The real glow up isn’t proving the people from your past wrong. It is finally feeling so content and hopeful about your future that you stop thinking about them entirely. When you want to change your life in order for it to look different, and only that, you are still orbiting around the opinions of people who didn’t love you, and didn’t have any intention to.
A real glow up is authentic. It is lifting off all the cover-up bullshit and addressing the real problems. It is healing. It is changing, for good. It is, for the first time, prioritizing your heart over someone else’s eyes. The real glow up is realizing that you have nobody to prove wrong but yourself. (Not my words.)
If anyone tells you that you can’t live the life you imagined, you don’t have to prove them wrong, just keep on working your hardest and know in your heart that you can achieve it. Use their doubtful attitude as motivation.
You deserve all the happiness in the world, so pursue it with all the madness and passion in your soul. Go confidently in the direction of your dreams. Live the life you have imagined.
(This video got nothing to do with the post above. I can literally laugh at these women little over a hundred times within 20 seconds. If you ask me about my level of TRUST, i don’t think i will ever transfer money even to my future wife’s bank account. It’s not about MONEY, it’s about the purpose. If you don’t own your shit, i think nobody should entertain you in any form of relationship.)
Travel, and tell no one. Live a true LOVE, and tell no one. Stay HAPPY, and tell no one. Vibe with your tribe, and tell no one. Succeed with your goals, and tell no one. Celebrate your success, and tell no one.
If it’s beautiful, tell no one. People ruin beautiful things. They don’t know how to value BEAUTIFUL.
When you are happy with someone/something in private, you don’t need to prove it on social media. Just because you don’t share it on social media, doesn’t mean you’re not up to big things. Keep your personal life PERSONAL. People who have a life, they don’t need to prove they got one. (Not my words).
Live it and stay lowkey. Privacy is important. Privacy is everything. Privacy is precious. In a world where most are overexposed while doing nothing positive, choose a private you who’s accessible only to an exclusive group of handful people. PRIVACY IS THE GREATEST LUXURY.
Friendships work two ways. You must remain transparent no matter you are good or bad. My brain works on numbers, codes, data & business. I swear I love it when someone talks sense & cuts my point with logic. That’s how it should be. Most people don’t understand the difference between offending someone & proving someone wrong. You can prove someone wrong gently. People who talk sense don’t talk trash.
I have an amazing bond with few of my friends. The reason is simple; We dare to prove who’s/what’s wrong when it’s necessary, without offending each other. That’s the beauty of a real friendship. Appreciated.
This is just a tiny “Thank you” note to all who wished me luck for my next endeavour. I have seen people lie, cheat, betray & break soul-ties. Life goes on. Earning Tap’s trust is a heck of a big task. Some of you are still proving me wrong where I wasn’t even expecting your presence. It’s rare to find people who stand the test of time. Please keep surprising me time to time, I adore consistent approach. Tap vibes right with TRUTH & MONEY. Yes it’s a fast life with travel & goals, I keep moving switching places. You all own Tap for real.
Thank you to my CMU boozies & few high school mates. Go to my telegram channel, I have something for all.
(Tiny mention; Girls approach me expecting as if my heart or dick is up for a black-friday sale. Emotionally I am closed, definitely not ready for LOVE or a relationship. When I say “Sugartits” or “Polish Bum”, I am talking to the same person. It’s one on one, soothing & amazing. She is truthful & jealous about me. I am a rampant blunt asshole. Bad combo. Someone earned my TRUST & RESPECT. Meanwhile she wowed my both heads. I had/have options, I chose my happiness.)
If it’s not forever, it’s not LOVE. That’s how I see LOVE. And relationships can be hatched without misusing that four letter word. In case you are coming towards me, I will test the hell out of you & make you prove your want/need/desire/love towards me a million times. Then maybe I will call it quits if it’s not making me feel that positive vibe of togetherness. Bad will work, lie will not. Be you.
Friends think I am a tough nut to crack. Actually I am the smoothest emotional wreck. You can touch my core in the tiniest possible moment. Tricky part: I can sense body language & voice modulation changes, bit psychic you can say. One lie & you fuck your chances to be with me. Do everything right or wrong, I will support you & let you own me easily once you follow your Truth.
My LOVE story will rise from TRUST & abundance. I will enter a relationship someday I feel that exact same vibe of a equal me, equal respect I mean.