Tag: romantic

True me.. Tap-919..

If you want to align with REAL FRIENDS, REAL LOVERS, REAL COMMUNITY, share your truth PROUDLY, UNASHAMEDLY & CONSISTENTLY.
Shout it.
Sing it.
Write it.
Dance it.
Paint the most AUTHENTIC you all over the canvas of your life.
Whoever’s left applauding your art are YOUR PEOPLE.
Whoever fades away was never yours to begin with.

(This movie trailer got nothing to do with the post above. I am not a fan of online dating or any form of fast-track romance. My big reason is, i trust no one except my family & myself. And Yes, there’s a group of 17 friends whom i consider family. Trust & respect are earned with consistency & communication.)

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There’s so much more to life than finding someone who will want you, or being sad over someone who doesn’t. There’s a lot of wonderful time to be spent discovering yourself without hoping someone will fall in love with you along the way, and it doesn’t need to be painful or empty. You need to fill yourself up with love, not anyone else. Become a whole being on your own.

Go on adventures, fall asleep in the woods with friends, wander around the city at night, sit in a coffee shop planning your future & finance, leave notes in library books, workout, learn something new everyday, dress up for yourself, fetch your goals, give back to others & society, smile a lot. Do all things with love, but don’t romanticize life like you can’t survive without it. Live for yourself and be happy on your own. It isn’t any less beautiful, I promise. Life is fun, let it be.

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Live a life with a thought where nothing is wasted. Seeing postivity in everything/everyone is tough, but worth it. Let me explain. Most think “failed relationships were a waste of time”. No. There are people who are meant to be in your life and people who aren’t, but that doesn’t make any failed relationship a waste. Even if it was awful and wasn’t what you wanted at all, at least you learned what you don’t want.

You shouldn’t force people to stay in your life. If they know your worth and want you in their lives, they will make desirable space for you.

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Most of my friends are entering or exiting a relationship in the beginning of 2021. Every single one of them says “Mutual understanding” is the reason behind their bond or break up, I mean some of them have it & some had it but now lost it. People go through such phases which is not new. One thing is funny, everyone consults me when they enter or exit an equation as if i am a renowned relationship counselor.

Very few understand the way i roll. Haven’t met one who deserves all of me. I am truthful, consistent, practical, single, little rude, materialistic, i take money seriously, i hate both religion & nationalism equally. Basically little assholic with this mix, all out of choice. I have committed ton of nasty messy mess. Good part is, i hide nothing. Being blunt & raw is fun, i have no issues in being grumpy while talking what’s in my mind. Now a days i have a strong desire to exit my singlehood status, but my equation requires “MUTUAL RESPECT”. Giving proper regard for the dignity of a person & it’s position is way more important in my eyes, can’t love someone without respect. 😘ZK.

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(This video got nothing to do with the post above. Very few artists talk about society. Big up brother.)👍

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How many times have you felt losing your mojo towards people pretty quick!! Not talking about just some romantic bullshit, i am talking about friends or acquaintances. People turn boring when they stop adding some value/goodness to our life. Most think their social media presence & possessions are attractive. I low-key hate every single one who wants to build clout over instagram or tiktok just by following some trend, they are all generic crap in my eyes. Every pretty face will be replaced by another prettier face one day, that’s the reality of our world.

Want to show me you are fun & exciting!?! Let’s talk business, money, growth, technology, automobile, literature, workout, baking, real estate, career plans or if it’s a casual conversation tell me your taste in music with why so!! Life is small & exciting if you are on a journey to achieve something. Your goals make you gorgeous in my eyes. The same life can feel long & boring if you get along with people who don’t have much going on, same applicable on you for that matter. At the end i can say; people remain boring & mediocre out of own choice, it’s not any other person’s responsibility to point out that nonsense. Figure out & fetch your dreams. Life is fun, let it be.

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The biggest hurdle on your way to happiness is self-loathing. Self-loathing is very similar to insecurity. And if you experience it, know that you’re not alone. Almost everyone experiences some form of self-hate at one time or another. It’s the feeling you are not enough, unworthy or undeserving of the good things in life, like love and happiness. The truth is that, everyone deserves love and happiness. But we’re often taught the opposite. It may arise from a history of abuse, cultural or social messages or being excluded.

Bad relationships, failures and many other different experiences can lead you to believe that, there is something inherently wrong with you. Well, there isn’t and self-loathing will only bring you down even if you’ve made decisions that you’re not proud of. You can learn from your mistakes, hating yourself over them will not do you any good. Let go of your self-loathing. It’s a barrier to your happiness. And you do deserve to be happy.

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Gut feelings is something you should not ignore while making difficult decisions. People often tell you to just listen to your gut. We all have a sort of sixth sense and knowing what is right or wrong and whether or not the decision we are making is a good one. All of the information that you process subconsciously triggers a physical response that you shouldn’t ignore. These feelings are the most primal of impulses and evolutionary end. It’s hardwired into us and their main purpose is to protect us. It’s very important not to dismiss warning signs from your subconscious as it picks up much more about the environment around you than your conscious mind does and it can help you make better decisions. So here few examples on how to work on your feelings.

Being drawn to someone is common. There are positive gut instincts you should pay attention to. One of them is the urge to help another person. Even if there isn’t an obvious reason why someone would need your help. Your brain picks up on body language, tone and other indicators that can suggest the opposite. It doesn’t cost anything to ask someone if you can help them in some way. Besides it’s human instinct to help others and make a difference for someone if we can. Other times you may get the feeling that someone could just be the key to accomplishing some goal or dream. You have your gut tells you that this person will be important in your life whether it’s as a friend, romantic partner or business partner. Getting to know them could lead to an amazing opportunity. If you feel this pull towards someone, you should probably act on it & strike up a conversation and see where it leads.

Follow what you feel. (Said by my bestie bitch when i was going through a rough patch).
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With time moving up we see young people showing less intrest in relationships, basically most of us suck at COMMITMENT. Nobody answers you why!! But you will definitely spot a bunch of those who will say; “They are the perfect oak but weather is not helping. Claiming to be perfect is nothing but stupid”.

Answer: Expectations & optimism, It depends on what you expect from yourself & how optimistic you are about it!! There are many who aren’t stable with life, I am not talking about that problem. It’s just that, people know what they can ever be & becoming stable/rich someday is just an unachievable dream for them. This is what makes a person feel like they aren’t good enough. That’s where all desires start limiting one after another. And you never desire to buy a subway/train ticket to your next street in your city, you can do that anytime you want. You desire to travel/fly to Disneyland or a nice beach vacation out of your country and you start saving for that. Relationships are like that DESIRE, you invest little after little time to get something bigger one day. All sums up to; No matter it’s relationship or any other goals of your life; DESIRE BIG, HAVE EXPECTATIONS ONLY FROM YOURSELF, INVEST YOUR ENERGY WITH TIME, REMAIN OPTIMISTIC ABOUT THE OUTCOME & STAY AWAY FROM THE CHEAP IF YOU EVER WANT EXPERIENCE EXPENSIVE.

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Tru2Day263

Love/Sex/Relationship is not the end goal of your life. Start chasing something meaningful which will fulfill your wallet first, purpose next. Just shared the recipe towards a happy happening you.

Power COUPLE!!

People really get confused when they see these two words together “POWER COUPLE”.

It simply means, you see TRUTH, TRUST & CONFIDENCE in your partner’s eyes. Each time you are face to face, you scream at your partner without opening mouth “You are going nowhere this lifetime. Your address is my arms. I own you.” There is no longer a day where communication will struggle. There is no chance for misunderstandings. Each words spoken are TRUTH or a PROMISE. That’s when you are sure about your forever next.

While typing this I can add one thing; I don’t know where i stand in terms of a romantic relationship or LOVE kinda bullshit. I was/am never ready to enter a relationship. Did that mistake just once, failed. Not ready to allow anyone close without a huge time tested solid foundation.

Now I assure, I see TRUTH in someone. Request is; please never lose it. My heart is healed & I am back on track towards usual flamboyance. Thanks for succesfully keeping my both heads active. Yes, I am trying to make you weak. And shhhhhhhhh, I know how to make twins.😂😘

Tap my thoughts.. 176..

Anyone who tries to woo me with those cheesy/cheeky texts, remember I LOVE cheesecakes way more than you can ever LOVE me. Another non-negotiable requirement; “Last slice of that pepperoni pizza will always be mine.”

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There are people who think someone will approach for a relationship & life will be all rose pink after that. We are living in the world where one swipe left/right, you meet someone. And next day that person is gone to someone else or better.

My philosophy is; I am building myself. I get along with strong headed or loyal heart people. The one who wants me will get me & not stop fighting till mission accomplished. Life is like 80% work & 20% rest bullshit. That’s how I roll. A romantic relationship is not the goal of anyone’s life. You don’t need LOVE to spoon or fuck. It depends on your morals how you entertain people. Build a TRUE amazing self before asking a stable secure relationship.

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True me.. Tap-158..

I am definitely romantic. My kinda romance is more about two return tickets to any nearby destination, a nice service apartment, handcuffs, lubes, cheesecakes, melted chocolate & whipped cream. Opening car doors, bending knees & flowers are too much 80s. I am happy to be me.

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I just don’t understand those who use that word “LOVE” towards multiple people at the same time, in a romantic sense I mean. Love is/was a one on one equation since forever. Then again I don’t understand how can anyone have choices/options in LOVE!!

It’s like they are aware of coming out from MOMMA’S pussy. But weirdly unsure who’s their dad?

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Tru2Day128

In a relationship if someone is not moving up with time; just move forward with your life towards your goals & success, with or without them. You need a better you tomorrow. If deserving & you both are meant to be together, the other person will step up to catch up.

It’s not LOVE yet!!

No, LOVE has nothing to do with finances or charisma of the other side. But, you already know what’s your comfort zone/future goals & who can be worth it to share that same way!!

Just like you can’t use that same smartphone in your hand for more than 2-3 years, you want to upgrade it even if you are using it. Life is just like that. It needs a upgrade time to time. See your parents, how many times you changed your home/TV/location/furniture/whatever. Life is exactly like that. It needs upgrades not just monetarily, it needs upgrades in every aspect. You need your emotional growth & qualifications/skills/work too need the same.

If you aren’t seeing the same in your partner, don’t let him/her be your LIFE PARTNER. Someday you will surely lose your attraction/passion/mojo towards that person if they are not driven towards a better life. LOVE is a big word. Don’t misuse it, use it when you find your forever or else go happy fuck around for a while. Having tons of sex with multiple partners is OK if your moral allows you & you get that much attention. Misusing that word LOVE to gain little passion is not OK, it will tear you down slowly.

Ask yourself how long did you let that LOVE cook inside you, ask yourself what’s gonna be the result when time tests you with good or bad situations!! BE TRUE to yourself first. Time heals all when intentions are true in head/heart & your mouth speaks the same.

Pick up wack!! Best one- Hope SO..

This one is from my university days.

Yes, I was crushing over a raunchy brunette during those days. Definitely not Love, I was never ready for that. Once met that girl near bus stop during a rainy day. A tiny conversation lead to so much more later on, not a line. Just read it..😂

Girl: Heya Tap. Where you wanna go in this weather?

Tap: Hey not much. It’s spar, to buy chicken breasts & wine.

Girl: I heard a lot about those late night parties in your apartment.

Tap: Yeah, I would love to invite you someday.

Girl: Is there a barbecue party tonight as well?

Tap: Yeah.

Girl: You shouldn’t invite me, I am totally wet because of this rain.

Tap: Rather I would love to invite you right now. Let me show you the right way to get wet. 😂

(No further 18+ talks, I am a big flirt. & Yes I know how to scratch the right cord).

Tru2Day67

Some people put a front like they are happy as fuck, without any such gain. If you have sorrow or some emotions inside, pour it out to seem like a legit human.

You can’t catch a fish without hook. Stop damaging your own brain with mindgames.

True me.. Tap-46..

People may hurt, scold, betray, abuse & break your heart. Stay strong, don’t behave like a pussy. Everything happens for a reason. Your other side is earning their karma by misusing you. At the end someone beautiful is coming to clean all & adore you for what you are. Your Truth & goodness will be rewarded at any cost. Stay positive, vibe right.

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Break UP SEX!! Really??

Apparently my friends were suggesting to go on a banging spree last time when I told them about breaking up with a person who felt flat on standing on her ground to be a human. I just exited that part because that wasn’t serving me. If a relationship isn’t making you happy; you don’t need to break up from that person, you just need to come out from the bullshit they are trying to sell you. The day they will understand their own value, that person will figure out what’s best for them & you figure out what’s best for you.

In the name of break up, don’t go for stupid rebound sex bullshit. Some even end up in friends with benefits situations which attract more complications. That lowers your standard as a human even further. I make sure there is some standard in a person even when it’s a one night stand. That girl wasn’t even worth it. That was my reason for break up.

(Not gonna mention further details)

Tap my thoughts.. 13

Life is like a concert. Don’t go ahead & argue/fight with/for somebody towards any reason good or bad, it’s like you are stopping your own fun by wasting time on someone else who is all about negative vibe.

True me.. Tap-45..

Since the day you are born till today, all your actions are already written by your almighty. Call it destiny or call it your lifepath.

The only thing you can do is; understand your heart/head’s call & put it under logic to understand the truth, just follow it. You know where to move. Don’t prefer to live under regrets. You deserve happiness & love in your life. Smile..

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