Change must begin with you. Start by changing your thinking patterns from anything negative into only positive thoughts. It’s time to shake things up. Don’t remain stuck in an unhappy, unfulfilling place any longer.
Free your mind from old beliefs. You deserve so much better. With that said, take the first step.
(This video got nothing to do with the post above. I had to share it.🤣 Old one, but never gets old. Watch it for some fun.)
Our thoughts are so powerful that we must always be mindful and conscious of what we’re telling ourselves. We have the power to manifest anything we want with the power of our thinking. So often we can get into a pattern of negative thinking without even realising it, and before we know it we have brought into our lives the very thing we were afraid of. The good news is that this principle also works for positive thoughts. By thinking wonderful things about our lives, we are subconsciously changing them with the energy of our perspective.
Make sure you spend today thinking thoughts aligned with your dreams. Cut out the thoughts that are bringing you down. In this process of nurturing your thoughts, stay consistent with your approach. (Not my words).
The universe will keep handing you the same lessons, same failures, the same relationships, the same type of love and the same type of pain until you realise that the common denominator is you.
Until you are finally tired of your own patterns. Until you finally love yourself enough to raise your standards and believe you are worthy of holding them.
You see the thing is, until you learn to love yourself more, you will continue to accept the love that mirrors how you truly feel about yourself. The answer to everything you desire is within you.
Desires must help you become a better you. Now relax. You’ll end up where you’re supposed to be. Choose consistent truthful people to vibe & shine. Be picky. You glow differently when you have good people with good intentions in your life. (Not my words).
Doesn’t matter what’s your state of mind right now, learn to face your truth & responsibilities. We need to move forward in life always, don’t lapse it.
One tiny tip; do something for your financial stability. That’s gonna lift you higher on a longer run. Progress is the only pattern of life. Don’t smash your growth by holding yourself back in any negativity.
In a relationship if someone is not moving up with time; just move forward with your life towards your goals & success, with or without them. You need a better you tomorrow. If deserving & you both are meant to be together, the other person will step up to catch up.
There is nothing called white or black lie. Lie is a Lie & Liars can’t prove anything right. You pollute your core the moment you lie, from where you can’t spread anything positive. That’s one reason liars are indecisive about everything from LIFE to LOVE. They leave themselves juggling between situations or cycles. You will always mark a similar pattern of behaviour in a liar.
Saying it with own experience. The biggest gift I have given myself is MY LITTLE TRUTH. Yes it made me bitter and tough, but I learnt how to stand. If I do anything wrong in my life, I say it proudly before someone else barks about it & face the consequences. If you see anything right/good in me, keep it to yourself or say it to woo me. Either ways, appreciation should only come from other side. We need to keep on cleaning our mess & become a better version of self. Take this one tiny thing from me, Be a true you.
People may hurt, scold, betray, abuse & break your heart. Stay strong, don’t behave like a pussy. Everything happens for a reason. Your other side is earning their karma by misusing you. At the end someone beautiful is coming to clean all & adore you for what you are. Your Truth & goodness will be rewarded at any cost. Stay positive, vibe right.
Apparently my friends were suggesting to go on a banging spree last time when I told them about breaking up with a person who felt flat on standing on her ground to be a human. I just exited that part because that wasn’t serving me. If a relationship isn’t making you happy; you don’t need to break up from that person, you just need to come out from the bullshit they are trying to sell you. The day they will understand their own value, that person will figure out what’s best for them & you figure out what’s best for you.
In the name of break up, don’t go for stupid rebound sex bullshit. Some even end up in friends with benefits situations which attract more complications. That lowers your standard as a human even further. I make sure there is some standard in a person even when it’s a one night stand. That girl wasn’t even worth it. That was my reason for break up.
It bums my head when people refuse to change their ways of leading a deceptive life full of same indecisiveness. We all are entitled/allowed to commit some mistakes. But when someone does the same mistake 100 times, just remember that person is toxic & they either need some God’s intervention or a medical treatment to reach a calmer water. Till that time you make sure to get the best out of you & leave that toxicity behind.
My best life is to focus on my finances, travel & some nice hang/bang around with buddy bitches 😜. Figure out yours & never stay stuck in a cycle/pattern. Some people need to prove their worth to be around you. Let them reach there with their own efforts. We all deserve HAPPINESS & it should be timeless. Genuine people gain momentum towards a positive life with COMMUNICATION.