Doesn’t matter how much you are invested/involved with me; if you are connected to me, I am learning something from you.
What am I learning?
Either it’s some knowledge or some lessons.
I smell lies & my TRUTH makes me what I am.
Life is simple & easy in my eyes.
I don’t have time to play tit for tat.
Deserving people will prove their worth.
Words first, intentions next and then someday I will value your actions too, if you are consistent.
Tap..✌️
Mistakes are meant for learning, not repeating.
Mistake without correction is another mistake, and that’s unacceptable.
People would learn from their mistakes if they weren’t so busy denying them.
Most people make similar mistakes again & again, which puts a big question mark on their personality/words/actions/motives. In general, that’s the biggest turn off.
Everyone makes mistakes.
Very few are brave enough to admit them.
We learn something new from every mistake.
Make new mistakes, but never repeat them.
Tap..✌️
Disappear for a bit.
Work on yourself.
Get mentally/physically strong.
Get your money right.
Learn to love yourself.
Come back as a better version of yourself.
Be you.
Work hard.
Talk less.
Do what you know is right.
Learn from your mistakes.
Build people up.
Laugh often
Stop complaining.
Invest in yourself.
Dream big.
Plan ahead.
Love yourself & your people unconditionally.
Tap..✌️
SUCCESS REQUIRES REPLACEMENT.
Alcohol with water.
Failing with learning.
Overthinking with action.
Blame with responsibility.
Toxic friends with mentors.
Complaining with gratitude.
Netflix marathons with sleep.
Fake influencers with inspiring creators.
Tap..✌️
You can rise up from anything.
You can completely recreate yourself.
Nothing is permanent.
You’re not stuck.
You have choices.
You can think new thoughts.
You can learn something new.
You can create new habits.
All that matters is that you decide today and never look back.
Tap..✌️
When you think everything is someone else’s fault,
you will suffer a lot.
When you realize that everything springs only from yourself,
you will learn both peace and joy.
– Dalai Lama.
Success is no accident.
It is hard work, perseverance, learning, studying, sacrifice and most of all, love of what you are doing or learning to do.
– Pele.
Take chances, take a lot of them.
Because honestly, no matter where you end up and with whom it always end up the way it should be.
Your mistakes make you who you are.
You learn and grow with each choice you make.
Everything is worth it.
Say how you feel, always.
Be you, and be okay with it.
Tap..✌️
Your competition isn’t other people.
Your competition is:
• Your procrastination.
• Your Ego.
• Your lack of confidence.
• Unhealthy food you’re consuming.
• The knowledge you neglect to learn.
• Negative behavior you’re nurturing.
• Your lack of creativity.
Tap..✌️
Discipline is a form of self-care.
It is all about mastering self-control.
You will never always be motivated.
You have to learn to be disciplined.
So that you can love yourself enough to take action based on your inner voice, regardless of how you feel or temptations you face.
You will never always be motivated,
So you must learn to be disciplined.
Tap..✌️
Nobody’s perfect.
We make mistakes.
We say wrong things.
We do wrong things.
We fall.
We get up.
We learn.
We grow.
We move on.
We live.
Read last one once again.
Live.
Live your life fully.
Tap..✌️
Sometimes it just takes patience for everything to happen.
You won’t get respect in just one day.
You can’t be in love with someone that you just met.
And you won’t be able to forgive yourself in a second.
I’ve learned that helping people is good, but helping someone too much won’t let them grow.
You grow by making mistakes, getting hurt, learning from your regrets.
Change for the better.
Don’t change for someone else.
Change for yourself.
Don’t be selfish.
Don’t limit yourself from doing things just because you don’t think you can make it through.
Remember, time isn’t going to wait for you, so make the best of it.
Tap..✌️
You become a master of your life when you learn how to control where your attention goes.
Value what you give your energy and time to.
Progress also looks like:
• Giving yourself time to rest.
• Waiting for what you deserve.
• Not comparing your journey.
• Taking one step at a time.
• Learning something everyday.
7 things to keep in mind:
1. Go after dreams, not people.
2. Love yourself and the rest will follow.
3. Never lose your sense of wonder.
4. You are capable of more than you know.
5. No regrets in life, just lessons learned.
6. Your only limit is you.
7. Life goes by in a blink of an eye, so live life.
Tap OUT..✌️
I hope you find yourself out there.
I hope you figure out your heart.
I hope you figure out your mind.
I hope you learn how to be kind to yourself.
I hope you learn how to embrace the journey you are on.
I hope you learn how to be proud of the person you are becoming.
I hope you learn how to be proud of where you are, even if it isn’t exactly where you want to be.
I hope you learn to fall in love with the process, with the messiness of life and the confusion of it all.
At the end of the day, I hope you find what you’re looking for out there.
I hope your life inspires you.
Tap OUT..✌️
Nobody’s perfect.
We make mistakes.
We say wrong things.
We do wrong things.
We fall.
We get up.
We learn.
We grow.
We move on.
We live!
Learn to get back on track.
And get used to it.
Because there will be times where you mess up.
If it’s only one meal, one day or a weekend or even a week or an entire month, It will happen.
And that’s okay.
The secret is to learn to forgive yourself and start over again.
Just get up and leave the unhealthy habits behind you every single day, you must get used to this discomfort.
Some failures are necessary to taste SUCCESS.
Tap OUT..✌️
Disappear for a bit, Work on yourself,
Get mentally/physically strong,
Get your money right,
Learn to love yourself,
Come back a new person.
“COMEBACK” bigger than a “SETBACK” is the sexiest thing.
Nobody’s perfect.
We make mistakes.
We say wrong things.
We do wrong things.
We fall.
We get up.
We learn.
We grow.
We move on.
We live!
That “PERFECT TIME” will never come.
Because time will never be just right, bending to your ideals.
There will always be some form of adversity that you will be challenged with, and, while the obstacle may feel like a sign that you shouldn’t start, know this: adversity comes with adventure, and, learning to overcome adversity is what sharpens you and prepares you for SUCCESS.
So, take the challenge and face it head on knowing that it’s yours to conquer.
You are capable of great things.
THE TIME IS NOW.
Tap OUT..✌️
Life lessons it took me a while to learn:
1. Missing people is not a reason to reconnect with them.
It’s okay to remember people without rekindling.
2. You can’t talk to everyone about everything.
It’s okay to have certain people for certain topics.
3. When someone is envious of you, it’s not your job to make them feel better about who you are.
Your focus must remain in elevating your status & knowledge.
4. Assumptions are not rooted in fact.
If you want to know something, it’s always best to ask.
5. Authenticity equals freedom.
There’s nothing that someone can hold over you when you’re okay with who you are.
Tap OUT..✌️
Educate yourself.
When a question about a certain topic pops up, google it.
Watch movies and documentaries.
When something sparks your interest, read about it.
Read read read.
Study a lot.
Learn.
Stimulate your brain.
Grow & vibe.
Don’t just rely on the education system, educate that beautiful mind of yours.
Every information is education.
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If you don’t learn how to CONTROL your own emotions, they will learn how to take CONTROL OVER YOU.
You have to train your mind to be STRONGER than your feelings or else you’ll lose every single TIME.
It’s so easy to beat ourselves up for mistakes we’ve made in the past.
Mistakes are part of being human and they are part of being alive.
Our mistakes are blessings and opportunities to keep learning and expanding.
But even when you learn from your mistakes, don’t expect to never make another.
You will and that’s okay.
Keep growing and embrace each challenge as a chance to learn something new and you will be amazed by how easy it is to move on.
Mistakes are nothing more than opportunities to learn, grow, and better our future.
Tap OUT..✌️
We have to realize that our lives could be gone in a moment.
There are no guarantees that we will be here how long.
Learn to live each day to the fullest.
Don’t complain.
Don’t focus on what’s wrong.
Be grateful for the opportunity to experience each day.
It’s easy to look back and question decisions you have made in the past, but it’s unfair to punish yourself for them.
You can’t blame yourself for not knowing back then what you know now.
And the truth is you made each decision for a reason, based on how you were feeling at the time.
As we grow up we learn and we evolve.
Maybe the person you are now would have done things differently back then, or maybe you are the person you are now, because of the decisions you made back then.
Trust your journey, it’s all going to make sense soon.
Tap OUT..✌️
Forgive yourself
for the bad decisions,
for the times you lacked understanding,
for the choices that hurt others and yourself,
for being young and reckless.
These experiences are vital lessons.
And what matters most right now is your willingness to learn & grow from them.
Be present.
Make love.
Make coffee.
Avoid small talk.
Embrace conversation.
Buy a plant, water it.
Make your bed.
Make someone else’s bed.
Have a smart mouth, and quick wit.
Run.
Make art.
Create.
Swim in the ocean.
Go out in the rain.
Take chances.
Ask questions.
Make mistakes.
Learn.
Know your worth.
Love fiercely.
Forgive quickly.
Let go of what doesn’t make you happy.
Grow.
Tap OUT..✌️
Somethings may don’t get better, but we do.
We get stronger.
We learn to live with our situations as messy and ugly as they are.
We fix what we can.
We adapt to what we can’t.
Some of us may never be fully okay, but at least we’re here.
We’re still trying.
We’re doing the best we can.
That’s worth celebrating too.
If you’re reading this, you made it to today, CONGRATULATIONS.
Life is fun, let it be.
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Take chances, take a lot of them.
Because honestly, no matter where you end up and with whom it always end up the way it should be.
Your mistakes make you who you are.
You learn and grow with each choice you make.
Everything is worth it.
Say how you feel, always.
Be you, and be okay with it.
Be you.
Be an authentic version of yourself shamelessly.
(This video got nothing to do with the post above. Who else saw recession coming in UK!?! Now news channels are discussing about it as if it’s a surprise. UK’s economy is on a decline since the end of 2019. Government just tried to hide it behind cash transfers during COVID & cheap mortgages, now the same monster is coming back to bite.)
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There’s a difference between hanging on to the past and learning from it.
What’s done is done, and I realized it’s important not to dwell because I can’t change what’s already happened.
But at the same time I want to be mindful of the past and learn from my mistakes and my successes in life.
The future excites me too, but at the end of the day, all we have is this moment now and we must cherish and love it.
Make a conscious effort to live in the present today.
When you catch yourself obsessing over the past or worrying about the future just remember to be right now.
Learn from the past and share your experiences with others.
Cherish the present and look forward to the future.
Tap OUT..✌️
Disappear for a bit,
Work on yourself,
Get mentally/physically strong,
Get your money right,
Learn to love yourself,
Come back a new person.
8 THINGS THAT CHANGE YOUR LIFE IN ONE YEAR;
1. Stop complaining and appreciate how lucky you are everyday.
2. Embrace loneliness and reinvent yourself in the process.
3. Say goodbye to the people that don’t bring positive energy into your life.
4. Throw off the TV, limit social media apps and set Internet controls.
5. Pick one skill you want to cultivate and put all your effort into developing it.
6. Commit to the goals you set and never look back.
7. Sweat every day to boost your mood.
8. Fail forward. Learn from every mistake you make.
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Throughout the years I have learned three major things.
1. Sometimes bad things happen to good people.
Sometimes you might think you know someone, you might think they’re on your side but deep down inside they’re not.
Truthful & consistent stay, rest doesn’t.
Pay attention.
Actions without intention means nothing.
And words are just another way to cover up the truth with lies.
2. Almost everything we go through we can’t control.
That means, if it’s yours, then somewhere down the line it’ll return to you.
And if it’s not, then you have to make peace with it and move on.
It’s as simple as that.
3. Letting go is never an easy thing to do.
No matter how many times you’ve rehearsed it, no matter how many times you’ve played it in your head, it never goes as planned and almost always does it sting a little harder than you thought.
(Not my words.)
Tap OUT..✌️
I just wanna be around good energy.
Connect with good people.
Learn new things.
Stay commited.
Remain consistent.
Grow.
Disappear for a bit,
Work on yourself,
Get mentally/physically strong,
Get your money right,
Learn to love yourself,
Come back as a new person.
Life lessons it took me a while to learn:
1. Missing people is not a reason to reconnect with them.
It’s okay to remember people without rekindling.
2. You can’t talk to everyone about everything.
It’s okay to have certain people for certain topics.
3. When someone is envious of you, it’s not your job to make them feel better about who you are.
Be you shamelessly.
4. Assumptions are not rooted in fact.
If you want to know something, it’s always best to ask.
5. Authenticity equals freedom.
There’s nothing that someone can hold over you when you’re okay with who you are.
Tap OUT..💪
We have to realize that our lives could be gone in a moment.
There are no guarantees that we will be here at this time next year.
Learn to live each day to the fullest.
Don’t complain.
Don’t focus on what’s wrong.
Be grateful for the opportunity to experience each day.
Tomorrow is not promised.
Not a single second or minute is promised.
So, live for today.
Keep the promises you make to yourself.
Take action on the things you desire and want.
Remind those that matter to you that they are loved and you are grateful for them.
Never leave someone you care about on negative terms.
Give more than you take.
Make the calls you’ve been telling yourself you’ll do ‘tomorrow’.
Let the small shit go.
Never go to bed angry or upset.
We will all die one day, so learn to live each day with the promise to yourself that it’ll be better than yesterday.
Tap OUT..✌️
I saw a post today that said, “When you finally learn your place in peoples lives, your feelings won’t get hurt. And loyalty doesn’t mean accepting unlimited amounts of inconsistency & pain from others”.
Whether it’s friends, family or whoever. I swear that’s the truth and one of the most important life lessons you’ll learn.
Make choices that make people wonder if you’ve lost your mind.
Disappoint people if needed.
Fly off the handle.
Learn to be alone.
Learn to be with others too.
Smile when you’re sad, just to confuse those who are trying to bring you down.
Live a good life.
Be kind when you can and understanding when you can’t.
Be irreplaceable, undefeatable, incorrigible.
Do all of the small things with grace, laughter and an unshakeable belief in what’s to come.
Don’t you worry.
Be a fearless authentic version of yourself.
Life is fun, let it be.
Tap OUT..✌️
I believe that everything happens for a reason.
People change so that you can learn to let go, things go wrong so that you appreciate them when they’re right, you believe lies so you eventually learn to trust no one but yourself, and sometimes good things fall apart so better things can fall together.
– Marilyn Monroe.
Take chances, take a lot of them.
Because honestly, no matter where you end up and with whom it always end up the way it should be.
Your mistakes make you who you are.
You learn and grow with each choice you make.
Everything is worth it.
Say how you feel, always.
Be you, and be okay with it.
(This video got nothing to do with the post above. James Webb Telescope is answering a lot of questions related to our planet & it’s making astrophysics exciting again. Enjoy this 6 minutes of fun-filled knowledge.)
Tap OUT..✌️
6 RULES OF LIFE:
1. TO IMPROVE YOUR MOOD, EXERCISE.
2. TO THINK MORE CLEARLY, MEDITATE.
3. TO UNDERSTAND THE WORLD, READ.
4. TO UNDERSTAND YOURSELF, WRITE.
5. TO HELP PEOPLE, HELP YOURSELF.
6. TO LEARN FASTER, HAVE FUN.
Life lessons it took me a while to learn:
1. Missing people is not a reason to reconnect with them.
It’s okay to remember people without rekindling.
2. You can’t talk to everyone about everything.
It’s okay to have certain people for certain topics.
3. When someone is envious of you, it’s not your job to make them feel better about who you are.
4. Assumptions are not rooted in fact.
If you want to know something, it’s always best to ask.
5. Authenticity equals freedom.
There’s nothing that someone can hold over you when you’re okay with who you are.
Tap OUT..✌️
Buy the black car, People will say you should’ve got blue.
Start a business, People will say you should’ve got a job.
Get married, People will say you picked the wrong partner.
Learn a trade, People will say you should’ve done something else.
Everyone has an opinion about everything.
You’ll go crazy trying to please everyone.
Don’t even try.
Listen, smile, agree.
And then do whatever the fuck you were gonna do anyway.
Tap OUT..💪
The ATTITUDE of “that’s just how I am, take it or leave it” is still a sign of immaturity.
As an adult, it’s your responsibility to figure out which of your traits are toxic and are negatively impactful towards other people and the ones you love, and to eventually learn how to fix them.
At some point, we all gotta start making ourselves better individuals.
If you truly believe you don’t have to change anything about yourself, even at the very least the worst in you, and that people will just have to deal with it, then sorry, you’re still a child & your attitude is a childish nonsense.
Tap..✌️
Hurting people back will not heal your pain.
Learn to react to people constructively, even if that means being alone in silence, to study your emotions.
In your response is your DESTINY.
If you do not take conscious control of your reaction, you will give away your power.
Tomorrow is not promised.
Not a single second or minute is PROMISED.
So, live for today.
Keep the promises you make.
Take action on the things you desire and need.
Remind those that matter to you that they are loved and you are grateful for them.
Never leave someone you care about on negative terms.
Give more than you take.
Make the calls you’ve been telling yourself you’ll do ‘tomorrow’.
Let the small shit go.
Let equations with inconsistent people fall.
Never go to bed angry.
We will all die one day, so learn to live each day with the promise to yourself that it’ll be better than yesterday.
(This video got nothing to do with the post above. I can’t believe that a group of people still deny global warming & climate change. Shared this tiny video because i wanted to share this issue.)
Tap OUT..✌️
Life lessons it took me a while to learn:
1. Missing people is not a reason to reconnect with them.
It’s okay to remember people without rekindling.
2. You can’t talk to everyone about everything.
It’s okay to have certain people for certain topics.
3. When someone is envious of you, it’s not your job to make them feel better about who you are.
4. Assumptions are not rooted in fact.
If you want to know something, it’s always best to ask.
5. Authenticity equals freedom.
There’s nothing that someone can hold over you when you’re okay with who you are.
Tap OUT..💪
You need to learn how to select your thoughts just the same way you select your clothes every day.
This is a power you can cultivate.
If you want to control things in your life so bad, work on the mind. That’s the only thing you should be trying to control.
Half of 2022 is almost over.
Let me suggest a happy beginning towards a better tomorrow to everyone who’s young or eager to grow.
Remain consistent & create some healthy habits;
1. Always learn new skills. Learning is the only thing that keeps brain active & body young.
2. Create multiple income sources with your new skill-sets.
3. Says no to materialism. Stay away from fast fashion & other such stupid trends associated to it.
4. Learn to save 30% of your income. With time make it above 50%.
5. Learn how MONEY & Investment works. Invest part of the saved money
6. Workout 5 times per week.
7. Read something everyday & learn to dive into new experiences.
8. Value sleep, diet & good health.
(This video got something to do with the post above in the current world of tiktik tits & weak men, barely few understand WHAT’S MONEY!! In fact, it’s not just money. It’s a morally flawed world. The best line Charlie Munger said was: These people need to stay dumb like this, that’s how we get rich. Bitcoin is stupid, because it’s very likely to go to zero. I know people who literally follow crypto & NFT pages in Instagram as if it’s American treasury’s updates they are subscribing. And trust me there’s no scarcity of such dumbfucks.)
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Three major lessons you must learn for an easy smooth sailing life;
1. Sometimes bad things happen to good people and sometimes you might think you know someone, you might think they’re on your side but deep down inside they’re not.
Pay attention.
Actions speak louder than words, inconsistent words mean nothing and such words are just another way to cover up the truth with lies.
2. Almost everything we go through we can’t control.
That means, if it’s yours, then somewhere down the line it’ll return to you.
And if it’s not, then you have to make peace with it and move on.
It’s as simple as that.
3. Letting go is never an easy thing to do, no matter how many times you’ve rehearsed it, no matter how many times you’ve played it in your head, it never goes as planned and almost always does it sting a little harder than you thought.
(Not my words.)
Tap OUT..✌️
Intelligent people are attractive for different reasons.
They believe in a good education.
They remain consistent.
They learn to speak in another language.
&
The most important; they know what’s going on in the world.
It’s so easy to beat ourselves up for mistakes we’ve made in the past.
Mistakes are part of being human and they are part of being alive.
Our mistakes are blessings and opportunities to keep learning and expanding.
But even when you learn from your mistakes don’t expect to never make another.
You will and that’s okay.
Keep growing and embrace each challenge as a chance to learn something new and you will be amazed by how easy it is to move on.
Mistakes are nothing more than opportunities to learn, grow, and better our future.
Tap OUT..✌️
You won’t always be a priority to others,
and that’s why you have to be a priority to yourself.
Learn to respect yourself,
take care of yourself,
and become your own support system.
Your needs matter.
Start meeting them.
Don’t wait on others to choose you.
Choose yourself, TODAY.
We have to realize that our lives could be gone in a moment.
There are no guarantees that we will be here at this time next year.
Learn to live each day to the fullest.
Don’t complain.
Don’t focus on what’s wrong.
Be grateful for the opportunity to experience each day.
We have to realize that our lives could be gone in a moment.
There are no guarantees that we will be here at this time next year.
Learn to live each day to the fullest.
Don’t complain.
Don’t focus on what’s wrong.
Be grateful for the opportunity to experience each day.
TEN WAYS TO SHOW LOVE:
1. Give without expecting in return.
2. Trust without wavering.
3. Forgive without punishing.
4. Listen without interrupting.
5. Enjoy without complaint.
6. Answer without arguing.
7. Keep your promises.
8. Speak without accusing.
9. Be patient in all things.
10. Learn to let it go.
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If you’re wrong, own up to what you didn’t do right.
That’s how you learn and earn respect.
The more religious you are,
the poorer you are,
the less educated you are,
the less skilled you are,
and we don’t want all of that in a better world/society.
You will never hear rich, intelligent & successful people preaching about GOD or RELIGION.
God lives inside you & he has million different names.
Stop searching him somewhere else.
Work on being a better you, that’s the only prayer which will definitely reach your almighty.
GOD wants to see a nicer human in you, which means nothing but a kind positive version of yourself.
Educate yourself.
Make sure you are learning something new every single day of your life, may it be an article or a YouTube video about any new information.
STRIVE TO BE A BETTER VERSION OF YOURSELF.
LIFE IS FUN, LET IT BE.
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Not all talented people are successful.
Not all successful people are talented.
Sometimes it’s all about an open mind to learn & a consistent hunger to grow, very few understand it.
I’ve learned that no matter what happens, or how bad it seems today, life does go on, and it will be better tomorrow.
I’ve learned that you can tell a lot about a person by the way he/she handles these three things: a rainy day, lost luggage, and tangled christmas tree lights.
I’ve learned that regardless of your relationship with your parents, you’ll miss them when they’re gone from your life.
I’ve learned that making a “living” is not the same thing as making a “life”.
I’ve learned that life sometimes gives you a second chance.
I’ve learned that you shouldn’t go through life with a catcher’s mitt on both hands; you need to be able to throw something back.
I’ve learned that whenever I decide something with an open heart, I usually make the right decision.
I’ve learned that even when I have pains, I don’t have to be one.
I’ve learned that every day you should reach out and touch someone.
People love a warm hug, or just a friendly pat on the back.
I’ve learned that I still have a lot to learn.
I’ve learned that people will forget what you said,
people will forget what you did,
but people will never forget how you made them feel.
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Don’t be so hard on yourself for feeling lost, confused or like you haven’t achieved all that you wanted to achieve.
Life would be pretty damn boring if you’d done it all already, if you had no more room to grow or things to learn.
Be patient.
You’ll eventually figure it all out and everything will make perfect sense.
Every experience will get you to where you are supposed to be.
Every win, every loss, every heartbreak and every mistake.
Don’t be afraid to fuck up, and don’t expect success overnight.
Get lost, get so damn lost and find yourself over and over again.
Believe in yourself, forget about what others think.
Don’t stop until you make yourself proud.
LIFE IS FUN, LET IT BE.
(This video got nothing to do with the post above. Little bit of fun & sass is important in life. Watch this 5 minutes of legit fun. Adam W, i don’t have to say more.)
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The most attractive thing about you should have less to do with your face and body, and more to do with your heart and how you treat other people.
Let’s face it, we see an appearance first and have our first impression based on an appearance.
Our appearance is where we can hide behind.
But an appearance does not say anything about a character.
Nowadays it seems that we judge each other on our appearance, who we are and what we stand for does not seem to matter.
No effort is made to get to know the person behind an appearance.
It is our own mental attitude which makes the world what it is for us.
Our thoughts make things beautiful, our thoughts make things ugly. Not our eyes.
The whole world is in our minds.
Learn to see things in proper light.
Learn to see souls instead of bodies, by using your mind instead of your eyes.
LEARN TO SEE.
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You don’t just wake up someday and fall in love with yourself.
It takes time.
It takes patience but more than that it takes self compassion, empathy and kindness from yourself towards your own heart.
You have to be brave enough to forgive yourself for all the mistakes you have made and all the chances you didn’t take.
Like all the other forms of love, you will learn to love yourself by practicing SELF-LOVE.
-Dhiman.
(This video got nothing to do with the post above. I am a big fan of Key & Peele. Not recent, but this is one of the best.)
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If you start living for the smallest reasons, that’s when you know you’re really living,
the smell of rain after a thunderstorm,
the shades of pavements when it’s autumn,
the harvest season and the unspoken competition to pick the freshest tomatoes,
the mediocre midnights and the color of the sunsets,
the smell of bakeries early in the morning,
the frosty breeze of the fast-approaching winter,
the warmth of oven when baking christmas cookies,
the thickness of paper when flipping through magazine pages,
the smell of new books and new clothes and new things.
When you start looking at things, really really looking, you’ll start living.
Because then you’ll understand how it is to really be a HUMAN in this world full of people.
LEARN TO BE A HUMAN.
APPRECIATE & LIVE YOUR LIFE FOR YOURSELF.
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Make choices that make people wonder if you’ve lost your mind.
Don’t worry if you disappoint few people.
Fly off the handle.
Learn to be alone, but learn to be with others too.
Smile when you’re sad, just to confuse those who are trying to bring you down.
Be kind when you can.
Be understanding when you can’t.
Be irreplaceable, undefeatable, incorrigible.
Do all of the small things with grace, laughter and an unshakeable belief in what’s to come.
Live a good life.
You’re unique, electric, never-ceasing.
You’ll be fine.
LIFE IS FUN, LET IT BE.
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This is your life.
You have everything you need inside you to live the life you have always dreamed of.
Take all that you have learned and experienced and create your own reality.
The beautiful part about life is that if you don’t like where you are, there’s always a new moment and a new day to start again.
Make smart, educated decisions.
Encourage yourself to make the choices today for the future you want tomorrow.
You can steer yourself any direction you choose.
(Not my words.)
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Stop overthinking and replaying episodes from your past you are not happy about.
Realize that everything happens for a reason.
It served its purpose.
It made you better.
Only through experience we can truly feel and understand the contrast of what is good and what is not, what we want and what we don’t want.
Experiences teaches us most valuable lessons.
It helps us grow, love ourselves and have empathy towards others.
Be grateful for your experiences, but move forward.
Embrace the new & remain consistent in your walk of life. (Not my words.)
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Only those who will risk going too far can possibly find out how far one can go.
We learn by trying, by pushing the envelope fearlessly with conviction.
It’s better to try and fail than to imagine what would have happened.
The what if’s can be debilitating.
Don’t hold back on what matters to you.
See how much of yourself you can give.
See how far you can go.
Try your hardest to have the life you want today so you never have future regrets.
Ask yourself this question today;
What can you do today to create the life you want tomorrow?
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Getting things done has no shortcuts.
Most people mess up something good, by looking for something better, just to end up with something worse.
Do you know the reason WHY!!
If you can’t be CONSISTENT, you are bound to fail here, there & everywhere.
Do not introduce a vibe you cannot maintain.
DON’T WORRY TOO MUCH ABOUT HOW YOU ARE GOING TO GET IT ALL DONE.
GET STARTED,
LEARN AS YOU GO,
AND IT WILL ALL COME TO YOU.
INTENTIONS CREATE ACTION,
ACTION CREATES MOMENTUM,
MOMENTUM BRINGS CONSISTENCY,
AND CONSISTENCY ENERGIZES YOU TO KEEP GOING.
THE ONLY WAY YOU SEE RESULTS IS IF YOU STAY CONSISTENT.
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Each and every one of us has their cracks and their flaws.
We never had the intention of going out and becoming flawed, but that’s what happens in life.
We make mistakes and we learn from them.
That’s what makes us who we are.
I myself am made of flaws stitched together with good intentions.
-AUGUSTEN BURROUGHS.
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Life is too short to wake up with regrets.
So love the people who treat you right.
Forget about those who don’t.
Believe everything happens for a reason.
If you get a chance, take it.
If it changes your life, let it.
Nobody said life would be easy, they just promised it would most likely be worth it.
– Paulo Coelho.
I’m not perfect and I don’t have to be.
When I first realized this I felt an intense relief.
This realization allowed me to actually become a better person.
It gave me the strength to embrace my flaws and learn from my mistakes.
The pressure melted away.
I wouldn’t have been able to start examining my mistakes if I felt like I had to be perfect.
Once I found out it was okay to be imperfect, everything changed for the better.
Don’t criticize yourself for making mistakes.
Just be conscious, make new mistakes & learn from older ones.
Remove inconsistency from life.
LIFE IS FUN, LET IT BE.
(This video got nothing to do with the post above. I am a big sucker for every marvel cinematic universe character & yes i liked HAWKEYE. I didn’t know Jeremy Renner has some amazing songs till yesterday. I am kinda into this song. Thanks to my bestie DEMI for the recommendation. Those who fancy my snapchat stories & question since when i play piano, answer is since my grade-6 days.)
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Nobody is perfect.
Equally important is knowing how to forgive yourself.
Do not obsess over your past mistakes.
The more you obsess and hold on to it, the more energy and power you give it.
So let it go, learn from it, and move on.
Forgive yourself for a mistake you made or something you’ve done that you now regret.
Allow yourself to let it go.
Leave all your inconsistent behaviour behind.
Learn to be in sync with life.
It can be your career, hobbies, relationship or your health, learn to be CONSISTENT if you want success in any field of your life.
Live with no regrets.
Life is fun, let it be.
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We have to realize that our lives could be gone in a moment.
There are no guarantees that we will be here at this time next year.
Learn to live each day to the fullest.
Don’t complain.
Don’t focus on what’s right or wrong.
Be grateful for the opportunity to experience each day.
It’s been 5 years & i am always in a different city/country at this time of the year. I met some amazing people & lost touch with few. Most of them helped me shape & build what i am today. I can’t change everything & i accept what’s coming wholeheartedly. At the end i must agree, life is beautiful & i am grateful.
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Relationships between family, friends, significant others, and colleagues are complicated and full of learning experiences.
Nobody comes into this world knowing everything.
We all go through different experiences, make mistakes, have successes, and then make more mistakes that we can learn from.
The ability to trust and listen to the people in your life is the foundation all healthy relationships are built on.
While talking to friends, make sure you are really listening to what they have to say and aren’t distracted by something else.
You owe that to them and you would want the same in return.
Trust is a bond between two people that is found only when they are able to listen and understand where the other person is coming from.
That to me is the only key to friendships and relationships.
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Do you know what happens when you constantly hurt someone?
They begin to love you less,
and after a while they start to forget that they ever loved you at all.
What most people need to learn in life is how to love people and use things, instead of using people and loving things.
(This video got nothing to do with the post above. Karim & Jahar, one of the best ones from Key & Peele.)
Let me tell you something funny today.
Now a days we all hear once in a while someone random comes online in YouTube or any other social media & says, “You don’t need a school/college/university degree to be successful in life”.
Even Elon Musk once said “You can learn almost anything from internet for free”.
My question is; “As a human & society as whole, do we value free things?”.
I totally agree you can learn any skill for free if you have a strong willpower.
But that doesn’t take away the fact that a good school/college/university education is important.
Rich people don’t want competition. It’s beneficial for them if a major chunk of population stays under qualified, cheap labour you know.
Let me bust all these crap today.
Roughly 7.9 billion human population in our world & 92% adults don’t have a college/university degree.
And the rest 8% people who have a college/university degree own 74% of entire world’s wealth.
So don’t take advice from people who haven’t walked that path.
In most cases what happens; even getting into a good university or any ivy league school is a big deal here, that says your mind is ready for the big game.
Education is necessary.
Qualification is important.
Skills you learned will take you places.
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One of my favourite feelings is laughing with someone and realizing half way trough how much you enjoy them and their existence.
Things are expected of you of your whole life, you are expected to make career, that you score well and have achieved a certain status.
But life is not about status and work.
These are extras.
What matters is that you can develop as a person.
That you simply learn, discover and enjoy your journey.
So instead of worrying about the numbers and status, you have to enjoy the journey and the small moments that can mean so much more.
I don’t want to be around people anymore that judge or talk about what people do.
I want to be around people that do things.
I want to be around people who believe in slow & steady progress.
I want to be with people who gradually grow a rich character and a bank account.
I want to be around people who remain consistent with their words, approach, intentions & journey of life.
I want to be around people that dream and support and do things.
Supportive people bond long-term with growth mindset.
Oppertunist comes to score petty short-term goals, it takes time but you will get rid of them today or tomorrow. (Not my words.)
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WORKING WITH GREAT PEOPLE MAKES YOU GREAT.
YOU LEARN A LOT. IT ALSO GIVES YOU THE EXPERIENCE AND CONFIDENCE TO MOVE ON WITH YOUR OWN CAREER/GOALS.
(Not my words.)
Acceptance helps to love yourself.
You might not love all aspects of yourself right now but you can learn to accept it.
Accept your flaws.
Accept the positives and negative aspects of your story.
Accept the parts of you that are deemed unacceptable by society.
Self acceptance is the starting point to attain self love.
HOW TO BECOME A BETTER YOU EVERY DAY:
1. Become more observant.
Notice everything that surrounds you.
The world is full of examples, ideas, words, wisdom, mistakes and experiences.
2. Collect ideas.
Ideas and thoughts tend to evaporate from your mind too fast.
Try to capture them before it is too late.
Ideally, write down or sketch every single one.
3. Read. Read a lot.
Reading is probably the best investment of time ever.
Devote at least 30 minutes per day to reading.
Ideally, have a book always with you.
If you aren’t interested to buy a book or Kindle, then watch any free documentary in YouTube which can help you learn something new.
4. Analyze your day.
Before going to bed, spend 10 minutes analyzing your day.
Consider what things you managed to do well and what mistakes you made.
5. Start writing.
The biggest value of a good writing skill is that it cultivates a discipline.
First of all, the discipline of thinking.
Your thoughts will cease to be random and chaotic.
They will gradually become systematic and structured instead.
We all made choices that maybe weren’t the best ones.
The beauty of being a HUMAN is hidden in the mistakes we made.
First accept yourself for everything wrong you did.
Because acceptance matters nothing if you aren’t honest.
None of us are completely innocent, but we get a fresh start everyday to be a better person than we were yesterday.
Learn to be a positive/better version of yourself with time.
Be you.
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The people who are meant to be in your life are the ones who know how to gently wait for you to heal.
You do not want to rush actions with them.
For if you do, you will miss the lessons you can learn along the way.
-WRITING ON WAVES.
(Video by Alux & the title is; Being well when you are alone is a SUPERPOWER.)
You’ll end up very disappointed if you grow up thinking everyone has the same heart as you do.
People in general are assholes one way or another.
Choose your people wisely.
7 Things to Keep in Mind:
1. Go after dreams, not people.
2. Love yourself and the rest will follow.
3. Never lose your sense of wonder or your sense of humour.
4. You are capable of more than you know.
5. No regrets in life. Just lessons learned.
6. Your only limit is you.
7. Life goes by in a blink of an eye. So live life.
Life is fun. Let it be. Let it flourish.
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PART OF BEING A MAN IS LEARNING TO TAKE RESPONSIBILITY FOR YOUR SUCCESSES AND FOR YOUR FAILURES.
YOU CAN’T GO BLAMING OTHERS OR BEING JEALOUS.
SEEING SOMEBODY ELSE’S SUCCESS AS YOUR FAILURE IS A CANCEROUS WAY TO LIVE.
-KEVIN BACON.
Life can be fulfilling at both 16 and also 60. 25 and 35.
Joy is timeless.
Learning how to make the most of where you are does not have an age cut-off or a deadline.
You will always be able to sit and wonder about things that could have gone differently.
But you can also trust:
you have not missed out on what was meant for you.
I know it’s hard to trust when so much is unknown,
so instead of trying to make sense of it all at once,
take it all color by color, tree by tree, scent by scent, take it one by one.
You don’t have to take it all in at once.
Take in the newness of it all one moment at a time without worrying about the moments to come.
Let that be enough.
Breathe deep and let this moment be enough.
Let this be a place where you find peace.
Remember the ground beneath your feet, you belong here.
No one has taken your place.
You are not too far from grace.
Your story might be unfolding differently than expected but that doesn’t mean it won’t be beautiful.
Where you are meant to be, you will be in time, no matter your age or stage of life.
Life is fun. Let it be.
Let it flourish at it’s own pace.
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Be with someone who is invested in you.
I don’t mean someone who thinks you’re cute or funny.
I mean someone who wants to know every insignificant detail about you.
Someone who wants to read every word you write.
Someone who wants to hear every note of your favorite song,
and watch every scene of your favorite movie.
Someone who wants to find every scar upon your body,
and learn where each one came from.
Someone who communicates with both head & heart.
Someone who knows why you prefer black coffee & sourdough pizza.
Someone who wants to know your favorite brand of toothpaste & shower gel,
and which quotes resonate deep inside your bones when you hear them.
There is a difference between attraction, interest & the word i mentioned INVEST.
Find the person who wants to learn every aspect of who you are, and hold onto them.
Every relationship/equation/friendship in your life are an immense investment of consistent time & energy, never offer discounts on that.
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So many of the lessons I’ve learned have been about standing up for myself and setting boundaries.
Most people in our current world are used to inconsistent approach & deceptive behaviour, which are both cheap & unacceptable in accordance to HUMAN standards.
It’s really hard and sometimes even painful.
In work environments and everyday life, be sure to set boundaries for those you’re spending time with.
Make sure they’re aware with what you’re comfortable with and your limitations.
Communicate with others to make sure you are honoring yourself.
It’s hard, but it’s worth it. Always.
You don’t owe anybody the present other than yourself.
Take time for you.
Respect yourself and your privacy.
Set boundaries.
Set one boundary today in your professional or personal life. (Not my words).
Life is fun, let it be.
(This 5 minutes video got nothing to do with the post above, It’s about world’s top economies in 2050. Watch it for little knowledge & fun. FYI my entire stock market investment portfolio is linked to number 2, 3 & 7 countries.)
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Each of us leads unique lives with experiences that nobody else will ever completely understand.
Your story holds so many valuable lessons that can help inspire, teach, and motivate someone else.
Should you choose to share it!?!
In life, I have heard so many different stories.
Just by listening, I learned so many different things.
I’m so thankful I found the courage to share my story as well and talk about what I’ve been through.
Not only has it helped me, but it has helped give perspective and strength to so many other people, my people to be precise.
I encourage you to do the same.
Share your story with someone who is worth your time.
You never know how one sentence of your life story could inspire someone to rewrite their own.
No matter what you have been through in life, good or bad, don’t take it for granted.
There are lessons in every moment of our lives.
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WHEN YOU LEARN HOW MUCH YOU’RE WORTH,
YOU’LL STOP GIVING PEOPLE DISCOUNTS.
– HELEN KELLER.
Figure out what you want to do with your life and just do it.
Dedicate a separate journal for you to write down all of your goals.
And don’t just stop at journaling, make detailed steps towards achieving them.
Stopping sitting around and half arsing your way through things because you can’t seem to find any direction,
because seriously, life is what you make it and sometimes you need to get up and force yourself to do the things you know will benefit future you.
Things like I’m still young or I’m too old are out of the question.
No matter how old you are,
what you study or where you study,
use the time you have right now to learn & hustle.
I mean really hustle.
Because you don’t want to look back and say you should’ve worked harder, trained harder, tried harder, thought harder, loved harder or fought harder.
DISCIPLINE & CONSISTENT APPROACH towards all your EFFORTS are your only two best friends in your journey.
Don’t give yourself a reason to have regrets later on in life.
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As you move forward, I hope you have the courage to do things differently,
to be the kind of person who takes the risk,
to be the kind of person who leads with their heart and shows up in their life with a ruthless dedication to learning, growing and enjoying the hell out of their moments here consistenly.
DISCIPLINE & CONSISTENCY with your approach are the two tools which can empower you, make you stand out of the crowd in the race of becoming a better Human.
I hope you have the courage to never let comfort or apprehension convince you that you are better off staying still.
I hope you have the courage to trust the part of yourself that knows there’s more out there for you,
the part of yourself that is easy to quiet when you’re trying to live by the rules and the expectations of a world that has bred so much dissatisfaction and sadness.
I hope you have the courage to trust the part of yourself that seeks freedom from those trends, from those boundaries,
and I hope you have the courage to go after whatever it is that genuinely makes you want to get up in the morning.
I hope you have the courage to find the things in life that ignite you and deepen your understanding of the world and those within it.
I hope you have the courage to fight for a future that inspires you, even if it doesn’t look the way you thought it would.
I hope you have the courage to change.
I hope you have the courage to trust in the person you’re becoming. (Not my words).
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Be strong, be kind, be free.
Do things that make you proud of yourself.
Surround yourself with people who bring out your best qualities.
And distance yourself from the people who do the opposite.
Hangout with people who are ready to exchange knowledge with enough understanding about what they are saying & why.
For example;
Don’t just follow someone’s words because they said “Investing in stock market/real estate/crypto will make you money/rich”.
95% of these people don’t even know how to multiply 12*13 without a calculator.
Do you really think such dumbfucks can advice anyone on finance?
Forget finance, if someone is saying something without knowing enough about it, that person is a complete fake nut.
Stay away from such morons.
Fun story: Most people who invest in bitcoin think it’s more like a virtual currency, but hardly few know it was designed as a medium of transaction. It’s more like Western Union Money Transfer.
Be true, true to yourself and true to your morals.
Stand up for yourself.
Don’t let people take advantage of your kindness and soft heart.
Don’t take shit from anyone, and don’t put yourself down.
Believe in yourself and believe in your journey.
Be good to yourself.
Be unapologetically you.
Embrace your imperfections.
Accept the fact that when you grow, sometimes you lose people and that’s okay.
Celebrate your every success and learn from failure.
Learn to accept that, first you have to learn a lot about anything & everything before jumping in.
And most importantly, never ever let anything stand in the way of the person you are becoming.
BE A TRUE YOU. (Not my words).
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If you’re wrong, own up to what you didn’t do right.
That’s how you learn and eam RESPECT.
If your body is telling you to avoid certain foods and eat more fruits and veggies, do it.
If your gut feeling is telling you to distance yourself from certain people and get closer to those who have a positive aura to them, do it.
If your heart is telling you to travel,
explore a beautiful place,
start a new project,
start a business,
spend more time in nature,
take a break,
read this book,
& be with that person who vibes with you,
just go for it.
Your higher self knows what’s best for you.
So don’t ignore the messages.
LEARN TO LISTEN YOURSELF.
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