Take chances. Strive to be the person who does things differently, because beautiful things are disappearing each day, and you cannot live your life according to the rules of those who have created a dying world. You have to rewrite the rules. You have to strive for more. Just work to differentiate between the person you truly are, and the person the world has told you to be.
Figure out how you want to live your life on your own terms. Figure out how to take up space within your own definition of what it means to live fully, and wholly, and in pursuit of the things that truly move you, inspire you, and add a rich happiness to your life. Stand up for a future that is your own. This is how revolutions were started. This is how change occurs.
Balance is the key in everything you do. Dance all night long and practice yoga the next day. Drink wine but don’t forget your green juice. Eat chocolate when your heart wants it and kale salad when your body needs it. Live high and low. Move and stay still. Embrace all sides of who you are.
Be brave, bold, spontaneous and loud and let that complement your abilities to find silence, patience, modesty and peace. Aim for balance. Make your own rules and follow your own path and don’t let anybody tell you how to live according to theirs.
1. TO IMPROVE YOUR MOOD, EXERCISE. 2. TO THINK MORE CLEARLY, MEDITATE. 3. TO UNDERSTAND THE WORLD, READ. 4. TO UNDERSTAND YOURSELF, WRITE. 5. TO HELP PEOPLE, HELP YOURSELF. 6. TO LEARN FASTER, HAVE FUN.
If it’s not gonna matter in 5 years, don’t spend more than 5 minutes being upset about it.
(Learn to practice patience & compassion in life. This podcast is 1hour 43 minutes long. If you can watch a movie, you can see it full without skipping parts. There’s no conclusion to it. Everything is knowledge. And education is better than entertainment. Listen this podcast on a Sunday or before hitting bed. It’s motivational, soothing for your head/heart.)
You can’t heal on someone else’s agenda, by someone else’s standards, in someone else’s timeline, with someone else’s rulebook, for someone else’s benefit, under someone else’s expectations, or by someone else’s urging. Your healing is for you, by you, within you, about you, and through you. Until you make healing for you instead of for others, healing will be out of reach.
Healing yourself will ask more of you, more rest, more self love, more letting go, more time for learning, more space for transformation, more honesty about how you feel, more time developing good habits, more courage to try new practices, more time cultivating your inner peace, more faith in yourself and the process. HEALING DOESN’T MEAN THE DAMAGE NEVER EXISTED. IT MEANS THE DAMAGE NO LONGER CONTROLS OUR LIVES.
In a relationship if someone is not moving up with time; just move forward with your life towards your goals & success, with or without them. You need a better you tomorrow. If deserving & you both are meant to be together, the other person will step up to catch up.
Don’t connect with me to give something. I have all tools to keep myself busy & happy. In case you wanna take/share something from me, drop your ego & please don’t lie. I have learnt two lessons after a long struggle; TRUTH & SELF-INTROSPECTION. I always make sure I am on the right path towards my goals. There are rules I made for myself which I just can’t break.
Be you. Let’s share some good moments with a pizza, cheesecake & red wine. Being a buddy to Tap is more than enough always.
Yes, I was crushing over a raunchy brunette during those days. Definitely not Love, I was never ready for that. Once met that girl near bus stop during a rainy day. A tiny conversation lead to so much more later on, not a line. Just read it..😂
Girl: Heya Tap. Where you wanna go in this weather?
Tap: Hey not much. It’s spar, to buy chicken breasts & wine.
Girl: I heard a lot about those late night parties in your apartment.
Tap: Yeah, I would love to invite you someday.
Girl: Is there a barbecue party tonight as well?
Girl: You shouldn’t invite me, I am totally wet because of this rain.
Tap: Rather I would love to invite you right now. Let me show you the right way to getwet. 😂
(No further 18+ talks, I am a big flirt. & Yes I know how to scratch the right cord).
People may hurt, scold, betray, abuse & break your heart. Stay strong, don’t behave like a pussy. Everything happens for a reason. Your other side is earning their karma by misusing you. At the end someone beautiful is coming to clean all & adore you for what you are. Your Truth & goodness will be rewarded at any cost. Stay positive, vibe right.
Apparently my friends were suggesting to go on a banging spree last time when I told them about breaking up with a person who felt flat on standing on her ground to be a human. I just exited that part because that wasn’t serving me. If a relationship isn’t making you happy; you don’t need to break up from that person, you just need to come out from the bullshit they are trying to sell you. The day they will understand their own value, that person will figure out what’s best for them & you figure out what’s best for you.
In the name of break up, don’t go for stupid rebound sex bullshit. Some even end up in friends with benefits situations which attract more complications. That lowers your standard as a human even further. I make sure there is some standard in a person even when it’s a one night stand. That girl wasn’t even worth it. That was my reason for break up.
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