There is so much power in our words, more than we realise.
They can do so much good and so much damage.
They can create peace or cause people to break out in violence.
When we’re hurting the most it’s easy to lash out at other people, but then we become the source of the problem we are personally suffering from.
Don’t take your pain out on others or you will just be perpetuating the cycle.
If you’re hurting, do your best to seek outlets that are healthy.
Find a friend to talk to, express yourself artistically, write in your journal, or seek professional help.
Words have the power to both destroy and heal.
When words are both true and kind, they can change our world.
It’s not about the words.
It’s not about the time.
It was never.
It’s always about the vibe.
Give yourself permission to walk away from every situation that brings BAD VIBES.
Throughout the years I have learned three major things;
1. Sometimes bad things happen to good people and sometimes you might think you know someone, you might think they’re on your side but deep down inside they’re not. Pay attention. True intentions take you towards right action. Actions speak louder than words. And wrong people use words to cover up truth with lies.
2. Almost everything we go through we can’t control. That means, if it’s yours, then somewhere down the line it’ll return to you and if it’s not, then you have to make peace with it and move on, It’s as simple as that.
3. Letting go is never an easy thing to do. No matter how many times you’ve rehearsed it, no matter how many times you’ve played it in your head, it never goes as planned and almost always does it sting a little harder than you thought.
(Not my words).
AT THE END OF THE DAY IT’S NOT ABOUT WHAT YOU HAVE OR EVEN WHAT YOU’VE ACCOMPLISHED.
IT’S ABOUT WHO YOU’VE LIFTED UP, WHO YOU’VE MADE BETTER.
IT’S ABOUT WHAT YOU’VE GIVEN BACK.
Two things to remember in life;
Take care of your thoughts when you are alone,
Take care of your words when you are with people.
Be careful with your words, because once they’ve been said, they can only be forgiven; not forgotten.
People are PRETTY or UGLY because of their ACTIONS or WORDS.
I am single out of my choice. I don’t want LOVE, because I don’t want to misuse that word “LOVE”.
I am building myself to become a loyal KING/SLAVE to my tiniest empire. And the day I feel someone worthy is approaching, I will feel it. My QUEEN will not fuck with TRUTH or DICKS.
People trust me not because I am good or bad. I maybe way smaller person than what you are. I am TRUSTWORTHY because I buy my good & bad both equally with complete TRUTH. If I am a faulty dickhead at some point; it’s only me who will spread that first before any asshole even thinks about playing with my shit.
I never hide shit about me. Yes my heart behaves like a huge sensible 76 kilo kid. But my head is the JUGGERNAUT which keeps me driving towards a better tomorrow everyday.
That’s the reason my words go tough/cut-throat sometimes; TRUTH first, LOGIC next & then I reach to catch up with your or my emotions. It should be like that, emotional investments must be concrete & tested thoroughly.
Self-love isn’t selfish, It’s needed. When you walk your talk and you are TRUE, you have the audacity to face the world headstrong.
No, LOVE has nothing to do with finances or charisma of the other side. But, you already know what’s your comfort zone/future goals & who can be worth it to share that same way!!
Just like you can’t use that same smartphone in your hand for more than 2-3 years, you want to upgrade it even if you are using it. Life is just like that. It needs a upgrade time to time. See your parents, how many times you changed your home/TV/location/furniture/whatever. Life is exactly like that. It needs upgrades not just monetarily, it needs upgrades in every aspect. You need your emotional growth & qualifications/skills/work too need the same.
If you aren’t seeing the same in your partner, don’t let him/her be your LIFE PARTNER. Someday you will surely lose your attraction/passion/mojo towards that person if they are not driven towards a better life. LOVE is a big word. Don’t misuse it, use it when you find your forever or else go happy fuck around for a while. Having tons of sex with multiple partners is OK if your moral allows you & you get that much attention. Misusing that word LOVE to gain little passion is not OK, it will tear you down slowly.
Ask yourself how long did you let that LOVE cook inside you, ask yourself what’s gonna be the result when time tests you with good or bad situations!! BE TRUE to yourself first. Time heals all when intentions are true in head/heart & your mouth speaks the same.
Indecisiveness causes insecurities. Insecurities cause self-doubt. You start expecting the worst, allowing yourself to take every wrong step & sabotage own growth in life.
Find a motive to live. Set a goal. Take decisions: stay stuck to it. If you can’t find reasons behind your actions/words/moves, don’t do it because they are bullshit. Be True to yourself first, everyone will acknowledge with time. Investment in self growth gratifies self-respect and self-esteem. Be a TRUE you.
Words have no value, if they don’t come to action.
Feelings are worthless, if they aren’t expressed.