Relationships between family, friends, significant others, and colleagues are complicated and full of learning experiences. Nobody comes into this world knowing everything. We all go through different experiences, make mistakes, have successes, and then make more mistakes that we can learn from. The ability to trust and listen to the people in your life is the foundation all healthy relationships are built on.
While talking to friends, make sure you are really listening to what they have to say and aren’t distracted by something else. You owe that to them and you would want the same in return. Trust is a bond between two people that is found only when they are able to listen and understand where the other person is coming from. That to me is the only key to friendships and relationships.
When you wake up each morning, take a moment to think about the kind of life you want to have.
Consistently consciously choose to have a happy life: one that is filled with love, laughter, good health and success.
Then begin your day focused on the things you can do to make this your reality.
A happy life is a CHOICE, choose it wisely.
(This video got nothing to do with the post above. Watch it & please understand the importance of general knowledge & basic day to day information. Just checking your Google feeds may help you escape embarassing situations. I mean, look at these fools.)
One of my favourite feelings is laughing with someone and realizing half way trough how much you enjoy them and their existence.
Things are expected of you of your whole life, you are expected to make career, that you score well and have achieved a certain status. But life is not about status and work. These are extras.
What matters is that you can develop as a person. That you simply learn, discover and enjoy your journey. So instead of worrying about the numbers and status, you have to enjoy the journey and the small moments that can mean so much more.
I don’t want to be around people anymore that judge or talk about what people do. I want to be around people that do things. I want to be around people who believe in slow & steady progress. I want to be with people who gradually grow a rich character and a bank account. I want to be around people who remain consistent with their words, approach, intentions & journey of life. I want to be around people that dream and support and do things.
Supportive people bond long-term with growth mindset. Oppertunist comes to score petty short-term goals, it takes time but you will get rid of them today or tomorrow. (Not my words.)
It’s so easy to get caught up in wanting success, wealth, and fame. If that’s the kind of recognition you seek in life, it won’t last because it’s not authentic. We are here to be of service, to be of value, and to help others in our own unique ways. Success doesn’t define who we are. But it’s a reminder of what we can achieve.
Think about what matters to you and make sure you are doing things for the right reasons and not to please your ego. Make sure your intentions are healthy for you.
Strive not to be a SUCCESS, but rather to be of VALUE. (Not my words).
(This video got nothing to do with the post above. Do i believe 80% crash coming? Answer is: NO. Not for me. But the markets which are gonna crash soon or sooner are commodities, real estate & mortgage/banking. If your investments are in Automobile, pharma & retail sector, you can just chill because these industries have already seen enough downfall recently, now the only way is up.)
1. Average human life is relatively short. 2. You will only ever live the life you create for yourself. 3. Being busy doesn’t mean being productive. 4. Some kind of failure always occurs before success. And both success & failure can be equally amazing. 5. Actions without intentions are like walking without using legs, doesn’t make sense. 6. You don’t have to wait for an apology to forgive other people. There’s a tendency of CHEAP, it keeps getting CHEAPER with time. 7. Some people are simply the wrong match for you. Keep checking who’s coming for good time & who’s coming with good energy!! 8. It’s not other people’s job to LOVE you; it’s yours. 9. What you own is not who YOU are, it’s about how you purpose what you have. 10. Everything changes for the better. 11. Forever takes forever to build & behold. (Not my words).
Never regret being a good person to the wrong people. Your behavior says everything about you, and their behavior says enough about them.
A high school teacher once said; “Being close & open to your opposite sex is important, you become more transparent, there’s no insecurities which makes you more confident. Later that also helps you build better relationship/friendships”. I took those words bit too seriously i guess. Even though my name is bit spoiled with university girls, I haven’t dated many in my almost close to 30 life. Actually i never missed dating someone. Being an extrovert & a LEO, I always had/have options to choose with whom i want to hangout/party/travel/workout/get cozy/watch Netflix/movie night/go hiking or shopping.
Now back to the story/confession/realisation, here it goes: Way back when I was getting over a breakup, I used to spend most of my night filled with anger & a boyish temper. I didn’t realize it back then, I had so much to achieve in my life & such negative feelings weren’t helping. I wondered why she was able to get over faster than I was. Later I realised, it’s because I was spending so much time hating that situation rather than getting over it.
Anyone from my university friends scratching their head which breakup i am talking about; it’s my bestfriend DEMI. We are bestfriends since 7th century, but we have a mad crazy past. We dated for a very short period of time, I wasn’t ready for a COMMITMENT & i literally thought we were just fooling around. Fault was mine. I said YES to 4 girls for prom night & 2 out of those 4 were our seniors. I was expecting DEMI will be cool with it. To fight back & make me jealous, DEMI went on a date with one of my friends named Ivan. Being a loyal bro, Ivan asked my permission whether he is allowed to take DEMI out for a full monty brunch. DEMI didn’t like her date. She wanted to patch what fell apart in between us, but i was more focused with my studies & part-time job. I didn’t care much because i am the kinda guy who’s happy when my bank account grows, my life is more about my growth rather than allowing someone to mess with my piece of peace. Let’s say, I am a happy man because i am married to my bank account.
It became a runner/chaser situation for a week. Sad to say, i was the runner. One saturday evening it was snowing really bad. It was a lightbulb moment for me, I invited DEMI to try my homemade sourdough pizza. It wasn’t tasty like store-bought pizza, but we both ate it with pin drop silence. That was my first try with sourdough fermentation. Next day DEMI came to my apartment early morning, we followed another recipe from some website & we baked that pizza perfectly. We both were upset about each other’s behaviour. An amazing conversation after a good pizza helped us heal. We both got the closure & clarity we needed.
Coming back to this current day called TODAY, the only person who still sits on my lap is DEMI. I can ask her for a head & back massage anytime i want. We go on long drives. It’s a weddings/royal dinner invitations/travelling to some islands during weekends, we are each other’s +1 partner. If weather is not ok, we make it better by cuddling/spooning each other. 3-4 times she suggested whether we can date again! And as usual, I am not ready for dating experiments. But we already have an amazing equation, i don’t want to destroy that by allowing some romantic melodrama. We have a verbal agreement, there’s a sweet punishment if we miss each other’s phonecall or facetime. Last time i missed DEMI’s call when i was attending a university seminar, i had to send a butt naked snapchat streak to all my 186 friends as punishment. Our communication is flawless. The truth is, it took us a long time to build the amazing equation we share & i am not strong enough to hurt her. If i know someone who is TRUTHFUL & CONSISTENT so far in my life, it’s DEMI. Now there’s nothing except RESPECT & ADMIRATION towards each other.
Takeaway: Whatever struggle you are facing in your life, make sure you are not poisoning yourself with anger when you could be giving yourself love. When you are filled with anger or hate, the only person that suffers is you because most of the people you hate don’t know it and the rest don’t care. Fill yourself with SELF-LOVE & SUCCESS before you are in search of LOVE.
PART OF BEING A MAN IS LEARNING TO TAKE RESPONSIBILITY FOR YOUR SUCCESSES AND FOR YOUR FAILURES. YOU CAN’T GO BLAMING OTHERS OR BEING JEALOUS. SEEING SOMEBODY ELSE’S SUCCESS AS YOUR FAILURE IS A CANCEROUS WAY TO LIVE.
If only people understood how important it is to be consistent. Everything that has value in life is a product of consistency. Success, health, fitness, wealth, friendships, relationships, and all other aspirations are all about CONSISTENCY.
We assume success is about being famous, rich and owning expensive things. But if you’ve pulled yourself out of a dark place, that’s a great success in itself. Don’t forget that you’re winning each day you don’t give up and you make it through to the next.
Did you know that you’re achieving great things every day? It probably doesn’t seem like it if you’re always looking ahead to the next thing. Nevertheless, many of the things you’ve achieved today are things you dreamed about in the past. You just don’t notice them in the moment they happen. Or they pass you by too quickly.
Although we shouldn’t get so comfortable with our achievements that we become complacent and stop moving forwards, we should make time to celebrate them. Otherwise you’ll look back on your life and think you didn’t do anything significant. But if this were true, your life would always have remained the same. Celebrate your achievements, even though they are little.
Be strong, be kind, be free. Do things that make you proud of yourself. Surround yourself with people who bring out your best qualities. And distance yourself from the people who do the opposite. Hangout with people who are ready to exchange knowledge with enough understanding about what they are saying & why. For example; Don’t just follow someone’s words because they said “Investing in stock market/real estate/crypto will make you money/rich”. 95% of these people don’t even know how to multiply 12*13 without a calculator. Do you really think such dumbfucks can advice anyone on finance? Forget finance, if someone is saying something without knowing enough about it, that person is a complete fake nut. Stay away from such morons. Fun story: Most people who invest in bitcoin think it’s more like a virtual currency, but hardly few know it was designed as a medium of transaction. It’s more like Western Union Money Transfer.
Be true, true to yourself and true to your morals. Stand up for yourself. Don’t let people take advantage of your kindness and soft heart. Don’t take shit from anyone, and don’t put yourself down. Believe in yourself and believe in your journey. Be good to yourself. Be unapologetically you. Embrace your imperfections. Accept the fact that when you grow, sometimes you lose people and that’s okay. Celebrate your every success and learn from failure. Learn to accept that, first you have to learn a lot about anything & everything before jumping in. And most importantly, never ever let anything stand in the way of the person you are becoming. BE A TRUE YOU. (Not my words).
You’re going to realize it one day that “HAPPINESS” was never about your job, or your degree, or being in a relationship. Happiness was never about following in the footsteps of all of those who came before you. It was never about being like the others. One day, you’re going to see it that HAPPINESS was always about the discovery, the hope, the listening to your heart and following it wherever it chose to go. Happiness was always about being kinder to yourself. It was always about embracing the person you were becoming while being consistent about your approach towards yourself & others. One day, you will understand that happiness was always about learning how to live with yourself, that happiness was never in the hands of other people. It was always about you. It was always inside you.
Inner peace is the new success. Health is the new wealth. Kindness is the new cool. Happiness is the new rich. (Not my words).
A sense of humour. A taste for adventure. A healthy glow. Openness. Kindness. Confidence. Humility. Humble behaviour. Truthful communication. Appetite for success. Hunger to learn. Intuition. Smartass comebacks. Presence. And a consistent approach with every word you just read.
Because you can fake something only for a timeframe. If it’s true, it’s consistent. And consistent has no time limit.
Date her who walks you till your car. Date her who dares to steal your hoodie in front of your face. Date her who wants to meet your parents, and is respectful towards them. Date her who respects your siblings and family members. Date her who’s kind to animals, its a reflection of how she’ll treat usual people. Date her who makes you smile. Date her who looks confident with or without makeup. Date her who will listen to your complain or accomplishments. Date her who doesn’t force you to do things you don’t want to. Date her who will come hang out and cuddle just cause she can. Date her who loves you through the good and the bad. Date her who has seen you angry, happy, sad, and still feels for you. Date her who has a hunger for SUCCESS & hunger for more beyond that. Date her who actually utilises her time to the fullest, so that she can value your TIME. Now you know you aren’t entertaining someone boring/sluggish.
Life can easily remain exciting happy happening even in a relationship if you are dealing with a stronger individual, stronger in finance & faith.
Suddenly social media has created so many experts who brag about their success stories. Most of these only talk about their success. Half of these dumbfucks have little to nothing success in their field, rest half are just scammers.
Genuine people who made it big will never sell their recipe to success. Because it’s personal. My journey with my relationships, friendships, religion, finance & career, all are personal to me. I may give tips to my son one day, but why will i tell some random person to follow my steps & make it happen, if i already made it so far walking on my own!!? Nobody helped me become what i wanted to be. The journey wasn’t smooth sailing. And i also know nobody will put similar effort to be where i am.
Ask Elon Musk how he got into Tesla without founding it & how it’s the world’s highest valued automobile manufacturing company in stock market while making only 0.13% of cars in this world!!? Will he ever tell you in a while how that happened? It’s consistent rigorous efforts of time & discipline, that’s paying off right now.
Stop selling success stories. Now we live in a world where people first need to know what they shouldn’t do. I want more people to talk about setbacks. Failures & struggles are fun too. I don’t know why people avoid that part! If you can’t enjoy the struggle, you don’t deserve the SUCCESS.
Stop discounting your successes. Start affirming them instead. Don’t say “Oh, it’s nothing” or “Everyone could do that”. Treat and talk to yourself as you would to a good friend.
Develop a positive attitude and choose to get your mind off the negatives. For example, write down three things that went well each day, and three separate things that you are thankful for.
Work on your appearance. Make an effort to look good, that doesn’t always have to cost the earth. Wear bold colour bottom & light colour t-shirt/shirt/top. Invest your little time in personal hygiene & skincare. Understand the importance of a nice perfume. Eat clean & workout frequently. You know the drill. That’s gonna make you feel much more happier and confident.
Don’t be a doormat or just follow the crowd. Think about your needs and what you want from life.
Be willing to take risks or calculated risks for god’s sake. If you don’t take a risk, then nothing’s going to change. And you’ll be stuck in a rut going nowhere in life.
The secret to self-confidence isn’t to stop caring what people think, it’s to start caring about what you think. It’s to make your opinion of you more important than anyone else’s. Confidence makes us beautiful and it comes from accepting yourself. The moment you accept yourself, it makes everything better.
That “perfect time” will never come, because time will never be just right bending to your ideals. There will always be some form of adversity that you will be challenged with. And while the obstacle may feel like a sign that you shouldn’t start, know this: adversity comes with adventure and learning to overcome adversity is what sharpens you and prepares you for SUCCESS.
So take the challenge and face it head-on knowing that it’s yours to conquer. You are capable of great things. YOU CAN’T ALWAYS WAIT FOR THE PERFECT TIME. SOMETIMES YOU HAVE TO DARE TO DO IT, BECAUSE LIFE IS TOO SHORT TO WONDER WHAT COULD HAVE BEEN.
Replace Netflix marathons with a healthy sleep. Replace fake influencers with inspiring creators. Replace toxic freinds with mentors. Replace complaining with gratitude. Replace blame with responsibility. Replace alcohol with water. Replace overthinking with action.
Stop wishing for success, it is already hidden within your soul. Look around you. Look at the trees that stand tall in the forest, see how they thrive. Look at the caterpillars that roam the earth, see how they transform into magnificent butterflies. Look at the world around you, see how it flourished.
Everything in nature expands, grows, and blossoms in due season-experiencing the success that it was created for. Nothing in nature fails, all of creation was designed to succeed.
In the same way, you are made to succeed. DEVELOP WHAT YOU HAVE IN YOU.
If we want to see SUCCESS in our lives, we must intentionally work towards what we’re purposed to do. We cannot get distracted by anything outside of our purpose or compromise our creativity, vision, or convictions because we believe that we’ll obtain more success or get more recognition or praise through our change in direction.
It doesn’t work like that. Because, success is connected to purpose- not trends of popularity. One of the definitions of success is “the accomplishment of one’s goals”. We have to keep OUR GOALS in front of us, not someone else’s.
So, stay on track. believe in yourself and your purpose. trust that as you stay faithful to what you know you ought to be doing, you will experience astronomical success that will leave you with a sense of fulfillment and will impact the world around you. (Not my words) YOUR SUCCESS IS CONNECTED TO YOUR TO PURPOSE.
I don’t know why nobody teaches this in business schools. When you have an entrepreneurial mindset, you must have to be good with your communication skills with almost every kinda people irrespective of their class, qualification, occupation or age. When you are on the right track towards your success & goals, never miss this tiny advice.
YOU HAVE TO BUILD GOOD RELATIONSHIPS WITH: 1. Accountants. 2. Lawyers & Tax Advisors. 3. Product development specialists. 4. Engineers & Architects. 5. Marketing Experts. 6. Graphic Designers & Web Developers. 7. Fitness/Mental Health Coaches.
Your contacts are worth more than real Money. The group of people you hangout with talks a lot about your personality.
If you are clear about your goals and take several steps in the right direction everyday, eventually you will succeed. So decide what it is you want, write it down, review it constantly, and each day do something that moves you toward those goals.
MONEY; doesn’t matter you like this word or not, it’s a vital part of our life. Planning a happy life without MONEY is like fooling around with yourself. MONEY is directly linked to our happiness because of certain basic human instincts. Every change in life also brings some lifestyle changes which requires more money to afford a stable life further.
Question is; “Is just MONEY enough to be HAPPY?”. Answer is; No. We need money, but we also want a sassy relationship, a stable career, a strong family bond, some reliable friends & you have to pack ton of gratitude in your heart. Creating a successful life takes lots of time & energy, MONEY is an amazing accelerator here.
Before all you have to tell yourself “MONEY IS A MAJOR DRIVER/ENABLER OF HAPPINESS”. Valuing MONEY doesn’t mean being materialistic, MONEY must be spent the right way or on moments/experiences/investments which will help you create memories while generating happiness”. See the video by CNBC MAKE IT below to understand what i am talking about.
(This post is for the people who have the desire & dedication to achieve goals/success in life with a purpose. Not talking to the ones who already know they can’t reach this level of financial stability. A soldier who already dropped weapon is of no one’s use.)
I am yet to reach 30s & i can say one thing from my observation & experience; “People who aren’t successful/happy with their life, always find reasons to justify their lie/cheat/nonsense/inconsistency every single time with the easiest predictable way”.
Now why i focus on these two words “SUCCESS” & “HAPPINESS” in most of my posts? My answer is; A successful person is more focused on his success rather than rest garbage of life. I am saying it for a relationship as well. Even research studies show successful people hardly cheat in a relationship because they have better things to achieve in life.
So what goes wrong here; when you aren’t happy with yourself or when you aren’t successful in your career/finance/your own goals/dreams, even you don’t know what HAPPINESS means to you. You swing every possible way without next thought in search of that happiness to every wrong place. Nobody can bring happiness to your life. We humans are engineered to like predictable things, i mean a predictable tomorrow with what’s gonna happen, what lifestyle we gonna enjoy, what house we gonna live, what will be our next vacation, what will be our next vehicle, all such things. In modern world most dream big, but sadly it’s daydreaming. Big dreams bring sadness when you see them fading away. It’s your responsibility to sort out your own life first.
Find your peace within yourself. Find your happiness within yourself. Find what “SUCCESS” means to you within yourself. A stable YOU is the priority, rest can join later.
Most people have a misconception that “Routine is making me bored, repetitive & lazy”. When you think of comfort you might imagine a cozy warm space with blankets and a hot drink, its pleasant for sure. But Comfort is double-edged sword that typically results in the consequences of contentment boredom and laziness. Routines can help give structure to your life and your nightly netflix chill ritual might be satisfying but your habits could also be holding you back from opening up in discovering your hidden talents.
When you trap yourself in your comfort zone for too long, you’ll transform into a zombie, a mere cog in the machine without meaning or fulfillment in life. When you lose your drive to learn to do and to achieve, you lose the ability to create meaning in your life and while it’s nice to feel comfortable, it often leads to wasted potential.
Most of us humans suffer from something called “Black and white thinking” also known as polarized thinking. This is an all-or-nothing mindset that things happen either all the way or not at all. When extremes become the norm, you’ll start to think that there are only two outcomes to any situations wild success or terrible failure.
You might start to believe that people are either all good or all bad or that they must be either a loyal friend or an enemy. This cognitive distortion is completely unrealistic. It erases all gray areas or spectrums and leads you to believe things that are often untrue. Reality doesn’t exist in extremes and seeing it like that is unfair to yourself and others.
Most of the time we humans hold ourselves back from pursuing our dreams because we care about the people who hurt us & moreover we consider their words in a negative emotional way. Let me talk about both and why so!!
How many times you thought “My dreams are impossible!!”. If your goals/dreams are practical/realistic enough to be pursued, never give up on them. It’s only you who knows own strengths & weaknesses. Don’t let someone else’s negative experience stop you from going after what you want. Follow your heart and take risks, don’t stick with the safe and easy choices just because you’re afraid of taking a leap of faith. Your dreams are not impossible and they should be bigger than your fears. Sticking to your vision will eventually beat to progress and yield the results you desire.
Sometimes we do feel “I am stuck with people who hurt me”. Never entertain those who walk over your sanity. Your life is precious and too short not to look out for yourself. Have enough self-respect & self-love to distance yourself from those who constantly mistreat you and bring you down. It may be tough and hurt for a while but everything will be ok, more importantly you’ll be ok. Walking away from a bad situation doesn’t make you weak, it makes you strong. Leaving means acknowledging that it’s not about them seeing your worth, but you realizing your own worth.
The usual rate of success in any field of life is somewhere around 3% to 5%. What about rest 95-97% who are left out in the race? The answer lies in “LACK OF SKILL-SET CAUSING LACK OF SELF-CONFIDENCE”.
Developing the right set of skills is a major pillar of success. Confident people never neglect their skills & people with right skill-set are confident about what they do. So much of low self-confidence comes from not having the skills or training needed for great success. Those with confidence see clearly what they need to do to improve their chances of success. They are willing to commit the time and energy in improving their skills, advancing their training or getting more education in order to be more confident in their abilities. First master your SKILLS before marching on your journey to SUCCESS.
How real is FOMO!?! Believing others are better off. The common saying “the grass is greener on the other side” can feel painfully true, especially in our modern world of influencers, social media and the fear of missing out associated to it. It’s common for people to present their lives online in a way that depicts only the best, the most glamorous pets, exotic trips, luxury purchases, a wild success. But sometimes glamour is entirely false, some people are more likely to lie online than in person. Although some may lie to protect their privacy, many invent stories to convince their followers that they’re living a spectacular life when they’re entirely ordinary. This delusion often convinces others that they are somehow failing at the game of life. Even worse, it causes self-blame and feelings of isolation. Know that most people don’t have it as good as they make it seem on social media.
Everyone experiences struggle and imperfection. If they say otherwise, they’re lying. Let go of the belief that you’re worse off than other people. Having what you think other people possess is not the solution. That desire is often a source of unhappiness. You are amazing on your own, your only competition & motivation should be a better version of you.
What brings you happiness? Is it more money, a fancy car, it’s easy to think that things like a better job, a bigger home or someone special can make you happier!?!
A lot of people believe that if they fulfill their desires, they would be satisfied having goals and working toward them as great. Which is completely true. Being a human we must cater to our desires & goals for our happiness. We live in a world which runs on material growth. But when your happiness depends solely on achievement, you’ll end up doing more harm than good instead of just focusing on getting your wants. It’s much easier to find happiness by ridding yourself of the things that aren’t serving you. Start this year by getting rid of people & things you don’t want. Before that understand what you need & what you want. It’s tough, but a lighter head and heart is just a start.
It’s a new year again, you might hear everyone talking about million different new year resolutions. People usually sacrifice or postpone their goals. Most people live in their comfort zone but want something more while wishing for a better life. When faced with difficult situations, they take a step back. You’ve probably experienced this scenario yourself. When you’re presented with a challenge you might avoid facing it by staying in your comfort zone.
Postponing your goals even before a start only makes them harder to achieve down the road. If you want to make your dreams come true, you need to explore the unknown, your dreams are important and you can accomplish them. Yes, there will be obstacles. But the only way to achieve success is to find the courage to move past them.
Confident people don’t need constant praise. Have you ever been around someone who constantly needs to hear how great they are? Well confident people are not like this. They don’t need constant praise. They know that their success does not depend on other people’s approval and they understand that no matter how well they perform, there’s always going to be somebody out there offering nothing but criticism.
Confident people also know that the kind of confident that’s dependent on praise from other people isn’t really confidence at all, it’s narcissism. Such people work for their happiness which is their purpose, that’s the reason their every action seems worthy. Confidence is sassy & confident people are always sexy in my eyes.
One thing which distinguishes every confident person from random crowd while we discuss SUCCESS: They don’t focus on weaknesses.
Most people think it’s worthwhile to put more time into strengthening their weaknesses those with confidence. However, understand that success comes with continuing to improve upon your strength. They are able to accept their own weaknesses gracefully and put more time and effort into endeavors where they know they’ll have more likelihood of success. A confident person maximizes his time and energy every way possible.
Two things always go hand in hand: SUCCESS & RESPECT. Be good at what you do. Everyone loves competent people, especially those who present their best work all the time. You may just be starting out in your profession, but that doesn’t mean you’re not deserving of success & respect.
It’s about starting small and building from there. It’s through improving and gaining experience that you establish yourself and earn the respect of others for your efforts. It’s not an overnight process, but eventually it will gain right people’s attention which may bring tons of prosperity your way.
While chasing your goals you will encounter two types of problematic people; one who will remind you that you can’t make any difference because they are afraid to try NEW, second who are afraid you might SUCCEED before them. Now let’s address the problem with both. Problem is only when you lose your independent way of thinking while reacting to such nonsense. Keep walking if you are true & confident, life is too short to entertain naysayers.
Most of the time your PROBLEM isn’t the problem, it’s the way you react. That REACTION is the real problem.
This video got nothing to do with the post above. I hate politics & religion related issues in general. But Donald Trump is a different kinda species, I mean he is such a liar/deceiver that now it seems fun to watch him. Just sharing it because this animated video seemed amazing. And I have played golf only 5 or 6 times, never cheated.
Most of the time my friends ask me about which stock to buy so that they can make some easy quick money without taking any risk. And my answer remains same every single time “If you aren’t into it, don’t rush in”.
I am sharing this today because few of these same dumbfucks have started sort of a campaign on my name to list few stocks which will become profitable during this pandemic. “How you can make money in share market investments or What’s your advice on learning something new to upgrade career/salary or How you can write an amazing blog!!” the reason I never talk about these because I don’t believe there is a shortcut to any. It takes time to understand yourself, your qualifications, your skills, your money management skills, your expense habits, your passion & goals. The same I can say for stock market, it takes time to research & track each and every stock before putting money into it. Most of the time it’s like walking on double edged sword, I am talking both profit & loss. Take a timeout. Sit down with yourself for a while. Keep talking to yourself about what you want from yourself. The more answers you find, the better decision making power you can accumulate inside you. That’s where the key to SUCCESS lies. If your way to SUCCESS has something to do with investing in shares/stocks, you will learn that the proper way.
Peace of mind, self satisfaction, and efforts to become the best version of myself with my capabilities, in my eyes this is the SUCCESS that I achieve little by little every single day.
I was dreaming about so many things like any other person. Now i enjoy waking up & working towards it. It’s not about how hard the journey is. It’s about how much we enjoy it!! Sometimes we have to swim to catch the ship if it’s not coming towards us. That little effort is fun. Work is fun. Being successful also means being workaholic by choice.
I swear I love money over anything/anyone, & I am brutally honest about it. But there is always a but in everything we are going through. “NEVER DO SOMETHING IF THE SUCCESS IS TOO EASY”, I learnt this lesson after getting my butt kicked twice. Can’t negotiate that in me.
I love the journey of earning & fetching something with time. That’s the reason I don’t believe in lottery or betting. There is nothing called easy success, easy money or easy relationship. If it’s easy, anyone can have it. If anyone can have it, I don’t want it. DESIRES are expensive by nature which makes them DESIRABLE. You have to work & earn it.
No matter how clearly I try to convey, there is always a group of few who struggle to understand my stance on SUCCESS. I am not running behind some sort of success. It’s just that if I want something & I run behind it till I get it. I enjoy the ride of feeding my desires. So this “SUCCESS” is not my strength here. I am not trying to win something. Some hardships & failures are there, they will remain the same. My strength is “I can’t give up my desires & I love to cross my comfort zone for them”.
You are upto you. Make yourself. Make your money. Make your story. Make your destiny. Make your pumpkin pie (Halloween & Thanksgiving coming).😋😜 At the end it’s all the same if you are TRULY HAPPY.
Most humans plan things with hope but take actions looking at their fear, which is an impossible kinda combination to achieve SUCCESS. An achiever is nothing but a random man who just kept his believe stronger on himself & his time. It’s the effort which matters. If your intentions are good, it’s gonna be easy to translate them into actual deeds.
Sometimes it’s difficult to win, but not impossible. And one thing everyone will agree for sure, “It’s hella fun to do the impossible”. Keep thriving.
Starting this post by thanking few who were able to put some trust behind the brand I am creating. I don’t see myself having a strong idea about business, but I am excited for money. I put money into ventures only when I can get it back in a year or two max, so that it can still run on zero investment. I have a gang of friends who stand strong for me like a mountain in everything I do. I am a person who keeps on switching places time to time because life seems more fun that way. Few friends literally take care of my shit like their own. This is the reason I am spoilt since ages.
Hell NO, not thanking these old fuckers. It’s for those who joined my tiny supplement business & clothing brand as a customer. Now I see few are turning out to be consumers to me. I work with handful people. It’s not about manpower, it’s about me giving more time to it. It’s a process of struggle & fun both. Fingers crossed, It always keeps on getting better. This is the place https://tapone.life where you have to click on 30-July-2020. Wishes accepted with whole heart & arms wide open.
One tiny update: Whoever planning to buy optimum nutrition supplement from my UK store, please apply TAP35M or TAP35L till 20-March-2020. M or L means, it’s a Medium or Large size neon blue unisex hoodie free on top of 35% discount with minimum order value of 100 quids. Vibe right & stay safe. Tap life.😘
(N.B: Same post updated in our telegram channel & every buyer must have received the discount coupons by email while placing the order. I am talking to my returning customers.)
😜YES I like to talk/flex little bit about my sneakers, hoodies and watches. What you don’t know is; most of the clothes & shoes I wear are a gift. Not the same for my watches. Way back my dad taught me the value of owning a timepiece & why you need to wear it with respect even though you can check the time in your phone. WE MEN CELEBRATE EVERY LITTLE SUCCESS BY GIFTING A WRISTWATCH TO SELF.
Don’t read/follow someone’s success story if you want to build a stronger stable business. Make sure you watch a story of failure everyday & eliminate that in you one by one. You will fail & that’s gonna push you towards a better tomorrow.
Few people came with a smile & abused me emotionally, physically or financially. That’s the reason behind me being this stronger tougher baddie. My morals & values are way above those who took me on a trip. Somehow it helped me to discard unnecessary clutter from my life. Bars set high. It also made me realize “I am amazing because of my TRUTH”.
Whenever I was about to reach a breaking point, some beautiful people reached me & helped me realize TRUE SELF. I am not that big yet to thank you all, but I am trying to be there for you. Trying to become more available for you. I am on a quest towards success, few of you are making me smile and glide under your sunshine. Mark my words “Someday i will make you proud”.
Life is long for those who are under the shadow of SADNESS, GRIEF, SORROW or SORRY. It’s short for those who waste it without figuring out motive to live & spend it under random dizziness related to infatuations/irrelevant fun quotient.
LIFE IS NOT ENOUGH FOR THOSE, WHO WAKE UP TO A GOAL THEY WANNA ACHIEVE & SHARE THAT HAPPINESS TO THE ONE THEY ADORE LITTLE MORE THAN THEIR LIFE.
Everyone wants success & financial independence, but why no-one dares stepping towards it?
Life will not give what you want. It isn’t just talent, brainpower or education.
If you want success/fulfillment or happiness, you gotta show up, demand it for yourself & strive to reach there. It’s all about that desire & determination. Keep that hunger in you to be the you, you dreamt eyes open.