Discipline hurts.
It’s uncomfortable.
It feels restrictive.
It feels like a punishment.
But it’s the greatest gift you can ever give to yourself.
Do the things you don’t want to do that will get you to the place you want to be.
Purpose > Pain.
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Discipline hurts,
it’s uncomfortable,
it feels restrictive,
it feels like a punishment,
But it’s the greatest gift you can ever give yourself.
Do the things you don’t want to do that will get you to the place you want to be.
Purpose is always bigger than pain.
Tap..✌️
Growth is painful.
Change is painful.
But nothing is as painful as staying stuck somewhere you don’t belong.
Stop running away from negative emotions.
Stop running away from feelings.
Stop pretending like you have it all together.
Start accepting that you feel messed up.
Let yourself breakdown to get ready for a breakthrough.
Sometimes when you are always focusing on being positive, you are avoiding the pain that makes you stronger.
DON’T BE POSITIVE, BE AUTHENTIC.
Tap..✌️
Hurting people back will not heal your pain.
Learn to react to people constructively, even if that means being alone in silence, to study your emotions.
In your response is your destiny.
If you do not take conscious control of your reaction, you will give away your power.
If you’ve never tasted a bad apple, you will not appreciate a good apple.
You have to experience life to understand life.
You have to endure disappointment in life, all kind of disappointments, you have to fall flat on your face and feel the pain.
Accept that a lot of your “friends” rather see you fall and fail.
Jealousy is bad disease.
It’s hard to accept and it has a bitter taste, but that’s life my friend.
At the end if you don’t give up, success is inevitable.
We have to fall before we find out who we really are and what we are capable of.
Tap OUT..✌️
Nobody wants to tell you why discipline is so important.
Discipline is the strongest form of self-love.
It is ignoring current pleasures for bigger rewards to come.
It’s loving yourself enough to give yourself everything you’ve ever wanted.
Everyone buys books, few ever read them.
Everyone wants growth, few accept pain.
Everyone wants to be happier, few ever change.
Intention is nothing without action,
but action means nothing without intention.
You will know you made the right decision when you pick the hardest and most painful choice but your heart is at peace.
If youve never tasted a bad apple, you will not appreciate a good apple.
You have to experience life to understand life.
You have to endure disappointment in life, all kind of disappointments, you have to fall flat on your face and feel the pain.
Accept that a lot of your “friends” rather see you fall and fail.
That’s why we say “Jealousy is bad incurable disease”.
It’s hard to accept and it has a bitter taste, but thats life my friend.
At the end, don’t give up.
Don’t give up because, success is inevitable.
We have to fall before we find out who we really are and what we are capable of.
Tap OUT..✌️
Doctors may cure your disease,
but they won’t make you healthy.
Schools may teach you some subjects,
but they won’t make you smart.
Coaches may train you for a while,
but they won’t make you better.
Drugs may keep you calm or high,
but they won’t numb the pain.
In the end, you have to take the responsibility for yourself.
Tap OUT..✌️
EIGHT SENTENCES I WISH I’D READ SOONER;
• These hard times, this pain, these lessons; one day they’ll be your strength, your awareness, your blessings.
• Stop expecting honesty from people who lie to themselves.
• You’ll never look good trying to make someone look bad.
• Save your explanations for those that are determined to understand you.
• Give your silence to those that are determined to misunderstand you.
• Your life is too short to be unhappy. 5 days a week in exchange for 2 days of freedom; that’s not how you are supposed to live your life. Live & experience life everyday.
• Don’t be upset from people you don’t respect.
• Life is not tiring. Wanting life to be a certain way but not having the confidence to make it that way, is tiring.
Tap OUT..✌️
Do what you love.
And fuck everything else.
Love who you want to love.
Love what you want to do.
And fuck other’s opinions.
Fuck their criticisms.
You deserve to live your life the way you want to live it.
Chase who you want.
Chase what you want.
Be who you want.
Dress how you want.
Speak what’s in your heart.
Worship what you believe in.
And be kind to others.
And fuck everything else.
Fuck the drama.
Fuck the pain.
Fuck the hate.
Fuck the media manipulation.
Fuck everything that’s nonsense & illogical.
Life is too short to die wishing you had done a little more.
Tap OUT..✌️
If youve never tasted a bad apple, you will not appreciate a good apple.
You have to experience life to understand life.
You have to endure disappointment in life, all kind of disappointments, you have to fall flat on your face and feel the pain.
Accept that a lot of your “friends”rather see you fall and fail.
Jealousy is bad disease.
It’s hard to accept and it has a bitter taste, but thats life.
At the end if you don’t give up, SUCCESS is inevitable.
We have to fall before we find out who we really are and what we are capable of.
(This video got nothing to do with the post above. One of my favourite songs i must say, I had to share it.🤣 Watch it for fun.)
Tap OUT..✌️
Do what you love.
And fuck everything else.
Love who you want to love.
And fuck their opinions.
Fuck their criticisms.
You deserve to live your life the way you want to live it.
Chase who you want.
Be who you want.
Dress how you want.
Speak what’s in your heart.
Worship what you believe in.
And be kind to others.
And fuck everything else.
Fuck the drama.
Fuck the pain.
Fuck the hate.
Fuck the social media manipulation.
Fuck that.
Be an authentic version of yourself.
Life is too short to die wishing you had done a little more. (Not my words.)
Tap OUT..💪
I saw a post today that said, “When you finally learn your place in peoples lives, your feelings won’t get hurt. And loyalty doesn’t mean accepting unlimited amounts of inconsistency & pain from others”.
Whether it’s friends, family or whoever. I swear that’s the truth and one of the most important life lessons you’ll learn.
This is what you don’t do:
Don’t let this world make you bitter.
Don’t let the actions of other people turn you cold on the inside.
Certain things happen that hurt us, people come that leave us, and most of all there are moments when you’re bound to fall.
Don’t let those things make you unkind.
It’s okay to cry.
It’s okay to be sad.
But it’s never okay to do other people wrong just because you were done wrong.
We’re human.
We break.
We make mistakes.
But don’t let pain and sadness run your life.
Wake up in the morning and do what you think is right.
There are moments in your life where you feel like giving up and you can’t take it anymore.
It’s okay.
Breathe.
Inhale.
Exhale.
I know you’re weak.
But the things that show your weak side are also the same ones that make you stronger in the long run.
It’s all about taking whatever life throws at you and learning from it.
Tap OUT..✌️
When people act shady, allow them.
When people betray your trust, allow them.
But never, ever sink to their level.
Their choices are a direct reflection of who they are, not who you are.
No matter how angry, hurt, or disappointed you may be, do not allow them to make you bitter.
Be better.
React with love.
Sometimes that means retaliating with understanding and compassion; other times it means retaliating with acceptance and sheer silence.
Whatever it is, make sure it benefits you as a human being instead of lowering you into a position which you would rather not be in.
Normal people dont go around destroying other human beings.
Only those who are hurt, lost, and confused cause pain.
Don’t be one of them.
Just take the lessons and move on gracefully.
Tap OUT..✌️
Hurting people back will not heal your pain.
Learn to react to people constructively, even if that means being alone in silence, to study your emotions.
In your response is your DESTINY.
If you do not take conscious control of your reaction, you will give away your power.
NINE SENTENCES TO REMIND YOURSELF EVERYDAY:
• Hard times, pain & lessons; one day they’ll be your strength, your awareness & your blessings.
• Stop expecting honesty from people who lie to themselves.
• You’ll never look good trying to make someone look bad.
• Save your explanations for those that are determined to understand you.
• Give your silence to those that are determined to misunderstand you.
• Most people react with retaliation while responding, few listen & very few people understand your words to reply with decency.
• Your life is too short to be unhappy 5 days a week in exchange for 2 days of freedom.
• Don’t be upset from people you don’t respect.
• Life is not tiring. Wanting life to be a certain way but not having the confidence to make it that way, that’s tiring.
Tap OUT..✌️
Just always be the better person.
And make your intentions pure.
What and who you are is what you’ll attract, what you’ll maintain.
Pain is inevitable and it will always exist, but if you focus on understanding what you are feeling and why you are feeling it, you will overcome it.
READ SLOWLY:
If you have food in your fridge, clothes on your body, a roof over your head and a place to sleep,
you’re richer than 75% of the entire world.
If you have money in your wallet, a little change, and can go anywhere you want,
you are among the top 18% of the world’s wealthy people.
If you are alive today with more health than illness,
you are more blessed than the million people who will not survive this week and die.
If you can actually ‘READ’ this message and understand it,
you are more fortunate than the 3 billion people in the world who cannot see, cannot read or suffer mental retardation.
Life is not about complaining pain and sorrows.
It’s about a thousand other reasons to be grateful and happy. (Not my words.)
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More than anything, the world needs you to show up, strong and courageous, to lead them into something new.
They may not know it.
They may not see it.
They may not understand it.
But, deep within you, you see it and you recognize it.
You don’t just see this present moment.
But you see what could be.
And, that’s a gift.
You see the pain, but you also see the healing.
You see the problem, but you also see the solution.
You see the lack, but you also see the provision.
You see the the gap, but you also see the bridge.
You know there’s a better tomorrow.
So, lean into that.
TRUST YOURSELF.
Tap OUT..✌️
I’ve learned that no matter what happens, or how bad it seems today, life does go on, and it will be better tomorrow.
I’ve learned that you can tell a lot about a person by the way he/she handles these three things: a rainy day, lost luggage, and tangled christmas tree lights.
I’ve learned that regardless of your relationship with your parents, you’ll miss them when they’re gone from your life.
I’ve learned that making a “living” is not the same thing as making a “life”.
I’ve learned that life sometimes gives you a second chance.
I’ve learned that you shouldn’t go through life with a catcher’s mitt on both hands; you need to be able to throw something back.
I’ve learned that whenever I decide something with an open heart, I usually make the right decision.
I’ve learned that even when I have pains, I don’t have to be one.
I’ve learned that every day you should reach out and touch someone.
People love a warm hug, or just a friendly pat on the back.
I’ve learned that I still have a lot to learn.
I’ve learned that people will forget what you said,
people will forget what you did,
but people will never forget how you made them feel.
Tap OUT..✌️
The happiest people I know are evaluating and improving themselves.
The unhappy people are usually evaluating and judging others.
I used to run and hide from my feelings especially when I felt something that was upsetting, painful, or uncomfortable.
But over time I’ve learned to accept all of my feelings.
I know that in order for me to work through them, I must first honor and embrace all emotions.
They are a part of me.
Therefore they are meaningful and valid.
Pick a feeling that you’re afraid or ashamed of.
Feeling fear, anger, or sadness is okay as long as you don’t let it define you.
Embrace your emotions and remind yourself how valuable they are.
Don’t invalidate your feelings. Honor them.
Tap OUT..✌️
Stay away from those who criticize, point fingers or put you down.
Stay away from those who try to tell you who you are, what you do wrong, or how you can or can’t feel.
They are choosing to be emotional bullies and walk the path of negativity.
Let them keep that while you take the high road.
Refuse to be abused, even when it’s with words.
Real people are good with their approach towards you consistently, period.
Often when we’re comforting loved ones, all that we want to do is take their pain away.
It’s such a natural desire to help those we love in need.
But there are many times when it is necessary for people to go through pain to fully learn and emerge stronger than ever.
Remember not to enable someone who needs help with a problem.
Support them in finding a solution.
The next time a loved one is going through a difficult period, think about how you can support them instead of fixing them.
You can’t resolve other people’s issues, but you can sit with them and share the burden of their pain, thereby lightening it. (Not my words.)
Tap OUT..✌️
It’s the little things in life.
It’s the people who don’t just text you, but take the time out of their day to put you in their schedule; no matter how busy they are.
It’s the friends that are authentic and don’t fake what they feel.
The people who are straight with you and accept you for who you are; down to the raw scars and burns.
It’s the pure feeling of happiness while driving your AMG when you’re listening to music with people you love and there is absolutely no where else in the entire world you would rather be.
It’s the feeling like we’ll live forever, like we’re young forever.
It’s the love that soothes our heart which makes life feel happy to die for.
It’s the love that breaks our hearts but knowing the feeling of pain and feeling the pain, but getting through the pain; only to be grateful for the feel of life, the feel of living.
Moments and little things, acts that make every breathe so incredibly amazing.
That’s what I live for;
these moments that make us feel infinite.
Life is fun. Let it be.
Tap OUT..✌️
In LOVE, I have been elated and brokenhearted and felt every emotion in between.
As I’ve gotten older I’ve learned to embrace the painful parts, because I realize they make me stronger and they are just parts of life.
It hurts to power through the rough times but just like a muscle, it must be exercised before it’s able to become stronger.
Think about a specific painful moment in your life,
and then think about how that feeling didn’t last forever even though you thought it would.
Remember that life will continue to go on and time really does heal all wounds.
I’m grateful for all the love and all the heartache I’ve experienced in my life.
Both have been equally wonderful.
Tap OUT..🤗
The universe will keep handing you the same lessons, same failures, the same relationships, the same type of love and the same type of pain until you realise that the common denominator is you.
Until you are finally tired of your own patterns.
Until you finally love yourself enough to raise your standards and believe you are worthy of holding them.
You see the thing is, until you learn to love yourself more, you will continue to accept the love that mirrors how you truly feel about yourself.
The answer to everything you desire is within you.
Desires must help you become a better you.
Now relax.
You’ll end up where you’re supposed to be.
Choose consistent truthful people to vibe & shine.
Be picky.
You glow differently when you have good people with good intentions in your life. (Not my words).
Tap OUT..✌️
Just always be the better person.
And make your intentions pure.
What and who you are is what will be remembered.
Pain is inevitable and it will always exist, but if you focus on understanding what you are and what you are feeling, and why you are feeling it, you will overcome it.
The expectations we have often do not correspond with reality, we are disappointed every time this happens.
We become disappointed when we expect to be treated as we treat others.
When you start to realize that everyone is living at a different stage, thinking differently and making their choices, then you can only accept the fact that people do not share the same mind and heart.
When you want to be happy you have to let go of that and start with yourself, be the person you can be proud of, be an example, show respect and understanding.
Others may not change, but know that it is not up to you and be proud of how you are.
You’ve got so much soul to be handled by someone who has never been passionate.
Be a better you first. Life is fun, let it be.
Tap OUT..👍
The thing about pain is, it won’t last forever.
And it kills you right now, but with time it gets better.
The thing about scars is, they all start to fade.
Until nothing is left of the cuts that were made.
The thing about today is, there’s always tomorrow.
And if you can’t find your smile, i have one you can borrow.
The thing about help is, beside you it stands.
But it won’t know it’s needed, unless you reach out your hand.
The thing about love is, you can’t feel it’s touch.
Until you let someone know that, this world is too much.
Tomorrow is not promised.
Not a single second or minute is.
So, live for today.
Keep the promises you make.
Take action on the things you desire and need.
Remind those that matter to you, that they are loved and you are grateful for them.
Never leave someone you care about on negative terms.
Give more than you take.
Make the calls you’ve been telling yourself you’ll do ‘tomorrow’.
Let the small shit go.
Never go to bed angry.
We will all die one day.
So learn to live each day with the promise to yourself that “it’ll be better than yesterday”.
Tap OUT..🤗
Two types of pain; pain of DISCIPLINE & pain of REGRET. You have to suffer both pains & one day both will make sense.
If you are going through any sort of pain right now, I guarantee it will fade away. It may take a day, a week or a year but eventually it will be gone & something else will replace that place. But if you are going through something where you disappointed yourself and quitting that thought is haunting you, that pain is yours & only yours FOREVER.
Be real. Stay true to yourself & others. Life is simple & meant to be fun yet funny with all twists and turns you live through. Let it be that way.
Tap OUT..🤗
Pain will always be there, you can’t change this. But it’s completely your choice whether/how long you wanna suffer.
Start today. Start first. Start fresh. Eat healthy. Train like your body stops feeling pain. Once you quit, you will be back to ZERO from where you began and start dreaming about what you were before quitting. Erase that option to QUIT. It’s your body which screams to STOP, not your mind. Wipe that sweat & fetch your DREAMS. Your strength & pride lies in your PAIN. Now tell yourself “You are different. Your uniqueness is, you aren’t gonna give up. Be proud of yourself”.
Tap OUT..🤗
Your mind is most of your body. Strong mind can separate you from a suffering easily.
People who want relationships without putting efforts are the same ones who think “falling asleep while giving birth to a baby will result no pain”.😂
I mean, yes you can get cheap things quick & easy without putting enough efforts. But the nature of cheap is, it’s meant not to last the test of time. Forever needs investment/efforts forever.
Tap OUT..😘
Life is long for those who are under the shadow of SADNESS, GRIEF, SORROW or SORRY. It’s short for those who waste it without figuring out motive to live & spend it under random dizziness related to infatuations/irrelevant fun quotient.
LIFE IS NOT ENOUGH FOR THOSE, WHO WAKE UP TO A GOAL THEY WANNA ACHIEVE & SHARE THAT HAPPINESS TO THE ONE THEY ADORE LITTLE MORE THAN THEIR LIFE.
Tap OUT..👍
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