We all want to be liked and loved, but when we focus on this instead of making sure we love ourselves first, we get lost in other people’s opinions and we stop living honestly. If someone calls you a name, don’t let it bother you, don’t react. Feeding into their drama will only negatively affect your character.
What makes you special and unique? Think about one of your eccentricities and embrace it every day. When we are consumed by what other people think of us, we allow them to dictate how we live our lives, and then without realizing it, we lose touch with who we are. Respect your individuality. BE YOU.
In this generation it is almost exceptional that we look after each other and stand up for each other. There is competition and power struggles everywhere, but why? We could achieve so much more together if we support, respect and appreciate each other. I don’t compete with anyone, I am myself, I have different goals, norms and values, I am unique, just like you are, and for that we are not competitors but equals.
Jealousy, competition and grudging are therefore hugely misguided, it is impossible to compare yourself to another. The only thing you can do is look at yourself, develop yourself, compete with yourself and become your own ideal image. There is no room for jealousy, grudging and hatred, as this will always negatively affect your self development and self-image.
Focus on your own goals and work on yourself. Respect that you will never be like others and they will never be like you. Don’t change for anyone. Change for yourself. You are your own and only competition.
Most of my friends are entering or exiting a relationship in the beginning of 2021. Every single one of them says “Mutual understanding” is the reason behind their bond or break up, I mean some of them have it & some had it but now lost it. People go through such phases which is not new. One thing is funny, everyone consults me when they enter or exit an equation as if i am a renowned relationship counselor.
Very few understand the way i roll. Haven’t met one who deserves all of me. I am truthful, consistent, practical, single, little rude, materialistic, i take money seriously, i hate both religion & nationalism equally. Basically little assholic with this mix, all out of choice. I have committed ton of nasty messy mess. Good part is, i hide nothing. Being blunt & raw is fun, i have no issues in being grumpy while talking what’s in my mind. Now a days i have a strong desire to exit my singlehood status, but my equation requires “MUTUAL RESPECT”. Giving proper regard for the dignity of a person & it’s position is way more important in my eyes, can’t love someone without respect. 😘ZK.
(This video got nothing to do with the post above. Very few artists talk about society. Big up brother.)👍