Doesn’t matter how much you are invested/involved with me; if you are connected to me, I am learning something from you.
What am I learning?
Either it’s some knowledge or some lessons.
I smell lies & my TRUTH makes me what I am.

Life is simple & easy in my eyes.
I don’t have time to play tit for tat.
Deserving people will prove their worth.
Words first, intentions next and then someday I will value your actions too, if you are consistent.

Tap..✌️

Tru2Day1842

Every single day you are enjoying the consequences of your behaviour.
If you are thinking or saying anything else, congratulations you are going towards something worse than what you are experiencing right now.

True me.. Tap-1741..

Success always gets the credit.
But we don’t give enough credit to AMBITION.
Ambition is about creating something with a purpose while focusing everyday on improving your health, wealth, and happiness.
Nothing left behind.

It will take time but i can make it happen, that consistent desire & dedication to get things done attitude is called ambition.
Journey towards success starts from ambition.
Ambition has the power to change the fate of success.

Tap..✌️

Tru2Day1841

Be who you are and say what you feel,
because those who mind don’t matter,
and those who matter don’t mind.

– Bernard M. Baruch.

Tru2Day1840

If you expect the world to be fair with you because you are fair, you’re fooling yourself.
That’s like expecting the lion not to eat you because you didn’t eat him.
Stop wasting your kindness with wrong people or places.

True me.. Tap-1739..

Growth requires us to leave something behind.
It can be habits,
It can be careers,
It can be beliefs,
It can be even people.

Make space for grief in the process of growth.
You have to mourn your former life to make room for a newer you.

Tap..✌️

Tru2Day1839

Study yourself and your behaviour more than anything.
Self-awareness is the key to true confidence.
No one can tell you who you are when you already know.

True me.. Tap-1738..

Road towards financial stability is different:
First it will feel like a sacrifice.
Then it will feel like the grind.
Then it will feel like hustle.
Then it will feel like life.
Then it will feel like freedom.

Money should be used to make more money, only fools misuse it to bring a bad name to MONEY.
Money is the best form of freedom, security, stability & insurance.
Use your money right.

Tap..✌️

True me.. Tap-1737..

Mistakes are meant for learning, not repeating.
Mistake without correction is another mistake, and that’s unacceptable.
People would learn from their mistakes if they weren’t so busy denying them.
Most people make similar mistakes again & again, which puts a big question mark on their personality/words/actions/motives. In general, that’s the biggest turn off.

Everyone makes mistakes.
Very few are brave enough to admit them.
We learn something new from every mistake.
Make new mistakes, but never repeat them.

Tap..✌️

Tru2Day1837

I can respect any person who can put their ego aside and say, “I made a mistake, I apologize, I am correcting my behavior”.

A genuine apology is a class act, very few can do it.

True me.. Tap-1736..

Have faith.
Have faith in yourself first.
Keep trying.
Remain consistent with your efforts & approach.
Stay positive.
Become better.
Be awesome.
Not better than anyone else,
but better than the person you were yesterday.

Life is simple when you stick to basics.
That’s the only way to grow.
Journey towards growth & success in life is a mixture of consistency & patience.
You achieve that while superseding your past.

Tap..✌️

Tru2Day1836

Remember:
What you do now will come back to you in the future.
Life has a funny way of making you deal with what you make others go through.

True me.. Tap-1735..

Most people think they are too clever with their approach & choice of words, and then there are very few others like me who just enjoy laughing at these people while saving my energy by not explaining things to such fools.

I don’t trust words.
I even question actions.
But,
I never doubt patterns.

Such people say they have a personality, but if you look closer it’s just a pattern.

Most people live for people’s acceptance, and at the end they suffer with rejection.
Most people are broken, but instead of fixing their own life they feel projecting own trauma on others is the way to advance towards growth.
You must understand there’s a difference between people around you & people who are there for you. Always be vigilant about the people you choose.

Tap..✌️

True me.. Tap-1734..

A healthy self-esteem will stop you from being instantly impressed by anything/anyone,
it will keep you away from instant gratification,
it will make sure you never entertain inconsistency,
it will stop you from moving in with a person or an idea which isn’t fruitful for you,
and
it will stop you from settling down with cheap attention or a bad deal.

Until you have a healthy relationship with yourself, you won’t have a healthy relationship with someone else or something else.
The most powerful relationship you will ever have is the relationship with yourself, that’s called SELF-ESTEEM.

Tap..✌️

True me.. Tap-1733..

I learnt very early in my life that FRIENDS are contagious.
If you surround yourself with loyalty,
if you surround yourself with ambition,
if you surround yourself with kindness,
if you surround yourself with generosity,
if you surround yourself with honesty,
if you surround yourself with optimism,
if you surround yourself with consistency,
and,
if you surround yourself with empathy,
that’s what you become.

There are a lot of things you have to ‘tolerate’ in life, but bad friends can’t be one.
Choose your friends wisely.

Tap..✌️

Tru2Day1833

Work on things people can’t take away from you.
Things like your character, personality, transparency, consistency, an optimistic mentality & your entire being.

True me.. Tap-1732..

Remember, most of your stress comes from the way you react, not the way life is.
Adjust your attitude.
Change how you see things.
Look for the good in all situations.
Take the lesson.
And find new opportunities to grow.

Let all the extra stress go.
Let all the extra worrying go.
And,
Let all the extra overthinking go.
Your reaction is your power.

Tap..✌️

True me.. Tap-1731..

The desire to be liked isn’t healthy.
People need to understand that others disliking you is not a bad thing.
When you are embodying your true authentic self, it creates fear in people who still operate from their ego.

If you want to grow,
If you want to heal,
and if you want to evolve,
You have to let go of wanting to be liked.

Tap..✌️

True me.. Tap-1730..

YOUR CURRENT AND FUTURE SELF IS DETERMINED BY:
What you eat,
Who you spend your time with,
How you treat your body,
What you read,
What you listen to,
Who you follow,
What you think about,
How you invest in yourself!

STAY CONSISTENT.
IMPROVE YOUR INPUTS.
IMPROVE YOUR LIFE.

Tap..✌️

Tru2Day1830

You can go to the gym.
You can take your vitamins.
And,
You can make money.

But if you don’t deal with your weak mentality,
you’ll still be unhealthy.

True me.. Tap-1729..

I can never guide/suggest anyone on how to become rich/wealthy or successful in anything with life.
But i can definitely say who can’t or why they can’t ever be successful/wealthy!

You first become successful/rich/wealthy in your head by trusting yourself.
It’s not daydreaming kinda nonsense.
You are already prepared for the journey & your consistent approach is there to prove that.

Most people are just bankrupt in their head.
For them everything starts & stops at a planning stage, I am talking about those people who make vision boards.
Such fickle minded people are highly inconsistent by nature who don’t deserve your attention or respect.
If you want to be successful, stay away from such people.

Tap..✌️

True me.. Tap-1728..

I use my money to MAKE more money.
You use your money to LOOK like you have more money.
We are not the same.
And,
I focus more on money than people.
Because I never met a dollar I didn’t like.

There’s no competition.
Respectfully, you can never be me.
Disrespectfully, I would never want to be you.

Tap..✌️

Tru2Day1828

I don’t believe in right time or wrong time.
There could be a stroke of goodluck or a bad situation.
At the end it’s all about good people or bad people.

And,
Good people get good people, always.

True me.. Tap-1727..

Learn to say; that’s on you.

Your behavior is on you.
The way you move is on you.
The choices you make are all on you.
The way you live it’s all on you.

Stop absorbing the pain of other people.
Recognize what belongs to you and what doesn’t.
Be an authentic version of yourself.
Be you.

Tap..✌️

True me.. Tap-1726..

I do what works for me.
I don’t compare.
I don’t copy.
I don’t watch others.
I support my people.
I genuinely mean what I say.
I’m always in my own lane.
I’m riding my own wave.
And I have eyes on my own journey.

Tap..✌️

Tru2Day1826

Affordable keeps getting cheap.
And,
Cheap keeps getting cheaper.

This is applicable on products & people both.
There’s no other way around.

True me.. Tap-1725..

We humans don’t understand the difference between self-respect & EGO,
which results in hurting self.
EGO & PRIDE will get crushed by you or someone else soon or sooner,
they are flighty in nature & help with nothing.

Focus on building your SELF-ESTEEM,
which will strengthen your SELF-RESPECT.
Soon you will recognise your worth & that’s a step in the right directions to thrive.
Focus on being a TRUE you.

Tap..✌️

True me.. Tap-1724..

Life humbles you.
As you grow old, you stop chasing the big things and start valuing the little things.
You start valuing alone time.
You start valuing enough sleep.
You start valuing a good diet.
You start valuing long walks.
You start valuing quality time with loved ones.
Simplicity becomes the ultimate goal.

The first step in crafting the life you want is to get rid of everything you don’t want.
Simplicity is the final achievement.

Tap..✌️

True me.. Tap-1722..

Just remember;
We are all toxic.

Every single human being is capable of being toxic. 
Every single human being has been toxic.
Every single human being currently is toxic.

But some people have the desire to be educated on it and do better while others will ignore any accountability and continue to act the same way.
Pay attention.

Tap..✌️

True me.. Tap-1720..

Don’t compare your life with the carefully curated snippets of other people’s lives that you see on social media.
It’s not the big picture you’re seeing,
but only what they choose to disclose.

You don’t need to keep sharing things on social media.
You can still grow and glow in private, and that’s all that matters.

Tap..✌️

True me.. Tap-1719..

Even if you cannot change all the people around you, you can change the people you choose to be around.
Life is too short to waste your time on people
who are inconsistent,
who don’t respect you,
who don’t appreciate you,
and
who don’t value you.

Spend your life with people
who make you smile,
who make you laugh,
who make you feel loved,
and
who bring a vibe that’s consistent.
Life is fun, let it be.

Tap..✌️

True me.. Tap-1718..

If they respect you,
respect them.
If they disrespect you,
still,
respect them.

Do not allow the actions of others to decrease your good manners,
because you represent yourself,
not others.

Tap..✌️

True me.. Tap-1717..

I live a life where there is no space for “SECOND CHANCE”, never got one, never wanted one & i am not big enough to give one.
Live a life with ample amount of self-respect.
Inconsistent people always keep returning with dirt in head & heart to walk over your sanity.
Learn how to say a straightforward “NO”.
The one who can break something beautiful can never fix it.
Even if they do, nobody can trust them.

My attitude with life is something where i get over things/people pretty quick.
It matters nothing unless it’s impacting my family or money. And yeah some childhood/university friends are included in my family.
Good vibes are scored around people who thrive with you & the sexiest thing about them is their CONSISTENCY.
Life is a simple fun thing, let it be.

Tap..✌️

True me.. Tap-1716..

When you have a gun, but you aren’t choosing to shoot anyone, then that peace is your choice.
When you have a million, but you aren’t choosing to make unnecessary spendings, then that minimalistic life is your choice.
When you have a powerful voice in society & you are respected by many, but you are choosing to be compassionate, then that kindness is your choice.
Without the previous the later has no value.


Your capabilities must determine your choices.
Your choice for peace, kindness & compassion makes no sense unless you are successful in life.

Tap..✌️

True me.. Tap-1715..

I don’t believe in two sides to a story.
I don’t believe in this thought of “GREY AREA”.
I have seen enough good & bad days.
I have lived enough to understand everything in life is a YES or NO.
Everything is black or white.
Everything in life is a choice you make & you must enjoy it’s consequences.

We live in a world where people bring million perspectives to measly YES or NO situations, I call it WOKE DUMBFUCKERY, I stay away from that & I laugh at it from a distance.
I keep it simple & i enjoy my life for good reasons.
I am just happy & grateful for everything I got.
Life is a simple fun thing in my eyes, always.

Tap..✌️

True me.. Tap-1714..

Attitude is a choice.
Happiness is a choice.
Optimism is a choice.
Kindness is a choice.
Giving is a choice.
Respect is a choice.

Whatever choice you make makes you.
Choose wisely.

Tap..✌️

Tru2Day1814

Anyone who has grown mentally & physically knows that growth is not found in comfort.
But post growth, there’s definitely some form of comfort which is desirable.

True me.. Tap-1713..

Keep rising.
Stay consistent.
Let others catch up.
Next step must be the step higher.
In the process make sure you get rid of all the unnecessary gunk.

That’s the only way to a happy fulfilling life.
There’s nothing called high standards or low standards.
It’s your job to supersede yourself & show everyone where to meet.

Tap..✌️

True me.. Tap-1712..

In order to bring the highest version of yourself to everything you do, you must be performing at your highest level.
That means making sure you get enough sleep, eat well, exercise, meditate, and take care of your mind, body, and soul.
Sometimes we think we have to show how hard we work by burning ourselves out, but I promise you it’s so much better to find the balance.
You will feel happier, you will be more productive, and your work will be better.

Look at your life and find balance in all aspects and areas.
Nothing will work unless you do.

Tap..✌️

Tru2Day1812

A man’s goals should be to give his woman things she needs without her having to ask.
Things like loyalty, attention, affection, respect, financial stability, quality time & love etc.

A good man deserves the same.

True me.. Tap-1711..

To attract better, you have to become better yourself.
You can’t do the same things and expect change.
You can’t blame anyone or anything.
It’s time to take responsibility for your reality.

Start transforming your mindset.
Start upgrading your habits.
Start being optimistic about yourself.
Be you.

Tap..✌️

True me.. Tap-1710..

Forgive yourself for the bad decisions.
Forgive yourself for the times you lacked understanding.
Forgive yourself for the choices that hurt you.
Forgive yourself for the choices that hurt others.
Forgive yourself for being young and reckless.
These experiences are vital lessons.

Bad decisions are a part of growing up.
What matters most right now is your willingness to grow from them.

Tap..✌️

True me.. Tap-1709..

The older i get the more i realize the value of privacy.
The value of cultivating your circle is immensely important.
And only letting certain people in is the way to go.
Your private life shouldn’t be on display for everyone.
There needs to be an exclusive club & exclusivity is earned.

You can be open.
You can be honest.
And meanwhile you can still be understanding enough not to let everyone deserve a seat at the table of your life.
Privacy is peace.

Tap..✌️

True me.. Tap-1708..

You need to ignore what everyone else is doing and achieving.
You need to start achieving for yourself.
Your life is about breaking your own limits.
Your life is about outgrowing yourself.
Your life is about living your best life.
You are not in competition with anyone else.

Plan to outdo your past, not other people.
Stop comparing.
Start living your unique journey.

Tap..✌️

True me.. Tap-1707..

Be the person who cares.
Be the person who makes an effort.
Be the person who loves without hesitation.
Be the person who makes people seen.

There is nothing stronger than someone who continues to stay soft in a world that hasn’t always been kind to them.

Tap..✌️

True me.. Tap-1706..

You can rise up from anything.
You can completely recreate yourself.
Nothing is permanent.
You’re not stuck.
You have choices.
You can think new thoughts.
You can learn something new.
You can create new habits.

All that matters is that you decide today and never look back.
Be decisive.
Be you.
Create yourself.

Tap..✌️

True me.. Tap-1704..

Most people need consistency more than they need intensity.

Intensity:
– Run a marathon.
– Write a book in 30 days.
– Social media retreat.

Consistency:
– Don’t miss a workout for 2 years.
– Write/journal every week.
– Practice daily silence/gratitude.

Intensity makes a good story.
Consistency makes progress.

Tap..✌️

True me.. Tap-1703..

Growth can look like:

– Choosing inner peace over reacting.
– Walking away from drama.
– Being your own validation.
– Trusting yourself.
– Honouring your needs.
– Recognising unhealthy patterns.
– Falling back in love with your life.

Tap..✌️

True me.. Tap-1702..

Be firm about your choices right now.
Don’t go backwards to habits that weren’t helping you evolve.
Don’t go backwards to situations that weren’t helping you evolve.

You have to keep reminding yourself why you even decided to move forward.
Stay positive about what’s to come by being consistent with your change now.

Tap..✌️

True me.. Tap-1701..

Self-care isn’t just holidays and massages.
It’s working on your habit.
It’s working on your mindset.
It’s healing your past.
It’s removing toxic thoughts.
It’s removing toxic people.
It’s removing toxic places from your life.

It’s living intentionally.
It’s living purposefully.
It’s living consciously.

Tap..✌️

True me.. Tap-1700..

Life is an echo.
What you send out, comes back.
What you sow, you reap.
What you give, you get.
What you see in others, exists in you.

Do not judge, so you will not be judged.
Radiate, vibe and give love and love will come back to you.

Tap..✌️