Be firm about your choices right now.
Don’t go backwards to habits and situations that weren’t helping you evolve.
You have to keep reminding yourself why you even decided to move forward.
Stay positive about what’s to come by being consistent with your change now.
Tag: situation
Tru2Day1435
Unsuccessful people make decisions based on their current situation.
Successful people make decisions based on where they want to be.
My suggestion is; Don’t give suggestions unless you are successful in important aspects of life.
True me.. Tap-1227..
Somethings may don’t get better, but we do.
We get stronger.
We learn to live with our situations as messy and ugly as they are.
We fix what we can.
We adapt to what we can’t.
Some of us may never be fully okay, but at least we’re here.
We’re still trying.
We’re doing the best we can.
That’s worth celebrating too.
If you’re reading this, you made it to today, CONGRATULATIONS.
Life is fun, let it be.
Tap OUT..✌️
True me.. Tap-1226..
Never devalue yourself.
Never forget how beautiful you really are.
People in certain situations can sometimes make us feel we aren’t good enough by society’s standards.
But it’s natural to feel that way.
You just need to know how to find your way out of that negative place.
Remind yourself that you are beautiful exactly the way you are.
Life is beautiful.
You are worthy of it.
Tap OUT..✌️
True me.. Tap-1217..
Do yourself a favour;
Surround yourself with those who speak of visions, ideas, goals, growth.
Not those who sit and gossip about others.
And if you do find yourself in that situation, excuse yourself and walk away.
The game ends when you choose to leave such a gathering.
POSITIVE ATTITUDE is not just about your approach towards yourself, it also depends on whom you hangout with.
(This video got nothing to do with the post above. I shared it because I found it informative. Watch it for some knowledge about the current scenario of our post-COVID world.)
Tap OUT..✌️
True me.. Tap-1211..
If we want to achieve great things, we must be intentional to focus on the right things, even when chaos arises.
If we are not intentional with our thought life, then our human nature will automatically focus on the problem rather than finding and creating solutions.
What you focus on multiplies.
So undoubtedly, when you focus on your problems for too long, they will begin to feel big and overwhelming.
When you allow your problems to be the loudest voice in the room, you lose sight of hope and possibility.
While it’s important to acknowledge the problems that exist, no good can evolve from focusing on your problems.
It will not change your situation, make things better, or shift the atmosphere and pave the way for a breakthrough.
Here’s the good thing: the problems you face, while they may be roadblocks, they cannot keep you from the future that was intended for you.
ONCE AGAIN; WHAT YOU FOCUS ON MULTIPLIES.
Tap OUT..✌️
Tru2Day1311
Unsuccessful people make decisions based on their current situations.
Successful people make decisions based on where they want to be.
True me.. Tap-1201..
When obstacles arise, don’t be surprised.
Don’t get stressed out or allow yourself to get lost in worry or anxiety.
Instead, take a deep breath and invite wisdom into your situation with the confidence that you can and will find and create a solution.
Remember: for every problem, there is a solution.
But, it’s going to require hope, creativity, and faith to find it.
The hope that there’s a way out, the creativity to find a way around the problem, the faith that you strong enough to conquer the problems that you face. You got this.
You are strong enough to overcome every mountain you face.
There’s magic in your bones.
FOR EVERY PROBLEM, THERE IS A SOLUTION.
Tap OUT..✌️
True me.. Tap-1190..
We want solutions to PROBLEMS quickly.
But, some problems are beyond our control.
And some problems are solved by tolerating them.
With time,
Situation changes,
Our mindset changes,
Our needs change,
And our maturity level changes.
At some point of time, we don’t even care whether some problems get solved or not.
An intelligent individual is not someone who solves every problem,
but someone who knows which problems to solve and which problems to tolerate.
Tap OUT..✌️
Tru2Day1285
Successful people make decisions based on where they want to be.
True me.. Tap-1184..
Life is rarely ever predictable.
The truth is: we were never guaranteed that we would have the answers for everything or feel certainty in every situation.
That’s part of this journey’s adventure to get from where we are to where we want to be, we are required to trust, hope, and believe, and dare to blaze the trail even when the path in front of us looks near impossible.
The secret to life isn’t about knowing the future or having the perfect roadmap, but rather having faith for the future and the spirit of a pioneer.
IT’S OKAY NOT TO KNOW HOW THINGS ARE GOING TO TURN OUT.
Tap OUT..✌️
True me.. Tap-1163..
Remember;
Most of your stress comes from the way you respond, not the way life is.
Adjust your attitude.
Change how you see things.
Look for the good in all situations.
Take the lesson and find new opportunities to grow.
Let all the extra stress, worrying, and overthinking go.
BE AN AUTHENTIC VERSION OF YOURSELF.
(This video got nothing to do with the post above. Big fan of Key & Peele, I had to share this. WELCOME TO DEMOCRACY.)
Tap OUT..😜
Tru2Day1239
If you are serious about the change in your life that you desire, you must be willing to go through uncomfortable situations.
It is the only way you will GROW.
True me.. Tap-1124..
Types of PEOPLE you need to hang on to;
Enthusiastic listeners.
People who don’t make you guess if they’re mad.
Direct communicators.
The friend who helps you clean your room.
Those who are kind to those who can do nothing for them.
Messy folks who repeatedly get it wrong but never stop trying to get it right anyway.
Kindred spirits.
Loud laughers.
Pals who make the grocery store fun.
Loved ones who get as excited about your success as you do.
The person you feel comfortable crying in front of.
Sing-in-the-car friends.
People who text you to look at the moon.
People who text you just to say hi.
The one you’ve known since childhood who you can go a long time without talking to but nothing changes.
Those who understand the value of holding space.
The mentor who pushes you to do better because they want better for you.
Patient teachers.
Healers.
Scrappy souls.
Hard workers.
Friends you can joke about hypothetical situations with for hours on end.
The genuine ones.
Anyone who leaves you feeling good afterward, not just when you’re with them.
People who see your fault lines and say they have them too.
Anyone who came to mind as you read this.
Hold them close.
Love them hard.
Tap OUT..✌️
True me.. Tap-1123..
Please stop overthinking life like you have to have an answer to every feeling or situation.
That’s not how life works.
We figure it all out by just living.
We learn what’s important and what isn’t
by messing up,
by missing an opportunity,
by seeking advice and not taking it.
Sometimes we have no damn clue what to do, and that’s okay.
Always trust your gut and know that everything works out the way it’s meant to.
It always does.
Relax; we were never in control anyway.
Tap OUT..✌️
True me.. Tap-1099..
Life is rarely ever predictable.
The truth is: we were never guaranteed that we would have the answers for everything or feel certainty in every situation.
That’s part of this journey’s adventure to get from where we are to where we want to be, we are required to trust, hope, and believe, and dare to blaze the trail even when the path in front of us looks near impossible.
The secret to life isn’t about knowing the future or having the perfect roadmap, but rather having faith for the future and the spirit of a pioneer.
IT’S OKAY NOT TO KNOW HOW THINGS ARE GOING TO TURN OUT.
Tap OUT..✌️
True me.. Tap-1094..
If you’re feeling down, ask yourself “what’s wrong with this moment?”
Chances are that you’re upset about something that happened in the past or you’re anticipating something that might happen in the future.
But is there anything wrong with this exact moment?
Probably not.
So stop worrying.
And if there is something wrong with this exact moment, there’s only 3 things you can do to fix it:
REMOVE yourself from the situation,
CHANGE something,
or ACCEPT it.
(This video got nothing to do with the post above. I own a health supplement business in Bangalore, i know how making it big in India at current market scenario is way more easier & exciting compared to UK or USA. It’s an developing economy & emerging markets are always choice of investors. Yes INEQUALITY is an issue, but there’s way more beyond to that side of the story.)
Tap OUT..✌️
True me.. Tap-1051..
4 Habits to make you MENTALLY STRONG:
1: Delay gratification.
The ability to delay gratification can be a big predictor of success.
Mentally strong people have the ability to prioritize the long-term over short-term pleasures.
2: Show up on the toughest days.
Often it’s the days when we don’t feel like showing up that end up being the most important ones.
Proving to yourself that you can show up on tough days builds your resilience and mental strength.
3: Positive Self-Talk.
One of the fastest ways to tear down your mental toughness is by speaking negatively to yourself.
Mentally strong people understand the importance of being your own biggest supporter.
4: Don’t dwell on things.
Allowing a problem or situation to dominate your mind, is another quick way to lose resilience.
Mentally strong people focus on what is within their control, and take action on it as soon as possible.
Tap OUT..🤗
True me.. Tap-1038..
7 IMPORTANT LIFE LESSONS TO REMIND OURSELVES EVERY DAY:
1. Personality is not set in stone.
You are able to take control or change it the way you like.
2. Never leave your parents.
They are the reason you are here.
3. Never get confused to select between love and friendship.
Both have their respective parts to play.
4. When in anger, isolate yourself.
Give yourself some time.
Finally think about the situation again with a calm mind.
5. People say “Follow your heart”.
Not in every situation.
Instead “Listen to your heart. Act With Your Brain”.
6. Time heals almost everything.
Give some time and experience the change.
7. Thoughts control your Feelings.
Feelings control your Actions.
Actions control your Results.
POSITIVE THOUGHTS = POSITIVE RESULTS.
(Not my words.)
Tap OUT..✌️
Tru2Day1132
Remember, most of your stress comes from the way you respond, not the way life is.
Adjust your attitude.
Change how you see things.
Look for the good in all situations.
Take the lesson and find new opportunities to grow.
Let all the extra stress, worrying, and overthinking go.
Tru2Day1104
Deep down you know exactly what you’re capable of.
There’s even moments where you get a glimpse of all the potential you have.
You can get there.
You just have to be willing to sacrifice the habits, things, and situations that are standing in the way of your SUCCESS.
Tru2Day1073
You made that choice to improve for a reason.
Don’t go backwards to habits and situations that weren’t helping you evolve.
You have to keep reminding yourself why you even decided to move forward.
Tru2Day981
REMEMBER, MOST OF YOUR STRESS COMES FROM THE WAY YOU RESPOND, NOT THE WAY LIFE IS.
ADJUST YOUR ATTITUDE.
CHANGE HOW YOU SEE THINGS.
LOOK FOR THE GOOD IN ALL SITUATIONS.
TAKE THE LESSON AND FIND NEW OPPORTUNITIES TO GROW.
LET ALL THE EXTRA STRESS, WORRYING AND OVERTHINKING GO.
Tru2Day980
Be firm about your choices right now.
Don’t go backwards to habits and situations that weren’t helping you evolve.
You have to keep reminding yourself why you even decided to move forward.
Stay positive about what’s to come by being consistent with your change now.
True me.. Tap-853..
Some people think;
ADVENTURE is dangerous,
DISCIPLINE is brutal,
TRUTH is lethal,
LOVE is hard,
& LIFE isn’t moving.
These are all low-key narcissistic inconsistent personality traits which brings severe unhappiness to life.
And all you gotta do is; stay away from those who think like this.
ADVENTURE brings joy.
DISCIPLINE teaches you to be consistent.
TRUTH is core of basic human values.
LOVE is beautiful.
& LIFE is fun.
You have to carry this attitude forward in life.
Remain consistent with the way you are.
That helps you to be in sync with life.
Hangout with those who reflect & second your thoughts.
A happy person is not a person who’s always in a good situation, but rather a person who always has a good attitude in every situation.
VIBE WITH YOUR TRIBE.
Tap OUT..✌️
True me.. Tap-849..
Stop comparing where you’re at with where everyone else is.
It doesn’t move you farther ahead, improve your situation, or help you find peace.
It just feeds your shame, fuels your feelings of inadequacy, and ultimately it keeps you stuck.
The reality is that, there is no one on correct path in life.
Everyone has their own unique journey.
A path that’s right for someone else won’t necessarily be a path that’s right for you.
And that’s okay.
Your journey isn’t right or wrong, or good or bad.
It’s just different.
Your life isn’t meant to look like anyone else’s because you aren’t like anyone else.
You’re a person with all your own with a unique set of goals, obstacles, dreams, and needs.
So stop comparing, and start living.
You may not have ended up where you intended to go.
But trust, for once, that you have ended up where you needed to be.
Trust that you are in the right place at the right time.
Trust that your life is enough.
Trust that you are enough.
Enjoy the ride. Life is fun. Let it be.
Tap OUT..✌️
Tru2Day936
When you can’t control what’s happening,
challenge yourself to control the way you are responding to what’s happening.
That’s where the POWER is.
Tru2Day920
It’s not about the words.
It’s not about the time.
It was never.
It’s always about the vibe.
Give yourself permission to walk away from every situation that brings BAD VIBES.
Tru2Day846
Every situation in life is TEMPORARY.
So when life is good, make sure you enjoy and receive it fully.
And when life is not so good, remember that it will not last forever.
Better days are on the way.
Tru2Day781
It takes GRACE to remain kind in cruel situations.
Tru2Day740
YOUR CURRENT SITUATION IS GIVING YOU AN OPPORTUNITY TO RE-EVALUATE WHAT YOU WANT.
-Tashabee.
True me.. Tap-625..
7 IMPORTANT LIFE LESSONS TO REMIND OURSELVES EVERY DAY:
1. Personality is not set in stone. You are able to take control or change it the way you like.
2. Never leave your parents. They are the reason you are here.
3. Never get confused to select between love and friendship. Both have their respective parts to play.
4. When in anger, isolate yourself. Give yourself some time. Finally think about the situation again with calm mind.
5. People say “Follow your heart”. Not in every situation, Instead “Listen to your heart” & “Act With Your Brain”.
6. Time heals almost everything. Give some time and experience the change.
7. Thoughts control your Feelings. Feelings control your Actions. Actions control your Results. POSITIVE THOUGHTS = POSITIVE RESULTS.
(Not my words).
Tap OUT..💪
True me.. Tap-616..
Positive attitude is about seeing goodness in every situation of life.
If you have food in your fridge, clothes on your body, a roof over your head and a place to sleep, you’re richer than 75% of the entire world.
If you have money in your wallet, a little change, and can go anywhere you want, you are among the top 18% of the world’s wealthy people.
If you are alive today with more health than illness, you are more blessed than the million people who will not survive this week and die.
If you can actually READ this message and understand it, you are more fortunate than the 3 billion people in the world who cannot see, cannot read or suffer mental retardation.
Life is not about complaining pain and sorrows. It’s about a thousand other reasons to be grateful and happy.
Tap OUT..💪
True me.. Tap-588..
Never ever feel like “I don’t have a choice”. No matter how tough a situation may seem, you always have choices and while you might feel overwhelmed or not brave enough to consider them all, you always have options to choose from to help you make the right choice.
You can think about what advice you would give to a friend in a similar situation or what someone you admire. You take this into account and see if you can do the same. Life is always about right choices.
Tap OUT..🤗
True me.. Tap-576..
Most of us humans suffer from something called “Black and white thinking” also known as polarized thinking. This is an all-or-nothing mindset that things happen either all the way or not at all. When extremes become the norm, you’ll start to think that there are only two outcomes to any situations wild success or terrible failure.
You might start to believe that people are either all good or all bad or that they must be either a loyal friend or an enemy. This cognitive distortion is completely unrealistic. It erases all gray areas or spectrums and leads you to believe things that are often untrue. Reality doesn’t exist in extremes and seeing it like that is unfair to yourself and others.
Tap OUT..🤗
True me.. Tap-567..
Being empathetic has some side effects as well. If you’re a genuine empath, others emotions can flip yours like switch. Have you ever had a day that was going great until it wasn’t because it was ruined by someone else’s bad day!? Imagine a day when you accomplished a lot of goodness, got positive feedback, focused on self care & feeling overall optimistic and confident. Then someone comes home, or you get a call or you meet up with a friend and their day isn’t going so well.
If you’re an empath, your own emotions immediately shift toward whatever they’re feeling, which can be disappointment, anger, worried or whatever. It’s like you lived through their day and not your own. This can make it difficult to hold space for that person as you attempt to cope with the same challenging emotions. People who can’t keep up with own emotional strides always bring negative impact to others. Learn to own yourself with time.
Tap OUT..💪
Tru2Day661
When a beautiful dream breaks, it breaks a bit of our real self with it. Being a realist can help a lot in such situations.
True me.. Tap-468..
KNOWLEDGE & WISDOM, two most beautiful words and important parts of our life. Let’s talk what’s what today!!
Knowledge is when you grasp/gain & understand something, then stay informed about it. Of course you like sharing it as much as possible so that it remains in your memory & grows further with time. Wisdom is when you understand with whom you should share that knowledge or whether/when not to do so. Most of us have the knowledge but lack WISDOM.
Tap OUT..👍
True me.. Tap-441..
Two people want each other. True. Vibe. Grow. Stick together. A relationship must be as simple and easy as that. Just cut & exit when anything else beyond/below that comes to play, that’s nothing but pure mindfuckery.
I love being single because “I DON’T LIKE/WANT OBLIGATION”, the same reason I don’t like debt or mortgages. My approach to life remains the same no matter where I am dealing with whatsoever kinda situation. And YES, I do believe in a truthful togetherness.
Tap OUT..👍
Tru2Day540
Conditions & Situations will never be just right. Certain times you are allowed to wait till factors are favorable, but that mustn’t delay your actions. Find your purpose & set GOALS. One step at a time & you will reach destination if your movement is forward no matter how slow you are moving.
True me.. Tap-247..
Not the situation, it’s how you react or respond to it. Reactions are always instantaneous & negative. Response is always thoughtful time consuming & positive.
Tap OUT..💪
True me.. Tap-218..
You don’t need to believe in Zodiac signs or Horoscope till your life gets involved with another person, name it a RELATIONSHIP/LOVE or even with BUSINESS/WORK SITUATIONS. You can be the strongest ever individual till someone becomes capable enough to explore/exploit you physically/emotionally & fucks your sanity. Zodiac sign pairs matter for a reason.
Just an example; Barack Obama is a Leo & Michelle Obama is Capricorn. That’s a POWER COUPLE, you know who’s the lion & who’s his queen in this relationship. Now towards current US president Donald Trump who’s a Gemini & Melania Trump who’s a Taurus, I will let you decide who’s the DICK & who’s PUSSY in this equation!!?😜
Tap OUT..👍
True me.. Tap-209..
I have said NO to drugs, smoking & gambling since forever no matter how good or bad situations get. My only addiction is MONEY, can’t change that in me.
Tap OUT..😘
Tru2Day221
Train your mind to see goodness in every situation.
Tru2Day198
No-one can make you angry. It’s your response to the situation. Choose TRUE people in life, you will never feel anger, agony or arrogance.
True me.. Tap-160..
Now a days we usually see LOVE triangle situations, they are nothing less than a hell on earth. Whoever does that gets nothing except bad karma.
If you have faced it, just leave both of them with whatever they are upto. You are the legit person, don’t think about that cheap person who betrayed. You will get someone who is a million times beautiful & better than that past. Put your smile, be true to yourself, cleanse your heart, move away & move on.
Tap OUT..😘
Tap my thoughts..116
Looking at my clean shaved face, someone asked “How old are you”?
Answer: Old enough to fuck, drive & drink legally.
(Situation you have to go through when body fat is below 10%).
Tap my thoughts.. 82
When you smell your relationship is turning into a situationship, just run for a while. Life has better things stored for you always.
True me.. Tap-105..
The beauty of IMAGINATION is something which makes impossible achievable. Try it.
Don’t stress too much. No matter how bad the situation is, it will change for the better.
Tap OUT..😘
Tap my thoughts.. 59
My situation right now!!😜
You compliment me: IDGAF.
You complete me: WHERE ARE YOU?
Tap my thoughts.. 51
Discuss ideas, not situations or people. People can be cheeky & situations can turn nasty, ideas always bring fulfillment.
True me.. Tap-56..
Some situations are meant to drain you. You can’t put two different tyres in a motorcycle & run it smoothly. The harder you try, the harsh failure you have to face. Pull back, have a heart to heart with yourself. Make sure you are coming from a place of honesty & integrity, then approach the situation or the other side with your TRUTH. Life is easy & fun, don’t clunk it with negative bullshit.
Tap OUT..😘
True me.. Tap-43..
Situations don’t drain me anymore. I am way beyond something which can bring me down. Too soon life switched to something which is all about strength & opportunities. Yes I spark positivity & life, maybe that’s the only reason some new connections are drawn towards me. I understand & value it.
Just wanna say; fight for what/whom you want. Move ahead together whenever there is equal give & take. I love/respect those who vibe same positivity as mine.
Tap OUT..💪
True me.. Tap-28..
Everyone I connect wants to know bit about my life. Trust me I do nothing exciting like you think. But I always do something that others neglect or fear to do. My niche for happiness is to figure out where less crowd is heading & reach there before all. Less competition, less headache.
In a nutshell, I am just a pile of unfinished business & mysterious in almost every way. I know where/what/how much & why to reveal. I talk, but I only talk that’s predecided. Life is not something which is juggling for me anymore. This quarter century of life has given me enough instances to focus or forgive on situations that need their own shape of ending.
To be continued..
Tru2Day29
People are not bad, situations are. When a hard time asks you “Who you are?”. Don’t reply “I am scared.”
Reply, “I am Tap (put your name here). I will conquer you with ease slow & steady.”
You can’t be admired or loved by someone until & unless you find your value within yourself.
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