Don’t worry about what people think of you or about the way they try to make you feel. If people want to see you as a good person, they will. If they want to see you as a bad person, absolutely nothing you do will stop them.
Ironically, the more you try to show them your good intentions, the more reason you give them to knock you down, because they know they’ve got a part of you that will care about what they do.
Keep your head up high and be confident in what you do. Be confident in your intentions and keep your eyes ahead instead of wasting your time on those who want to drag you back by not caring or by caring the wrong way.
Because you can’t change people’s views. You have to believe that true change for yourself comes from within you, not from anyone else. You must believe, and you must have faith that time itself is much more able to prove your point than you are.
The real glow up isn’t proving the people from your past wrong. It is finally feeling so content and hopeful about your future that you stop thinking about them entirely. When you want to change your life in order for it to look different, and only that, you are still orbiting around the opinions of people who didn’t love you, and didn’t have any intention to.
A real glow up is authentic. It is lifting off all the cover-up bullshit and addressing the real problems. It is healing. It is changing, for good. It is, for the first time, prioritizing your heart over someone else’s eyes. The real glow up is realizing that you have nobody to prove wrong but yourself. (Not my words.)
If anyone tells you that you can’t live the life you imagined, you don’t have to prove them wrong, just keep on working your hardest and know in your heart that you can achieve it. Use their doubtful attitude as motivation.
You deserve all the happiness in the world, so pursue it with all the madness and passion in your soul. Go confidently in the direction of your dreams. Live the life you have imagined.
(This video got nothing to do with the post above. I can literally laugh at these women little over a hundred times within 20 seconds. If you ask me about my level of TRUST, i don’t think i will ever transfer money even to my future wife’s bank account. It’s not about MONEY, it’s about the purpose. If you don’t own your shit, i think nobody should entertain you in any form of relationship.)
Travel, and tell no one. Live a true LOVE, and tell no one. Stay HAPPY, and tell no one. Vibe with your tribe, and tell no one. Succeed with your goals, and tell no one. Celebrate your success, and tell no one.
If it’s beautiful, tell no one. People ruin beautiful things. They don’t know how to value BEAUTIFUL.
When you are happy with someone/something in private, you don’t need to prove it on social media. Just because you don’t share it on social media, doesn’t mean you’re not up to big things. Keep your personal life PERSONAL. People who have a life, they don’t need to prove they got one. (Not my words).
Live it and stay lowkey. Privacy is important. Privacy is everything. Privacy is precious. In a world where most are overexposed while doing nothing positive, choose a private you who’s accessible only to an exclusive group of handful people. PRIVACY IS THE GREATEST LUXURY.
Friendships work two ways. You must remain transparent no matter you are good or bad. My brain works on numbers, codes, data & business. I swear I love it when someone talks sense & cuts my point with logic. That’s how it should be. Most people don’t understand the difference between offending someone & proving someone wrong. You can prove someone wrong gently. People who talk sense don’t talk trash.
I have an amazing bond with few of my friends. The reason is simple; We dare to prove who’s/what’s wrong when it’s necessary, without offending each other. That’s the beauty of a real friendship. Appreciated.
If it’s not forever, it’s not LOVE. That’s how I see LOVE. And relationships can be hatched without misusing that four letter word. In case you are coming towards me, I will test the hell out of you & make you prove your want/need/desire/love towards me a million times. Then maybe I will call it quits if it’s not making me feel that positive vibe of togetherness. Bad will work, lie will not. Be you.
Friends think I am a tough nut to crack. Actually I am the smoothest emotional wreck. You can touch my core in the tiniest possible moment. Tricky part: I can sense body language & voice modulation changes, bit psychic you can say. One lie & you fuck your chances to be with me. Do everything right or wrong, I will support you & let you own me easily once you follow your Truth.
My LOVE story will rise from TRUST & abundance. I will enter a relationship someday I feel that exact same vibe of a equal me, equal respect I mean.
There is nothing called white or black lie. Lie is a Lie & Liars can’t prove anything right. You pollute your core the moment you lie, from where you can’t spread anything positive. That’s one reason liars are indecisive about everything from LIFE to LOVE. They leave themselves juggling between situations or cycles. You will always mark a similar pattern of behaviour in a liar.
Saying it with own experience. The biggest gift I have given myself is MY LITTLE TRUTH. Yes it made me bitter and tough, but I learnt how to stand. If I do anything wrong in my life, I say it proudly before someone else barks about it & face the consequences. If you see anything right/good in me, keep it to yourself or say it to woo me. Either ways, appreciation should only come from other side. We need to keep on cleaning our mess & become a better version of self. Take this one tiny thing from me, Be a true you.
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