We humans don’t understand the difference between self-respect & EGO,
which results in hurting self.
EGO & PRIDE will get crushed by you or someone else soon or sooner,
they are flighty in nature & help with nothing.
Focus on building your SELF-ESTEEM,
which will strengthen your SELF-RESPECT.
Soon you will recognise your worth & that’s a step in the right directions to thrive.
Focus on being a TRUE you.
Tap..✌️
The most important lesson I’ve learned over this past year is;
Don’t let anybody make you cruel.
No matter how badly you want to give the world a taste of its own bitter medicine;
It is never worth losing yourself.
There is so much abundance available to you.
There is so much success available to you.
There is so much happiness available to you.
Work for what you want.
Crave it.
Consume it.
Do what it takes to create what you need.
On the journey you will lose.
On the journey you will be told no.
But that doesn’t mean you’re not worthy.
Success is a choice, choose it.
Tap..✌️
START PRIORITIZING:
Your health.
Your mental health.
Your well-being.
Your boundaries.
Your bliss.
Your happiness.
Your self love.
Your self worth.
Your self respect.
Your purpose.
Your goals.
Your much needed rest.
Your piece of peace.
Tap..✌️
Treat your energy like you would treat your money.
Budget it,
save it,
find ways to increase it,
invest it where you know you will get a return, etc.
When you place value on your energy like you would any other form of currency,
you will be surprised at how much changes in your reality.
Our energy is our true currency.
Money is just symbolic for exchange of energy.
This is why you “pay” attention.
Invest your energy & time into what you want to grow.
Tap..✌️
Take chances.
Take a lot of chances.
Because honestly, no matter where you end up and with whom it always end up the way it should be.
Your mistakes make you who you are.
You learn and grow with each choice you make.
Everything is worth it.
Say how you feel, always.
Be you, and be okay with it.
Tap..✌️
The most important lesson I’ve learned over this past year is;
Don’t let anybody make you cruel.
No matter how badly you want to give the world a taste of its own bitter medicine;
It is never worth losing yourself.
The most important lesson I’ve learned over this past year is,
don’t let anybody make you cruel.
No matter how badly you want to give the world a taste of its own bitter medicine,
it is never worth losing yourself.
START PRIORITIZING:
Your mental health,
Your health,
Your well-being,
Your boundaries,
Your happiness,
Your worth,
Your goals,
Your much needed rest,
&
Your purpose.
Tap..✌️
Tips for living a life you want:
• Ask for what you need.
• Stop basing your worth on how others see you.
• Stop pretending; be honest with yourself and others.
• Constantly ask yourself: “does this align with me?”
• Honour your personal and professional boundaries.
• Invest in relationships that matter.
• Declutter; let go of things that no longer serve you.
• Let your decisions be informed by your values.
• Strive to identify and live your purpose.
Tap..✌️
Don’t strive for perfection,
instead strive for experience,
for learning new things and stepping outside of your comfort zone.
Each wrong turn has brought you closer to where you are now.
Every mistake has given the you knowledge you have now.
Challenge yourself,
just give life a go,
leave this unrealistic idea of perfection behind and accept that some chapters in your life are there to get you to the next one.
Some people in your life are there to bring you to others.
The next chapter is worth making a few mistakes for, the next chapter will take you closer to where you need to be.
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Even if the current circumstances in your life make you question how you’ll ever get to where you want to be, you have to understand that everything you are currently experiencing or have experienced has a PURPOSE.
Because those previous steps BROUGHT you to where you are today, MOLDING you into the person that you are.
But remember:
There are still so many moments to experience that will bring you joy and CLOSER to your DESTINY.
More laughs, more books to read, more people to meet, more risks, more love, more pictures to take, more places to see and more food to taste.
Once you BELIEVE you’re worthy of having MORE, you’ll realize you have the POWER within you to BRING those things to life.
You still have time to live the life you’ve always imagined.
KEEP GOING.
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Check yourself.
Sometimes you are the toxic person.
Sometimes you are the mean, negative person you’re looking to push away.
Sometimes the problem is you.
And that doesn’t make you less worthy.
Keep on growing.
Keep on checking yourself.
Keep on motivating yourself.
Because mistakes are opportunities.
Look at them, own them, grow from them and move on.
Do better, be better.
You’re human. It’s okay.
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I started growing when i stopped:
• Dwelling on what “could” have been.
• Letting the fear of failure hold me back.
• Blaming others for my own mistakes.
• Returning to toxic habits for comfort.
• Basing my worth on other’s opinions.
• Focusing on what’s out of my control.
• Denying who I authentically am.
Tap OUT..✌️
You will never find your worth in another human being.
You find it in yourself, and then you will attract those who are worthy of your energy.
Realize this.
Accept and acknowledge your own worth.
Stop waiting for others to tell you how important you are.
Tell yourself.
And believe it.
– Marcandangel.
You will never find your worth in another human being.
You find it in yourself.
And then you will attract those who are worthy of your energy.
Realize this.
Accept and acknowledge your own worth.
Stop waiting for others to tell you how important you are.
Tell yourself.
And believe it.
– Marcandangel.
(This video got nothing to do with the post above. When I like something, I have to share it. I have seen so many videos about REZVANI MOTORS in past few years, this guys are currently on top of their game. Even BRABUS looks funny in front of their tech & pricing.)
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Be present.
Make love.
Make coffee.
Avoid small talk.
Embrace conversation.
Buy a plant, water it.
Make your bed.
Make someone else’s bed.
Have a smart mouth, and quick wit.
Run.
Make art.
Create.
Swim in the ocean.
Go out in the rain.
Take chances.
Ask questions.
Make mistakes.
Learn.
Know your worth.
Love fiercely.
Forgive quickly.
Let go of what doesn’t make you happy.
Grow.
Tap OUT..✌️
Somethings may don’t get better, but we do.
We get stronger.
We learn to live with our situations as messy and ugly as they are.
We fix what we can.
We adapt to what we can’t.
Some of us may never be fully okay, but at least we’re here.
We’re still trying.
We’re doing the best we can.
That’s worth celebrating too.
If you’re reading this, you made it to today, CONGRATULATIONS.
Life is fun, let it be.
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The only one who gets to decide your worth is you.
It doesn’t come from your bank account or the number of friends you have.
It doesn’t come from what someone else says you are worth.
It’s called self worth for a reason- it comes from you.
It comes from being yourself and being proud of who you are.
It comes from being someone that you can count on and someone you love.
The numbers will change with time, but what won’t change is who you are deep inside beautiful, limitless, wonderful, creative, strong, capable and that is where your worth comes from.
(Not my words.)
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If you feel like others aren’t treating you with respect, check your price tag.
Maybe you subconsciously marked yourself down.
Because it’s YOU who tells others what you’re worth by showing them what you’re willing to accept for your time and attention.
Get off the clearance rack!
– Marcandangel.
In life, you will realize there is a role for everyone you meet.
Some will test you,
some will use you,
some will love you,
and some will teach you.
But the ones who are truly important are the ones who bring out the best in you.
They are the rare and amazing people who remind you why it’s worth it.
Take chances, take a lot of them.
Because honestly, no matter where you end up and with whom it always end up the way it should be.
Your mistakes make you who you are.
You learn and grow with each choice you make.
Everything is worth it.
Say how you feel, always.
Be you, and be okay with it.
(This video got nothing to do with the post above. James Webb Telescope is answering a lot of questions related to our planet & it’s making astrophysics exciting again. Enjoy this 6 minutes of fun-filled knowledge.)
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I hope you choose patience.
Even when you are overwhelmed by unknowns.
When someone cannot give you answers,
when you begin to wonder why you’re here,
when you simply want to give up:
BE PATIENT.
Some people are truly worth the wait.
I hope you choose love.
Even when it would be easier to hate.
When someone stirs white hot rage within you,
when they insult you,
when they question your worth:
BE LOVING.
Some people need your love more than you do.
(Not my words.)
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Let them judge you.
Let them misunderstand you.
Let them gossip about you.
Their opinions aren’t your problem.
You stay kind, committed to love, and free in your authenticity.
No matter what they do or say, don’t you dare doubt your worth or the beauty of your truth.
Just keep on shining like you do.
– Scott Stabile.
(This video got nothing to do with the post above. World stopped accepting leadership of UK on economy after the fall of colonialism, and thanks to labours party which made a big dent on UK’s image by reiterating nonsensical issues on parliament floor. It’s just a start the way things are headed. People are worried about recession because we are already in a recession since a while. I can see even worse for USA in coming days.)
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Most people don’t want to be part of the process.
They just want to be part of the outcome.
But the process is where you figure out who’s worth being part of the OUTCOME.
People settle because they’re afraid something better won’t come along.
They fear they aren’t good enough.
You are worth exactly what you want in life, but you have to believe it or you won’t attract something better.
Take a moment to realize your worth.
Don’t ever settle.
Be present.
Make love.
Make coffee.
Avoid small talk.
Embrace conversation.
Buy a plant, water it.
Make your bed.
Make someone else’s bed too.
Have a smart mouth, and quick wit.
Run. Make art. Create.
Swim in the ocean.
Swim in the rain.
Take chances.
Ask questions.
Make mistakes.
Learn.
Know your worth.
Love fiercely.
Forgive quickly.
Let go of what doesn’t make you happy.
Grow.
Be YOU.
Tap OUT..✌️
The most important lesson I’ve learned over this past year is,
don’t let anybody make you cruel.
No matter how badly you want to give the world a taste of its own bitter medicine,
it is never worth losing yourself.
I’ve had to learn the hard way who my real friends are, but the best way for me to tell is if they want to lift me up or bring me down.
I only want to be with people who support me and in turn make me feel stronger because of their love and belief in me and because of my love and belief in them.
You can’t have a friendship that’s one sided, you have to get as much as you give.
It might be worth letting a toxic person in your life know how you feel.
If they aren’t willing to change the way they treat you, consider not spending so much time with them.
(Not my words.)
Keep away from people who belittle your ambitions.
Small people always do that, but the really great make you feel that you too can become great.
-MARK TWAIN.
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We humans do not understand compassion.
In each moment of our lives, we betray it.
We know of its worth, yet in knowing we then attach to it a value, we guard the giving of it, believing it must be earned.
Compassion is priceless in the truest sense of the world.
It must be given freely.
– Steven Erikson.
People settle because they’re afraid something better won’t come along.
They fear they aren’t good enough.
You are worth exactly what you want in life, but you have to believe it or you won’t attract something better.
Take a moment to realize your worth.
Don’t ever settle.
(This video got something to do with the post above. Big up to Naval Ravikant for his wise words. I hope you watch it & let’s see how much you can connect with this 51 seconds of wisdom.)
I feel blessed that I’ve pretty much always known what I wanted to do with my life.
But I know plenty of people who are still figuring out what that means to them.
As long as you stay consistent and keep following your dreams even if they feel underdeveloped, you will find that place within yourself.
Are you doing what you’ve always wanted to do?
If you’re not, there’s no time like the present.
Sometimes a thought of “Toxic positivity” may make you think “Let’s stay stuck to my current reality”.
But ask yourself whether that’s helping you evolve!
Don’t go with what others tell you.
Always accept suggestions, but take your own decisions.
One step at a time.
Start this moment.
Follow what you feel.
If things were easy to find, they wouldn’t be worth finding. (Not my words)
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Your life is your own.
I want you to read that sentence until it sinks all the way down inside your gut and meets every last impulse that tells you to put your intuition on pause,
to place yourself second,
to squeeze and bend and break into the molds of what everyone else wants you to be.
Your life is your own.
I want it to pass through your head so many times it slowly clears out the debris of your fear.
I want you to meditate on it until you realize that you are not too strange,
you just have the courage to be your true self,
you are not too different,
you just have the courage to follow your own heart,
you are not unworthy,
you are just honest about the very natural human experience of feeling unworthiness.
Every person alive wishes to embody these very same forms of freedom.
They are not judging you,
they are expressing the parts of themselves they’ve judged into silence.
Your life is your own, and it always will be.
You must find the courage to claim it, or it will pass by you untouched, a glimmering, lost potential of all that could have been. (Not my words).
Tap OUT..✌️
Despite what you may believe,
you can disappoint people and still be good enough.
You can make mistakes and still be capable and talented.
You can let people down and still be worthwhile and deserving of love.
Everyone has disappointed someone they care about.
Everyone messes up,
lets people down,
and makes mistakes.
Not because we’re inadequate or fundamentally inept,
but because we’re imperfect and fundamentally HUMAN.
Expecting anything different is setting yourself up for failure.
Also remember; committing the same mistake twice is not the sign of a healthy mind.
Keep that in mind & keep moving forward. (Not my words).
(This video got nothing to do with the post above. Stopping a mother from dropping her kid to school is the worst kinda crap you can slap on someone in the name of protecting environment. Sometimes people go bit too far with these environmental protection related protests. You aren’t allowed to deteriorate normal people’s life. Insulate Britain, protest in front of government officials or government offices where words can reach the right place.)
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Each of us leads unique lives with experiences that nobody else will ever completely understand.
Your story holds so many valuable lessons that can help inspire, teach, and motivate someone else.
Should you choose to share it!?!
In life, I have heard so many different stories.
Just by listening, I learned so many different things.
I’m so thankful I found the courage to share my story as well and talk about what I’ve been through.
Not only has it helped me, but it has helped give perspective and strength to so many other people, my people to be precise.
I encourage you to do the same.
Share your story with someone who is worth your time.
You never know how one sentence of your life story could inspire someone to rewrite their own.
No matter what you have been through in life, good or bad, don’t take it for granted.
There are lessons in every moment of our lives.
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WHEN YOU LEARN HOW MUCH YOU’RE WORTH,
YOU’LL STOP GIVING PEOPLE DISCOUNTS.
– HELEN KELLER.
NOT EVERYONE WILL APPRECIATE WHAT YOU DO FOR THEM.
YOU HAVE TO FIGURE OUT WHO’S WORTH YOUR KINDNESS AND WHO’S JUST TAKING ADVANTAGE.
Few steps to self care which reflects your self respect:
1. If it feels wrong, don’t do it. It’s not worth it.
2. Say exactly what you mean. You don’t need to be a people pleaser.
3. Trust your instincts, let’s name it intuition if you want.
4. Never speak bad about yourself. Never give up on your dreams.
5. Don’t be afraid to say no. Don’t be afraid to say yes.
6. Be kind to yourself & practice the same towards others.
7. Let go of what you can’t control. Expectations are the thief of joy.
8. Stay away from drama and negativity.
9. Prioritise yourself and your goals, you have to face both forever.
10. LOVE those whom you can respect.
Tap OUT..👍
Don’t worry about what people think of you or about the way they try to make you feel. If people want to see you as a good person, they will. If they want to see you as a bad person, absolutely nothing you do will stop them. Ironically, the more you try to show them your good intentions, the more reason you give them to knock you down if they are commited to misunderstanding you.
Keep your head up high and be confident in what you do. Be confident in your intentions and keep your eyes ahead instead of wasting your time on those who want to drag you back. Because you can’t change people’s views, you have to believe that true change for yourself comes from within you, not from anyone else. STAY TRUE TO YOURSELF & JUST YOURSELF, THAT’S ENOUGH.
(That post on 10-April was scheduled before a year. Don’t take it seriously, things change. That’s the reason i deleted it.)
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Either write something worth reading or do something worth writing.
– Benjamin Franklin.
Your intelligence, education, qualification, looks & skills are worth nothing if your character is not in sync with life. To earn the legitimacy of being a valuable asset to your work & society, you need to keep on being a TRUTHFUL YOU at every phase of life.
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When you wanna know what’s your worth, Try starting from a ZERO once again.
Fake people are like mannequins, yes they have a figure & expression worth nothing.
I have taken little bit inspiration & experience on why/where/how/what I went through my life!!
Sneakers, joggers, hoodie/round neck t-shirt, little bit skating, gym & pizza, because I am still the same 13 street smart assholic kid.
Cheesecake, roasted lemon pepper chicken barbecue & wine with blue crab caviar nachos, because I turn classy after 9pm twice in a week.
Business enthusiast, data analytics & PhD, because I never want to stop learning.
Boots, boobs, beaches, bitches, shopping, better flight/hotel deals, because I am one self-made INDEPENDENT DICK & I met none who’s worth of my LOVE or LOYALITY.
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Doesn’t matter you are in a relationship or not, there is always a journey which is just yours. Your career path, your business goals, your own hobbies; these are all yours which make you a better beautiful you.
Now if your love/relationship isn’t helping you grow towards a better you, then stop lying to yourself. We enter relationships with tons of TRUTH & LOYALITY to become a better version of ourselves. We do it for our own happiness. The other person is there for a push. We do the same for them as well. Emotional availability speaks when words fall short.
Till you discover your worth, your goals & life purpose; you can’t be in a relationship with anyone.
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Till the time there is a 1 in front of your age number, it’s all about learning, understanding your worth & what/whom you deserve. When it swaps to 2something, it’s about building a secure tomorrow. When it’s 3something, hopefully you are habituated to certain kind of a comfortable lifestyle & you are ready to decide whether/how long you need to work to be what you want to be.
That’s how life needs to be.
Know your value, you all have experienced something called BEST in your past. Don’t settle for less. Even you don’t know you always have something to cherish. That someone in your life set a GOLD STANDARD at some point, nobody’s gonna beat that.
Yes to constant/consistent attention/care/admiration, FUCK instant GRATIFICATION.
I don’t want anything quickly. I want to invest myself & I want to see whether the opposite site is able to match my energy. If anything fails, I back out & vice versa. Partnership in relationship & Business, both are almost the same. Either people join to nurture/grow with each other, or they fail to see the bigger picture & fuck off after backstabbing with a tiny gain. Either ways don’t forget you stood the test of time, GAIN is yours & the WINNER is you.
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