Just show up, as you are. You don’t have to look or feel great. You don’t have to be prepared for each challenge or know all the hows of every situation. You don’t have to be fearless, or have all the answers, or be 100% ready. Nobody is any of these things. Nobody ever was. It’s not about being perfect, at all. You just have to show up, as you are, despite all the objections and insecurities of your mind, despite each and every fear that threatens to hold you back, despite the limitations and criticisms others will place on you. To hell with it all. This is your life, your journey, your adventure, and all it’s asking of you is to show up for it, as you are. That’s enough. That’s more than enough. That’s everything.
This moment right here is all you have. You have yourself and your life today, which is all you ever need. We spend so much time focusing on the past or our future that we forget how blessed we are to still be here surrounded by beautiful things.
Try to live in the moment. Appreciate the life you are living right now and how blessed you are to still be alive today. Cherish the moment.
Somethings don’t get better, but we do. We get stronger. We learn to live with our situations as messy and ugly as they are. We fix what we can and we adapt to what we can’t. Maybe some of us will never be fully okay, but at least we’re here. We’re still trying. We’re doing the best we can. That’s worth celebrating.
If you’re reading this, congratulations, you made it today. You made it. Stay consistent & clap for yourself. (Not my words.)
All we have is now. I’ve learned that after so many mistakes, mishaps, failures & success. Please don’t regret for your past, that fixes nothing. I had so many regrets in my life because I wasn’t living in the moment. I wasn’t present in what I was doing.
Set aside all distractions, come out from behind your phone or computer, and enjoy the moment for exactly what is. Life is exactly like that. You have to get it all & appreciate it. Be here now.
Stop waiting for friday, sunday or for summer, or for someone to fall in love with you, or for anything in life. HAPPINESS is achieved when you stop waiting for it and make the most of the moment you are in NOW.
That “perfect time” will never come, because time will never be just right bending to your ideals. There will always be some form of adversity that you will be challenged with. And while the obstacle may feel like a sign that you shouldn’t start, know this: adversity comes with adventure and learning to overcome adversity is what sharpens you and prepares you for SUCCESS.
So take the challenge and face it head-on knowing that it’s yours to conquer. You are capable of great things. YOU CAN’T ALWAYS WAIT FOR THE PERFECT TIME. SOMETIMES YOU HAVE TO DARE TO DO IT, BECAUSE LIFE IS TOO SHORT TO WONDER WHAT COULD HAVE BEEN.
I am motivated, not because of some stupid goals. I have fears, those fears are my competition now. There is a anger in me to crush them. Achievements are not big for me, but the lessons I learnt are priceless.
Just because I allow, stop asking shit about my past. I was badly madly in LOVE once, just once. I did that mistake. I escaped it after a huge struggle inside my own head/heart. I am the one who ended it just for ending it. It was a toxic vicious cycle. That relationship taught me; I am a way better person being single & my TRUTH is my treasure. By breaking free, I honestly walked towards my happiness. If you know me; I still mourn my dog’s demise, two days after that date I celebrate someone’s death. It made me heartless, tough & rational. I used to take long time trusting people, now I have trust issues.
I hope I answered it truthfully. It will be much better if you stop asking me about something I wanna heal & halt.
Doesn’t matter what’s your state of mind right now, learn to face your truth & responsibilities. We need to move forward in life always, don’t lapse it.
One tiny tip; do something for your financial stability. That’s gonna lift you higher on a longer run. Progress is the only pattern of life. Don’t smash your growth by holding yourself back in any negativity.
There is a saying in Chinese culture: “The best time to plant a tree was 20 years ago, the next best is NOW.”
YES I believe in planet mother earth preservation & green gas emission all those stuffs which will definitely be better with planting more trees. What I see in that quotation is “RIGHT NOW IS THE RIGHT TIME FOR EVERYTHING GOOD YOU WANT TO DO“.
In a relationship if someone is not moving up with time; just move forward with your life towards your goals & success, with or without them. You need a better you tomorrow. If deserving & you both are meant to be together, the other person will step up to catch up.
Meditation doesn’t mean you have to disconnect from world, clean your mind, go silent or so many more such bullshits. It means; “your shit is yours, deal with it comfortably one by one slowly but surely”.
Now my comfortable part is listening to linkin park songs & scream those lyrics wearing a boxer shorts in my bedroom after taking a shower. I find solutions to all problems during that while.
People may hurt, scold, betray, abuse & break your heart. Stay strong, don’t behave like a pussy. Everything happens for a reason. Your other side is earning their karma by misusing you. At the end someone beautiful is coming to clean all & adore you for what you are. Your Truth & goodness will be rewarded at any cost. Stay positive, vibe right.
Apparently my friends were suggesting to go on a banging spree last time when I told them about breaking up with a person who felt flat on standing on her ground to be a human. I just exited that part because that wasn’t serving me. If a relationship isn’t making you happy; you don’t need to break up from that person, you just need to come out from the bullshit they are trying to sell you. The day they will understand their own value, that person will figure out what’s best for them & you figure out what’s best for you.
In the name of break up, don’t go for stupid rebound sex bullshit. Some even end up in friends with benefits situations which attract more complications. That lowers your standard as a human even further. I make sure there is some standard in a person even when it’s a one night stand. That girl wasn’t even worth it. That was my reason for break up.
Life is like a concert. Don’t go ahead & argue/fight with/for somebody towards any reason good or bad, it’s like you are stopping your own fun by wasting time on someone else who is all about negative vibe.
Since the day you are born till today, all your actions are already written by your almighty. Call it destiny or call it your lifepath.
The only thing you can do is; understand your heart/head’s call & put it under logic to understand the truth, just follow it. You know where to move. Don’t prefer to live under regrets. You deserve happiness & love in your life. Smile..