Social media has made PERFECT look achievable, so now REAL has become undesirable. Expecting perfection from life, friends, your partner, your career and from yourself is the enemy of happiness. Instead of perfection, search for balance, contentment, fulfilment, and progress.
The fact that you’re struggling doesn’t make you a burden. It doesn’t make you unloveable or undesirable or undeserving of care. It doesn’t make you too much or too sensitive or too needy. It makes you human. Everyone struggles. Everyone has a difficult time coping, and at times, we all fall apart. During these times, we aren’t always easy to be around and that’s okay. No one is easy to be around one hundred percent of the time. Yes, you may sometimes be unpleasant or difficult. And yes, you may sometimes do or say things that make the people around you feel helpless or sad. But those things aren’t all of who you are and they certainly don’t discount your worth as a human being.
The truth is that you can be struggling and still be loved. You can be difficult and still be cared for. You can be less than perfect, and still be deserving of compassion and kindness. Be you. (Not my words.)
We all go through undesirable situations in life where we either take action to change or change the way we look at the situation, at the end what we don’t want is UNHAPPINESS. Very few people understand how to respect an EQUATION. I am talking about friends. Most people think we build walls to keep others out, it’s actually to protect what’s precious within.
I am an enthusiastic optimistic outrageous extrovert person who believes in doing own life is more important over anything or anyone. People think i am SELFISH, i think i am SELF-INVESTED. Only one person who matches my level of maturity, energy & nonsensical fun is my bestfriend DEMI. Way way back i broke up from our equation. I was going through a rough patch in my life & my bestie proposed me 7 times in a row within 2 months. Like everyone she too thought a relationship can bring more happiness to life, which is utter bullshit. Later it took us a long time to patch things because, i don’t believe in SECOND CHANCES. Clarifying once again, I AM NOT DATING DEMI. All i can say is, we are best friends since 395 years to be precise & i cherish this blonde bitch every single day.
Everyone has a friend during each stage of life. But only blessed ones have the same friend in all stages of life.(Not my words). Happy belated birthday dumb DEMI. Almost week+ delay in posting this, but you know i adore you & hate you equally. I swear someday you will be an amazing aunt/babysitter to my future kids.🤪
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