Porn isn’t real sex. Cocaine isn’t real energy. Alcohol isn’t real courage. Gambling isn’t real investing. Caffeine isn’t real adrenaline. Video games aren’t real life. Social media isn’t really social. Business books aren’t real business.
WORK TOWARDS BECOMING A REAL YOU.
(This video got nothing to do with the post above. The best heist movie trailer I bet, big fan of SNL skits. Watch it for fun.)
If you want to know about my past before approaching, I have answer for you.
I don’t have any sort of LOVE story to serve your query. There are bunch of not-so-meaningful encounters or sex stories you can say. Yes I was wowed & about to fall for someone, escaped that thing at the right time. It’s good when mask falls off, you are left with only TRUTH.
After you know WHO DO YOU LOVE, then make sure to find out WHY DO YOU LOVE as well. It’s needed for a long-term. You need a reason to be with someone. There is something you liked unique in your partner, or else why are you with him/her!!
Being in love with a bed-bug is hard no-matter how good is that money/boots/smile or sex. If a person isn’t driven, you can’t be with them on the longer run. A person without a goal is indecisive and they will only bring instability to your life.
Doesn’t matter which side you are in, try to be a better you with a motive. Motive/goal can be anything, being a better student/employee/business person whatever it is. First find your reason to strive/live, other side will celebrate you in LOVE.
In a relationship if someone is not moving up with time; just move forward with your life towards your goals & success, with or without them. You need a better you tomorrow. If deserving & you both are meant to be together, the other person will step up to catch up.
No, LOVE has nothing to do with finances or charisma of the other side. But, you already know what’s your comfort zone/future goals & who can be worth it to share that same way!!
Just like you can’t use that same smartphone in your hand for more than 2-3 years, you want to upgrade it even if you are using it. Life is just like that. It needs a upgrade time to time. See your parents, how many times you changed your home/TV/location/furniture/whatever. Life is exactly like that. It needs upgrades not just monetarily, it needs upgrades in every aspect. You need your emotional growth & qualifications/skills/work too need the same.
If you aren’t seeing the same in your partner, don’t let him/her be your LIFE PARTNER. Someday you will surely lose your attraction/passion/mojo towards that person if they are not driven towards a better life. LOVE is a big word. Don’t misuse it, use it when you find your forever or else go happy fuck around for a while. Having tons of sex with multiple partners is OK if your moral allows you & you get that much attention. Misusing that word LOVE to gain little passion is not OK, it will tear you down slowly.
Ask yourself how long did you let that LOVE cook inside you, ask yourself what’s gonna be the result when time tests you with good or bad situations!! BE TRUE to yourself first. Time heals all when intentions are true in head/heart & your mouth speaks the same.
Doesn’t matter you love your pet, girlfriend/ boyfriend, any family member, husband/wife or a friend, in any equation LOVE should teach you how to become a better person first. If your LOVE isn’t helping you evolve, just exit it. We humans are born to a purpose, which entitles us for certain amount of respect & care. When you don’t grow as a person, you are definitely marching towards a life of an insect/animal.
We all are allowed to do mistakes. Infatuations & attractions are unavoidable. Learn to keep your belongings & temptations in check or under control. With my tiny life, I definitely understand how not to mix sex & love. Or when to mix intimacy in love. Is it a help? Still figuring it out the best possible way.
Don’t lose your worth in this process. You don’t need to move on, you need to move forward. Be a true person to yourself & others. You deserve HAPPINESS & FULFILLMENT in life. 😘
Yes, I was crushing over a raunchy brunette during those days. Definitely not Love, I was never ready for that. Once met that girl near bus stop during a rainy day. A tiny conversation lead to so much more later on, not a line. Just read it..😂
Girl: Heya Tap. Where you wanna go in this weather?
Tap: Hey not much. It’s spar, to buy chicken breasts & wine.
Girl: I heard a lot about those late night parties in your apartment.
Tap: Yeah, I would love to invite you someday.
Girl: Is there a barbecue party tonight as well?
Girl: You shouldn’t invite me, I am totally wet because of this rain.
Tap: Rather I would love to invite you right now. Let me show you the right way to getwet. 😂
(No further 18+ talks, I am a big flirt. & Yes I know how to scratch the right cord).
People may hurt, scold, betray, abuse & break your heart. Stay strong, don’t behave like a pussy. Everything happens for a reason. Your other side is earning their karma by misusing you. At the end someone beautiful is coming to clean all & adore you for what you are. Your Truth & goodness will be rewarded at any cost. Stay positive, vibe right.
Apparently my friends were suggesting to go on a banging spree last time when I told them about breaking up with a person who felt flat on standing on her ground to be a human. I just exited that part because that wasn’t serving me. If a relationship isn’t making you happy; you don’t need to break up from that person, you just need to come out from the bullshit they are trying to sell you. The day they will understand their own value, that person will figure out what’s best for them & you figure out what’s best for you.
In the name of break up, don’t go for stupid rebound sex bullshit. Some even end up in friends with benefits situations which attract more complications. That lowers your standard as a human even further. I make sure there is some standard in a person even when it’s a one night stand. That girl wasn’t even worth it. That was my reason for break up.
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