Listen without interrupting.
Support without pretending.
Share without hesitation.
Speak without reward.
Listen without interrupting.
Support without pretending.
Share without hesitation.
Speak without reward.
It’s the small habits;
How you spend your mornings!
How you talk to yourself!
What you read!
What you watch!
Who you share your energy with!
Who has access to you!
All these will change your life.
Biggest reason we struggle with insecurity is because we compare our real life with selective content shared on social media.
When you are no longer friends with someone,
Respect the secrets they shared with you,
It’s called integrity.
I read something amazing today.
And I have to talk about it.
Here it goes;
Picasso created more than 50,000 works of art.
How many are considered masterpieces that we still admire today?
About a 100.
Less than 1% of his creations are still relevant.
Stop trying to be perfect.
It’s a numbers game.
Be courageous enough to share.
(This music video got nothing to do with the post above. Only bitches from my engineering school days can remind this one used to be a ting for most. Listen to it.)
We all share space on this planet, so we have to come to a place of mutual respect so we can get along.
We don’t all have to agree with each other but we have to respect and honor our differences and similarities alike.
Reach out to your colleague, roommate, coworker, or new acquaintance and make an effort to get to know them a little better.
You might be surprised how much you have in common or how touched they are by your effort.
EMPATHY is the most beautiful human emotion.
It’s the small habits,
how you spend your mornings,
how you talk to yourself,
what you read,
what you watch,
who you share your energy with,
who has access to you.
That will change your LIFE.
The world is filled with people who, no matter what you do, no matter what you try, will simply not like you.
But the world is also filled with those who will love you fiercely.
The ones who love you: they are YOUR PEOPLE.
Don’t waste your finite time and heart trying to convince the people who aren’t your people that you have value.
They will miss it completely.
They won’t buy what you are selling.
Don’t try to convince them to walk your path with you because you will only waste your time and your emotional good health.
You are not for them and they are not for you.
You are not their cup of tea and they are not yours.
Politely wave them along and you move away as well.
Seek to share your path with those who recognize and appreciate your gifts, who you are.
Be who you are.
You are not everyone’s cup of tea and that is OK.
Everyone has a story to tell, a lesson to teach, and wisdom to share.
Life is a beautiful masterpiece bound together by your experiences.
Open up and share your story; become an inspiration to others.
You can make a difference because you matter.
You were created with purpose.
Live your life with good intention, go out there and make a difference by being the difference.
(This video got nothing to do with the post above. Big fan of Key & Peele, also a big fan of Neil deGrasse Tyson. Watch it for fun & you will definitely gain some knowledge about parallel universe.)
Become honest about personal struggles because the issues that we’ve dealt with are still taboo to talk about.
Self-harm, eating disorders, addiction, and mood disorders are things people aren’t always open about.
But it’s so important that someone starts talking about these issues, so that those who are struggling know that there is help out there.
It is your job to be a beacon of hope.
Stand up for those who can’t yet.
Give them support and strength.
Every life has a purpose.
Share your story and you may help someone find their own.
How you spend your mornings,
How you talk to yourself,
What you read,
What you watch,
Who you share your energy with,
Who has access to you,
It’s the small habits, that will change your life.
LIFE should be lived with a spirit of adventure, loads of good conversations and a heart ready to celebrate and embrace others.
LOVE your lover, make love under the stars, let spontaneity lead, keep things fresh and say “I LOVE YOU” a million times a day.
SHARE a meal and glass of wine with your tribe.
Don’t be stingy with what’s in your hands.
Be generous with your words, your creativity, your love.
LIVE large, and listen to your convictions.
Don’t let the sun go down on anger.
And be bold even when you feel like retreating to your safe little cave!
Most importantly have faith in almighty with all your heart, mind and soul.
(Not my words.)
(This video got nothing to do with the post above. There’s a reason i can’t watch any series in Netflix, I can’t keep up with something random for ages unless it’s something SciFi or Supernatural & Animation. This song is trippy tho, goes with the kinda movies kicks my mood.)
Don’t let a mad world tell you that success is anything other than a successful present moment.
The world is not a game in which you lose if someone else wins.
Another person’s success does not mean you have failed.
Another person’s beauty does not mean you are ugly.
Another person’s romance does not mean you are unloved.
Another person’s happiness is not a shadow on yours.
The world trains us to think that the good things in life are like one piece of cake.
We fight for it, the best person earns it, and everyone else is left to fight for scraps.
But SUCCESS is really getting yourself into the kitchen and making your own damn dessert, and then sharing it with everyone you adore.
When I give, it does not come with strings.
I’m not keeping track of what you owe me.
When I give, I choose to do so without ulterior motives.
I give because I’m genuine.
I give because I know what it’s like to be without.
To long for and be ignored.
To speak and not be heard.
To care for and have nothing returned.
When I give it’s because I get it.
It’s because I know the value in what I have in my heart and I refuse to let the world stop me from sharing that.
But when things start being taken for granted,
When you no longer appreciate my sincerity,
I won’t switch, I won’t get angry, and I won’t be spiteful.
I’ll just get smart and I’ll change your role in my life.
Because when I give, I’m all in.
But when I’m done, there’s no looking back.
I stopped sending paragraphs.
I stopped telling people how to behave.
I stopped entertaining retaliation & inconsistency.
I stopped telling people how important is communication.
I started walking away from all these crap, blocking, and distancing myself.
Life is becoming peaceful.
Sometimes being yourself & independent in life is better than being surrounded by halfass people.
(This post is not for those who came & vanished in past. It’s for my future person, in case you experience something is odd in me or missing in me, just say it and keep forgiving me till you experience the best of me.)
Each of us leads unique lives with experiences that nobody else will ever completely understand.
Your story holds so many valuable lessons that can help inspire, teach, and motivate someone else.
Should you choose to share it!?!
In life, I have heard so many different stories.
Just by listening, I learned so many different things.
I’m so thankful I found the courage to share my story as well and talk about what I’ve been through.
Not only has it helped me, but it has helped give perspective and strength to so many other people, my people to be precise.
I encourage you to do the same.
Share your story with someone who is worth your time.
You never know how one sentence of your life story could inspire someone to rewrite their own.
No matter what you have been through in life, good or bad, don’t take it for granted.
There are lessons in every moment of our lives.
There are people who notice you only when you shine,
or when you fall into the darkness.
Not the average you.
Not the mediocre you.
But the great you, or the not-so-great you.
The people who are worthiest of your care are not those who only notice you at your best and worst but those who are with you at all times.
They don’t need an excuse to love you.
They don’t need an excuse to talk to you,
or to ask you how you’re doing!!
They don’t need an excuse to share their happiness with you.
They don’t need an explanation.
They give you one without you asking for it.
They assume the good in you before the bad.
So keep eyes open just so you don’t miss those people.
Such equations take long long time & trust to develop.
Once you find them, never let them go because those are not just friends but family members.
They’re life companions.
They are the people who will tell you when you are wrong simply because they’ve allowed themselves to tie their well-being to yours. (Not my words).
Vibe with people who are good for you.
A shared joy is a double joy, shared sorrow is a half sorrow.
(Ancient Swedish saying)
It’s pouring outside like crazy & weather/room temperature is in single digit celsius. While browsing random TV channels in my hotel at 2am, accidentally got hit by FOX news. I found out two new things that night; Donald Trump is the best president of USA ever & my dick is little over 3-feet long. Trust me, Both True.
(Sharing a tiny experience from my last trip).
In a relationship if someone is not moving up with time; just move forward with your life towards your goals & success, with or without them. You need a better you tomorrow. If deserving & you both are meant to be together, the other person will step up to catch up.
Life is long for those who are under the shadow of SADNESS, GRIEF, SORROW or SORRY. It’s short for those who waste it without figuring out motive to live & spend it under random dizziness related to infatuations/irrelevant fun quotient.
LIFE IS NOT ENOUGH FOR THOSE, WHO WAKE UP TO A GOAL THEY WANNA ACHIEVE & SHARE THAT HAPPINESS TO THE ONE THEY ADORE LITTLE MORE THAN THEIR LIFE.
I don’t understand those people who put head in their butthole & expect everything will turn out in their favour. 😂
Some people put a front like they are happy as fuck, without any such gain. If you have sorrow or some emotions inside, pour it out to seem like a legit human.
You can’t catch a fish without hook. Stop damaging your own brain with mindgames.
People may hurt, scold, betray, abuse & break your heart. Stay strong, don’t behave like a pussy. Everything happens for a reason. Your other side is earning their karma by misusing you. At the end someone beautiful is coming to clean all & adore you for what you are. Your Truth & goodness will be rewarded at any cost. Stay positive, vibe right.
Choices made under anger/guilt/fear/deceit can’t be undone.
Apparently my friends were suggesting to go on a banging spree last time when I told them about breaking up with a person who felt flat on standing on her ground to be a human. I just exited that part because that wasn’t serving me. If a relationship isn’t making you happy; you don’t need to break up from that person, you just need to come out from the bullshit they are trying to sell you. The day they will understand their own value, that person will figure out what’s best for them & you figure out what’s best for you.
In the name of break up, don’t go for stupid rebound sex bullshit. Some even end up in friends with benefits situations which attract more complications. That lowers your standard as a human even further. I make sure there is some standard in a person even when it’s a one night stand. That girl wasn’t even worth it. That was my reason for break up.
(Not gonna mention further details)
Life is like a concert. Don’t go ahead & argue/fight with/for somebody towards any reason good or bad, it’s like you are stopping your own fun by wasting time on someone else who is all about negative vibe.
Since the day you are born till today, all your actions are already written by your almighty. Call it destiny or call it your lifepath.
The only thing you can do is; understand your heart/head’s call & put it under logic to understand the truth, just follow it. You know where to move. Don’t prefer to live under regrets. You deserve happiness & love in your life. Smile..
You have to shift through the dirt to find GOLD. You never failed, it’s always a recipe on works for SUCCESS.
I am a nice fucker. In case you see me being a dick towards someone; please don’t judge, that piece of shit deserves even worse.
If you can’t speak your TRUTH, expect me to treat you like a rubbish. I smell liars. I fucking don’t care whether you are dead or alive, there is no place for you to live in my world of happiness & positivity.
“Don’t put your eggs in one same basket.”
If you are reading this from a tier-1 economy country, this is for you.
Till 2018, share market was way too bully & it was raising like a slingshot since 2003-04. What I am mentioning here is, the graph only grew further. There were no pretty big setbacks. Not in Europe, China or Japan as well. In America too it raised pretty well. People wanted to be there & invested religiously. 2018 wasn’t a awful year, but not a productive one either. Most people will agree with me about loses with buy calls.
Now. Let’s talk about the cure & everyone’s favourite “Technology stocks”. Facebook, Google, Oracle, Amazon & Apple. They aren’t the same bet as they used to be. It completely depends on the growth of US economy. With Donald Trump’s trade war on it’s verge, it’s damn unsure about furthermore. Just doubledown your investment in such stocks. Investors used to think these are the stocks which will perform well till next few years or a decade. Predictions talk a slower growth year for 2019.
No, with public expenditure collapsing even China isn’t able to grow at the pace it used to be. The worst part of that is, EU’s growth associated to China. When Chinese economy fails to surpass the expectations, the same time even EU struggles with it. Their manufacturing giant stature isn’t a bubble. It reflects & effects everyone in this connected world. Towards this issue, Chinese government is already working with some new rules & relaxations. Let’s keep a watch on it.
(I didn’t mention anything about UK, looking at the Brexit issues going on. Doesn’t matter how badly I am attached, money matters).
Emerging markets!! Yeah, we are talking now. Some Asian & African markets. & You should include Japan & Australia to your account as well. Think about the feasibility. Wealth isn’t stagnant, It shouldn’t be. For this coming year, currency & banking stocks will be my pick in India. For consumer electronics stocks, look towards Japan. Spread your money wisely. Invest half in rich economies & half in emerging markets. I will keep on talking about my opinions onwards. Put forward your best strategy for best results.
Before anyone asks me more about gold or commodity, crypto & Forex related products; I will only suggest about educating self first. Products which give you instant enormous benefits are volatile, stop depending on those.
I am wishing you all a delightful productive year ahead. Stay tuned & fetch your dreams eyes open.
Happy new year 2019.