True me.. Tap-1006..

Instead of saying “I’m lazy,” saying “I’ve made a habit of not doing work unless it’s absolutely necessary.”
Instead of saying “I’m a bad friend,” saying “I haven’t communicated as much as I should with the people I care about.”

By being specific about your problems, and by framing it as an action that you are consciously either working on or ignoring rather than an unchangeable part of who you are, you allow yourself to accept your mistakes and work constructively on them instead of pretending they didn’t happen or wallowing in blaming yourself.

Honestly I think one of the most empowering things you can do for yourself is to separate your negative qualities from your identity. (Not my words.)

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True me.. Tap-846..

HOW TO KNOW YOU’RE GROWING:

1. You commit to and practice observing yourself.
2. You notice a story you’re telling yourself.
3. You set a boundary you may not have set before.
4. You honour a commitment to yourself.
5. You take ownership and accountability when there’s something to own.
6. You can see another perspective outside of your own.
7. You see the pain of others in their reactivity without over personalizing.
8. You move away from changing others and move towards integrating the change you’d like to see for yourself.

GROWTH is often uncomfortable, messy, and full of feelings you weren’t EXPECTING. But it’s necessary.

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True me.. Tap-660..

Everyone warns you about red flags in a relationship but nobody talks about green flags, let’s do it.

So here’s some:

1. He/she listens when you have issues and supports you through them.

2. He/she stops doing things that makes you uncomfortable.

3. He/she compromises only when it’s necessary.

4. He/she never puts you down deliberately, especially not publically.

5. He/she supports your ambitions & aids your personal growth.

6. He/she uses a calm rational tone during arguments.

7. He/she is able to apologise when they’re in the wrong.

8. He/she will hold your words respectfully in heart before holding you strong in arms.

Why should a relationship mean settling down? Wait out for someone who won’t let life escape you, who’ll challenge you and drive you towards your dreams. Someone spontaneous you can get lost in the world with. A relationship with the right person is a release, not a restriction.
-Beau Taplin/The Liberation.

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Once I thought “MONEY IS HAPPINESS & MORE OF IT IS NECESSARY FOR THE GOOD”.

Now I am able to process how right I was!!💪