Sometimes in life, you find a special friend. Someone who changes your life just by being a part of it. Someone who makes you laugh until you can’t stop. Someone who makes you believe that there really is goodness in the world. Someone who convinces you that there really is an unlocked door just waiting for you to open it. This is forever friendship.
When you’re down and the world seems dark and empty, your forever friend lifts you up in spirit and makes that dark and empty world suddenly seem bright and full. Your forever friend gets you through the hard times, the sad times and the confused times. If you turn and walk away, your forever friend follows. If you lose your way, your forever friend guides you and cheers you on. Your forever friend holds your hand and tells you that everything is going to be okay. And if you find such a friend, you feel happy and complete because you need not worry. You have a forever friend, and forever has no end. We say BEST FRIENDS.Not my words.
(This paragraph got nothing to do with the post above. DEMI, WE ARE BEST FRIENDS SINCE PAST 530 YEARS & THAT’S NOT CHANGING TILL 2070. Because you are you, you let me be me, still we find plenty of time to spoil each other, own each other and spam each other. I love it when my people grow stronger financially. CONGRATULATIONS TO YOUR NEXT CHAPTER.)
According to science, latest studies in neurobiology and psychology have come up with a theory called “3 LOVE” and according to that theory you are likely to fall in love three times in your lifetime. And only the third one is the love of your life. Let me explain;
First: PUPPY LOVE. It’s the first love that happens when you’re young. It’s the idealistic. Love that feels like a fairy tale, but it often ends over something silly and leaves you questioning whether it was love at all.
Second: HARD LOVE. This is the love where you love strongly and get hurt even stronger. It’s full of toxic cycles and drama betrayal and abuse. The Break-up is hard, but it builds you as a person. You focus on yourself. Now you know what you want and what you don’t want.
Third: THE TRUE LOVE. This comes blindly and creeps you. There is no warning. There’s no planning. You’ll find yourself caring about this person without even trying. They don’t look like your typical crush. But you get lost in them. You fall in love with the little things, it isn’t always easy but you want to build a life together. This is how, you know, when you’ve met the love of your life.
Those are not my words of course. Now the question is; “Do i believe in it?” My way of entertaining people is easy. I can’t trust anyone 100% except myself. People who stay consistent with their approach are just adorable to me. I already have 18-19 such amazing friends in my life. And i bet, “AS IF NOW LIFE IS FUN EVEN WITHOUT THAT LOVE”. But I can’t stop flexing my love for babies & puppies, i want at least 95 babies with my future wife. The more the better. Someday i would love to enter a relationship, get married with someone truthful, consistent & driven.
My bestie bitch once said; “never ever believe that person who says I LOVE YOU & I AM SORRY at the same time”. She said it not because i was going through some kinda heartbreak, but because she thought “I WAS SPOILED WITH UNNECESSARY ATTENTION”. This post is dedicated to Demi.
All i want to share today is something about generic relationship traits. I always push this idea about leading a “TRUTHFUL LIFE”. Loyal, Legal, Good, True, Beautiful, Gentle, Elegant, Law-abiding, Modest; not many people find these words cool enough. This is a world where people think “baby mama” sounds chic compared to a lawfully wedded wife. I am little old school in terms of visualising a togetherness. That’s the reason I just get bored of those who lie, cheat, hide shit or talk unnecessary trash. I see ton of young people waste their precious years of life stuck in their or other’s irrelevant nonsensical deceptive ways. Heartbreaks are not new, so are cheaters.
Build yourself to be a stable person before entering a relationship, then allow the strongest possible person in your eyes to accompany you. I am talking STRONG in terms of values, morals, mindset & YEAH MONEY TOO. We live in a world where everything has a cost associated to it, there is nothing wrong in being little materialistic. A relationship is not about settling down for someone. It must help you grow stronger physically, emotionally & financially as well. Let people take their sweet time to prove their worth. Exclusivity is earned. You are the most expensive person in your life. 😘ZK.
People really get confused when they see these two words together “POWER COUPLE”.
It simply means, you see TRUTH, TRUST & CONFIDENCE in your partner’s eyes. Each time you are face to face, you scream at your partner without opening mouth “You are going nowhere this lifetime. Your address is my arms. I own you.” There is no longer a day where communication will struggle. There is no chance for misunderstandings. Each words spoken are TRUTH or a PROMISE. That’s when you are sure about your forever next.
While typing this I can add one thing; I don’t know where i stand in terms of a romantic relationship or LOVE kinda bullshit. I was/am never ready to enter a relationship. Did that mistake just once, failed. Not ready to allow anyone close without a huge time tested solid foundation.
Now I assure, I see TRUTH in someone. Request is; please never lose it. My heart is healed & I am back on track towards usual flamboyance. Thanks for succesfully keeping my both heads active. Yes, I am trying to make you weak. And shhhhhhhhh, I know how to make twins.😂😘
How many of you have experienced a relationship where Day1 was amazing with tons of conversation or touches, Day2 became little more wild, Day3 was a shook shot, by Day30 you don’t know the reason why that fucker came to my life & by Day300 that thing is out of your life!!😂
Things which start quickly has nothing more to offer after a short period of time. You need to find a solid stable you before asking for a forever togetherness. Relationships form with building blocks of TIME, TRUTH & TRUST.
If it’s not forever, it’s not LOVE. That’s how I see LOVE. And relationships can be hatched without misusing that four letter word. In case you are coming towards me, I will test the hell out of you & make you prove your want/need/desire/love towards me a million times. Then maybe I will call it quits if it’s not making me feel that positive vibe of togetherness. Bad will work, lie will not. Be you.
Friends think I am a tough nut to crack. Actually I am the smoothest emotional wreck. You can touch my core in the tiniest possible moment. Tricky part: I can sense body language & voice modulation changes, bit psychic you can say. One lie & you fuck your chances to be with me. Do everything right or wrong, I will support you & let you own me easily once you follow your Truth.
My LOVE story will rise from TRUST & abundance. I will enter a relationship someday I feel that exact same vibe of a equal me, equal respect I mean.
Some friends think I am a tough nut to crack. Actually I am the smoothest emotional wreck. You can touch my core in few seconds. But one lie & you fuck your chances to be with me. Bad will work, lie will not.
If it’s not forever, it’s not LOVE. That’s how I see relationships. Love is when you surrender yourself completely with a smile to gain more Happiness in your life. Right now, yes I am happily hanging/banging around till I feel someone deserves to be my last person. Can’t TRUST & sell myself to someone easily. If you are approaching me, I will test the hell out of you & make you prove yourself a million times. Maybe I will call it quits, if it’s not making me feel that positive vibe of togetherness. My LOVE story will only spark TRUTH & abundance.
Sometimes I don’t need permissions, I own a pinch of you both. And I really feel happy when I see you as a couple. There are too less people on this planet like you, who can dare to say; “My first love is my last person & I am madly into her.” You are my man bro. Keep striving towards a happy life together.
Yes, I am single. Not looking for Love, but I will let it happen. Right now I am just moving forward with my life. Enjoying celebrations around my friends & new opportunities with finance and studies. Some dreams have grown bigger in my path. Learning to respect & love myself first. The foundation is TRUTH & TRUST. Open for positive vibes & I will only allow the one who can reflect the same. I know, I will enter a relationship someday & love will follow up. All sorted.
COMMUNICATION ➡️ CONNECTION ➡️ RELATIONSHIP ➡️ COMMITMENT ➡️ ENGAGEMENT ➡️ MARRIAGE. (Not Full stop).
OK, recently few of my friends got engaged & got married. Yesterday one got divorced after just one year of marriage. I am saying this to everything who’s planning something like this anywhere close towards taking it to next step.
The first line you saw with arrow emojis pointing one by one. Anytime you feel something is lacking, just take one step back & start from there. LOVE is in you, loving someone is definitely tough/tricky & beautiful. Going towards unknown territories is fun & can be hazardous. Still don’t stop walking. You always have better days coming, stay motivated.
Only COMMUNICATION is the key for everything. When that will fail, nothing else will workout. Not just LOVE but also LIFE. When you enter a relationship, you give the key to your heart & resort of happiness to someone else. No matter how hard you try to avoid or stay busy with something else, they occupy that best biggest space of your mind. That part of mind brings fulfillment, rest will either bring money or temporary happiness with unnecessary traumatic stress.
Stay true to yourself. Express love or gratitude whenever it’s needed, not like a duty but like a PLEASURE which is just meant for you. There is nothing called a perfect relationship. Don’t be a emotional wreck, Emotions can be manipulative, truth will always be true. To begin with all, start from a clean compassionate heart which can lead you to true happiness & a fulfilling togetherness.