DON’T BE SHY AT 4 THINGS:
– OLD CLOTHES:
BECAUSE YOUR CLOTHES DON’T DEFINE YOUR TALENT.
– POOR FRIENDS:
BECAUSE THERE IS NO STATUS IN FRIENDSHIP.
– OLD PARENTS:
BECAUSE WHAT YOU ARE TODAY IS BECAUSE OF THEM.
– SIMPLE LIVING:
BECAUSE SUCCESS CAN’T BE JUDGED BY APPEARANCE.
(This video got nothing to do with the post above. I shared it because I liked it. Mayan calendar definitely deserves a look back, watch it for some fun. Big fan of SNL either ways.)
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The longer I live, the more I realize the impact of attitude on life.
Attitude, to me is more important than the past, than education, than money, than circumstances, than failures, than successes, than what other people think or say or do.
It is more important than appearance, giftedness, or skill.
It will make or break a company, a church, a school or a home.
The remarkable thing is we have a choice every day regarding the attitude we will embrace for that day.
We cannot change our past.
We cannot change the fact that people will act in a certain way.
We cannot change the inevitable.
The only thing we can do is play on the one string we have, and that is our attitude.
I am convinced that life is 10% what happens to me and 90% how I react to it.
And so it is with you, we are in charge of our ATTITUDES.
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The longer I live, the more I realize the impact of ATTITUDE on life.
Attitude, to me is more important than the past, than education, than money, than circumstances, than failures, than successes, than what other people think or say or do.
It is more important than appearance, giftedness, or skill.
It will make or break a company, a church, a school, a home.
The remarkable thing is we have a choice every day regarding the attitude we will embrace for that day.
We cannot change our past.
We cannot change the fact that people will act in a certain way.
We cannot change the inevitable.
The only thing we can do is play on the one string we have, and that is our attitude.
I am convinced that life is 10% what happens to me and 90% how I react to it.
And so it is with you, we are in charge of our ATTITUDE.
Tap OUT..✌️
The most attractive thing about you should have less to do with your face and body, and more to do with your heart and how you treat other people.
Let’s face it, we see an appearance first and have our first impression based on an appearance.
Our appearance is where we can hide behind.
But an appearance does not say anything about a character.
Nowadays it seems that we judge each other on our appearance, who we are and what we stand for does not seem to matter.
No effort is made to get to know the person behind an appearance.
It is our own mental attitude which makes the world what it is for us.
Our thoughts make things beautiful, our thoughts make things ugly. Not our eyes.
The whole world is in our minds.
Learn to see things in proper light.
Learn to see souls instead of bodies, by using your mind instead of your eyes.
LEARN TO SEE.
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Being BEAUTIFUL doesn’t mean about your outer appearance but your inner core.
So what makes a person beautiful are their manners, their character, their thoughts, their behaviour & their consistent approach with everything they stand for.
BE YOU.
It’s so easy to walk by people and make judgments about who they are based on some small passing detail or flaw that you’ve observed.
Maybe their attitude appears to be rude.
Maybe they aren’t as outgoing as you are.
Either way, without taking the time to actually get to know someone and hear what they’ve been through, you really have no right to judge anyone.
The things we observe superficially are just that; they are false impressions that don’t tell you anything about what others have actually experienced.
Take the time to really get to know people.
Ask them what their story is, and be a good listener.
Sometimes the nicest people you come across are busy building life while being little carefree soaking the sunshine, and the judgmental ones go to church on sundays.
Never judge a book by its cover.
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The most attractive thing about you should have less to do with your face and body, and more to do with your heart and how you treat other people.
I am talking about kindness & empathy.
Let’s face it, we see an appearance first and have our first impression based on an appearance.
Our appearance is where we can hide behind.
But an appearance does not say anything about a character.
Nowadays it seems that we judge each other on our appearance, who we are and what we stand for does not seem to matter.
No effort is made to get to know the person behind an appearance.
It is our own mental attitude which makes the world what it is for us.
Our thoughts make things beautiful,
our thoughts make things ugly.
Not our eyes.
The whole world is in our minds.
Learn to see things in proper light.
Learn to see souls instead of bodies by using your mind instead of your eyes.
LEARN TO SEE WHAT’S REAL.
Tap OUT..✌️
Few easy tips to become CONFIDENT with your life:
Stop discounting your successes.
Start affirming them instead.
Don’t say “Oh, it’s nothing” or “Everyone could do that”.
Treat and talk to yourself as you would to a good friend.
Develop a positive attitude and choose to get your mind off the negatives.
For example, write down three things that went well each day, and three separate things that you are thankful for.
Work on your appearance.
Make an effort to look good, that doesn’t always have to cost the earth.
Wear bold colour bottom & light colour t-shirt/shirt/top.
Invest your little time in personal hygiene & skincare.
Understand the importance of a nice perfume.
Eat clean & workout frequently.
You know the drill.
That’s gonna make you feel much more happier and confident.
Don’t be a doormat or just follow the crowd.
Think about your needs and what you want from life.
Be willing to take risks or calculated risks for god’s sake.
If you don’t take a risk, then nothing’s going to change.
And you’ll be stuck in a rut going nowhere in life.
The secret to self-confidence isn’t to stop caring what people think, it’s to start caring about what you think.
It’s to make your opinion of you more important than anyone else’s.
Confidence makes us beautiful and it comes from accepting yourself.
The moment you accept yourself, it makes everything better.
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There are a bunch of people who say & believe “LOOKS DOESN’T MATTER”. I strongly oppose that idea of “neglecting to take care of your appearance”. To some this may seem superficial. But the time and effort you put into your appearance often reflect your inherent values towards your relationship.
Let me explain; if you stop making an effort to look after yourself, it comes across as though you do not have any enthusiasm or focus on improving yourself. It also cultivates the idea that looking good for your partner isn’t of great importance to you. This lack of care could make things turn sour after a while, especially if your partner is a more focused individual who feels that self-image is an integral part of who they are. Nobody’s age number is moving backwards. Being fitness concious & fashion forward with your taste is a lifestyle choice which makes you an exciting individual. Looks does matter. A person’s aesthetics is enticing and interest in personal hygiene is a major turn on.
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