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When someone treats you like you’re just one of many options, help them narrow their choice by removing yourself from the equation.
Sometimes you have to try not to care, no matter how much you do.
Because sometimes you can mean almost nothing to someone who means so much to you.
It’s not pride, it’s self-respect.

Don’t expect to see positive changes in your life if you surround yourself with negative people.
Don’t give part-time people a full-time position in your life.
Know your value and what you have to offer and never settle for anything less than what you deserve.

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Mama once said;

“When someone has options in LOVE, he/she has no LOVE, no STANDARDS & no SELF-RESPECT. It’s just cheap character at play”.

I second this one.

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Be with someone who inspires you to be your greatest self.

-Sylvester Me Nutt III.

(This video got nothing to do with the post above. Radicalism is the biggest threat still blooming under Britain’s nose & i have shared my view on this since my student days. My voice against it is not new.)

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Few steps to self care which reflects your self respect:

1. If it feels wrong, don’t do it. It’s not worth it.

2. Say exactly what you mean. You don’t need to be a people pleaser.

3. Trust your instincts, let’s name it intuition if you want.

4. Never speak bad about yourself. Never give up on your dreams.

5. Don’t be afraid to say no. Don’t be afraid to say yes.

6. Be kind to yourself & practice the same towards others.

7. Let go of what you can’t control. Expectations are the thief of joy.

8. Stay away from drama and negativity.

9. Prioritise yourself and your goals, you have to face both forever.

10. LOVE those whom you can respect.

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How to practice SELF RESPECT?

When someone treats you like you’re just one of many options, help them narrow their choice by removing yourself from the equation. Sometimes you have to try not to care, no matter how much you do. Because sometimes you can mean almost nothing to someone who means so much to you. It’s not pride – it’s self-respect.

Don’t expect to see positive changes in your life if you surround yourself with negative people. Don’t give part-time people a full-time position in your life. Know your value and what you have to offer, and never settle for anything less than what you deserve.

Tap OUT..🤗

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Grandpa once said “If you are confident about your views or values, never expect others to certify it”. I was still in my teen days when he said it. He died at the age of 97 before 3 years. I am somehow understanding his words how & why. I talk a lot about building confidence to develop a stronger self-esteem, which can later help in growing self-respect further. Let me explain all in few words;

1- Confident people don’t force their views on others. They don’t force their beliefs on anyone else whether those beliefs are political or religious. They have a clear understanding that these beliefs in choices are personal for everyone. They may stand up for themselves when others oppose, but will never challenge what other people think nor feel the need to tell them that they are wrong.

2- Never compromise your values. Having defined core values is foundational principles to any pursuit in life. Confident people live in alignment with their values and will never compromise themselves what they hold dear. They use these values as they make decisions in both life and work. Even if it means giving up something desirable in the short term. When it comes to confidence one thing is certain, truly confident people always have the upper hand over the doubtful and the skittish. Because they inspire others and they make things happen. Embracing the behaviors of confident people is a great way to increase your odds for success which in turn will lead to more confidence. (Not my words)

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It takes a lifetime to understand the difference between EXPENSIVE & OVERPRICED. Let me clarify it to you the easiest possible way.

For an example; your SELF-RESPECT is the most EXPENSIVE thing about you, once you understand your worth. And your EGO is either cheap or OVERPRICED looking at your attitude towards life.

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Your truth, good habits, learnings, self-respect & self-esteem shape your character. And a weak character will always result in a weaker attitude towards life.

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I have a bad habit to block random people from my life. The way I see it is; if I can be happy for a day without entertaining someone, I can be happy my whole life without that person. That’s another reason how I scare people away. This tiny paragraph is for flings & acquaintances.

Now let’s talk about the people who are in my life. I feel cherished & valued because my people understand how much I value self-respect. I don’t have anything like EGO in me. You can’t offend me. Being a human I too have flaws & I admit them time after time whenever I mess up something. Mama once said; “Do amazing new mistakes, that’s how you can understand where you can go wrong. But never repeat that same mistake again, that’s when you grow to be a bigger better you.” That’s the goal of life now. Goal is to become a bigger better TAP without entertaining unnecessary people or drama.

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