1: Spend time alone. 2: Acknowledge your efforts and accomplishments. 3: Validate your feelings. 4: Speak to yourself with respect. 5: Identify and fulfill your needs. 6: Forgive yourself. 7: Be honest. 8: Accept yourself for who you are. 9: Set and keep boundaries. 10: Stop comparing yourself to others.
Your competition is; your procrastination, your ego, the unhealthy food you’re consuming, the knowledge you neglect, the negative behaviour you’re nurturing & your lack of creativity.
COMPETE AGAINST THAT.
(This video got nothing to do with the post above. Inflation has gone higher everywhere. But i really don’t know why nobody is talking about new raise in council taxes, water bills & road tax. In UK, there’s a road tax you have to pay once every 6 months if you own a car. And water bill is also paid in every 6 months. Council tax you have to pay every month even if it’s a rented property. Post brexit all bills shot up abnormally. Today government announced 150💷 temporary council tax rebate for tax band A to D, i don’t think it’s helping anyone amid power/energy price hike & new tax slab changes.)
It’s so attractive when someone just knows exactly who they are and doesn’t compromise it. When a man or a woman walks into a room and has confidence, everyone can feel it. The truth is that; looks fade, but inner beauty, poise, and self love last forever, only if you nurture them.
Find your confidence and let it radiate out. There’s nothing more beautiful and attractive than a person who knows who they are. OWN YOURSELF.
(This video got nothing to do with the post above. I am a data analytics professional since a while. When i say “I LOVE MY JOB”, I fucking mean it. Now a days i work as an contractual employee because of my ongoing PhD research scholar status. My work is my identity & it’s a matter of respect to me. DON’T QUIT YOUR JOB JUST BECAUSE YOU OWN YOUR HOUSE OR YOUR YOUTUBE ADSENSE REVENUE CROSSED 10-12K THIS MONTH. 20 minutes research about your location & 2 blogs on finance or food, that much work can make easy 10K dollars a month. That’s easy & not permanent. Quitting job has become a stupid trend now a days. The 170K salary this guy is talking about could have reached millions in a while, because data analytics is the booming industry of this century. It’s somewhat true that MONEY is not enough for personal happiness. But once you have a family, there’s no bigger form of happiness compared to fulfilling demands of your family. And MONEY becomes the biggest support cycle at that phase of life. May it be your passion, hobby or job, the only criteria of growth is HOW MUCH MONEY IT YIELDS!!)
It’s so important that children feel like they can think and talk openly. Parents and teachers are meant to inspire young people be role models to children and students. Don’t put down their views and opinions. Let them know their value and intelligence. No matter your age, make sure you always inspire, nurture, and support others.
Let children read whatever they want and then talk about it with them. If parents and kids can talk together, we won’t have as much censorship because we won’t have as much fear. -JUDY BLUME.
(This video got nothing to do with the post above. If you are someone like me who plays Assassin’s creed during weekend, you will definitely know this song. It’s actually an 17th century Irish folk song. Yes it’s little quirky & cheeky. Someday next year onwards i will sing it to my future kids like a nursery rhyme.)
This is for the ones who are struggling right now. This is for the ones who have been having a rough day or week or even year. The ones who feel like this storm will never end. Keep fighting for you. Not for friends, not for your family, but for you. Keep fighting because deep down you hold a tiny voice that knows you were meant for far more than this sadness and pain you are feeling. Keep fighting because the person you will be on the other side of all this is cheering for you so much. Keep fighting because you will get there. And it will be worth it.
Understand that your competition isn’t other people. Your competition is your procrastination. Your ego. The unhealthy food you’re consuming. The knowledge you neglect. The negative behaviour you’re nurturing. And your lack of creativity. Compete against that. You deserve a better you. (Not my words).