LIVE WITH PURPOSE- The first step to some major main character energy is to live with purpose. As the main character of your life, one of the worst possible things you can do is to let it pass you by. The goals, desires, and accomplishments you hope to see happen are up to you to work towards.
SET BOUNDARIES- While you’re learning to be main character in your life, you need to develop confidence and comfortability in setting boundaries with other people. You know what you want, and what’s important to you, and you need to be okay with removing things and relationships that don’t allow you to maintain those.
People pray for CAKE. Sometimes GOD gives cake. And sometimes GOD gives them butter, eggs, oil, icing, a pan & an oven. Then they get frustrated and leave the kitchen.
Let that sink. Sometimes you have everything right in front of you. But HOW BAD do you want it? Everything in life is about your goals & desires. If you are not marching towards it, then who else will do that!?! Time to fix yourself.
(This video got nothing to do with the post above. Sometimes it feels like the more people talk about it, the less it makes sense. At least UK is back to pre pandemic levels of growth.)
If you want to become significantly better at anything, you have to fall in love with the process of doing it. You have to fall in love with building the identity of someone who does the work, rather than merely dreaming about the results that you want.
In other words; Fall in love with boredom. Fall in love with repetition and practice. Fall in love with the process of what you and let the results take care of themselves.
(This video got nothing to do with the post above. We live in a world of such woke dumbfucks. One word for this mindset; DISGUSTING. Ask a scientist whether we are ready for a world of fully renewable energy, the answer is NO. Yes science has made progress, but you can still go more miles with a tank of gas compared to a fully charged electric vehicle. We need more research & more time. Such dumbfucks are just slowing down the process while causing immense financial damage.)
Tomorrow is not promised. Not a single second or minute is promised. So, live for today. Keep the promises you make to yourself. Take action on the things you desire and want. Remind those that matter to you that they are loved and you are grateful for them. Never leave someone you care about on negative terms. Give more than you take. Make the calls you’ve been telling yourself you’ll do ‘tomorrow’. Let the small shit go. Never go to bed angry or upset. We will all die one day, so learn to live each day with the promise to yourself that it’ll be better than yesterday.
This is your life. You’re allowed to change your mind. To change your heart. You’re allowed to be a different person. To wake up one day and not want to do the things you’ve been doing all your life. You’re allowed to love who you want. To move on from the people who are not good to you. To let go of anyone without any kind of explanation. Without any kind of regret. You’re allowed to make mistakes. To learn from them. Or not to learn from them and experience everything all over again. You’re allowed to forget your past if you want to. Or to stay in it but you must also understand that this is not how you will grow. You’re allowed to change careers. To dress differently. To chase different dreams. To change locations, even if, at first, you’re terrified to do so. You’re allowed to dislike yourself but also allowed to change those same parts you don’t see eye to eye with. To work on them until you’re completely comfortable with who you are.
This is your life. Make it count. Make your own validation. Your own path. Your own way of life. You are enough. And you are not broken. You’re a lot stronger than you want to believe. Now breathe. (Not my words.)
My primary GOAL in life is to feel vibrant and alive, inside and out. Mentally, emotionally, spiritually & physically. I’ve been unhappy enough to know that I only want joy & peace to surround me and flow through me.
Have a goal. Wake up earlier. Smile. Start running early morning. Make a new recipe. Buy a weighted blanket. Travel. Cuddle your puppy or horse. Say “I love you & I care for you” to someone. Laugh to dad jokes. Discover the universe. Sing your favourite song. Have your own blog/business/investments. Sleep well. Go to the specific place you desire. Be in peace with yourself. Take a picture on the top of a mountain. No matter the kind of goal, have one GOAL. And fight for it, keep fighting till you get it done.
Wake up everyday with motivation, and fall asleep with a smile. Live your life to the fullest, every second. Do exactly what you want, and accomplish it. You are the master of your life. You decide. You create. So go. Never doubt of your capacities, and go.