When you have a gun, but you aren’t choosing to shoot anyone, then that peace is your choice. When you have a million, but you aren’t choosing to make unnecessary spendings, then that minimalistic life is your choice. When you have a powerful voice in society & you are respected by many, but you are choosing to be compassionate, then that kindness is your choice. Without the previous the later has no value.
Your capabilities must determine your choices. Your choice for peace, kindness & compassion makes no sense unless you are successful in life.
The older i get the more i realize the value of privacy. The value of cultivating your circle is immensely important. And only letting certain people in is the way to go. Your private life shouldn’t be on display for everyone. There needs to be an exclusive club & exclusivity is earned.
You can be open. You can be honest. And meanwhile you can still be understanding enough not to let everyone deserve a seat at the table of your life. Privacy is peace.
Oversharing is how you leak the energy. Privacy is protection. Stop telling people more than what they need to know. The less you reveal, the more people can wonder.
Forget attention. Move in silence. Live peacefully. Vibrate higher. Speak when it’s time to say checkmate.
Communication is vital to every relationship. There are people out there whose personalities just don’t mix with yours. Don’t waste your time trying to figure out why. Just go where you are wanted and understood, and everything else will fall into place.
If there’s someone in your life you are having trouble communicating with, try to work it out. Be sure the tone in your voice comes from a place of love and respect to connect with them. Only surround yourself with people who you can communicate with.
Don’t compare your real life experiences with someone else’s made up highlights. In this age of fake smiles and filters make sure you are happy in real life. Learn to value discretion, silence & privacy in a world where everyone shows and tells everything.
Dare to be authentic in a world where fakeness is normalised. Be an authentic version of yourself first.
When you build in silence, people don’t know what to attack. What people don’t know, they can’t ruin.
Keep it secret till you win. And always remember; Silence is blissful & private life always wins.
No amount of anxiety will change your future. No amount of regret will change your past.
Peace is found in acceptance: • Accept imperfection. • Accept uncertainty. • Accept the uncontrollable.
You don’t have to understand. You don’t have to tolerate. You don’t have to forget something. But if you want peace, you must accept it. Acceptance is peace.
Your health. Your mental health. Your well-being. Your boundaries. Your bliss. Your happiness. Your self love. Your self worth. Your self respect. Your purpose. Your goals. Your much needed rest. Your piece of peace.
When you think everything is someone else’s fault, you will suffer a lot. When you realize that everything springs only from yourself, you will learn both peace and joy.
Sometimes you just outgrow people. You don’t need to hate them. You don’t need to cut them off. But you do need to distance yourself from them, if you want to live your best life. Maybe, that is what is best for them too.
You just need peace over pandering. Be who you need. & Vibe with those who vibe with you.
Oversharing is how you leak the energy. Privacy is protection. Stop telling people more than what they need to know. The less you reveal, the more people can wonder. Forget attention. Move in silence. Live peacefully. Vibrate higher. Only speak when it’s time to say checkmate.
My biggest flex is that nobody ever knows what’s really going on in my life. Where I am, who I’m with, or my next move, unless I make it known! Therefore anything anyone says is just an assumption. Privacy is the only luxury. Privacy is peace.
1. Less fear. 2. Less internal conflict. 3. Longer moments of peace. 4. More doing. 5. Less worrying. 6. Deeper understanding of one’s intentions. 7. Understanding the difference between attention & affection. 8. Increased sense of control. 9. Increase in self-confidence. 10. Delayed gratification.
Oversharing is how you leak the energy. Privacy is protection. Stop telling people more than what they need to know. The less you reveal, the more people can wonder.
Forget attention. Move in silence. Live peacefully. Vibrate higher. Only speak when it’s time to say checkmate.
Love what you do, until you can do what you love. Love where you are, until you can be where you love. Love the people you are with, until you can be with the people you love most.
This is the way we find happiness, opportunity, and peace.
Recognise when a phase is over. Recognise when a job is over. Recognise when a stage of life is over. Recognise when a relationship is over. And let it go.
Allow yourself to gracefully exit situations you have outgrown. Moving on doesn’t have to be a catastrophic dramatic event. You can simply chose to move forward with peace and clarity.
1. Be silent if you don’t know the full story. 2. Be silent in the heat of anger. 3. Be silent if your words can offend a person. 4. Be silent if your words can destroy a friendship. 5. Be silent if you can’t talk without yelling. 6. Be silent if your silence can save bonds.
SOME PEOPLE SURVIVE and talk about it. Some people survive and go silent. Some people survive and create. Everyone deals with unimaginable pain in their own way. And everyone is entitled to that, without judgment.
So the next time you look at someone’s life covetously, remember you may not want to endure what they are enduring right now, at this moment, whilst they sit so quietly before you, looking like a calm ocean on a sunny day. Remember how vast the ocean’s boundaries are.
Whilst somewhere the water is calm, in another place in the very same ocean, there is a colossal storm.
Somethings don’t get better, but we do. We get stronger. We learn to live with our situations as messy and ugly as they are. We fix what we can and we adapt to what we can’t. Maybe some of us will never be fully okay, but at least we’re here. We’re still trying. We’re doing the best we can. That’s worth celebrating.
If you’re reading this, congratulations, you made it today. You made it. Stay consistent & clap for yourself. (Not my words.)
Twenty years from now you will be more disappointed by the things you didn’t do than by the ones you did do. So throw off the bowlines. Sail away from the safe harbor. Catch the trade winds in your sails.
Explore. Dream. Discover.
-MARK TWAIN
You have to be willing to leave your comfort zone to grow not only as a human being but to push your own boundaries. I encourage anyone chasing dreams to be fearless; go into emotional areas that aren’t always comfortable or comprehensible.
Do something out of your comfort zone today. Sometimes the things that scare us help us grow.
When you plant lettuce, if it does not grow well, you don’t blame the lettuce. You look for reasons it is not doing well. It may need fertilizer, or more water, or less sun. You never blame the lettuce.
Yet, if we have problems with our friends or family, we blame the other person. But if we know how to take care of them, they will grow well, like the lettuce. Blaming has no positive effect at all, nor does trying to persuade using reason and argument. That is my experience.
No blame, no reasoning, no argument, just understanding. If you understand, and you show that you understand, you can love, and the situation will change. (Not my words.)
The older I get, the more comfortable I am with letting things go. Everything doesn’t warrant a reaction, response, or rebuttal. I am most peaceful when I preserve my energy for things that elevate ease in my life.
Stop worrying about other people understanding you. Get in touch with yourself instead. Focus on what makes you happy, what makes your soul feel at peace. You are your biggest commitment. So start loving your flaws, your awkwardness, your weirdness, your intensity, your vulnerability, your everything.
Life becomes so much more fulfilling when you are just simply yourself. The world keeps spinning whether people understand you or not. So why not make this next trip around the sun about you! BE YOU.
Self love is your strength. Self acceptance is your peace. Don’t be stressed about all the things that you can’t control or change. Learn how to let go. Learn to leave behind those feelings that no longer serve your heart any good. Your life is precious, make it count by living it for yourself first. Make yourself a priority.
You don’t need someone else to remind you that you have value, the beating in your heart is already a reminder of that. Be at peace with yourself. Be gentle with your heart. You are already special. BE YOU.
Observe yourself when you feel fear or anger. Focus on the feeling. Don’t focus on what’s caused it. Not the stimulus, the stimulation. Most strong reactions we feel are reactions to the past, not the present. (If it’s hysterical it’s historical).
We will be more effective when we move beyond unconscious programming and respond from a place of peace. We will be at PEACE sooner when we deal with information not inflammation.
My primary goal in life is to feel vibrant and alive, inside and out. Mentally, emotionally, spiritually & physically. I’ve been unhappy enough to know that I only want joy+peace to surround and flow through me.
Throughout the years I have learned three major things.
1. Sometimes bad things happen to good people. Sometimes you might think you know someone, you might think they’re on your side but deep down inside they’re not. Truthful & consistent stay, rest doesn’t. Pay attention. Actions without intention means nothing. And words are just another way to cover up the truth with lies.
2. Almost everything we go through we can’t control. That means, if it’s yours, then somewhere down the line it’ll return to you. And if it’s not, then you have to make peace with it and move on. It’s as simple as that.
3. Letting go is never an easy thing to do. No matter how many times you’ve rehearsed it, no matter how many times you’ve played it in your head, it never goes as planned and almost always does it sting a little harder than you thought. (Not my words.)
Balance is the key in everything you do. Dance all night long and practice yoga the next day. Drink wine but don’t forget your green juice. Eat chocolate when your heart wants it and kale salad when your body needs it. Live high and low. Move and stay still. Embrace all sides of who you are.
Be brave, bold, spontaneous and loud and let that complement your abilities to find silence, patience, modesty and peace. Aim for balance. Make your own rules and follow your own path and don’t let anybody tell you how to live according to theirs.
To work on yourself is the best thing you can do. Accept that you are not perfect, but you are enough.
And then start working on everything that destroys you. Your insecurities. Your ego. Your dark thoughts. You have to work on all. You will see, in the end you’re going to make peace with yourself.
And that’s the greatest thing in the world.
(This video got nothing to do with the post above. The problem with our education system & also with the society is; WE THINK DISCUSSING ABOUT MONEY IS A TABOO, which is pure nonsense in my eyes. Watch this & get little information about what can be sorted in how long time. You can afford anything, but not everything.)
Resting is part of the work. It’s a healthy habit. It’s essential. It brings clarity. It renews your strength. It gives you peace. It drives away fear. It creates space for GOD to do his mighty works through us.
Even if you’ve found yourself with more free time than usual, don’t force yourself too much. Taking a break is necessary. It plays a vital role in your purpose. So, slow down. Talk slowly. Relax. Give your self a break from feeling responsible for anyone else. It’s okay, don’t feel guilty for it. At uncertain times, it’s important to cut yourself some slack. Take a breath, and REST.
My primary GOAL in life is to feel vibrant and alive, inside and out. Mentally, emotionally, spiritually & physically. I’ve been unhappy enough to know that I only want joy & peace to surround me and flow through me.
Have a goal. Wake up earlier. Smile. Start running early morning. Make a new recipe. Buy a weighted blanket. Travel. Cuddle your puppy or horse. Say “I love you & I care for you” to someone. Laugh to dad jokes. Discover the universe. Sing your favourite song. Have your own blog/business/investments. Sleep well. Go to the specific place you desire. Be in peace with yourself. Take a picture on the top of a mountain. No matter the kind of goal, have one GOAL. And fight for it, keep fighting till you get it done.
Wake up everyday with motivation, and fall asleep with a smile. Live your life to the fullest, every second. Do exactly what you want, and accomplish it. You are the master of your life. You decide. You create. So go. Never doubt of your capacities, and go.
Social media is training us to compare our lives, instead of appreciating everything we are. No wonder why everyone is always depressed.
Delete, unfollow, unfriend, block, erase, and disconnect from anyone and anything that robs you of your peace, love and happiness.
Not just on social media, but in real life too. You don’t need to be around people who don’t see and appreciate your value.
(This video got something to do with the post above. I had to share it because this social media shit is hitting fan since a while, but people are hella ignorant to spot the faux pas.)
Three major lessons you must learn for an easy smooth sailing life;
1. Sometimes bad things happen to good people and sometimes you might think you know someone, you might think they’re on your side but deep down inside they’re not. Pay attention. Actions speak louder than words, inconsistent words mean nothing and such words are just another way to cover up the truth with lies.
2. Almost everything we go through we can’t control. That means, if it’s yours, then somewhere down the line it’ll return to you. And if it’s not, then you have to make peace with it and move on. It’s as simple as that.
3. Letting go is never an easy thing to do, no matter how many times you’ve rehearsed it, no matter how many times you’ve played it in your head, it never goes as planned and almost always does it sting a little harder than you thought. (Not my words.)
Stop worrying about other people understanding you. Get in touch with yourself instead. Focus on what makes you happy, what makes your soul feel at peace. You are your biggest commitment, so start loving your flaws, your awkwardness, your weirdness, your intensity, your vulnerability, your everything.
Life becomes so much more fulfilling when you are just simply yourself. The world keeps spinning whether people understand you or not so why not make this next trip around the sun about you.
Stop worrying about other people understanding you. Get in touch with yourself instead. Focus on what makes you happy, what makes your soul feel at peace. You are your biggest commitment, so start loving your flaws, your awkwardness, your weirdness, your intensity, your vulnerability, your everything. Life becomes so much more fulfilling when you are just simply yourself. The world keeps spinning whether people understand you or not. So why not make this next trip around the sun about you!!
(This video got nothing to do with the post above. There’s a reason why i don’t believe in crypto/NFT bullshit even though i own some of it. I understand & believe in the technology of blockchain. There will be a time in future when crypto currencies will go mainstream, those currencies will be made under government regulations by banks after 10-15 years. Current entire crypto market will crash soon or sooner. But when fools are busy fooling fools, it’s a fun sight to watch.)
Throughout the years I have learned three major things:
1. Sometimes bad things happen to good people and sometimes you might think you know someone, you might think they’re on your side but deep down inside they’re not. Pay attention. Inconsistent people use WORDS to cover up the truth with lies.
2. Almost everything we go through we can’t control. That means, if it’s yours, then somewhere down the line it’ll return to you and if it’s not, then you have to make peace with it and move on. It’s as simple as that.
3. Letting go is never an easy thing to do. No matter how many times you’ve rehearsed it. No matter how many times you’ve played it in your head. It never goes as planned and almost always does it sting a little harder than you thought. (Not my words.)
To work on yourself is the best thing you can do. Accept that you are not perfect, but you are enough. And then start working on everything that destroys you. Your insecurities, your ego, your dark thoughts. You will see, in the end you’re going to make peace with yourself. And that’s the greatest thing in the world.
Delete, unfollow, unfriend, block, erase, and disconnect from anyone and anything that robs you of your peace, love, and happiness. Not just on social media, but in real life too. You don’t need to be around people who don’t see and appreciate your value.
HAPPINESS is a choice, not a result. Nothing will make you happy until you choose to be happy. No person will make you happy unless you decide to be happy. Your HAPPINESS will not come to you. It can only come from you.
Sometimes we need tears to be able to access the deepest joy. When times are hard, make sure you allow yourself to feel the sadness. Let your tears fall knowing that they will surely pass and something wonderful is on its way to you.
If you’re sad, take some time to try and remember the joy that will undoubtedly follow. Remember it’s always darkest before the dawn.
Weeping may endure for a night but joy cometh in the morning. -PSALM 30:5.
(This video got nothing to do with the post above. Can’t say how appropriate is this song in such circumstances. But a light-hearted humour is welcome even during the darkest days. This song is both quirky & funny. Power to peace.)
There is so much power in our words, more than we realise. They can do so much good and so much damage. They can create peace or cause people to break out in violence. When we’re hurting the most it’s easy to lash out at other people, but then we become the source of the problem we are personally suffering from. Don’t take your pain out on others or you will just be perpetuating the cycle.
If you’re hurting, do your best to seek outlets that are healthy. Find a friend to talk to, express yourself artistically, write in your journal, or seek professional help.
Words have the power to both destroy and heal. When words are both true and kind, they can change our world. -BUDDHA.
People settle because they’re afraid something better won’t come along. They fear they aren’t good enough. You are worth exactly what you want in life, but you have to believe it or you won’t attract something better.
Take a moment to realize your worth. Don’t ever settle.
Violence is the easy way out and it only leads to more violence. We need people in this world who are willing to find solutions through peace, through communication, honesty, and diplomacy. World peace may seem impossible, but it’s worth aiming for.
You don’t have to be a politician to stop wars and practice peace. Make sure every word you speak and every action is coming from a place of love.
If you and I are having a single thought of violence or hatred against anyone in the world at this moment, we are contributing to the wounding of the world. -DEEPAK CHOPRA.
(This video got nothing to do with the post above. Big fan of Neil deGrasse Tyson and this sketch is the funniest impersonation of him.)
1. Make peace with your past so it won’t screw up the present. 2. What others think of you is none of your business. 3. Time heals almost everything, give it time. 4. Don’t compare your life to others and don’t judge them. You have no idea what their journey is all about. 5. Stop thinking too much, it’s alright not to know the answers. Answers will come to you when you least expect it. 6. No one is in charge of your happiness, except you. 7. Smile. You don’t own all the problems in the world. 8. Understand the difference between WANT & NEED. Follow what you feel.
Social media has made us so eager to show and tell so many unnecessary things, but there is beauty in privacy. Everything isn’t meant to be on display. It’s perfectly fine to keep some things for you.
The older you get you start to see how important privacy is. Not everyone needs to know what goes on with you. Less drama. More privacy.
My biggest flex is that nobody ever knows what’s really going on in my life. Where I am, who I am with, or my next move, unless I make it known. Privacy is my luxury. Privacy is my peace.
Stop comparing where you’re at with where everyone else is. It doesn’t move you farther ahead, improve your situation, or help you find peace. It just feeds your shame, fuels your feelings of inadequacy, and ultimately it keeps you stuck. The reality is that, there is no one on correct path in life. Everyone has their own unique journey. A path that’s right for someone else won’t necessarily be a path that’s right for you. And that’s okay.
Your journey isn’t right or wrong, or good or bad. It’s just different. Your life isn’t meant to look like anyone else’s because you aren’t like anyone else. You’re a person with all your own with a unique set of goals, obstacles, dreams, and needs.
So stop comparing, and start living. You may not have ended up where you intended to go. But trust, for once, that you have ended up where you needed to be. Trust that you are in the right place at the right time. Trust that your life is enough. Trust that you are enough. Enjoy the ride. Life is fun. Let it be.
I’m in that chapter of my life where GOD is making me STRONGER, which makes me HAPPY.
(This video got nothing to do with the post above. But it’s my blog & it’s my opinion, i have to share what comes from my head or heart. The outcome with religious conversions is always something like this. Today i will not say “how a so-called religion of peace is becoming a major source of radicalism”, that topic some other day. RELIGION in general should teach you a way of living life peacefully, first it must make you a better HUMAN.)
BALANCE is the key in everything you do. Dance all night long and workout next day. Or practice yoga the next day. Drink wine but don’t forget your green juice. Eat chocolate when your heart wants it and kale salad when your body needs it. Wear new kicks on saturday and walk barefoot on sunday. Live high and low. Move and stay still. Embrace all sides of who you are. Be brave, bold, spontaneous and loud and let that complement your abilities to find silence, patience, modesty and peace.
Aim for BALANCE. Remain consistent in your walk of life. Make your own rules, follow your own path and don’t let anybody tell you or influence you how to live according to theirs. (Not my words).
Life can be fulfilling at both 16 and also 60. 25 and 35. Joy is timeless. Learning how to make the most of where you are does not have an age cut-off or a deadline. You will always be able to sit and wonder about things that could have gone differently. But you can also trust: you have not missed out on what was meant for you.
I know it’s hard to trust when so much is unknown, so instead of trying to make sense of it all at once, take it all color by color, tree by tree, scent by scent, take it one by one. You don’t have to take it all in at once. Take in the newness of it all one moment at a time without worrying about the moments to come. Let that be enough. Breathe deep and let this moment be enough. Let this be a place where you find peace.
Remember the ground beneath your feet, you belong here. No one has taken your place. You are not too far from grace. Your story might be unfolding differently than expected but that doesn’t mean it won’t be beautiful. Where you are meant to be, you will be in time, no matter your age or stage of life. Life is fun. Let it be. Let it flourish at it’s own pace.
Stop worrying about other people understanding you. Get in touch with yourself instead. Focus on what makes you happy, what makes your soul feel at peace. You are your biggest commitment. So start loving your flaws, your awkwardness, your weirdness, your intensity, your vulnerability, & your everything.
Life becomes so much more fulfilling when you are just simply yourself. The world keeps spinning whether people understand you or not. So why not make this next trip around the sun only about you!!
Life will always be filled with ups and downs. It’s the law of nature. Yin and yang, light and dark. It’s the nature of life and it’s okay. We must embrace the duality inherent within life. Without night, there is no day. Without male, there is no female. Without black, there is no white. Without negative, there is no positive.
Spending your life trying to make every thing be light only creates suffering. Spending your energy to only hold on to light is not freedom. We must learn to embrace the darkness, and in doing so, we transform ourselves. In accepting the nature of life, we accept what is and what isn’t and experience freedom. Life will always have expansion and contraction. When you stop seeking for perfection outside in the constantly changing world and realize that inside you is the ultimate perfection, that your soul is perfect beyond duality, beyond good or bad-when you understand that, you are free. Truly free. You see that life is perfect even in its seeming imperfection. Peace is an inside job. Don’t look for peace in the world because you won’t find. You can’t truly be free until you deal with the duality of life, to come into a harmonious relationship with what it is. Learn to dance with the reality of life.
I love my own company and i enjoy being alone, a lot, but I am very outgoing and social. My environment dictates how I behave. Very often I’m loud, sometimes I’m quiet. I read the energy and adjust. There are times when I want to turn up and then there are moments where I want to read a good book, watch a whole BuzzFeed unsolved season or some documentary on science/technology/engineering, sometimes i drive till everything in gauge cluster turns red, or i just spend time processing my thoughts, all alone. My personality confuses people & i like that.
My ultimate goal is to be at peace with myself, eliminate toxic feelings and elements and energies from my life, unlearn negative and harmful practices and thought patterns, stop checking for people that don’t check for me, create a space for myself that is nurturing for growth so that I may generate loving energy for myself and for others, nourish my spirit and balance my energies, I have big dreams and i deserve to live a life I love and let that love radiate. Life is fun, let it be.
(Paragraph borrowed from a previous post).
If you know me based on who I was a year ago, you don’t know me at all. My growth game is impeccably strong.
Fear is poison. Some of the worst atrocities happened in this world because of FEAR. Learn how to confront & deal with it. Don’t react to it when you face it. Get back to your peace, calm or love for a moment. You have the answers within yourself.
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