If you want to become significantly better at anything, you have to fall in love with the process of doing it. You have to fall in love with building the identity of someone who does the work, rather than merely dreaming about the results that you want.
In other words…
Fall in love with boredom. Fall in love with repetition and practice. Fall in love with the process of what you want and let the results take care of themselves.
(This video got nothing to do with the post above. Zoo Pornographer.🤣 Found it funny, I had to share it. Big fan of SNL.)
– Wake up early. – Work out regularly. – Eat good, real food. – Live below your means. – Hangout with true friends who share similar goals & vision. – Focus on building more than one source of income. – Do what you love for work. – Don’t get into meaningless relationships. – Never hit the snooze button. – Create a routine. – Write down your plans & journal your life’s journey with it’s success.
• Consistently connect with people who fill you up. • Practice being vulnerable. • Stop fighting to be right. • Apologize less often for things that aren’t your fault. • Become less people pleasing. • Allow things to be good enough instead of perfect. • Practice what you know to true or helpful. • Educate yourself at least 20 minutes a day (read or watch a informative video). • Create more joyful moments. • Follow your intuition. • Inform others when something isn’t working for you. (Not my words.)
LIVE WITH PURPOSE- The first step to some major main character energy is to live with purpose. As the main character of your life, one of the worst possible things you can do is to let it pass you by. The goals, desires, and accomplishments you hope to see happen are up to you to work towards.
SET BOUNDARIES- While you’re learning to be main character in your life, you need to develop confidence and comfortability in setting boundaries with other people. You know what you want, and what’s important to you, and you need to be okay with removing things and relationships that don’t allow you to maintain those.
SUCCESS never comes to look for you while you wait around thinking about it. You are what you do, not what you say you’ll do. Knowledge is basically useless without action. And action means nothing without intention. Good things don’t come to those who wait; they come to those who work on meaningful goals.
Ask yourself what’s really important and then have the courage to build your life around your answer.
And remember, if you wait until you feel 100% ready to begin, you’ll likely be waiting the rest of your life.
To work on yourself is the best thing you can do. Accept that you are not perfect, but you are enough.
And then start working on everything that destroys you. Your insecurities. Your ego. Your dark thoughts. You have to work on all. You will see, in the end you’re going to make peace with yourself.
And that’s the greatest thing in the world.
(This video got nothing to do with the post above. The problem with our education system & also with the society is; WE THINK DISCUSSING ABOUT MONEY IS A TABOO, which is pure nonsense in my eyes. Watch this & get little information about what can be sorted in how long time. You can afford anything, but not everything.)