Next time you’re stressed,
take a step back,
inhale and laugh.
Remember who you are and why you’re here.
You’re never given anything in this world that you can’t handle.
Be strong.
Be flexible.
Love yourself.
Love those love you.
And always remember,
just keep moving forward.
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10 WAYS TO BECOME MENTALLY STRONGER EVERYDAY;
1. Take 15 minutes a day to self-reflect.
2. Do at least 1 tough thing every day, it could be a 45 minutes workout or 5km run or procrastination from certain things.
3. Give up one bad habit that’s bugging you.
4. Develop positive self-talk.
5. Identify challenges and set goals.
6. Identify your strengths and weaknesses.
7. Journal daily: record what you have gratitude for.
8. Write down 10 ideas every day & read 20 pages everyday: this will build your mind muscle.
9. Take care of your physical health & eat right.
10. Create a healthy environment for you to thrive.
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Self development is a continuous journey of trial and error.
The process will test your strengths, reveal your weaknesses, and empower you to put yourself first (finally).
Keep going, no matter what.
Dive deep into answering the questions that you refuse to, no matter how much the answer hurts.
You deserve respect and understanding in the process of self-discovery.
I hope this reminder serves you well to help you know that we are all in this together, on a journey of self-discovery and growth.
Be honest, be open, and be less critical of yourself.
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Stop running away from negative emotions.
Stop running away from feelings.
Stop pretending like you have it all together.
Start accepting that you feel messed up.
Let yourself breakdown to get ready for a breakthrough.
Sometimes when you are always focusing on being positive, you are avoiding the pain that makes you stronger.
DON’T BE POSITIVE, BE AUTHENTIC.
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Taking control of your thoughts is not always easy, it takes strength.
But, just like anyone can become physically strong, anyone can become mentally strong through effort and practice.
At first, taking control of your thoughts may feel difficult, but it’ll begin to feel natural with practice.
As your journey, you will find the practice of taking control of your thoughts and fixing your mind on goodness, abundance, and hope to be an integral part of experiencing the fulfillment of dreams.
Because, we live in our thoughts.
And while we cannot always hand-pick our experiences and the circumstances we encounter, we can shape our circumstances to benefit us with our thoughts. so, get to it.
Give your best.
Work hard and let your purpose drive you to take control of your thoughts and move with joy.
TAKE CONTROL OF YOUR THOUGHTS.
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I’m not perfect and I don’t have to be.
When I first realized this I felt an intense relief.
This realization allowed me to actually become a better person.
It gave me the strength to embrace my flaws and learn from my mistakes.
The pressure melted away.
I wouldn’t have been able to start examining my mistakes if I felt like I had to be perfect.
Once I found out it was okay to be imperfect, everything changed for the better.
Don’t criticize yourself for making mistakes.
Just be conscious not to make the same mistake twice.
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Instead of feeling like you’re behind, feel grateful for any setbacks you’ve had in your life and each lesson you have learned along the way.
Be grateful for each relationship and what you were able to learn about yourself through falling in and out of love.
Feel proud of how strong you have become from each time you were left to put the pieces of your broken heart back together.
Be grateful that you learned that you will heal again no matter what you go through.
You should be proud that you learned how to recognize and move on from situations that are no longer good for you.
You might feel like you are behind, but when you really think about it, everything you have been through has made you the person you are now.
Your experience is your strength, and you shouldn’t wish to change that for anything.
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Twenty years from now you will be more disappointed by the things you didn’t do than by the ones you did do.
So throw off the bowlines.
Sail away from the safe harbor.
Catch the trade winds in your sails.
Explore. Dream. Discover.
-MARK TWAIN.
You have to be fearless about pursuing your dreams.
You have to be willing to leave your comfort zone to grow not only as a human being but to push your own boundaries.
I encourage anyone chasing dreams to be fearless; go into emotional areas that aren’t always comfortable or comprehensible.
Do something out of your comfort zone today.
Sometimes the things that scare us help us grow.
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You still have so much time to fail.
You have time to fail at love.
At your career.
At your creative aspirations.
At your personal goals.
You are still young enough to fall and pick yourself back up, so many more times.
So don’t be afraid to take those big scary risks now, while you still have the time and the strength and the determination to start over.
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I think sometimes people believe that worrying has some kind of productive purpose.
Worry sucks all of your energy and joy out of whatever it is you’re doing.
It’s human nature to worry, but when we do it constantly, we run into more problems.
It may give you something to do, but you don’t get anywhere.
The next time you are worrying about something, try to remember that you aren’t always in control.
Instead, do practical things like make a budget or create a schedule.
Be proactive and let go of the stress.
After all, it won’t change a thing.
Worry does not empty tomorrow of its sorrow; it empties today of its strength.
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Our minds are quick to move from one thing to another.
All throughout the day, we float between our fears of the future and our disappointments of the past, all while we’re stuck in the middle, trying to make sense of it all.
Let stillness remind you that in this present moment, you don’t have to make sense of it all.
You don’t have to figure it all out right here, right now.
Yes, there are things that need to be sorted through, but this moment is also calling you: to breathe deep and realize in this very moment you are gathering the strength you need that will prepare you for what’s to come.
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Self-control is strength.
Calmness is mastery.
You have to get to a point where your MOOD doesn’t shift based on the insignificant actions of someone else.
CONTROL THE DIRECTION of your life.
Self-discipline is a form of FREEDOM.
Freedom from laziness and lethargy,
freedom from the expectations and demands of others,
freedom from weakness and fear and doubt.
Self-discipline allows a pitcher to feel his individuality, his inner strength, his talent.
He is master of, rather than a slave to, his thoughts and emotions.
– H.A. Dorfman.
(This video got nothing to do with the post above. Big fan of SNL. Watch it for some fun, shared it for the same reason.)
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Long ago, a man went to see a circus show.
Before the show began, he saw that a lot of elephants were held by only a small rope tied to their leg.
The man suddenly stopped, confused by the fact that such huge creatures were being held by such a thin yet small rope.
There were no chains and no cages.
It was obvious that the elephants could break away the ropes at any time from their bonds but for some reason they weren’t even trying.
The man saw the elephant’s trainer standing next to elephants.
He was curious to know why the elephants weren’t trying to escape from here.
To this, the trainer told him that they were like this since the time they were very young.
At that time, it was enough to hold them.
As they grew up, they were conditioned to believe they could not break away.
They believed the rope could still hold them.
On hearing this, the man was completely shocked.
He was looking at the elephants in a pity and he went away from there.
Moral of the story:
High chances you are your biggest hurdle on your path to success & a joyful life.
We all survive with a “FALSE HUMAN BELIEF” doubting our own strength which lowers our self-esteem, self-respect, capacity & capabilities.
Keep working on yourself & you will experience a better version of yourself with time.
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EIGHT SENTENCES I WISH I’D READ SOONER;
• These hard times, this pain, these lessons; one day they’ll be your strength, your awareness, your blessings.
• Stop expecting honesty from people who lie to themselves.
• You’ll never look good trying to make someone look bad.
• Save your explanations for those that are determined to understand you.
• Give your silence to those that are determined to misunderstand you.
• Your life is too short to be unhappy. 5 days a week in exchange for 2 days of freedom; that’s not how you are supposed to live your life. Live & experience life everyday.
• Don’t be upset from people you don’t respect.
• Life is not tiring. Wanting life to be a certain way but not having the confidence to make it that way, is tiring.
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I think sometimes people believe that worrying has some kind of productive purpose.
Worry sucks all your energy and joy out of whatever it you’re doing.
It’s human nature to worry, but when we do constantly, we run into more problems.
It may give you something to do, but you don’t get anywhere.
The next time you worrying about something, try to remember that you aren’t always in control.
Instead, do practical things like make budget or create a schedule.
Be proactive & let go of stress.
After all, it won’t change a thing.
Worry does not empty tomorrow of sorrow; it empties today of it’s strength.
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Self love is your strength.
Self acceptance is your peace.
Don’t be stressed about all the things that you can’t control or change.
Learn how to let go.
Learn to leave behind those feelings that no longer serve your heart any good.
Your life is precious, make it count by living it for yourself first.
Make yourself a priority.
You don’t need someone else to remind you that you have value, the beating in your heart is already a reminder of that.
Be at peace with yourself.
Be gentle with your heart.
You are already special.
BE YOU.
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NINE SENTENCES I WISH I’D READ SOONER;
• These hard times, this pain, these lessons – one day they’ll be your strength, your awareness, your blessings.
• Stop expecting honesty from people who lie to themselves.
• You’ll never look good trying to make someone look bad.
• Save your explanations for those that are determined to understand you.
• Give your silence to those that are determined to misunderstand you.
• Your life is too short to be unhappy 5 days a week in exchange for 2 days of freedom.
• Don’t be upset from people you don’t respect.
• Life is not tiring. Wanting life to be a certain way but not having the confidence to make it that way, is tiring.
• Your consistent approach to anything you desire dictates your success in career, business & relationships.
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Self-control is strength.
Calmness is mastery.
You have to get to a point where your mood doesn’t shift based on the insignificant actions of someone else.
Don’t allow others to control the direction of your life.
Don’t allow your emotions to overpower your intelligence.
Resting is part of the work.
It’s a healthy habit.
It’s essential.
It brings clarity.
It renews your strength.
It gives you peace.
It drives away fear.
It creates space for GOD to do his mighty works through us.
Even if you’ve found yourself with more free time than usual, don’t force yourself too much.
Taking a break is necessary.
It plays a vital role in your purpose.
So, slow down.
Talk slowly.
Relax.
Give your self a break from feeling responsible for anyone else.
It’s okay, don’t feel guilty for it.
At uncertain times, it’s important to cut yourself some slack.
Take a breath, and REST.
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Self-control is strength.
Calmness is mastery.
You have to get to a point where your mood doesn’t shift based on the insignificant actions of someone else.
Don’t allow others to control the direction of your life.
Don’t allow your emotions to overpower your intelligence.
Self-control is strength.
Calmness is mastery.
You have to get to a point where your mood doesn’t shift based on the insignificant actions of someone else.
Don’t allow others to control the direction of your life.
Don’t allow your emotions to empower your intelligence.
Each one of us is born with a unique and remarkable gift that’s not only meant to change our lives but the greater world around us.
I know this to be true because I’ve witnessed it throughout my life.
Whatever your strengths are, they may be something that someone else wishes they had.
So use your gifts wisely and you will be amazed how much you can inspire others.
Inspire someone today just by being yourself.
The most courageous act is still to think for yourself. Aloud.
Life is fun, let it be.
BE YOU.
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The quality of a friendship should be measured on the strength of your bond and the abundance of love between you, not the number of times you catch up over coffee or go out drinking.
We all have different needs, schedules and responsibilities.
What’s important is you are there when it matters.
-Beau Taplin.
NINE SENTENCES TO REMIND YOURSELF EVERYDAY:
• Hard times, pain & lessons; one day they’ll be your strength, your awareness & your blessings.
• Stop expecting honesty from people who lie to themselves.
• You’ll never look good trying to make someone look bad.
• Save your explanations for those that are determined to understand you.
• Give your silence to those that are determined to misunderstand you.
• Most people react with retaliation while responding, few listen & very few people understand your words to reply with decency.
• Your life is too short to be unhappy 5 days a week in exchange for 2 days of freedom.
• Don’t be upset from people you don’t respect.
• Life is not tiring. Wanting life to be a certain way but not having the confidence to make it that way, that’s tiring.
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I think sometimes people believe that worrying has some kind of productive purpose.
Worry sucks all of your energy and joy out of whatever it is you’re doing.
It’s human nature to worry, but when we do it constantly, we run into more problems.
It may give you something to do, but you don’t get anywhere.
The next time you are worrying about something, try to remember that you aren’t always in control.
Instead, do practical things like make a budget or create a schedule.
Be proactive and let go of the stress.
After all, it won’t change a thing.
Worry does not empty tomorrow of its sorrow; it empties today of its strength.
Tap OUT..✌️
Become honest about personal struggles because the issues that we’ve dealt with are still taboo to talk about.
Self-harm, eating disorders, addiction, and mood disorders are things people aren’t always open about.
But it’s so important that someone starts talking about these issues, so that those who are struggling know that there is help out there.
It is your job to be a beacon of hope.
Stand up for those who can’t yet.
Give them support and strength.
Every life has a purpose.
Share your story and you may help someone find their own.
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8 Ways to calm yourself when life is getting tough:
1. Walk:
Walking helps clear your mind.
It offers you a different perspective.
2. Indulge:
Take a day off to spend a whole day doing exactly what you want.
3. Be Generous:
Give something to a total stranger.
Acts of giving make us feel warm and fuzzy inside.
4. Have a heart to heart conversation with yourself:
Sit in a coffee shop or a busy street/part and soak up your surroundings.
You don’t have to talk to people.
5. Educate yourself:
Research what it is you are experiencing.
Arm yourself with knowledge and the resources to tackle the problems head-on.
6. Preparation:
Write the day’s to-do list the evening before.
7. Strengths:
Write down a list of 20 of your strengths.
8. Keep going forward:
Keep taking small steps, no matter what.
Being stagnant doesn’t serve you.
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The world is filled with people who, no matter what you do, will point blank not like you.
But it is also filled with those who will love you fiercely.
They are your people.
You are not for everyone and that’s OK.
Talk to the people who can hear you.
Don’t waste your precious time and gifts trying to convince them of your value, they won’t ever want what you’re selling.
Don’t convince them to walk alongside you.
You’ll be wasting both your time and theirs and will likely inflict unnecessary wounds, which will take precious time to heal.
You are not for them and they are not for you;
politely wave them on, and continue along your way.
Sharing your path with someone is a sacred gift;
don’t cheapen this gift by rolling yours in the wrong direction.
Keep facing your true north.
YOU ARE NOT FOR EVERYONE.
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I used to pray for answers, but now I’m praying for strength.
I used to believe that prayer changes things.
But now I know that prayer changes us and we change things.
Don’t lower your frequency to play games and become a part of an inconsistent toxic cycle.
Revenge depletes your energy and steals from you.
Move forward.
What you remove your attention from will cease to exist.
Get better.
Attract better.
You are too great to entertain such energies.
BE YOU & STRIVE TO BE A BETTER VERSION OF YOURSELF.
Just because someone has treated you unkindly doesn’t mean you are unworthy of kindness.
Just because someone has made you feel unloved doesn’t mean you don’t deserve love.
Remember when someone says hurtful things to you or acts in a way that hurts your heart, they are only showing the hurt they are carrying within themselves.
Their action reflects who they are, not what you deserve.
-Dhiman.
HAPPINESS is a choice, not a result.
Nothing will make you happy until you choose to be happy.
No person will make you happy unless you decide to be happy.
Your HAPPINESS will not come to you.
It can only come from you.
Be gentle on your loved ones who lack the strength to leave toxic situations.
What looks easy from the outside, may be a war they fight internally.
What feels like danger to you, could be a comfort zone for their insecurities.
What you think requires action, may require PATIENCE.
It’s important to do what’s best for you, whether people approve of it or not.
This is your life.
You know what’s good for you.
And remember, self love takes strength.
DON’T SETTLE.
Turn off shitty movies.
If a conversation’s dead, cut it.
If the meal’s shitty, avoid the restaurant.
If you’re not on the right path, simply get off it.
Don’t entertain what doesn’t entertain you.
Each and every one of us has a different beginning to our story.
Our lives all start in different places, but when we dedicate our hearts and minds to what we are most passionate about, there is no stopping us.
Reward and success are measured by how much you try and how much you receive.
Be proud of who you are and where you came from.
Look forward to wherever it is you are going and who it is you want to be.
It matters not what someone is born, but what they grow to be.
-J. K. ROWLING
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People settle because they’re afraid something better won’t come along.
They fear they aren’t good enough.
You are worth exactly what you want in life, but you have to believe it or you won’t attract something better.
Take a moment to realize your worth.
Don’t ever settle.
Each one of us is born with a unique and remarkable gift that’s not only meant to change our lives but the greater world around us.
I know this to be true because I’ve witnessed it throughout my life.
Whatever your strengths are, they may be something that someone else wishes they had.
So use your gifts wisely and you will be amazed how much you can inspire others.
You’ll be amazed at what you attract after you start believing in what you deserve.
Inspire someone today just by being yourself.
The most courageous act is still to think for yourself. Aloud.
(Not my words.)
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The body has limitations.
The mind has not.
We focus so much on what goes on from the neck down, that we forget it all starts from here in mind.
Everything starts there.
If you are not mentally ready, you’re not physically prepared.
And that’s where the preparation starts.
-Tim Grover.
I’m not perfect and I don’t have to be.
When I first realized this I felt an intense relief.
This realization allowed me to actually become a better person.
It gave me the strength to embrace my flaws and learn from my mistakes.
The pressure melted away.
I wouldn’t have been able to start examining my mistakes if I felt like I had to be perfect.
Once I found out it was okay to be imperfect, everything changed for the better.
Don’t criticize yourself for making mistakes.
Just be conscious, make new mistakes & learn from older ones.
Remove inconsistency from life.
LIFE IS FUN, LET IT BE.
(This video got nothing to do with the post above. I am a big sucker for every marvel cinematic universe character & yes i liked HAWKEYE. I didn’t know Jeremy Renner has some amazing songs till yesterday. I am kinda into this song. Thanks to my bestie DEMI for the recommendation. Those who fancy my snapchat stories & question since when i play piano, answer is since my grade-6 days.)
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Every difficult situation I’ve experienced has ultimately changed me for the better.
I’ve grown stronger as a human being and I have been able to advocate for others who are still struggling to be heard.
I can’t tell you what a privilege and honor it is for me to use my own pain to help people find strength and hopefully prevent unneeded suffering for many others.
These positive rays of light were only able to come through the darkness because I allowed them to,
because I was open to them,
and because I didn’t dwell on my past or my pain.
I simply honored it.
Find something positive about a struggle you’re facing and share it with someone who’s struggling.
They’ll know something better is coming to them too.
There is always an opportunity to turn a negative situation into a positive one as long as you are open to the possibility. (Not my words.)
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Everything I have gone through I could not have done without the love, faith, and support of my family.
Even though i stay away from home since i was 16, just being around them once in a year or two brings me joy and I forget about any problem or fear I have.
They accept me with all of my flaws.
And I accept them as well, no matter what.
Soak up the love of your family today & everyday.
Be grateful for the goodness you receive.
Love them for everything they are and aren’t.
Family gives us strength and builds our character. (Not my words.)
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I’ve seen busy people make time.
I’ve seen bad communicators communicate well.
I’ve seen bad texters respond quickly and write paragraphs.
I’ve seen people who “aren’t ready for a relationship” get ready in few conversations.
I’ve seen a girl proposing me in front of 24 friends to marry her ASAP on my birthday, who used to say “I DON’T NEED A MAN TO BE HAPPY” since 7 years.
(Hello Lioness😜).
A healthy adult relationship is one where both people in the relationship give and both receive.
There is a safe, equal and open exchange of ideas, communication, feelings, and thoughts and all perspectives are considered and valued.
There is also the freedom to respectfully challenge, heal, confront, and strengthen one another.
At the end what matters is a TRUTHFUL CONSISTENT person who gets you, no matter what’s coming.
If someone wants you, you won’t have to ask for effort.
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Find someone who loves you well.
Someone who never belittles you even in the heat of an argument.
Someone who is gentle with you, but does not treat you like you are fragile.
Someone who knows what you are capable of, and celebrates those pieces of you.
Not someone who is intimidated by your strength.
Someone who doesn’t make you feel guilty for being flawed.
It is not love’s job to punish you.
And remember the person you love is just as broken as you are when they fall short.
No one is perfect do not hold them to this standard.
Find someone who is patient, consistent, forgiving, and apologetic.
Someone who practices forgiveness freely and often.
Love someone who is humble, kind, and empathetic.
Not only with you, but with a beggar on the street, or a stranger in the supermarket.
Common courtesy is important.
Compassion is important.
Kindness is important.
Now that i mentioned something about relationships twice in a day, my university friends will again start questioning whether i am seeing someone! Let me answer even before that question pops up. Most of my posts are scheduled a month advance. Typing these two paragraphs today right before the post goes live.
I entertained something inconsistent for a while. Whatever happened, I am not strong enough to blame or hate anyone. Let’s say, that was my fault. I am in the process of becoming single. In Snapchat, if you see my hands resting on some girl’s fine 🍑, high chances it’s either my bestie DEMI or my neighbour girl. Yes, i have a ting towards athletic girls.♌ But I don’t have a TYPE whom i want to date. First i have to be ready, next the connection must vibe positivity & remain consistent, that’s all. The most beautiful part about a girl where my heart goes little weak; when i feel she is grabbing my arms little stronger looking into my eyes with a wide big bright smile, while crossing baby/kid’s clothing section in shopping malls. Everyone knows i adore kids, they are angelic to me. 2023 goal is to become the best A+ dad world has ever seen, and i will settle to be a good B+ boyfriend/husband i guess.😂
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What is STRENGTH?
Strength is forgiving people that don’t even feel sorry for their action.
Strength is putting a smile on your face when you want to cry a river.
Strength is not hurting those who hurt you.
Strength is forgiving others.
(This video got nothing to do with the post above. Watch it for fun, one of my favourites from superwog.)
Be a fearless dreamer.
The world is your oyster.
Write down the top 5-10 things you want to accomplish in the next month.
May it be goals, people or purpose, remain CONSISTENT in pursuing what you want.
Never stop striving to be the best you can be!
We all have to start somewhere and we must remember that our journeys aren’t mapped out for us.
Dreams and visions will evolve and change as you do.
Every dream begins with a dreamer.
Always remember, you have within you the strength, the patience, and the passion to reach for the stars to change the world.
-HARRIET TUBMAN.
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Never underestimate the power of a kind person.
Kindness is a choice that comes from incredible strength.
Each of us leads unique lives with experiences that nobody else will ever completely understand.
Your story holds so many valuable lessons that can help inspire, teach, and motivate someone else.
Should you choose to share it!?!
In life, I have heard so many different stories.
Just by listening, I learned so many different things.
I’m so thankful I found the courage to share my story as well and talk about what I’ve been through.
Not only has it helped me, but it has helped give perspective and strength to so many other people, my people to be precise.
I encourage you to do the same.
Share your story with someone who is worth your time.
You never know how one sentence of your life story could inspire someone to rewrite their own.
No matter what you have been through in life, good or bad, don’t take it for granted.
There are lessons in every moment of our lives.
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You have to get to a point where your mood doesn’t shift based on the insignificant actions of someone else.
Don’t allow others to control the direction of your life.
Don’t allow your emotions to overpower your intelligence.
Self-control is strength.
Calmness is mastery.
(This video got nothing to do with the post above and it also got nothing to do with next few lines i am typing. Shared it because this PEGASUS spyware row is getting wilder day by day. Governments of UK, India, France, USA, Dubai, Israel & 35 other countries tapped/hacked 50000 phone numbers of journalists, political leaders, terrorists, even a country’s prime minister. Am i against this? Hell NO. Countries are supposed to spy on each other for their safety. It’s a thing from cold war era, this will keep on going because it’s nothing new. Read more by clicking here.)
Here is a fact nobody wants you to know:
you don’t need anybody, you just don’t.
I have seen people wreck themselves on the bedposts of lovers who don’t remember to call them.
I’ve seen them come home with bruises, tell me it was in the name of feeling wanted, tell themselves this is the best they could have gotten.
I’ve seen people ruin their brains on sharp teeth and harsh words, lovers who sink in their claws and toy with emotions.
I’ve seem them lie in bed and refuse to start crying,
tell me it was in the hopes of exchanging last names,
tell themselves they want this forever and not that they just can’t escape.
Just stop, you got yourself here.
You’re not going to crumble, you’re not.
You’ve been carrying your own body weight since you were old enough to walk.
Yours are the shoulders that have held up this world.
You already have the strength within you.
You’ve already made it this far, you can make it through.
Don’t assign that power to anyone else. That spark rightfully belongs to you. Own yourself.
(Not my words.)
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Be proud of how you’ve been handling these past months, the silent battles you fought, the moments you had to humble yourself and pat yourself on the back.
Celebrate your strength.
(Not my words)
You are being presented with a choice: evolve or remain the same. If you choose to remain unchanged, you will be presented with the same challenges, the same routine, the same storms, the same situations, until you learn from them, until you love yourself enough to say “no more”, until you choose change.
If you choose to evolve, you will connect with the strength within you, you will explore what lies outside the comfort zone, you will awaken, you will become, you will be what you want.
You have everything you need.
Choose to evolve.
(This video got nothing to do with the post above. Shared it because i am a big fan of Key & Peele. And this girl’s name should be DEMI instead of EMILY).
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Most of the time we humans hold ourselves back from pursuing our dreams because we care about the people who hurt us & moreover we consider their words in a negative emotional way. Let me talk about both and why so!!
How many times you thought “My dreams are impossible!!”. If your goals/dreams are practical/realistic enough to be pursued, never give up on them. It’s only you who knows own strengths & weaknesses. Don’t let someone else’s negative experience stop you from going after what you want. Follow your heart and take risks, don’t stick with the safe and easy choices just because you’re afraid of taking a leap of faith. Your dreams are not impossible and they should be bigger than your fears. Sticking to your vision will eventually beat to progress and yield the results you desire.
Sometimes we do feel “I am stuck with people who hurt me”. Never entertain those who walk over your sanity. Your life is precious and too short not to look out for yourself. Have enough self-respect & self-love to distance yourself from those who constantly mistreat you and bring you down. It may be tough and hurt for a while but everything will be ok, more importantly you’ll be ok. Walking away from a bad situation doesn’t make you weak, it makes you strong. Leaving means acknowledging that it’s not about them seeing your worth, but you realizing your own worth.
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With time moving up we see young people showing less intrest in relationships, basically most of us suck at COMMITMENT. Nobody answers you why!! But you will definitely spot a bunch of those who will say; “They are the perfect oak but weather is not helping. Claiming to be perfect is nothing but stupid”.
Answer: Expectations & optimism, It depends on what you expect from yourself & how optimistic you are about it!! There are many who aren’t stable with life, I am not talking about that problem. It’s just that, people know what they can ever be & becoming stable/rich someday is just an unachievable dream for them. This is what makes a person feel like they aren’t good enough. That’s where all desires start limiting one after another. And you never desire to buy a subway/train ticket to your next street in your city, you can do that anytime you want. You desire to travel/fly to Disneyland or a nice beach vacation out of your country and you start saving for that. Relationships are like that DESIRE, you invest little after little time to get something bigger one day. All sums up to; No matter it’s relationship or any other goals of your life; DESIRE BIG, HAVE EXPECTATIONS ONLY FROM YOURSELF, INVEST YOUR ENERGY WITH TIME, REMAIN OPTIMISTIC ABOUT THE OUTCOME & STAY AWAY FROM THE CHEAP IF YOU EVER WANT EXPERIENCE EXPENSIVE.
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LIFE is EASY, so is LOVE. Pack Truth inside as your strength. Loyality is a royalty, it’s an awesome feeling. You deserve it.
Yes I believe in God. My only prayer is: BLESS ME TOWARDS GAINING ENOUGH STRENGTH TO BE ME EVERY NEXT DAY, even though I am going through a bad financial/physical/emotional state.
If we want a kite to soar high, we need to loosen our grip on the strings that’s in our hands. How high that kite flies depends on how much freedom you can give! The more we let it loose, the higher it can soar.
“Just like caring someone, we need to let the other person explore, live a life away from us for a while, do things without us and make own decisions. This will help them discover their own identity and their own power. This will also allow them to fulfill their own KARMA, doesn’t matter good or bad. More importantly we need to encourage & support our partner in pursuing a life independent of us. They need to have their own friends, hobbies, activities & properties or belongings.”
Let’s not expect the other person to stick by our side in every aspect of our life all the time. This is the same freedom we seek for ourselves. Remember KARMA is individual. No-one else can help us fulfill it. It’s nothing but nurturing an idea, we need to let our idea go into places even if it’s scary. Let our ideas branch out into things we didn’t initially intend to explore whether it’s entering a new market for our product or partnering with someone that might add to the greatness of our idea. We need to give our ideas a chance to reach it’s full potential.
IF YOU LOVE IT, SET IT FREE. IF IT’S OURS, IT WILL ALWAYS RETURN BACK HOME.
A kite flies as far and high as you let it go.
(Yes taken. Eat read love.)
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Situations don’t drain me anymore. I am way beyond something which can bring me down. Too soon life switched to something which is all about strength & opportunities. Yes I spark positivity & life, maybe that’s the only reason some new connections are drawn towards me. I understand & value it.
Just wanna say; fight for what/whom you want. Move ahead together whenever there is equal give & take. I love/respect those who vibe same positivity as mine.
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Don’t surround yourself with people who need you, because someday they will not need you anymore.
Get yourself grounded, stick to someone who is your strength & never let them down at any cost. Their happiness should be your pride.
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