We all want to be liked and loved, but when we focus on this instead of making sure we love ourselves first, we get lost in other people’s opinions and we stop living honestly. If someone calls you a name, don’t let it bother you, don’t react. Feeding into their drama will only negatively affect your character.
What makes you special and unique? Think about one of your eccentricities and embrace it every day. When we are consumed by what other people think of us, we allow them to dictate how we live our lives, and then without realizing it, we lose touch with who we are. Respect your individuality. BE YOU.
In this generation it is almost exceptional that we look after each other and stand up for each other. There is competition and power struggles everywhere, but why? We could achieve so much more together if we support, respect and appreciate each other. I don’t compete with anyone, I am myself, I have different goals, norms and values, I am unique, just like you are, and for that we are not competitors but equals.
Jealousy, competition and grudging are therefore hugely misguided, it is impossible to compare yourself to another. The only thing you can do is look at yourself, develop yourself, compete with yourself and become your own ideal image. There is no room for jealousy, grudging and hatred, as this will always negatively affect your self development and self-image.
Focus on your own goals and work on yourself. Respect that you will never be like others and they will never be like you. Don’t change for anyone. Change for yourself. You are your own and only competition.
Most of my friends are entering or exiting a relationship in the beginning of 2021. Every single one of them says “Mutual understanding” is the reason behind their bond or break up, I mean some of them have it & some had it but now lost it. People go through such phases which is not new. One thing is funny, everyone consults me when they enter or exit an equation as if i am a renowned relationship counselor.
Very few understand the way i roll. Haven’t met one who deserves all of me. I am truthful, consistent, practical, single, little rude, materialistic, i take money seriously, i hate both religion & nationalism equally. Basically little assholic with this mix, all out of choice. I have committed ton of nasty messy mess. Good part is, i hide nothing. Being blunt & raw is fun, i have no issues in being grumpy while talking what’s in my mind. Now a days i have a strong desire to exit my singlehood status, but my equation requires “MUTUAL RESPECT”. Giving proper regard for the dignity of a person & it’s position is way more important in my eyes, can’t love someone without respect. 😘ZK.
(This video got nothing to do with the post above. Very few artists talk about society. Big up brother.)👍
There are people who think someone will approach for a relationship & life will be all rose pink after that. We are living in the world where one swipe left/right, you meet someone. And next day that person is gone to someone else or better.
My philosophy is; I am building myself. I get along with strong headed or loyal heart people. The one who wants me will get me & not stop fighting till mission accomplished. Life is like 80% work & 20% rest bullshit. That’s how I roll. A romantic relationship is not the goal of anyone’s life. You don’t need LOVE to spoon or fuck. It depends on your morals how you entertain people. Build a TRUE amazing self before asking a stable secure relationship.
I value few people and we are connected, because I LOVE myself & I see bit of myself in you. Anyday you have a option to choose between earning my RESPECT or my LOVE; please pick RESPECT, i swear I will celebrate you like none.
I am just staying open. I don’t want to teach anything to anyone, my approach to life is more of a STUDENT than a TEACHER. I get a child like freedom, you will not understand what I want to say. Because I am struggling with which words to pick while typing this. When I write here instead of freelancing for some editorial, the worst ones reach here. It’s free for me & you either ways.
The only brown chap I want to follow in UK. He is such a positive soul. I am sure, you never thought about love, like & relationship this easy way. Why young people get stuck between situational pleasure & never find a way to happiness!! It’s damn clear. Uploaded just before 2 days. It seems like, he made this video for someone like me & issues surrounding my life. I am doing the same since ages btw. I know & respect why time is the big key in a relationship!!
Thank you for doing what you are doing. This man is setting an example of ideal Indian in UK.