
And coffee.
You should always surround yourself with coffee.
LIFE PERFECTLY SUMMARIZED IN JUST FIVE WORDS:
1. Try again when you fail.
2. Tomorrow is another good day.
3. Smile when it rains hard.
4. Happiness is always a choice.
5. Experience can never be bought.
6. Knowledge stays with you forever.
7. Cry hard, then stand firm.
8. Love, get hurt, and love.
9. Eat. Play. Work. Sleep. Love.
Tap..✌️
Happiness is a choice, not a result.
Nothing will make you happy until you choose to be happy.
No person will make you happy unless you decide to be happy.
Your happiness will not come to you.
It can only come from you.
– RALPH MARSTON.
Some people won’t love you no matter what you do and some people won’t stop loving you no matter what you do.
Go where the love is.
I was raised to show respect.
I was taught to knock before i open a door.
Say hello when I enter a room.
Say please and thank you, and to have respect for my elders.
I do let another person have my seat if they need it.
Say ‘yes sir’ and ‘no sir’, and help others when they need me to, not stand on the sidelines and watch.
Hold the door for the elderly person behind me.
Say ‘excuse me’ when it’s needed.
To love people for who they are and not for what i can get from them.
And most importantly, i was also raised to treat people exactly how i would like to be treated by others.
It’s called respect.
Tap..✌️
You have this one life.
How do you wanna spend it?
Apologizing?
Regretting?
Questioning?
Hating yourself?
Dieting?
Running after people who don’t see you?
Be brave.
Believe in yourself.
Do what feels good.
Take risks.
You have this one life.
Make yourself proud.
Tap..✌️
You don’t completely know a person until:
– You travel with them.
– Money is involved.
– You deal with their anger.
– You live with them.
Tough times never last.
But tough people do.
Sometimes you just outgrow people.
You don’t need to hate them.
You don’t need to cut them off.
But you do need to distance yourself from them, if you want to live your best life.
Maybe, that is what is best for them too.
You just need peace over pandering.
Be who you need.
&
Vibe with those who vibe with you.
Tap..✌️
Life is too short.
Grudges are a waste of perfect happiness.
Laugh when you can.
Apologize when you should and let go of what you can.
Stay consistent with the way you are.
Take chances.
Give everything and have no regrets.
Life is too short to be unhappy.
You have to take the good with the bad.
Smile when you’re sad.
Love what you got and always remember what you had.
Always forgive but never forget.
Learn from your mistakes but never regret.
People change and things go wrong.
But always remember, life goes on.
Tap..✌️
How to stay positive when you’re surrounded by negativity:
1: Realize you can’t change people who don’t want to change themselves.
You teach people how to treat you.
2: Stay in your own lane.
The noise will be there.
You may have to hear it,
but you don’t have to listen.
3: Keep moving forward.
Do the work every day,
regardless of how you feel.
Tap..✌️
6 RULES TO KICK ASS IN LIFE:
1. Know that your only competition is who you were yesterday.
2. Earn, save and invest before you spend.
3. Avoid negative people, life is too short.
4. If you don’t go after what you want, you will never get it.
5. See failure as a beginning, not an end.
6. Our habits decide our future.
Tap..✌️
7 Cardinal rules for life;
1. Make peace with your past so it won’t disturb your present.
2. What other people think of you is none of your business.
3. Time heals almost everything.
Give it time.
4. No one is in charge of your happiness, except you.
5. Don’t compare your life to others and don’t judge them.
You have no idea what their journey is all about.
6. Stop thinking too much.
It’s alright not to know the answers.
They will come to you when you least expect it.
7. Smile.
You don’t own all the problems in the world.
Tap..✌️
We live in a time where intelligent people are being silenced so that stupid people won’t be offended.
(Not my words.)
Some people will give up on you when life gets hard, those are not your people.
Others will see the strain on your face,
hear the worry in your voice,
and then gather the resources to help you.
Those are your people.
Keep them close.
– Topher Kearby.
Go where you’re loved.
Stay where it’s consistent.
Do not get addicted to escaping.
Face your shit, handle your business and triumph.
No battle was ever won by people who run.
– Gregory Anthony.
Don’t speak negatively about yourself, even as a joke.
Your body doesn’t know the difference.
Words are energy and cast spells, that’s why it’s called spelling.
Change the way you speak about yourself and you can change your life.
What you’re not changing, you’re also choosing.
– BRUCE LEE.
Just remember, we are all toxic.
Every single human being is capable of being toxic, has been, currently is, etc.
But some people have the desire to be educated on it and do better while others will ignore any accountability and continue to act the same way.
Pay attention.
Your life is about breaking your own limits.
Your life is about outgrowing yourself.
Your life is about living your best life.
You are not in competition with anyone else.
Plan to outdo your past, not other people.
You need to ignore what everyone else is doing and achieving for yourself.
Stop Comparing.
Start living your unique journey.
Tap..✌️
You can always start again.
Clean out your social media.
Create a new account.
Create your new taste in music.
Study or work in a new city.
Start socialising with new people.
Choose a new signature scent and style and purge the outdated parts of yourself.
If you don’t like where you’re at,
but you don’t know what to do about it;
TRY STARTING AGAIN.
Tap..✌️
Signs of PROGRESS;
1. Less fear.
2. Less internal conflict.
3. Longer moments of peace.
4. More doing.
5. Less worrying.
6. Deeper understanding of one’s intentions.
7. Understanding the difference between attention & affection.
8. Increased sense of control.
9. Increase in self-confidence.
10. Delayed gratification.
Tap..✌️
Oversharing is how you leak the energy.
Privacy is protection.
Stop telling people more than what they need to know.
The less you reveal, the more people can wonder.
Forget attention.
Move in silence.
Live peacefully.
Vibrate higher.
Only speak when it’s time to say checkmate.
Tap..✌️
Your time and energy are leaking from 3 cracks;
• Social Media.
• Overthinking.
• Inconsistent people in life.
Instead of productivity hacks, first fix these cracks.
Your real competition isn’t other people.
It’s
-Your ego.
-Your procrastination.
-Your lack of discipline.
-Your distractions.
-Your bad habits.
-Your self-doubt.
-The knowledge you neglect to learn.
-The unhealthy food you consume.
Now go & fight your real competition.
Tap..✌️
We are the books we read.
We are the films we watch.
We are the music we listen to.
We are the people we meet.
We are the dreams we have.
We are the conversations we engage in.
We are what we take from these.
We are the sound of the ocean.
We are the breath of fresh air.
We are the brightest light and the darkest corner.
We are a collective of our experiences.
Tap..✌️
Sometimes you have to keep your good news to yourself.
Everybody is not genuinely happy for you.
Life is about balance.
Be kind, but don’t let people abuse you.
Trust, but don’t be deceived.
Be content, but never stop improving yourself.
Document the moments you feel most in love with yourself; what you’re wearing, who you’re around, what you’re doing.
Recreate and repeat.
– Warsan Shire.
Some humans would do anything to see if it was possible to do it.
If you put a large switch in some cave somewhere, with a sign on it saying ‘END OF THE WORLD SWITCH – PLEASE DO NOT TOUCH’, the paint wouldn’t even have time to dry before someone touches it.
– Terry Pratchett, Thief of Time.
Love what you do,
until you can do what you love.
Love where you are,
until you can be where you love.
Love the people you are with,
until you can be with the people you love most.
This is the way we find happiness, opportunity, and peace.
– Marcandangel.
Life is too short.
Grudges are a waste of perfect happiness.
Laugh when you can.
Apologize when you should.
And let go of what you can.
Take chances.
Give everything and have no regrets.
Life is too short to be unhappy.
You have to take the good with the bad.
Smile when you’re sad.
Love what you got and always remember what you had.
Always forgive but never forget.
Learn from your mistakes but never regret.
People change and things go wrong.
But always remember, life goes on.
Tap..✌️
If you are persistent,
you will get it.
If you are consistent,
you will keep it.
Nobody is asking you to be perfect.
It’s enough to just do the best you can do today with what you have inside you right now.
Oftentimes, we put too much pressure on ourselves to please other people.
Whatever you feel when you wake up is good enough; just start with that and make the most of today.
Start where you are.
Use what you have.
Do what you can.
Tap..✌️
You can change your location,
you can meet new people,
and still have the same old problems.
To truly change your life,
you need to look inward,
get to know and love yourself,
and heal the trauma and dense conditioning in your mind.
This is how you get to the root.
Internal changes have a significant external impact.
Tap..✌️
The more you act out what you wish to see in the world, the more you’ll inspire others to do the same.
It really is that simple.
If you want to change, you have to be the change that’s needed.
Make a list of things you believe in and don’t be afraid to stand up for what you’re passionate about.
Be the change you wish to see in the world.
Tap..✌️
Don’t waste words on people who deserve your silence.
Sometime the most powerful thing you can say is nothing at all.
8 pieces of wisdom that can change your life;
1. Words are powerful, use them wisely.
2. People come and go, but the right ones stay.
3. You are doing enough even if it doesn’t feel like it.
4. Failure is when you don’t try.
5. Random acts of kindness make everyone feel better.
6. Live for today, not for tomorrow.
7. Never look back, there is nothing there for you.
8. Overthinking kills happiness.
Tap..✌️
Be raw.
Be open.
Be fucking real.
Because the last thing this world needs is more fake ass shit.
Be you.
Gyms don’t want you to workout.
Their entire business model is contingent on you not going.
The average Planet Fitness has 7,500 memberships but can only host 700 workouts per day.
Half of the members never step foot inside.
This is the case for most low-cost gyms, and it’s also why these gyms can afford to have such low costs.
Might be a little extra motivation to know that they are literally betting on you not going.
This world is designed to keep you unhealthy & unhappy.
Stand up for yourself.
Tap..✌️
7 things to keep in mind:
1. Go after dreams, not people.
2. Love yourself and the rest will follow.
3. Never lose your sense of wonder.
4. You are capable of more than you know.
5. No regrets in life. Just lessons learned.
6. Your only limit is you.
7. Life goes by in a blink of an eye. So live life.
Tap..✌️
Maturity is learning to walk away from people and situations that threaten your peace of mind, self-respect, values, morals and self worth.
Don’t let yourself be controlled by three things:
People,
Money,
&
Past experiences.
You don’t need to be perfect.
You don’t need to be the best.
You don’t need to be awesome.
The only thing you need is just to be yourself.
Perfect, best, awesome aren’t a purpose in your life.
Those things just such a reward from ‘who you are’ and what would you become for.
So, if someday, you’re being forced by society to be someone who is not you till you can’t recognize yourself, just ignore them.
If you want to know one thing about a thousand fucked up thing in this world, the society is one of them.
Be you.
Tap..✌️
Pay attention to your patterns.
The way you learned to survive may not be the way you want to continue to live.
Heal and shift.
– Dr. Thema Bryant Davis.
8 pieces of wisdom that can change your life;
1. Words are powerful, use them wisely.
2. People come and go, but the right ones stay.
3. You are doing enough even if it doesn’t feel like it.
4. Failure is when you don’t try.
5. Random acts of kindness make everyone feel better.
6. Live for today, not for tomorrow.
7. Never look back, there is nothing there for you.
8. Overthinking kills happiness.
Tap..✌️
SOME PEOPLE SURVIVE and talk about it.
Some people survive and go silent.
Some people survive and create.
Everyone deals with unimaginable pain in their own way.
And everyone is entitled to that, without judgment.
So the next time you look at someone’s life covetously, remember you may not want to endure what they are enduring right now, at this moment, whilst they sit so quietly before you, looking like a calm ocean on a sunny day.
Remember how vast the ocean’s boundaries are.
Whilst somewhere the water is calm, in another place in the very same ocean, there is a colossal storm.
Tap..✌️
You need to ignore what everyone else is doing and achieving.
Your life is about breaking your own limits.
Your life is about outgrowing yourself to live your best life.
You are not in competition with anyone else.
Plan to outdo your past, not other people.
Stop comparing.
Start living your unique journey.
Tap..✌️
Unconditional love is not unconditional tolerance.
Love people, but place them where they belong.
There are only two days in the year that nothing can be done.
One is called yesterday and the other is called tomorrow, so today is the right day to love, believe, do, and mostly live.
Surround yourself with people that push you to do better.
No drama or mess.
Just higher goals.
And higher vibrations.
Good times.
And positive energy.
No jealousy.
No hate.
Simply bringing out the absolute best in each other.
Focus on the goodness of a person’s character & company.
Vibe & thrive.
Tap..✌️
Learn to say;
That’s on you.
Your behavior is on you.
The way you move is on you.
The choices you make are all on you.
The way you live it’s all on you.
Stop absorbing the pain of other people, recognize what belongs to you and what doesn’t.
Hardships in our lives is common among people, but victimhood is a choice.
Stay away from anyone who supports or chooses victim mentality.
Tap..✌️
8 pieces of wisdom that can change your life;
1. Words are powerful, use them wisely.
2. People come and go, but the right ones stay.
3. You are doing enough even if it doesn’t feel like it.
4. Failure is when you don’t try.
5. Random acts of kindness make everyone feel better.
6. Live for today, not for tomorrow.
7. Never look back, there is nothing there for you.
8. Overthinking kills happiness.
Tap..✌️
Never say mean words out of anger.
Your anger will pass.
But your mean words can scar a person for life.
So use kind words or remain silent.
Accountability is for those who take pride of your presence.
Privacy for rest.
Don’t waste words on people who deserve your silence.
Sometimes the most powerful thing you can say is nothing at all.
Silence is a powerful tool for reasons.
If you expect the world to be fair with you because you are fair, you’re fooling yourself.
That’s like expecting the lion not to eat you because you didn’t eat him.
Life is about balance.
Be kind, but don’t let people abuse you.
Trust, but don’t be deceived.
Be content, but never stop improving yourself.
Start living your unique journey.
You need to ignore what everyone else is doing and achieving.
Your life is about breaking your own limits and outgrowing yourself to live your best life.
You are not in competition with anyone else.
Plan to outdo your past, not other people.
Stop comparing.
Tap..✌️
Toxic people see your boundaries as revenge on them, and think you are nothing but a problem.
When in reality, it’s their toxic behavior that led to those boundaries in the first place.
No one can destroy iron, but its own rust can.
Likewise, no one can destroy a person, but his own mindset can.
A lot of problems can be solved just by removing some foods, some people, and some bad habits from your life.
Read it again.
The best revenge is happiness,
because nothing drives people more crazy than seeing someone actually having a good life.
Nobody is asking you to be perfect.
It’s enough to just do the best you can do today with what you have inside you right now.
Oftentimes, we put too much pressure on ourselves to please other people.
Whatever you feel when you wake up is good enough; just start with that and make the most of today.
Start where you are.
Use what you have.
Do what you can.
Tap..✌️
There’s no need for revenge.
People with corrupt hearts will destroy themselves.
Some people will get mad at you for not being who they want you to be.
One of the biggest forms of self-betrayal is living your life by their rules instead of your own.
Your task is simple:
Be kind.
Be real.
Be humble.
Keep growing.
And unapologetically live your best life.
Be you.
Tap..✌️
Learning how to leave people alone and go on with your life is a needed skill.
You must master it.
There’s no need for revenge.
People with corrupt hearts will destroy themselves.
Be an adult.
Mend relationships that you find valuable.
Don’t let pride destroy good things.
But,
Also be an adult.
Don’t let people play you.
Who checked on you today?
If you have an answer;
those are your people,
adore them.
If no;
exactly what i wanted to tell you,
just keep focusing on yourself.
You are your biggest treasure.
Tap..✌️
Evaluate the people in your life:
then promote, demote, or terminate.
You’re the CEO of your life.
If you want to live a happy life, tie it to a goal, not to people or things.
Now go.
Be happy.
If you ever get the chance,
go alone.
walk alone,
travel alone,
live alone,
&
dance alone.
Even if it’s just for a while.
If you ever get the chance, learn who you are when the world isn’t demanding you be one way or another.
Most people only know how to stand on their own if someone else will stand beside them.
Don’t let that be your story.
When you get the chance, know that the opportunity to walk alone, even for a bit, is a rare gift, one that will hand you insight that can change the course of your life.
Be an authentic version of yourself.
BE YOU.
Tap..✌️
Two principles for a happy life:
1. Use things not people.
2. Love people not things.
HATERS don’t hate you,
they hate themselves.
Because you’re a reflection of what they wish to be.
Be a true authentic version of yourself shamelessly.
You are responsible for your own happiness.
If you expect others to make you happy, you will always be disappointed.
The biggest communication problem is we do not listen to understand.
We listen to reply or retaliate.
Just show up, as you are.
You don’t have to look or feel great.
You don’t have to be prepared for each challenge or know all the hows of every situation.
You don’t have to be fearless, or have all the answers, or be 100% ready.
Nobody is any of these things.
Nobody ever was.
It’s not about being perfect, at all.
You just have to show up, as you are, despite all the objections and insecurities of your mind, despite each and every fear that threatens to hold you back, despite the limitations and criticisms others will place on you.
To hell with it all.
This is your life, your journey, your adventure, and all it’s asking of you is to show up for it, as you are.
That’s enough.
That’s more than enough.
That’s everything.
Tap OUT..✌️
Nobody is asking you to be perfect.
It’s enough to just do the best you can do today with what you have inside you right now.
Oftentimes, we put too much pressure on ourselves to please other people.
Whatever you feel when you wake up is good enough; just start with that and make the most of today.
Start where you are.
Use what you have.
Do what you can.
Tap..✌️
My mindset is so different from most people.
That’s why I don’t vibe with many people.
But when I do, it’s genuine.
It’s so important to acknowledge your weaknesses and imperfections.
It may seem hard at first, but once you begin to recognize and come to peace with your weaknesses, you actually have an honest place to start improving.
We shouldn’t strive for perfection because it doesn’t exist.
When we accept others for who they are and love ourselves unconditionally (flaws and all), we have an opportunity to be open, to be courageous, and to learn.
There’s a chinese proverb which goes like;
“Gold can’t be 100% pure, and people can’t be fully perfect”.
Look at your weaknesses and think about how you can improve in a healthy way.
Tap..✌️
People romanticize their plans but dread the execution.
The magic you’re looking for is in the work you’re avoiding.
You get one life to live.
Don’t stay in places that don’t inspire you.
Don’t stay there which doesn’t encourage you,
or
don’t hangout with those people who don’t make you happy & happening.
Go for what you want in life.
Go to the areas that call you.
Go to the places that calm you.
Go to places that inspire you to be your highest self.
Do anything & everything that you desire without hurting others.
At the end,
be an authentic version of yourself shamelessly.
Tap..✌️
I respect a person who knows their energy is off and keeps their distance for a while because they don’t want to transfer it onto you.
I don’t think some people understand how real that is.
Just remember;
We are all toxic.
Every single human being is capable of being toxic, has been, currently is, etc.
But some people have the desire to be educated on it and do better while others will ignore any accountability and continue to act the same way.
Pay attention.
Tap..✌️
Rewrite & rewire your taste levels:
For people.
For food.
For aesthetics.
For attraction.
For standards.
For tolerance.
For values.
For morals.
For money.
For behaviours.
For yourself.
Be an authentic version of yourself.
Be you.
Tap..✌️
I hope you always remember how valuable you are.
You belong here just as much as anyone else, making an impact on every person you meet.
You are needed even if you cannot see it in this moment.
Keep going, friend.
You belong here.
– TIFFANY MOULE.
Be brave enough to say “What you want to say”, not what people want to hear.
– Andy Charrington.
For peace:
I delete,
I block,
I disown,
I leave,
I ignore.
Nothing comes above my piece of PEACE.
Respect people’s feelings.
Even if it doesn’t mean anything to you.
It could mean everything to them.
When you start taking care of yourself,
you start feeling better,
you start looking better,
and you attract better.
It all starts with you.
7 things to keep in mind:
1. Go after dreams, not people.
2. Love yourself and the rest will follow.
3. Never lose your sense of wonder.
4. You are capable of more than you know.
5. No regrets in life, just lessons learned.
6. Your only limit is you.
7. Life goes by in a blink of an eye, so live life.
Tap OUT..✌️
You can only become truly accomplished at something you love.
Don’t make money your goal.
Instead, pursue the things you love doing, and do them so well that people can’t take their eyes off you.
– Dr. Maya Angelou.
Hurting people back will not heal your pain.
Learn to react to people constructively, even if that means being alone in silence, to study your emotions.
In your response is your destiny.
If you do not take conscious control of your reaction, you will give away your power.
Nobody is asking you to be perfect.
It’s enough to just do the best you can do today with what you have inside you right now.
Oftentimes, we put too much pressure on ourselves to please other people.
Whatever you feel when you wake up is good enough; just start with that and make the most of today.
Start where you are.
Use what you have.
Do what you can.
Tap OUT..✌️
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