Tag: truth

Tru2Day1753

If you expect the world to be fair with you because you are fair, you’re fooling yourself.

That’s like expecting the lion not to eat you because you didn’t eat him.

True me.. Tap-1623..

If we believe there is no magic in life, then we’ll never experience it.
If we believe the miraculous is not real, then we’ll never accept it when we see it.
If we believe that we’re limited in what we can do, accomplish, and become, then we’ll always live within the confines of our imagination.

However, the opposite is also true.

If we believe in magic, we’ll experience it around every corner.
If we believe in the miraculous, then we’ll train ourselves to see and be thankful for the little miracles that unfold each day.
If we believe that we are limitless, then we’ll see anything we imagine is possible.

The beliefs that we hold onto influence our lives significantly, determining how our story unfolds.

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Go first.
Start.
Say hello.
Lead the run.
Do the first set.
Lend a hand.
Make the first call.
Introduce yourself.
Call a friend for no reason.
Help a stranger for no reward.
Find people going up the same mountain.
Climb together.

A simple truth:
The world rewards those who initiate.
So, don’t wait for opportunities.
Create them.

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7 things to keep in mind:

1. Go after dreams,
not people.

2. Love yourself,
and the rest will follow.

3. Never lose your sense of wonder.

4. You are capable of more than you know.

5. No regrets in life.
Just lessons learned.

6. Your only limit is you.

7. Life goes by in a blink of an eye.
So live life.

Tap..✌️

Tru2Day1697

Authenticity is a collection of choices that we have to make every day.
It’s about the choice to show up and be real.
The choice to be honest.
The choice to let our true selves be seen.

– Brene Brown.

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Do you know what’s beautiful?

A sincere person.
Someone whose intentions are neither evil nor envious.
Someone who genuinely wants to see you be happy, healthy, successful, and growing.

A sincere person is able to acknowledge, accept, reflect, and lead with love.
They are in touch with their truth and their honesty shows it.
They can be trusted to not only support you, but also guide you when you’re slipping away.
If you have ever met someone like this, hold on to them.

Tap..✌️

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10 Things you should never apologize for:

1. Needing alone time.
2. Speaking your mind.
3. Asking for help.
4. Taking time to respond to a message.
5. Your past mistakes.
6. Saying “No”.
7. Having a messy house.
8. Telling the truth.
9. Doing well in life.
10. How you really feel.

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Tru2Day1593

Authenticity is a collection of choices that we have to make every day.
It’s about the choice to show up and be real.
The choice to be honest.
The choice to let our true selves be seen.

– Brene Brown.

Tru2Day1587

A seed grows with no sound.
But a tree falls with huge noise.
Destruction has noise, but creation is quiet.
This is the power of silence.

Grow silently.

True me.. Tap-1472..

We have to start appreciating all that we bring to our own lives.
Because the ironic truth is;
you are most attractive when you’re not worried about who you’re attracting.

When you’re living your life confidently,
when you’re living your life freely and without restraint, you emit the kind of energy that it just isn’t possible to fake.
Be confident with yourself.

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Use your voice for kindness,
your ears for compassion,
your hands for charity,
your mind for truth,
and your heart for love.

Life is a limited resource.
Never spend it on things & situations which aren’t fulfilling yourself with joy.
Be you.

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We have to start appreciating all that we bring to our own lives.
Because the ironic truth is;
you are most attractive when you’re not worried about who you’re attracting.
When you’re living your life confidently,
freely and without restraint,
you emit the kind of energy that it just isn’t possible to fake.

Be an authentic version of yourself shamelessly.

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People today get bored of everything very easily, their mobile,
their close ones,
their partner,
their job,
their car,
their life in general.

The problem is that people have become so impatient, they want newness at every step of life.
The truth is that this is not practically possible and living life this way is only going to lead to problems and sadness.

Patience has always been one of the strongest virtues and it is most significant in the present day world.
Run after whatever it is that you want to, but don’t run away from everything.
As you’ll soon find out, there is no where you can run away to.
Try to cherish and enjoy whatever you have while trying to get more out of life.

Tap..✌️

Tru2Day1473

Stay true to yourself.
Do your own thing and don’t worry about what people say.
It might not make sense to them but that’s ok.
Don’t expect everyone to understand you.
They don’t have to.
It’s between you and the Almighty.
So keep going.

True me.. Tap-1354..

Don’t let your life go by unnoticed.
Life is made of moments full of beauty and magic, waiting for us to notice.
You must not let the distractions and busyness keep you from experiencing everything this beautiful life has to offer.
Get out into nature, slow it all down.
Watch more sunrises with the only intent of watching the sun gloriously rise.
Look at your partner’s face deeply and tenderly, with the only intent of truly seeing them.

When life feels like it’s spinning around you and you can’t catch up, return to the beautiful moment of now, where everything is exactly as it should be.
Notice your breathing, notice where you are tense.
Release. Breathe. Feel. Notice.
(Not my words.)

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Tru2Day1370

You cannot see your REFLECTION in BOILING WATER.
Similarly, you cannot see the TRUTH in a state of ANGER.
When the WATER CALMS, CLARITY COMES.

ANGER & HATE are your BIGGEST ENEMIES.

True me.. Tap-1263..

It’s easy to look back and question decisions you have made in the past, but it’s unfair to punish yourself for them.
You can’t blame yourself for not knowing back then what you know now.
And the truth is you made each decision for a reason, based on how you were feeling at the time.

As we grow up we learn and we evolve.
Maybe the person you are now would have done things differently back then, or maybe you are the person you are now, because of the decisions you made back then.
Trust your journey, it’s all going to make sense soon.

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Life is rarely ever predictable.
The truth is: we were never guaranteed that we would have the answers for everything or feel certainty in every situation.

That’s part of this journey’s adventure to get from where we are to where we want to be, we are required to trust, hope, and believe, and dare to blaze the trail even when the path in front of us looks near impossible.

The secret to life isn’t about knowing the future or having the perfect roadmap, but rather having faith for the future and the spirit of a pioneer.

IT’S OKAY NOT TO KNOW HOW THINGS ARE GOING TO TURN OUT.

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Tru2Day1272

Be a reflection of what you’d like to receive.
If you want love, give love.
If you want truth, be truthful.
If you want respect, give respect.
What you give out will always return.

Tru2Day1244

I saw a post today that said, “When you finally learn your place in peoples lives, your feelings won’t get hurt. And loyalty doesn’t mean accepting unlimited amounts of inconsistency & pain from others”.

Whether it’s friends, family or whoever. I swear that’s the truth and one of the most important life lessons you’ll learn.

True me.. Tap-1130..

Let them judge you.
Let them misunderstand you.
Let them gossip about you.
Their opinions aren’t your problem.
You stay kind, committed to love, and free in your authenticity.
No matter what they do or say, don’t you dare doubt your worth or the beauty of your truth.
Just keep on shining like you do.

– Scott Stabile.

(This video got nothing to do with the post above. World stopped accepting leadership of UK on economy after the fall of colonialism, and thanks to labours party which made a big dent on UK’s image by reiterating nonsensical issues on parliament floor. It’s just a start the way things are headed. People are worried about recession because we are already in a recession since a while. I can see even worse for USA in coming days.)

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Life is rarely ever predictable.
The truth is: we were never guaranteed that we would have the answers for everything or feel certainty in every situation.

That’s part of this journey’s adventure to get from where we are to where we want to be, we are required to trust, hope, and believe, and dare to blaze the trail even when the path in front of us looks near impossible.

The secret to life isn’t about knowing the future or having the perfect roadmap, but rather having faith for the future and the spirit of a pioneer.
IT’S OKAY NOT TO KNOW HOW THINGS ARE GOING TO TURN OUT.

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Three major lessons you must learn for an easy smooth sailing life;

1. Sometimes bad things happen to good people and sometimes you might think you know someone, you might think they’re on your side but deep down inside they’re not.
Pay attention.
Actions speak louder than words, inconsistent words mean nothing and such words are just another way to cover up the truth with lies.

2. Almost everything we go through we can’t control.
That means, if it’s yours, then somewhere down the line it’ll return to you.
And if it’s not, then you have to make peace with it and move on.
It’s as simple as that.

3. Letting go is never an easy thing to do, no matter how many times you’ve rehearsed it, no matter how many times you’ve played it in your head, it never goes as planned and almost always does it sting a little harder than you thought.
(Not my words.)

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True me.. Tap-1072..

Life is rarely ever predictable.
The truth is: we were never guaranteed that we would have the answers for everything or feel certainty in every situation.

That’s part of this journey’s adventure to get from where we are to where we want to be, we are required to trust, hope, and believe, and dare to blaze the trail even when the path in front of us looks near impossible.

The secret to life isn’t about knowing the future or having the perfect roadmap, but rather having faith for the future and the spirit of a pioneer.

IT’S OKAY NOT TO KNOW HOW THINGS ARE GOING TO TURN OUT.

Tap OUT..✌️

True me.. Tap-1048..

THE FOUR AGREEMENTS:

1. BE IMPECCABLE WITH YOUR WORD.
Speak with integrity.
Say only what you mean.
Avoid using the word to speak against yourself or to gossip about others.
Use the power of your word in the direction of truth and love.

2. DON’T TAKE ANYTHING PERSONALLY.
Nothing others do is because of you.
What others say and do is a projection of their own reality, their own dream.
When you are immune to the opinions and actions of others, you won’t be the victim of needless suffering.

3. DON’T MAKE ASSUMPTIONS.
Find the courage to ask questions and to express what you really want.
Communicate with others as clearly as you can to avoid misunderstandings, sadness and drama.
With just this one agreement, you can completely transform your life.

4. ALWAYS DO YOUR BEST.
Your best is going to change from moment to moment; it will be different when you are healthy as opposed to sick.
Under any circumstance, simply do your best, and you will avoid self-judgment, self abuse and regret.

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Throughout the years I have learned three major things:

1. Sometimes bad things happen to good people and sometimes you might think you know someone, you might think they’re on your side but deep down inside they’re not.
Pay attention. Inconsistent people use WORDS to cover up the truth with lies.

2. Almost everything we go through we can’t control.
That means, if it’s yours, then somewhere down the line it’ll return to you and if it’s not, then you have to make peace with it and move on.
It’s as simple as that.

3. Letting go is never an easy thing to do.
No matter how many times you’ve rehearsed it.
No matter how many times you’ve played it in your head.
It never goes as planned and almost always does it sting a little harder than you thought.
(Not my words.)

Tap OUT..✌️

True me.. Tap-960..

It’s easy to look back and question decisions you have made in the past, but it’s unfair to punish yourself for them.
You can’t blame yourself for not knowing back then what you know now, and the truth is you made each decision for a reason, based on how you were feeling at the time.

As we grow up we learn and we evolve.
Maybe the person you are now would have done things differently back then, or maybe you are the person you are now, because of the decisions you made back then.
Trust your journey, it’s all going to make sense soon.

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Let them judge you.
Let them misunderstand you.
Let them gossip about you.
Let them play with their garbage thoughts.
Their opinions aren’t your problems.

You stay kind, committed to love and free in your authenticity.
No matter what they do or say, don’t you dare doubt your worth or the beauty of your truth.
Just keep shining like you do.

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It’s so attractive when someone just knows exactly who they are and doesn’t compromise it.
When a man or a woman walks into a room and has confidence, everyone can feel it.
The truth is that; looks fade,
but inner beauty, poise, and self love last forever,
only if you nurture them.

Find your confidence and let it radiate out.
There’s nothing more beautiful and attractive than a person who knows who they are.
OWN YOURSELF.

(This video got nothing to do with the post above. I am a data analytics professional since a while. When i say “I LOVE MY JOB”, I fucking mean it. Now a days i work as an contractual employee because of my ongoing PhD research scholar status. My work is my identity & it’s a matter of respect to me. DON’T QUIT YOUR JOB JUST BECAUSE YOU OWN YOUR HOUSE OR YOUR YOUTUBE ADSENSE REVENUE CROSSED 10-12K THIS MONTH. 20 minutes research about your location & 2 blogs on finance or food, that much work can make easy 10K dollars a month. That’s easy & not permanent. Quitting job has become a stupid trend now a days. The 170K salary this guy is talking about could have reached millions in a while, because data analytics is the booming industry of this century. It’s somewhat true that MONEY is not enough for personal happiness. But once you have a family, there’s no bigger form of happiness compared to fulfilling demands of your family. And MONEY becomes the biggest support cycle at that phase of life. May it be your passion, hobby or job, the only criteria of growth is HOW MUCH MONEY IT YIELDS!!)

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Tru2Day979

You will never get the truth out of a Narcissist.
The closest you will ever come is a story that either makes them the victim or the hero, but never the villain.

– Shannon L. Alder.

Tru2Day970

Most people are just INCONSISTENT, pretend to do lot many things without being serious about anything.
TRUSTING SOMEONE IS THE TOUGHEST PART.

And there are two reasons why we don’t TRUST people.
First: We don’t know them.
Second: We know them.

(This video got nothing to do with the post above. I heard about mincemeat oat cookies for the first time from this Scottish chef. I am a baker by heart, especially pizza & cheesecake are two of my biggest weaknesses.)

True me.. Tap-867..

How rare the trust is these days, how small the case looks like a strong bond based on openness and honesty, how small the chance seems to be a bit of loyalty and commitment?!?
Even smaller is the chance of a combination of the above, smaller and almost rare.

We all want it, in fact we all call it.
We claim to be loyal, to be open, to be honest,
but if we are all, how does distrust arise?
The disappointment?
The abuse of trust and the use of someone else?

Whether it’s love, friendship or family.
We all want the same thing.
We all want respect, trust, honesty, communication, openness and loyalty consistently.
Be aware of your choices, your actions and consequences before you harm a relationship, a relationship that is self-reliant today.
If you want them to be true to you, then stay true to yourself first. (Not my words).

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Eleven meaningful truths/lessons on life:

1. Average human life is relatively short.
2. You will only ever live the life you create for yourself.
3. Being busy doesn’t mean being productive.
4. Some kind of failure always occurs before success. And both success & failure can be equally amazing.
5. Actions without intentions are like walking without using legs, doesn’t make sense.
6. You don’t have to wait for an apology to forgive other people. There’s a tendency of CHEAP, it keeps getting CHEAPER with time.
7. Some people are simply the wrong match for you. Keep checking who’s coming for good time & who’s coming with good energy!!
8. It’s not other people’s job to LOVE you; it’s yours.
9. What you own is not who YOU are, it’s about how you purpose what you have.
10. Everything changes for the better.
11. Forever takes forever to build & behold. (Not my words).

Never regret being a good person to the wrong people.
Your behavior says everything about you,
and their behavior says enough about them.

– Marc & Angel.

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Some people think;
ADVENTURE is dangerous,
DISCIPLINE is brutal,
TRUTH is lethal,
LOVE is hard,
& LIFE isn’t moving.

These are all low-key narcissistic inconsistent personality traits which brings severe unhappiness to life.
And all you gotta do is; stay away from those who think like this.

ADVENTURE brings joy.
DISCIPLINE teaches you to be consistent.
TRUTH is core of basic human values.
LOVE is beautiful.
& LIFE is fun.

You have to carry this attitude forward in life.
Remain consistent with the way you are.
That helps you to be in sync with life.
Hangout with those who reflect & second your thoughts.
A happy person is not a person who’s always in a good situation, but rather a person who always has a good attitude in every situation.
VIBE WITH YOUR TRIBE.

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Few ways you can express how you feel towards someone;

1. I love you.
2. I need you.
3. I want you.
4. I want to be with you.
5. I don’t want to be without you.
6. I can’t live without you.
7. I miss you.

NEED, needs can be met somewhere else & being needy means being weak as well.
LOVE, this word is highly misused by people & especially someone like me needs a year to trust after a year of healing.
WANT is my favourite & number-3 is my pick out of all these 7.
WANT is that animalistic desire inside.
Which means i know i have few suitors/options, but who cares because it’s you and just you that i WANT for myself.
In case you love someone, remind them constantly & consistently that YOU WANT THEM.

Last time someone said “I WANT YOU” to me was on my birthday.
I haven’t replied that till now.
Never rushed towards anyone.
Never allowed anyone to rush towards me either.
The simple reason is;
“If someone is investing their time & energy on me, that person deserves a whole TAP”.
I am that kind of a person who hides nothing.
My only secrets are my bank account/credit card pin or my email/social media account passwords.
And right now, i am still in that phase of healing i mentioned above.

Whenever i say “LIONESS” in my posts, it’s my appreciation to that person who understands where i am coming from & why.
Appreciated for picking/dropping me at airport.
Appreciated for taking me out to my favourite brunch.
Appreciated for buying me a pair of white vans kicks after watching squid games.
Appreciated for helping me with carwash.
Appreciated for typing my thesis.
Very few people come with a clean heart & no stupid outlandish expectations.
So LIONESS, Like your favourite alphabet is T, my favourite word is “APPRECIATION”.
Rest all are a LEO-LEO thing i guess.😜
Every relationship of your life is a major investment of time & energy.
Take your sweet time, that says all about who’s who.

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People bring perceptions.
Even our media outlets, news channels & newspaper all try to portray a perception.
The same way your understanding is also a perception.
The problem with PERCEPTION is, it’s a mixture of truth, lies, nonsense, imaginary bullshit & fakefuckery.

What i want in life is TRUTH.
TRUTH always remains same.
There are no 2 sides to TRUTH.
The story of TRUTH never changes.
TRUTH’s approach, flow, guidance, information & assistance all are CONSISTENT.
If someone/something is TRUTHFUL,
the only proof is whether it’s CONSISTENT.
TRUTH IS CONSISTENT, ALWAYS.

(RIP Sir David Amess. Everytime there’s a knife attack or rape/drugs/abduction incident, either it’s a Pakistani or a Somalia based immigrant who’s the culprit in 90% cases. I am not just talking about UK, this happened in Germany before a month & couple of times in Montreal-Canada last year. And this thing called ISLAMIC EXTREMISM has no sign of stopping. Fuck that idea of religion which makes you kill someone in the name of GOD. There should be a definition for this term TERRORIST. Every motherfucker who owns an illegal weapon is a terrorist in my eyes & every person who supports them must be treated the same way. All Governments must come together to form a resolution that next time a terrorist is killed or captured, never mention he belongs to which country/religion/organization. Just mention, an INSECT was caught & killed. That’s it. Giving these assholes an identity is a major failure of our society.)

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Throughout the years I have learned three major things;

1. Sometimes bad things happen to good people and sometimes you might think you know someone, you might think they’re on your side but deep down inside they’re not. Pay attention. True intentions take you towards right action. Actions speak louder than words. And wrong people use words to cover up truth with lies.

2. Almost everything we go through we can’t control. That means, if it’s yours, then somewhere down the line it’ll return to you and if it’s not, then you have to make peace with it and move on, It’s as simple as that.

3. Letting go is never an easy thing to do. No matter how many times you’ve rehearsed it, no matter how many times you’ve played it in your head, it never goes as planned and almost always does it sting a little harder than you thought.

(Not my words).

AT THE END OF THE DAY IT’S NOT ABOUT WHAT YOU HAVE OR EVEN WHAT YOU’VE ACCOMPLISHED.
IT’S ABOUT WHO YOU’VE LIFTED UP, WHO YOU’VE MADE BETTER.
IT’S ABOUT WHAT YOU’VE GIVEN BACK.

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I am not a superhuman. I have walked the same life path as many others. Character, Truth, Consistent approach, Loyalty, Decency & Respect are way too expensive 2021. And this world is running on a discount sale right now, result is cheap people. Those who come at you will disappoint you one way or other, period.

Inconsistency was there.
Disrespect was there.
Misunderstandings were there.
Inappropriate behaviour was there.
Lies were there.
Cheating was there.
Unacceptable bullshits were playing catch catch.
Heartbreak was there.

Good part is; all were there in past past past, my present has nothing but a beautiful life that people can only dream about.
My lesson was: have EXPECTATIONS, but only from yourself.
Always be the better person. And make your intentions pure. What and who you are is what will be remembered. Pain is inevitable and it will always exist. But if you focus on understanding what you are and what you are feeling, and why you are feeling it, you will overcome it.

The expectations we have often do not correspond with reality, we are disappointed every time this happens.
We become disappointed when we expect to be treated as we treat others.
When you start to realize that everyone is living at a different stage, thinking differently and making their choices, then you can only accept the fact that people do not share the same mind and heart.
When you want to be happy you have to let go of that and start with yourself, be the person you can be proud of, be an example, show respect and understanding.
Others may not change, but know that it is not up to you and be proud of how you are.
You’ve got so much soul to be handled by someone who has never been passionate.
EXPECTATION IS TO BE A BETTER HUMAN FIRST.

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Most people think i hate liars because i write about predicative patterns of a person who’s lying. Actually i love liars. The best thing about a liar is; his/her estimation of hiding something to avoid lying about it. And the catch is; “when you lie about something, your voice says you are lying because there’s too much inconsistency. And when you hide about something, your behaviour speaks about it. Again the same reason because there’s too much inconsistency”.

A liar is predictable either ways. I love it because I just want to applaud that effort behind creating so much nonsensical garbage in head. People lose their value & that can never be restored. Once that mojo is lost, it’s just gonna give bitter taste afterwards. Karma has the cure for everyone, you will get served exactly what you offer.

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True me.. Tap-641..

Don’t worry about what people think of you or about the way they try to make you feel. If people want to see you as a good person, they will. If they want to see you as a bad person, absolutely nothing you do will stop them. Ironically, the more you try to show them your good intentions, the more reason you give them to knock you down if they are commited to misunderstanding you.

Keep your head up high and be confident in what you do. Be confident in your intentions and keep your eyes ahead instead of wasting your time on those who want to drag you back. Because you can’t change people’s views, you have to believe that true change for yourself comes from within you, not from anyone else. STAY TRUE TO YOURSELF & JUST YOURSELF, THAT’S ENOUGH.

(That post on 10-April was scheduled before a year. Don’t take it seriously, things change. That’s the reason i deleted it.)

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True me.. Tap-636..

The hardest part about wanting something real is trying to convince everybody you’re not crazy for feeling like you deserve it. But then you realize, you don’t have to prove anything to anybody.

All you have to do is…
Be patient enough to make it right. Be committed enough to make it strong. Be honest enough to make it last. Us genuine ones deserve something great, we deserve something authentic. And we reserve the right not to be impressed with the usual. It’s not about being too picky or having unrealistic expectations, it’s about knowing you’ve dealt with enough of the BS and you’ve earned the right to have a preference.



Stay true to you, even when nobody gets it. Trust your heart, even when you’re scared. Believe in love, even after you’ve been hurt. Things get better the minute we stop expecting them to be perfect. Timing is everything, so always remember: Some amazing things can happen when you mix patience with hope.


(Not my words)

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True me.. Tap-626..

8 THINGS LIFE TEACHES YOU WITH EXPERIENCE:

1. If you are unsatisfied with your situation, face the facts. You can either do something about it or accept it. Everything else is being a crybaby.

2. Starting is the hardest part, but even if you fail you’ll grow just from trying.

3. Judge people based on your interactions with them, not on what other people say.

4. Take responsibility for your mistakes. It is hard but people will respect you for being mature and honest.

5. When you want something, don’t settle for mediocrity. Give it your all.

6. Obsessing over the past is the worst way to waste your time.

7. Try to fix the problem before being pissed off at yourself. Sometimes it’s an easy mistake and you won’t have to kick yourself for making the mistake.

8. Make conversation with whoever you can and whenever you can. You can meet some interesting people.

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True me.. Tap-570..

How many of you struggle to say NO? If you’re one like that, you probably have the tendency to want to make other people happy even at your own expense. For most of us, saying NO is a real challenge. We humans are naturally caring. Our personality often makes us feel like it’s our job to take care of other people’s needs and saying NO can feel like a personal failure. In such moment, we are more than happy to make sacrifices for others. However once our energy drains with a sense of overwhelm, they lead us to regret.

First prioritize self care before thinking about other person’s wellbeing or pain. Keep things simple & real. Life is fun, let it be.

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True me.. Tap-568..

What makes people trust you? Less so than your true reliability or assets, warmth is a crucial factor in establishing trust. People are more open to trusting those who portray themselves warmly in a non-competitive and friendly truthful manner. This theory is known as stereotype content model. It suggests that people are more likely to judge people based on their warmth than anything else, even intelligence and financial status.

While knowledge and money can earn you respect, warmth will elicit trust. Earn trust with warmth.

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The biggest hurdle on your way to happiness is self-loathing. Self-loathing is very similar to insecurity. And if you experience it, know that you’re not alone. Almost everyone experiences some form of self-hate at one time or another. It’s the feeling you are not enough, unworthy or undeserving of the good things in life, like love and happiness. The truth is that, everyone deserves love and happiness. But we’re often taught the opposite. It may arise from a history of abuse, cultural or social messages or being excluded.

Bad relationships, failures and many other different experiences can lead you to believe that, there is something inherently wrong with you. Well, there isn’t and self-loathing will only bring you down even if you’ve made decisions that you’re not proud of. You can learn from your mistakes, hating yourself over them will not do you any good. Let go of your self-loathing. It’s a barrier to your happiness. And you do deserve to be happy.

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Every lie is a story which isn’t woven to reality, basically such stories never mean logic or sense because of a liar’s previous track record. People who follow a truthful life are different, such people portray their life with confidence. & Confident people don’t lie to themselves. They also don’t tell themselves things like; I’m too old, I’m not smart enough or I’m not attractive enough. They don’t hide behind denial or limiting beliefs that simply offer an excuse to remain stuck in the status quo. They are real with themselves even when the truth seems daunting. Live for yourself.

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Lying may be more common than you think. One study found that 40% of adults lie at least once in a day, usually in small ways. And even though some people lie more or less than others, a lie is a lie. So how do you navigate a world full of liars when you value honesty and integrity. Here are two major traits of genuinely honest people so you can decide whether you or someone in your life is truly a honest person:

1. They have a calm yet strong speaking voice. One of the easiest telltale signs of lying is an aggressive voice when you catch someone in a lie, they’ll often raise their voice in defense as a way to establish power. Honest people rarely become defensive when they’re asked questions, even if those questions seem accusatory in nature. When an honest person replies, their tone of voice is calm and consistent since there is no possible way they’ll be found out. They have nothing to worry about. There is no reason to lie or make up a story. There’s nothing to hide.

2. Honest people come across as rude sometimes. They are less concerned with catering to your feelings. They would rather tell you a truth that hurts then let you believe a lie that makes you feel good about yourself. They aren’t afraid to tell the truth, even if it means they’ll come across as rude or harsh. Because of this fact you might think an honest person is mean sometimes. If you’re not ready for the raw unadulterated truth, then don’t ask an honest person. They’re Not going to sugarcoat a situation or pretend that everything is OK. When it isn’t OK, they’ll present the facts and give their personal opinions even if it’s not what you want to hear. If you’ve ever received tough information from an honest person know that their intent is not malice, It’s HONESTY.

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Never badmouth others. No matter it’s in a professional or social setting, it’s not appropriate to badmouth people. You certainly will not earn any respect by doing this. If you’re unhappy with someone and what they’re doing, talk to them and work things out. Don’t talk behind their back. That’s the kind of behavior that attracts gossip and negativity. Not only does it reflect badly on you as a person. It also hurts the other party whether you realize that or not.

So be honest and transparent when you’re communicating with others. Always act as if the person you’re talking about is right there with you.

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There are liars, cheaters, thieves, criminals, Donald Trump & all sort of other deceptive people, all have one thing in common is their “LIE”. Basically all are different degree of LIARS. On the other hand there is also another set of equally lackluster group of folks known as “INCONSISTENT PEOPLE”. And i swear they are even more worse compared to LIARS. Liars are a turn off, but it takes a little time to catch their lies. But inconsistent people are way more prominent in their part of nonsense, you can catch their INCONSISTENCY very next moment. Another funny part, most LIARS are INCONSISTENT by nature.

My post was to make everyone aware of any INCONSISTENT person around. You don’t need to confront them, just get rid of them. Right people vibe & match your energy, then stick for a long run no matter what’s your taste or status!! Liars will never connect to this school of thought. Truth is trust. Be blunt to block any inconsistent person from life, that’s the best gift you can give yourself before 2020 is over. Still another month away, let’s end it on a good note.

Lifted from bestie bitch’s story.

(This paragraph has nothing to do with the post above. We are slowly but surely recovering from this pandemic. I wish/hope everyone is taking care of own health and happiness. Today i am not around family or my same set of friends that i have spent previous few amazing years, i am talking about geographical distance here. This is the time we used to share some warmth, have some nice sugery/greasy yummy food & create few good memories meanwhile. I didn’t host any kinda party this year because of COVID-19, that money was meant to be spent for my people. So many things didn’t go as planned. What breaks my heart is those people whose lives & livelihood got effected. Went to a nearby homeless shelter today asking whether i can donate some sweatshirts/jackets/blankets because it’s almost winter. They replied, there is enough winter clothes available except some winter woolen socks because they always run short. I bought socks for everyone in that homeless shelter & i wasn’t even able to spend the whole thanksgiving dinner money. Only message i wanted to share here; YES we all are going through a tough time. Do your tiny bit towards the needy even if you want to flex/share it in your instagram or YouTube. There is nothing wrong is spreading the right. HAPPY THANKSGIVING.)

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Excellence is not a gift but a skill that takes practice. We do not act right because we are excellent. In fact, we achieve excellence by acting rightly.

– Plato.

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Two things in life are really really important, “MEAN WHAT YOU SAY & SAY WHAT YOU MEAN”. Apart from these two, yes there is a fun humour element to life which completely depends on your personality. If you connect to what i am talking about, of course you know most people fuck it at the end somehow.

We all try to hide truth, feelings, certain incidents & tales of own faux pas. Back to those first two important things in life, very few understand it & follow it. Speaking your TRUTH is the most beautiful thing you can do with yourself. Or else there are already enough lame ducks around, never throw words at someone without packing some meaning to it.

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Your dreams are yours & you have to get it alone. Don’t expect people to be supportive, not even from your family. All you can do is talk about it & make sure there are few real truthful people in life who can say “YOU ARE WRONG” to your face. They are the ones who will drive your growth.

Our brain works mysterious and weird ways. While few ideas need a push, some need a burial as well. Learn how to move on from unnecessary ideas & fake people.

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Your truth, good habits, learnings, self-respect & self-esteem shape your character. And a weak character will always result in a weaker attitude towards life.

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Truthful people lift souls, that’s the reason you feel desired around them. On the other hand, every LIAR is a low-key narcissist who works only towards getting some instantaneous petty favor.

Once you spot/catch a liar, next step is a complete disconnection from that piece of shit. I talk about liars a lot, because i have worked my way out from everything/everyone that wasn’t serving my good. You too should do the same. Keep reminding yourself “We live life to vibe & grow”.

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I don’t mind leaving undeserving people behind out in cold. Whether you are a friend or anything to me, I focus/work on setting up a gold standard bond. Anything goes wrong, I will be the one who slipped away.

TRUTH haunts, name it “MISSING“.

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I have seen people romanticizing stability or commitment with their out of style ways which results nothing but shitloads of sadness & grief in return. (Even before anyone asks I am mentioning here OUT OF STYLE means redundant, repetitive patterns, or something which used to work a while back but now it’s poo-poo hit the fan. I know few who use the translation button below to read in their language.)

There are many suffering without money & there are some who have money but still suffering because lack of gratitude. Living a meaningful life is actually an IDEA which helps you see yourself under a positive light, Truth & Gratitude are first two steps.

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I know I am rude, ruthless, ambitious, enthusiastic, self-invested, truthful & desirable. I use & misuse every single word I mentioned. In my dictionary, there are no other emotions exist which can overpower TRUTH. You see LIAR written, you read & pronounce it as liar. I see/read/pronounce nothing but an INSECT in it, I said I am ruthless.

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When someone says “NO” to something I am talking about, for me that implies “I can’t achieve what I want till such naysayers exist in my life”.

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Some follow their passion & some follow their person.

Earlier one wins life. Later one may win little love if the other person is on same page, in 2020 chances are still thin to expect truth out of someone’s head/heart.

(Reading all my posts/thoughts one person gets little scared of me sometimes, Please don’t. I adore you my polish bum. Can’t expect/ask more from you. I took my long sweet time or still taking more, hella unsure with it. Because I am still very much in love with money, pizza & cheesecake.😜 You are making my new city’s excitement 2X & I am not even started yet. Muaaaaaaahhhhhhh.)

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I started following my TRUTH after breaking myself a hundred times. Can’t give up that part. What’s in my head or heart, that always reaches my mouth raw. TRUTH makes you a complete YOU.

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Anyone still asking “Why Tap & Demi aren’t dating?”.

Answer: Familiarity & Romantic equation both are two different things. In my eyes that LOVE takes effort in TRUTH, RESPECT, TRUST, COMMUNICATION, VULNERABILITY & DECISIVENESS. I can’t love someone without respect & I don’t give second chances. We are best friends, hopefully this will never change.

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Swapping breakfast pancakes with yorkshire pudding & honey peanut gravy for next 2 weeks. Gonna update you with how many pounds of weight I gained.

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If you want to know about my past before approaching, I have answer for you.

I don’t have any sort of LOVE story to serve your query. There are bunch of not-so-meaningful encounters or sex stories you can say. Yes I was wowed & about to fall for someone, escaped that thing at the right time. It’s good when mask falls off, you are left with only TRUTH.

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Valentines DAY.. How to!! FOR MY BROS..

Valentine’s Day is around the corner. Whether you wanna woo your boo, asking someone new out on a date or you are in a mood to get laid; take these tiny tips from your bro. A few lines of man-to-man talk.

1. Remove all deodorants from your closet today. Get a cologne/perfume, a good one looking at your budget (The best one I can suggest as it’s my all season good to go: DAVIDOFF COOL WATER). Before you meet her, a mild spray near back of your neck & earlobes. Don’t ask why!! Your girl deserves a well groomed person who values styling & smelling nice.

2. 4 days left for your date night, I mean 14th February night. Right after you wake up every single day from now, grind a big piece of ginger, add some warm water to it & drink it without thinking taste. Ginger is a natural thermogenic antioxidant & it helps to correct the amount of blood flow to overall body parts including your downstairs department. Now you know why.

3. Clean your bush & make sure to apply some extra virgin olive oil to stay away from unnecessary body odours. Get some nice boxer shorts as well.

4. Understand the importance of keeping it classy yet low-key while dressing up for special occasions. Wear a sleek wristwatch, dial not bigger than 42mm. Just for one day, ditch your sports shoes or Balenciaga Triple-S kinda moonwalkers.

This is a screenshot from my Instagram stories. I usually do this social service every year to some stupid friends.

Last tip: Own who you are for real. When you are talking to your partner or future-partner, make sure you lie/hide nothing. Be blunt about what you want from yourself & from the other side as well. A truthful person is hard to resist & people take no time to get intimidated. Tap OUT..💪👍

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Loyality is my royalty. Royal blood comes with some secrets, sacrifices & solitude. Surrender to TRUTH & enjoy the journey.

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You have to be honest & transparent about something you know a lot about. People smell bullshit from a mile away. Speak your TRUTH in a LOUD & entertaining way.

A tiny suggestion to those who have a mandate to build themselves as a BRAND.

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What goes around comes around!!

(This one is real. The pain/dishonesty/lies will get balanced like your love/efforts/Truth. Universe knows how to maintain it’s equilibrium in every aspect.)

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LIFE is EASY, so is LOVE. Pack Truth inside as your strength. Loyality is a royalty, it’s an awesome feeling. You deserve it.

Power COUPLE!!

People really get confused when they see these two words together “POWER COUPLE”.

It simply means, you see TRUTH, TRUST & CONFIDENCE in your partner’s eyes. Each time you are face to face, you scream at your partner without opening mouth “You are going nowhere this lifetime. Your address is my arms. I own you.” There is no longer a day where communication will struggle. There is no chance for misunderstandings. Each words spoken are TRUTH or a PROMISE. That’s when you are sure about your forever next.

While typing this I can add one thing; I don’t know where i stand in terms of a romantic relationship or LOVE kinda bullshit. I was/am never ready to enter a relationship. Did that mistake just once, failed. Not ready to allow anyone close without a huge time tested solid foundation.

Now I assure, I see TRUTH in someone. Request is; please never lose it. My heart is healed & I am back on track towards usual flamboyance. Thanks for succesfully keeping my both heads active. Yes, I am trying to make you weak. And shhhhhhhhh, I know how to make twins.😂😘

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Please don’t take shots if you aren’t single and i consider those single who have healed their heart from past mess while raising own standards. It takes few months to work on yourself. Don’t be a desperate moron.

People come with past baggages & bunch of lies. I can unmask you in a minute & you will regret that. My intuition & morals are way stronger compared to your loose trousers, I never mess with TRUTH.

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I am a small person in front of my TRUTH, slowly but surely somehow I am becoming as big as it is. A better me is tomorrow’s demand from myself.

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Don’t give a shit when people say something behind you, it’s their life full of misery which holds them in that same spot.

It’s your job to become expensive yet grounded. Evolve for the better with your TRUTH.

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My TRUTH is my criteria & boundary. I apologize for my part of mistakes & forgive you for your part. Enough of same repeating drama, I am done.

(Someday this will reach to whom it’s meant to be).

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I vibe LIFE!!😜

Ssshhhhhhhh. I am loving every bit of me. It’s all about the old, new, comfortable, confident, little wealthier, confidential, truthful, fit, horny, assholic, determined me & hell yes I am feeling every single day a productive day of my life.

Body goals do make a sense.

God gave me a face, I gave myself this body.💪

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If a relationship is bringing difficulty, please don’t continue it further. That’s bad Karma for both. A truthful heart can’t hurt the other one. And that’s how you LOVE someone for real.

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