Tag: time

True me.. Tap-1390..

To attract better,
you have to become better yourself.
You can’t do the same things and expect change.
You can’t blame anyone or anything.
It’s time to take responsibility for your reality.

Start transforming your mindset.
Start upgrading your habits.
Start being more positive.
Start being a true real version of yourself.

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Tru2Day1489

Progress also looks like:

• Giving yourself time to rest.
• Waiting for what you deserve.
• Not comparing your journey.
• Taking one step at a time.
• Learning something everyday.

True me.. Tap-1357..

Everything in life is either an investment of MONEY or TIME.

Use your money to
– Look better (grooming).
– Feel better (food choices).
– Make more money (invest).

Use your time to
– Look better (gym).
– Feel better (meditation).
– Make more money (skills).

Spend your time and money on things that will improve your quality of life.

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Tru2Day1389

If you don’t learn how to CONTROL your own emotions, they will learn how to take CONTROL OVER YOU.
You have to train your mind to be STRONGER than your feelings or else you’ll lose every single TIME.

True me.. Tap-1280..

QUIT YOUR LAME FUCKING EXCUSES.

Tired?
– Sleep earlier.
Out of shape?
– Exercise/workout.
Low energy?
– Eat healthier food.
No time?
– Stop watching TV.
No money?
– Get a second job/save/side hustle.
Too complicated?
– Start small and try first.
No knowledge?
– Grab a fucking book.

STEP UP YOUR GAME.

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True me.. Tap-1271..

You are allowed to fail.
You are allowed to start again from scratch.
You are allowed to change your mind.
You are allowed to try over and over again.
You are allowed to struggle.
No path is ever a perfectly straight line.
Your path will twist and turn in directions you never expected.
It will bring you unexpected highs and lows that make you stronger.

You don’t need to have it all figured out right now.
You will get where you are meant to go in time.

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True me.. Tap-1263..

It’s easy to look back and question decisions you have made in the past, but it’s unfair to punish yourself for them.
You can’t blame yourself for not knowing back then what you know now.
And the truth is you made each decision for a reason, based on how you were feeling at the time.

As we grow up we learn and we evolve.
Maybe the person you are now would have done things differently back then, or maybe you are the person you are now, because of the decisions you made back then.
Trust your journey, it’s all going to make sense soon.

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Tru2Day1359

I INVEST my time and energy where it feels right for me.
I CHOOSE to focus on experiences that are life sustaining, not life draining.

True me.. Tap-1250..

Someone graduated at 21, but waited 6 years to get a good job.
Someone had no eduaction, but was a millionaire at 21.

Someone got married at 20, but divorced 5 years later.
Someone got married at 30, but found everlasting love.

YOU’RE NOT LATE.
YOU’RE NOT EARLY.
YOU’RE ON TIME, ALWAYS.
KEEP THAT IN MIND.

(This video got nothing to do with the post above. When I find something informative & entertaining, I have to share it here. I am a big movie buff, and there’s reason why movies are getting darker. Watch it for fun.)

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Tru2Day1346

Whatever you do, please don’t waste your time comparing yourself to others.
There is enough room for us all to be beautiful, intelligent and successful in our own way.

Tru2Day1332

You need to fight your mind every time it tries to convince you that you are: not good enough, criticized, too serious, not interesting, not wanted, excluded, rejected, or laughed at.

– Martin Brown.

True me.. Tap-1231..

People pray for CAKE.
Sometimes GOD gives cake.
And sometimes GOD gives them butter, eggs, oil, icing, a pan & an oven.
Then they get frustrated and leave the kitchen.

Let that sink.
Sometimes you have everything right in front of you.
But HOW BAD do you want it?
Everything in life is about your goals & desires.
If you are not marching towards it, then who else will do that!?!
Time to fix yourself.

(This video got nothing to do with the post above. Sometimes it feels like the more people talk about it, the less it makes sense. At least UK is back to pre pandemic levels of growth.)

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True me.. Tap-1207..

Love your fucking life.
Take pictures of everything.
Tell people you love them.
Talk to random strangers.
Do things that you’re scared to do.
Fuck it, because so many of us die and no one remembers a thing we did.
Take your life and make it the best story in the world.

It’s your time to cherish yourself.
Don’t waste that shit.

(This video got nothing to do with the post above. One of my favourite songs, so I had to share it. RIP to Takeoff who was shot dead in Houston before 2 days.)

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Tru2Day1300

If you feel like others aren’t treating you with respect, check your price tag.
Maybe you subconsciously marked yourself down.
Because it’s YOU who tells others what you’re worth by showing them what you’re willing to accept for your time and attention.
Get off the clearance rack!

– Marcandangel.

True me.. Tap-1195..

Every good thing takes time.
You can’t rush things.
Growth is not linear, but a journey filled with challenges and opportunities to push to your destination.
No one can do it for you, it’s your journey.
And there will be days you’ll want to give up, but you can keep going.
There are no shortcuts to get there, so you have to embrace the process.

Think progress, not perfection.
Allow yourself to grow in the process.
Make room for failure too.
Just do your daily practice and cultivate a kind heart.
Bet on hard work.
Abandon impatience.
The results will come down when they’re ready.
Remember, consistent small steps are way better than just one big step with no further progress.

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Tru2Day1290

Forgive yourself for the bad decisions,
for the times you lacked understanding,
for the choices that hurt others and yourself,

Forgive yourself for being young and reckless.
These experiences are vital lessons.
And what matters most right now is your willingness to grow from them.

– Marcandangel.

True me.. Tap-1187..

AS I GOT OLDER, I REALIZED:

1. LOST MONEY can be found, but LOST TIME is lost forever.
2. LEARNING TO LEARN AND CHANGING YOURSELF IS A SUPERPOWER.
3. You are not your job, it’s more about your SKILLS, HABITS, LIFESTYLE CHOICES & DISCIPLINE.
4. Your happiness is your RESPONSIBILITY.
5. When it comes to POSITIVE ENERGY, LOVE & RESPECT; you get multiple times of what you give.
6. Any VICTIM MENTALITY INDIVIDUAL won’t stop working on you until they make you one VICTIM MENTALITY INDIVIDUAL, stay away from WOKE.
7. Your BEST TEACHER is your last mistake.
8. CONSISTENCY beats talent, and you have all resources within you be a SUCCESSFUL INDIVIDUAL.

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True me.. Tap-1179..

Use your money to;

– Look better (grooming).
– Feel better (food choices).
– Make more money (invest).

Use your time to;

– Look better (gym).
– Feel better (meditation).
– Make more money (skills).

Spend your time and money on things that will improve your quality of life.
(Not my words.)

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True me.. Tap-1170..

13 Reminders:

1. The past is in the past, focus on the future.
2. Opinions do not define reality.
3. Everyone’s journey is different.
4. Time is the essence of healing.
5. Judgement is a confession of character.
6. Overthinking will lead to paralysis/sadness.
7. Happiness is an inside job, found within.
8. Positive thoughts, create positive actions.
9. Smiles are contagious.
10. Sprinkle kindness, it’s free.
11. You only fail if you quit/do not try.
12. What goes around, comes around.
13. The quicker you choose to move forward, the quicker the suffering ends.

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Tru2Day1267

Invest in yourself:

– Meditate.
– Read.
– Eat healthy food.
– Drink water.
– Move your body.
– Spend time in nature.
– Rest up.

YOU ARE WORTHY.

True me.. Tap-1150..

I love the glow you get from MINDING YOUR OWN BUSINESS and LETTING GO OF NEGATIVITY.
You no longer waste your time and energy stressing out or worrying about things that don’t evolve you.
You start focusing your energy on getting better.
You start feeling better.
You start looking better.
You even start attracting better.
Everything changes.
EVERYTHING CHANGES FOR THE BETTER.

(If you are living in UK, watch this without getting panicked. I mentioned this in few 2019 blog posts about how UK is moving towards an EMERGING MARKET ECONOMY status like some third world developing nations. Now that we know Liz Truss is the new Prime Minister, watch this 6 minutes video for more.)

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True me.. Tap-1137..

You are allowed to fail.
You are allowed to start again from scratch.
You are allowed to change your mind.
You are allowed to try over and over again.
You are allowed to struggle.

No path is ever a perfectly straight line.
Your path will twist and turn in directions you never expected.
It will bring you unexpected highs and lows that make you stronger.
You do not need to have it all figured out right now.
Because my beautiful friend, you will get where you are meant to go in time.
(Not my words.)

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Tru2Day1237

As time goes on, you’ll understand;
What lasts, lasts,
What doesn’t, doesn’t.

Time solves most things.
And what time can’t solve, you have to solve yourself.

True me.. Tap-1131..

We live in a generation that romanticizes hustle, and moving forward as quickly as possible when it comes to careers and our success within them.
But there is no point in rushing quickly towards a life that will not inspire you or fulfill you.
It is okay to slow down.
It is okay to take the time you need.
You are in no rush to figure out your own soul.

It’s never too late to start over,
it’s never too late to change your mind,
it’s never too late to give up on the dreams you thought you wanted for ones that genuinely excite and challenge you.
It’s never too late.
It’s okay to take your time.

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Tru2Day1226

Whatever you do, please don’t waste your time comparing yourself to others.

There is enough room for us all to be beautiful, intelligent and successful in our own way.

Tru2Day1212

Whatever you do, please don’t waste your time comparing yourself to others.
There is enough room for us all to be beautiful, intelligent and successful in our own way.

STOP COMPARING YOURSELF TO OTHERS.

True me.. Tap-1105..

Life doesn’t end at 25.
Life doesn’t end at 30 or 40 either.
Life doesn’t end at 65.
It doesn’t matter how old you are.
It doesn’t matter when you decide to get your high school degree or start a family.
It doesn’t matter when you decide to go run a marathon or go travel the world.
Life is not made up by numbers, age is just a number, and your age is not all that you are.
You got time.
Life doesn’t end until it ends.

(This video got nothing to do with the post above. I am a big fan of entire Marvel Cinematic Universe. MCU phase-4 is amazing so far & Next phase-5 looks amazing. I had to share it.)

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Tru2Day1200

As time goes on, you’ll understand “what lasts, lasts; what doesn’t, doesn’t”.
Time solves most things.
And what time can’t solve, you have to solve yourself.

Tru2Day1198

As time goes on, you’ll understand “what lasts, lasts; what doesn’t, doesn’t”.
Time solves most things.
And what time can’t solve, you have to solve yourself.

Tru2Day1189

People always mistake SIMPLE with EASY.

For example; suppose you want a great body.
You just need to wake up early for a run, eat right, do push-ups, do pull-ups, do squats, sleep in time, done.
You have to do this every single day of your life.
That’s so SIMPLE.
But, how EASY is that, you have to answer me!?

SIMPLE isn’t EASY.

True me.. Tap-1073..

13 HEALTHY REMINDERS FOR A HAPPY YOU:

1. The past is in the past, focus on the future.
2. Opinions do not define reality.
3. Everyone’s journey is different.
4. Time is the essence of healing.
5. Judgement is a confession of character.
6. Overthinking will lead to paralysis/sadness.
7. Happiness is an inside job, found within.
8. Positive thoughts, create positive actions.
9. Smiles are contagious.
10. Sprinkle kindness, it’s free.
11. You only fail if you quit/do not try.
12. What goes around, comes around. Karma it is.
13. The quicker you choose to move forward, the quicker the suffering ends.

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Tru2Day1172

TIME must be used towards rightful ACTIONS backed by GOOD INTENTIONS.
ACTION means nothing without INTENTION.
TIME is not REFUNDABLE, use it with INTENTION.

True me.. Tap-1068..

Life doesn’t end at 25.
Life doesn’t end at 27 or 30 either.
Life doesn’t end at 35 or 45.
Life doesn’t end at 65.

It doesn’t matter how old you are, when you decide to get your high school degree or start a family.
It doesn’t matter when you decide to go run a marathon or go travel the world.

Life is not made up by numbers, age is, and your age is not all that you are.
You got time.
Life doesn’t end until it ends.

(This video got nothing to do with the post above. Shared it because i liked it, big fan of Key & Peele.)

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True me.. Tap-1066..

The real glow up isn’t proving the people from your past wrong.
It is finally feeling so content and hopeful about your future that you stop thinking about them entirely.
When you want to change your life in order for it to look different, and only that, you are still orbiting around the opinions of people who didn’t love you, and didn’t have any intention to.

A real glow up is authentic.
It is lifting off all the cover-up bullshit and addressing the real problems.
It is healing.
It is changing, for good.
It is, for the first time, prioritizing your heart over someone else’s eyes.
The real glow up is realizing that you have nobody to prove wrong but yourself. (Not my words.)

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True me.. Tap-1049..

A shark in a fish tank will grow 8 inches,
but in the ocean it will grow 8 ft or more.
The shark will never out grow its environment,
and the same is true about you.
Many times we’re around small thinking people,
so we don’t grow.
Change your environment and watch your growth.

(This video got nothing to do with the post above. Shared it because i found it funny. I also own a bit of crypto because a client paid me in Bitcoin, way back during my freelancing days. But this current crypto & NFT hype is legit bullshit on roll.)

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True me.. Tap-1038..

7 IMPORTANT LIFE LESSONS TO REMIND OURSELVES EVERY DAY:

1. Personality is not set in stone.
You are able to take control or change it the way you like.

2. Never leave your parents.
They are the reason you are here.

3. Never get confused to select between love and friendship.
Both have their respective parts to play.

4. When in anger, isolate yourself.
Give yourself some time.
Finally think about the situation again with a calm mind.

5. People say “Follow your heart”.
Not in every situation.
Instead “Listen to your heart. Act With Your Brain”.

6. Time heals almost everything.
Give some time and experience the change.

7. Thoughts control your Feelings.
Feelings control your Actions.
Actions control your Results.
POSITIVE THOUGHTS = POSITIVE RESULTS.
(Not my words.)

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True me.. Tap-1027..

TEN WAYS TO SHOW LOVE:

1. Give without expecting in return.
2. Trust without wavering.
3. Forgive without punishing.
4. Listen without interrupting.
5. Enjoy without complaint.
6. Answer without arguing.
7. Keep your promises.
8. Speak without accusing.
9. Be patient in all things.
10. Learn to let it go.

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True me.. Tap-998..

Listen to yourself.
If your gut feeling is telling you to distance yourself from certain people and get closer to those who have a positive aura to them, do it.
If your heart is telling you to travel,
change that job,
start this project,
spend more time in nature,
take a break,
read that book,
be with that specific person, just go for it.
Your higher self knows what’s best for you.
So please don’t ignore the messages.

BE YOU FEARLESSLY.

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True me.. Tap-996..

I know people who graduated college at 21, and didn’t get a salary job until they were 27.
I know people who graduated at 25 and already had a salary job.
I know people who have children and are single.
I know people who are married and had to wait 8-10 years to be parents.
I know people who are in a relationship and love someone else.
I know people who love each other and aren’t together.
There are people waiting to love and be loved.
My point is, everything in life happens according to our time, our clock.
You may look at your friends and some may seem to be ahead or behind you, but they’re not, they’re living according to the pace of their clock, so be patient.

You’re not falling behind, it’s just not your time.
(Not my words.)

(This video got nothing to do with the post above. I shared it just because i like this one. Very few will understand where this song is heading.)

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True me.. Tap-990..

You don’t just wake up someday and fall in love with yourself.
It takes time.
It takes patience but more than that it takes self compassion, empathy and kindness from yourself towards your own heart.
You have to be brave enough to forgive yourself for all the mistakes you have made and all the chances you didn’t take.
Like all the other forms of love, you will learn to love yourself by practicing SELF-LOVE.
-Dhiman.

(This video got nothing to do with the post above. I am a big fan of Key & Peele. Not recent, but this is one of the best.)

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True me.. Tap-975..

Sometimes we need tears to be able to access the deepest joy.
When times are hard, make sure you allow yourself to feel the sadness.
Let your tears fall knowing that they will surely pass and something wonderful is on its way to you.

If you’re sad, take some time to try and remember the joy that will undoubtedly follow.
Remember it’s always darkest before the dawn.

Weeping may endure for a night but joy cometh in the morning.
-PSALM 30:5.

(This video got nothing to do with the post above. Can’t say how appropriate is this song in such circumstances. But a light-hearted humour is welcome even during the darkest days. This song is both quirky & funny. Power to peace.)

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True me.. Tap-968..

Sometimes when things are really trying and painful all we can think is, why on earth do I have to go through this, why do I deserve this?
But there’s a better way to approach a trying moment in life.
Instead of resisting it, try surrendering to it and considering that there’s a reason it has been given to you and not somebody else.
If you are dealing with it, it is part of your journey.

The next time you go through a trying time, find the ways in which you can grow and learn instead of dwelling on your suffering.
I know it’s an experience that I need to have if God’s putting me through it.
(Not my words.)

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True me.. Tap-955..

There are many people who walk around with big egos feeling righteous and more entitled than others.
It doesn’t matter where you come from or who you think you are, we’re all human beings with beating hearts.
A lot of times people judge others and assume that they’re right, but you can’t just assume your point of view is right.
You have to be willing to see outside of yourself.
There are so many people in the world and if you’re only asking yourself for answers, then you’re living your life in a bubble.

Think twice before you feel like judging someone, put yourself in their shoes and remember they’re entitled to their own opinions and perspectives.
They see the world differently.

You don’t deserve a point of view if the only thing you see is you.
-PARAMORE.

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Tru2Day1052

A beautiful day begins with a beautiful mindset.
When you wake up, take a second to think about what a privilege it is to simply be alive and healthy.
The moment you start acting like life is a blessing, I assure you it will start to feel like one.
Time spent appreciating is time worth living.

True me.. Tap-915..

Most of our lives move at such an accelerated pace we don’t always have the time to stop and reflect on how far we’ve come.
We are usually too busy looking ahead.
But it’s so important to keep checking in with yourself.
We change all the time.
It’s easy to get caught up feeling dissatisfied with where you are when you don’t take the time to appreciate how far you’ve come.
You don’t have to be exactly where you want to be, but the fact that you are on your way is remarkable.
Good things and progress take time.

Make today all about celebrating how far you’ve come in your life since last year.
What is something you’ve changed in your life that you are proud of?
Remember how far you’ve come, not just how far you have to go.
You are not where you want to be, but neither are you where you used to be. (Not my words.)

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Tru2Day1012

Everyone knows that they’re not supposed to procrastinate but we all do it every now and again.
The more things you put off, the more will build up and you will just feel out of control and stressed.
Manage and prioritize your time and tasks.

Procrastination is like a credit card:
it’s a lot of fun until you get the bill.
-CHRISTOPHER PARKER.

True me.. Tap-905..

Your life will pass one way or another.
The events that will unfold are the events that will unfold.
You will meet amazing people who you are meant to.
You will find the opportunities you need.
You will desire what you want.
The choice is not what you experience, but how.
How is everything.
How is golden.
How closes doors and it opens them.
How creates something out of nothing.

It is not the years we live, but HOW we live them.
It is not who we cross paths with, but how we love them & appreciate them.
It is not what we are given or not, but how we take what’s in front of us and turn it into all we ever needed it to be.
It is how we experience life, day in and day out, in the quietest moments and biggest ways.
The HOW is the way.

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Tru2Day995

Education’s purpose is to replace an empty mind with an open one.

– Malcolm Forbes.

(This video got nothing to do with the post above. Big fan of Elon Musk & his opinions on shaping our world. In case you have enough time, try to watch full video. It’s pure fun & educational at the same time.)

Tru2Day992

Almost 2022.
It’s time to distance yourself from the people who let you down, the inconsistent ones.
It’s time to start loving yourself.

CONSISTENCY is the only sign of love & loyalty.

True me.. Tap-856..

There are some things that must happen because they must.
Things you can’t avoid, like growing up, failure, grieving, happiness, etc.
But when it comes down to it, life is really about people.
It’s about who you meet and who you don’t.
Who forgets you and who remembers.
Who soothes your bruises & helps you heal.
Who you run after and who chases you down the line.
It’s about who’s there when you feel alone and who’s not.
Who you could talk to and who makes it hard for you to be yourself.
That’s what’s important, PEOPLE.

The way they look into your eyes right before they’re gone and the way they smile right back at you when you return back home.
People, it’s always about people.
The ones who love you, protect you and the ones who are there for you when you need them most.
I hope you never forget that.
PEOPLE are precious, choose wisely.

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True me.. Tap-845..

HOW TO BECOME A BETTER YOU EVERY DAY:

1. Become more observant.
Notice everything that surrounds you.
The world is full of examples, ideas, words, wisdom, mistakes and experiences.

2. Collect ideas.
Ideas and thoughts tend to evaporate from your mind too fast.
Try to capture them before it is too late.
Ideally, write down or sketch every single one.

3. Read. Read a lot.
Reading is probably the best investment of time ever.
Devote at least 30 minutes per day to reading.
Ideally, have a book always with you.
If you aren’t interested to buy a book or Kindle, then watch any free documentary in YouTube which can help you learn something new.

4. Analyze your day.
Before going to bed, spend 10 minutes analyzing your day.
Consider what things you managed to do well and what mistakes you made.

5. Start writing.
The biggest value of a good writing skill is that it cultivates a discipline.
First of all, the discipline of thinking.
Your thoughts will cease to be random and chaotic.
They will gradually become systematic and structured instead.

We all made choices that maybe weren’t the best ones.
The beauty of being a HUMAN is hidden in the mistakes we made.
First accept yourself for everything wrong you did.
Because acceptance matters nothing if you aren’t honest.
None of us are completely innocent, but we get a fresh start everyday to be a better person than we were yesterday.
Learn to be a positive/better version of yourself with time.
Be you.

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True me.. Tap-836..

Life can be fulfilling at both 16 and also 60. 25 and 35.
Joy is timeless.
Learning how to make the most of where you are does not have an age cut-off or a deadline.
You will always be able to sit and wonder about things that could have gone differently.
But you can also trust:
you have not missed out on what was meant for you.

I know it’s hard to trust when so much is unknown,
so instead of trying to make sense of it all at once,
take it all color by color, tree by tree, scent by scent, take it one by one.
You don’t have to take it all in at once.
Take in the newness of it all one moment at a time without worrying about the moments to come.
Let that be enough.
Breathe deep and let this moment be enough.
Let this be a place where you find peace.

Remember the ground beneath your feet, you belong here.
No one has taken your place.
You are not too far from grace.
Your story might be unfolding differently than expected but that doesn’t mean it won’t be beautiful.
Where you are meant to be, you will be in time, no matter your age or stage of life.
Life is fun. Let it be.
Let it flourish at it’s own pace.

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True me.. Tap-834..

Be with someone who is invested in you.
I don’t mean someone who thinks you’re cute or funny.
I mean someone who wants to know every insignificant detail about you.

Someone who wants to read every word you write.
Someone who wants to hear every note of your favorite song,
and watch every scene of your favorite movie.
Someone who wants to find every scar upon your body,
and learn where each one came from.
Someone who communicates with both head & heart.
Someone who knows why you prefer black coffee & sourdough pizza.
Someone who wants to know your favorite brand of toothpaste & shower gel,
and which quotes resonate deep inside your bones when you hear them.

There is a difference between attraction, interest & the word i mentioned INVEST.
Find the person who wants to learn every aspect of who you are, and hold onto them.

Every relationship/equation/friendship in your life are an immense investment of consistent time & energy, never offer discounts on that.

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Tru2Day934

Writing is perhaps the greatest of human inventions,
binding together people who never knew each other,
citizens of distant epochs.
Books break the shackles of time.
A book is proof that humans are capable of magic.

-Carl Sagan.

True me.. Tap-833..

Recovery is a process no matter what it is you’re overcoming.
No one is better or greater for recovering faster.
It’s not a race.
You need to go at your own pace, even if that is pace is slow.
There will be days when you feel like giving up, don’t.
There will be days when you’re at risk of relapsing, don’t.
So long as you set your own pace and never go backward in your recovery, you’re making tremendous progress and that’s all that matters.
So be proud of what you’ve accomplished for yourself.

Don’t compare your recovery process to others.
Remember that each of us heals physically, mentally, and emotionally at the pace that’s right for ourselves.
Give yourself the time you need and deserve.

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Tru2Day932

Be disciplined about what you respond and react to.
Most people are inconsistent, that’s their comfort zone.
Not everyone or everything deserves your time, energy and attention.
Stay in your light. Vibe with your tribe.

True me.. Tap-826..

Few ways you can express how you feel towards someone;

1. I love you.
2. I need you.
3. I want you.
4. I want to be with you.
5. I don’t want to be without you.
6. I can’t live without you.
7. I miss you.

NEED, needs can be met somewhere else & being needy means being weak as well.
LOVE, this word is highly misused by people & especially someone like me needs a year to trust after a year of healing.
WANT is my favourite & number-3 is my pick out of all these 7.
WANT is that animalistic desire inside.
Which means i know i have few suitors/options, but who cares because it’s you and just you that i WANT for myself.
In case you love someone, remind them constantly & consistently that YOU WANT THEM.

Last time someone said “I WANT YOU” to me was on my birthday.
I haven’t replied that till now.
Never rushed towards anyone.
Never allowed anyone to rush towards me either.
The simple reason is;
“If someone is investing their time & energy on me, that person deserves a whole TAP”.
I am that kind of a person who hides nothing.
My only secrets are my bank account/credit card pin or my email/social media account passwords.
And right now, i am still in that phase of healing i mentioned above.

Whenever i say “LIONESS” in my posts, it’s my appreciation to that person who understands where i am coming from & why.
Appreciated for picking/dropping me at airport.
Appreciated for taking me out to my favourite brunch.
Appreciated for buying me a pair of white vans kicks after watching squid games.
Appreciated for helping me with carwash.
Appreciated for typing my thesis.
Very few people come with a clean heart & no stupid outlandish expectations.
So LIONESS, Like your favourite alphabet is T, my favourite word is “APPRECIATION”.
Rest all are a LEO-LEO thing i guess.😜
Every relationship of your life is a major investment of time & energy.
Take your sweet time, that says all about who’s who.

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Tru2Day920

It’s not about the words.
It’s not about the time.
It was never.
It’s always about the vibe.

Give yourself permission to walk away from every situation that brings BAD VIBES.

True me.. Tap-815..

Remember you are not promised tomorrow.
So how are you going to ensure that you crash your heart into your life?
How are you going to ensure that you leave this world, whenever it happens for you, with a soul that is tender and full and weathered in the best way?
With a soul that was never asked to make itself smaller, with a soul that was never waiting for the day it was skinnier, or prettier, or cooler, or more successful, in order to take advantage of the time it was given?

We cannot wait to be the people we have always dreamed of being.
We cannot wait for life to perfect itself.
There is no right time, there is no perfect circumstance.
We have to leap, even when our legs are shaking.
We have to show up for ourselves not in 3 months, or 5 years, or 10 years, but now.
In this moment.
Because every single day is a blessing.
Every single day is a gift.
Do not lose sight of that.

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True me.. Tap-814..

Mama once said;
“We don’t just entertain friends/relationships outta fun, we build them over time, we respect them & we keep them. That’s why never accept or serve discounted garbage”.

I was in my teen days.
I was still getting pocket money from parents.
I wasn’t able to understand those heavy/right words.
I thought my mum was talking about not buying discounted clothes/stuffs or wasting money with friends during weekend trips.
Most of my friends know i hate discounted clothes now too.
In fact, i don’t have a single piece of clothing from any fast fashion brands.

Coming closer to my 30, now i am understanding that she told me not to hangout with people who have discounted/cheap personality/approach/attitude/mindset, It took me almost 14 years to figure out the real meaning behind those wise words.
Being a MAN means progression of understanding, knowledge, acceptance & virtue while developing better habits.

(This video got nothing to do with the post above. Watch it to understand how your shopping habits are shaping a climate & humanitarian disaster. There’s a reason I never buy clothes from H&M, Zara, TK Maxx or any store/brand with 50% discount board. I buy clothes which cost at least a hundred quid or more, and i wear them for ages. They stay with me because, I know I have spent enough money to buy them. And i fully remember how much I paid, I have a photographic memory. Fun part is, I still have t-shirts, jackets, hoodies & sneakers from my 8th grade & engineering college days which fit perfectly even today. FYI, I am a sneakerhead & my love for watches is something divine.)

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True me.. Tap-809..

We always hear “Slow and steady wins the race”, and though I love this idea.
I actually love the idea of slowing down to savor the little moments in life even more.
Living in our fast-paced world today, it’s easy to get into a busy routine and sometimes we literally don’t have time to catch our breath.
Not only is this not healthy for our bodies and our stress levels, but it takes the joy out of whatever we’re doing.

I’ve found that time goes quickly, and if I don’t stop and slow down, I miss the little moments.
So whatever place you’re rushing to or goal you are rushing to get, remember to enjoy the process too, otherwise what’s the point?

When you start to get wrapped up in your busy life, pause, take ten deep breaths, and try meditating or doing something that calms you down.
STAY STRONG & STAY CONSISTENT WITH THE WAY YOU ARE. (Not my words).

Slow and steady enjoys the race.
-MIKE BAYER.

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True me.. Tap-803..

There are people who notice you only when you shine,
or when you fall into the darkness.
Not the average you.
Not the mediocre you.
But the great you, or the not-so-great you.
The people who are worthiest of your care are not those who only notice you at your best and worst but those who are with you at all times.
They don’t need an excuse to love you.
They don’t need an excuse to talk to you,
or to ask you how you’re doing!!
They don’t need an excuse to share their happiness with you.
They don’t need an explanation.
They give you one without you asking for it.
They assume the good in you before the bad.

So keep eyes open just so you don’t miss those people.
Such equations take long long time & trust to develop.
Once you find them, never let them go because those are not just friends but family members.
They’re life companions.
They are the people who will tell you when you are wrong simply because they’ve allowed themselves to tie their well-being to yours. (Not my words).
Vibe with people who are good for you.

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Tru2Day895

Time always exposes what you mean to someone.

(God works in mysterious ways. This is my favourite scene from movie The pursuit of happyness.)

True me.. Tap-758..

Date her who walks you till your car.
Date her who dares to steal your hoodie in front of your face.
Date her who wants to meet your parents, and is respectful towards them.
Date her who respects your siblings and family members.
Date her who’s kind to animals, its a reflection of how she’ll treat usual people.
Date her who makes you smile.
Date her who looks confident with or without makeup.
Date her who will listen to your complain or accomplishments.
Date her who doesn’t force you to do things you don’t want to.
Date her who will come hang out and cuddle just cause she can.
Date her who loves you through the good and the bad.
Date her who has seen you angry, happy, sad, and still feels for you.
Date her who has a hunger for SUCCESS & hunger for more beyond that.
Date her who actually utilises her time to the fullest, so that she can value your TIME.
Now you know you aren’t entertaining someone boring/sluggish.

Life can easily remain exciting happy happening even in a relationship if you are dealing with a stronger individual, stronger in finance & faith.

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True me.. Tap-752..

You deserve happiness.
I mean real happiness.
The kind of happiness that makes your heart fill with warmth.
And you deserve to feel what it feels like to be fulfilled.
To feel like the world isn’t against you.
To feel like you aren’t constantly treading water just to keep from drowning.
More than anything, you deserve to be okay.

And I know it’s hard to hear this,
especially when the world around isn’t doing great,
especially when you are so far away from loving yourself.
But I still want you to know,
“because one day, you are going to feel great again,
one day you are going to feel happy again”.
It’s just a matter of time.
Sometimes the best thing you can do is,
not think,
not wonder,
not imagine,
not obsess.
Just breathe, keep on doing you and have faith that everything will work out for the best.
TIME heals everything.

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True me.. Tap-735..

Don’t worry about what people think of you or about the way they try to make you feel.
If people want to see you as a good person, they will.
If they want to see you as a bad person, absolutely nothing you do will stop them.
Ironically, the more you try to show them your good intentions, the more reason you give them to knock you down, because they know they’ve got a part of you that will care about what they do.

Keep your head up high and be confident in what you do.
Be confident in your intentions and keep your eyes ahead instead of wasting your time on those who want to drag you back by not caring or by caring the wrong way.
Because you can’t change people’s views, you have to believe that true change for yourself comes from within you, not from anyone else.
At the end, it’s all about your understanding of own intentions & their importance in your life’s timeline.
TIME is non-refundable, use it with right intention.
You must believe, and you must have faith that time itself is much more able to prove your point than you are.
(Not my words).

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True me.. Tap-720..

THE TRUTH ABOUT MEETING SOMEONE AT WRONG TIME:

Timing is something that none of us can seem to get quite right with relationships. We meet the person of our dreams the month before they leave to go study abroad. We form an incredibly close friendship with an attractive person who is already taken. One relationship ends because our partner isn’t ready to get serious and another ends because they’re getting serious too soon.

It would be perfect, We moan to our friends. If only this were five years from now/eight years sooner/some indistinct time in the future where all our problems would take care of themselves. Timing seems to be the invariable third party in all of our relationships. And yet we never stop to consider why we let timing play such a drastic role in our lives. Timing is a bitch, yes. But it’s only a bitch if we let it be.

Here’s a simple truth that I think we all need to face up to: the people we meet at the wrong time are actually just the wrong people.
You never meet the right people at the wrong time because THE RIGHT PEOPLE ARE TIMELESS. The right people make you want to throw away the plans you originally had for one and follow it religiously.

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True me.. Tap-713..

That “perfect time” will never come, because time will never be just right bending to your ideals.
There will always be some form of adversity that you will be challenged with. And while the obstacle may feel like a sign that you shouldn’t start, know this: adversity comes with adventure and learning to overcome adversity is what sharpens you and prepares you for SUCCESS.

So take the challenge and face it head-on knowing that it’s yours to conquer. You are capable of great things.
YOU CAN’T ALWAYS WAIT FOR THE PERFECT TIME. SOMETIMES YOU HAVE TO DARE TO DO IT, BECAUSE LIFE IS TOO SHORT TO WONDER WHAT COULD HAVE BEEN.

THE TIME IS NOW.

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True me.. Tap-712..

When you plant seeds in the garden, you don’t dig them up everyday to see if they have sprouted yet. You simply water them and clear away the weeds. You know that the seed will grow in time.

Similarly, just do your daily practice and cultivate a kind heart. Abandon impatience and instead be content creating the causes for goodness; the results will come when they’re ready.
Allow yourself to grow.

This video got nothing to do with the post above. I watched F9, thanks to my bestie bitch. Next few lines are my review of this movie.
1. Avoid this nonsensical garbage, I think F9 is nail in the coffin to this franchise. And please don’t watch any movies in vue, my neck is still hurting.
2. Watch Hitman’s wife’s bodyguard instead. Salma Hayek swearing is a delight, the best thing to watch out even though it’s a Ryan Reynold’s movie.😂

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Sunday story time.. 01.

Since my childhood i am that odd one out kinda person in my family. My family is a mixture of different values/culture/faith/religion. And i always feel bored when someone talks about religion or God. It’s my middle school days i remember, one of my friends named Mohsin said “he is a true muslim, because he is praying 5 times a day & he is fasting during EID”. The same way another christinan friend said “he follows everything from easter, saint patrick’s day, thanksgiving, christmas to sunday mass because he is a believer in ONE TRUE CHURCH catholic values/teachings”. All such things were just foolish to my middle school brain. My middle school & high school days were all about playing chess, basketball, some video games, playing piano, little bit of painting, if i had too much free time i was teaching trigonometry & physics to few of my dumb friends. I never understood religion & God.

Let’s come to the main part of the story. My religion is Hindu. And both of my parents are full time employees & they are also bit too much into social service. So during my childhood i got plenty of time to spend with my grandparents.
Out of curiosity once i asked my grandpa;
“All my friends say something about their God or religion. Is there a process to be a true or good hindu?”
First he laughed at me for 2 minutes, then he replied;
“You become a good human, that’s good hindu”.
I again asked;
“Which specific God to pray & what’s the prayer i have to chant?”
He again laughed at me, then replied;
“There are literally 33 million Gods in our religion, even i am confused. Right now finish your homework & studies, eat all vegetables without being a pain to your mama, don’t watch TV for long time, sleep before 9pm, wake up early in the morning, these are all your duties/work at this age, after few years your work will become your identity. And your work is your best worship to your God.”
That’s all i was taught about religion. My grandpa died at the age of 97+. I still remember every single moment i spent around him.

Some friends question why i attend church service sometimes even though i am not a Christian!! The answer is; There was a church on my way to school. Father of that church used to give free teacakes to every kid after morning prayer. Sometimes i used to eat that teacake while going to school, and sometimes i used to give it to any homeless or disabled person near my street.
These tiny memories are still alive in me. I work & i make little more money than i can consume even after my share of savings+investment, i try to give it back to the society from where i earned. That’s why sometimes it’s a visit to any orphanage, community shelter/home & sometimes also it’s a sunday service. It’s not like I don’t believe in God, it’s more like “I DON’T BELIEVE IN DIFFERENT RELIGIONS HAVE DIFFERENT GODS”. If there’s a GOD, there’s only one who lives inside your goodness.

The gist of the story is; Do something good everyday or just do your work/duty in time, rest assured your GOD loves you.

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True me.. Tap-651..

When you plant seeds in the garden, you don’t dig them up every day to see if they have sprouted yet. You simply water them and clear away the weeds- you know that the seeds will grow in time.

Similarly, just do your daily practice and cultivate a kind heart. Abandon impatience and instead be content creating the causes for goodness; the results will come when they’re ready.
(Not my words).

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True me.. Tap-636..

The hardest part about wanting something real is trying to convince everybody you’re not crazy for feeling like you deserve it. But then you realize, you don’t have to prove anything to anybody.

All you have to do is…
Be patient enough to make it right. Be committed enough to make it strong. Be honest enough to make it last. Us genuine ones deserve something great, we deserve something authentic. And we reserve the right not to be impressed with the usual. It’s not about being too picky or having unrealistic expectations, it’s about knowing you’ve dealt with enough of the BS and you’ve earned the right to have a preference.



Stay true to you, even when nobody gets it. Trust your heart, even when you’re scared. Believe in love, even after you’ve been hurt. Things get better the minute we stop expecting them to be perfect. Timing is everything, so always remember: Some amazing things can happen when you mix patience with hope.


(Not my words)

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True me.. Tap-631..

If there is ever a day when you feel tired of saying good for them and you are wondering when things will be good for you, take heart with great hope, and consider all the things this season of growing will lead into. Like an ocean that awaits many miles way, you may not be there yet, but you are surely on your way.

So take your time while you are journeying, travel light, be safe. For there will come a time when you finally arrive on those shores and you will be so glad you did not settle. You will be so glad you did not give up. You will be so glad you did not sync yourself to someone else’s pace and chose instead to anchor yourself in the steady rhythm of grace. And after everything you went through, you arrived where you needed to be on time, and everything will be fine. Not perfect, but fine. For every beautiful thing will happen in its TIME.

(NOT MY WORDS)

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True me.. Tap-619..

Working towards creating a life with certain set of disciplines, some are there & some are on it’s way. Let’s stay optimistic. This post is more of a reminder & checklist for myself.

(Someone shared this video in university group. I wanted to share it because it teaches a lot about how/why slow & steady growth must be our priority).

1. Do one thing at a time & work towards it till it reaches it’s optimum level of success.

2. Go slow and do it deliberately.

3. Develop rituals towards a holistic living.

4. Designate time for certain things.

5. Learn to smile and serve others.

6. Make cleaning and cooking my kind of meditation.

7. Workout everyday & eat right. (Not because i love my abs, but because LOOKING LIKE THE BEST VERSION of myself is my priority for a happy confident look on my face).

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True me.. Tap-587..

Stop lying yourself about “I don’t have the time”. Thinking you don’t have time prevents you from taking Chances. It allows you to put the important stuff off until you really don’t have time. If something is important to you, you should try to make time for it.

Just changing the way you think about things is beneficial. Merely thinking about something important that’s worth spending time on can encourage you to actually get it done.

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Tru2Day665

My key to HAPPINESS; neither it’s a secret nor it’s a rocket science. I either keep myself productive or keep myself entertained, not a single minute left unused. Apart from these two, everything else is a waste of time in my eyes.

True me.. Tap-524..

One thing which distinguishes every confident person from random crowd while we discuss SUCCESS: They don’t focus on weaknesses.

Most people think it’s worthwhile to put more time into strengthening their weaknesses those with confidence. However, understand that success comes with continuing to improve upon your strength. They are able to accept their own weaknesses gracefully and put more time and effort into endeavors where they know they’ll have more likelihood of success. A confident person maximizes his time and energy every way possible.

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True me.. Tap-230..

At a certain phase of life we get habituated to one person’s goodness for a long long time, that’s LOVE. Now whom you wanna get habituated to, that CHOICE makes a huge difference.

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True me.. Tap-227..

If you feel you need loads of time to accomplish a dream, focus on making it happen instead of giving up. Time will pass either ways.

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