Don’t speak negatively about yourself, even as a joke. Your body doesn’t know the difference. Words are energy and cast spells, that’s why it’s called spelling. Change the way you speak about yourself and you can change your life. What you’re not changing, you’re also choosing.
If you tell a skiier to don’t lose balance or don’t get hit by a tree, they definitely will. So their trainer usually tells them to follow the path & nothing more.
Our Human brains are so stupid that we can’t comprehend the NEGATIVE. For example; If i tell you to not think about an elephant, you can’t follow that one. Didn’t you just think about an elephant right right now?
Life is like that & most people are exactly like that. The people who worry too much about failure/betrayal/getting cheated/behaving bad are the ones who usually do all those negative things as their first line of defence. And later overthinking makes everything worse with time.
Just become confident & stay consistent on your journey, i believe you can do that. Confident & consistent with your thoughts/mindset. Confident & consistent with communication/behaviour. Confident & consistent with your lifestyle/habit/choices/goals. Confident & consistent with the way you live. You don’t need different stories for different people. In short, you don’t need that negativity to prosper inside you. Follow the path of light. Life is fun, let it flourish.
You might not love all aspects of yourself right now but you can learn to accept it. Accept your flaws. Accept the positives and negative aspects of your story. Accept the parts of you that are deemed unacceptable by society. Self acceptance is the starting point to attain self love.
Being positive whole day everyday is definitely tough. Most people can’t keep up with their ways to seek out positivity. Have you ever met the kind of person who rebels in the worst details!? They focus and hold onto bad moments, like getting cut off in traffic, having a mediocre meal or spilling a drink. If this sounds like you, it means that you’ve trained your brain to focus on negativity. You might even be an expert by now on being a downer.
Now undoing years of training negative behaviour can be a challenge. Fortunately, you can train your brain to seek out positivity instead of concentrating on moments that elicit your negative emotions. You can begin to shift your focus to positive moments. Make it a point to consider positive information and redirect your attention when you’re feeling negative.
Life is somewhat like EMAIL. For important positive things/friends & admirers, there is an INBOX. For everything that’s negative or abusive, there is a SPAM folder. Now it’s completely upto you whether you want to open that spam folder or let it delete itself within 30days automatically.
In a relationship if someone is not moving up with time; just move forward with your life towards your goals & success, with or without them. You need a better you tomorrow. If deserving & you both are meant to be together, the other person will step up to catch up.
Liars can’t LOVE.
The moment a lie comes out of your mouth, that lie was already seeded in your heart way way before. You planned it. I just feel pity over such insects. Lie/deception/cheating/betrayal, these are not mandatory. You picked that path. You choose it.
Now the consequences are; forget others, even you lost trust in yourself. YES people will not believe in you even if you bark/scream truth someday. No-one wants to deal with a negative mindset individual who has zero credibility with own words. There are some people who talk a lot and do a little less, I mean “Words to Action ratio is bit messed”. But with liars, even their words are utter garbage. They don’t know what they are saying for what, because they are micromanaging a situation in their head just for that while. They have zero intentions towards making anything happen what they say!! They totally feel like “they are successfully fooling the other side”. They forget that “you don’t play the same move twice”, the patterns are already out and the other side isn’t giving a shit.
With lie, you can’t love. Some people just say those 3 words because they are habituated to or they are fond of it. Doesn’t matter it’s you or your partner; once there is a lie, that LOVE is not clean or true. Never expect a liar to LOVE you truly. They failed even before they started.
Toxic people are nothing but people with negative mindset. Because they can’t value/love themselves, they try to damage someone else’s integrity. There is a cure, they need to feed their self respect instead of their ego. It’s easy & everyone deserves happiness.
Some situations are meant to drain you. You can’t put two different tyres in a motorcycle & run it smoothly. The harder you try, the harsh failure you have to face. Pull back, have a heart to heart with yourself. Make sure you are coming from a place of honesty & integrity, then approach the situation or the other side with your TRUTH. Life is easy & fun, don’t clunk it with negative bullshit.
Yes, I was crushing over a raunchy brunette during those days. Definitely not Love, I was never ready for that. Once met that girl near bus stop during a rainy day. A tiny conversation lead to so much more later on, not a line. Just read it..😂
Girl: Heya Tap. Where you wanna go in this weather?
Tap: Hey not much. It’s spar, to buy chicken breasts & wine.
Girl: I heard a lot about those late night parties in your apartment.
Tap: Yeah, I would love to invite you someday.
Girl: Is there a barbecue party tonight as well?
Girl: You shouldn’t invite me, I am totally wet because of this rain.
Tap: Rather I would love to invite you right now. Let me show you the right way to getwet. 😂
(No further 18+ talks, I am a big flirt. & Yes I know how to scratch the right cord).
People may hurt, scold, betray, abuse & break your heart. Stay strong, don’t behave like a pussy. Everything happens for a reason. Your other side is earning their karma by misusing you. At the end someone beautiful is coming to clean all & adore you for what you are. Your Truth & goodness will be rewarded at any cost. Stay positive, vibe right.
Apparently my friends were suggesting to go on a banging spree last time when I told them about breaking up with a person who felt flat on standing on her ground to be a human. I just exited that part because that wasn’t serving me. If a relationship isn’t making you happy; you don’t need to break up from that person, you just need to come out from the bullshit they are trying to sell you. The day they will understand their own value, that person will figure out what’s best for them & you figure out what’s best for you.
In the name of break up, don’t go for stupid rebound sex bullshit. Some even end up in friends with benefits situations which attract more complications. That lowers your standard as a human even further. I make sure there is some standard in a person even when it’s a one night stand. That girl wasn’t even worth it. That was my reason for break up.
Life is like a concert. Don’t go ahead & argue/fight with/for somebody towards any reason good or bad, it’s like you are stopping your own fun by wasting time on someone else who is all about negative vibe.
Since the day you are born till today, all your actions are already written by your almighty. Call it destiny or call it your lifepath.
The only thing you can do is; understand your heart/head’s call & put it under logic to understand the truth, just follow it. You know where to move. Don’t prefer to live under regrets. You deserve happiness & love in your life. Smile..
People always end up thinking “They lost something while walking on this path of life”.
Let me explain this today. You lost nothing. You don’t need to feel burdened in your own head with this negative thought. Which/what/who belong to you are already there with you or will be with you. Don’t panic or stress. Your almighty’s plan for you is better over yours.
Just be true to yourself, LIFE WILL SEEM EXCITING.
Yes I lead a pretty minimalistic life. Don’t go with my watches & sneakers, I go weak with both. My supplement business feeds my needs, I am definitely happy with the outcome. Planning some other aspects to nurture a better future. All steps I take are measured.
You can’t surprise me, I see something good or bad coming in advance. I learnt little bit of astrology & tarot card reading in a week last month. Lost fear, almost nothing seems unknown anymore with important aspects of life. We all are surrounded by positive/negative energies & we all are living under a stimulation. The only thing you can do is, be the best true you & tell the world you deserve to own this life.
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