Don’t get stuck. Move, travel, take a class, take a risk. There is a season for wildness and a season for settledness, and this is neither. This season is about becoming. Choose to become something big. Don’t lose yourself at happy hour, but don’t lose yourself on the top of success either. Stop every once in a while and go out to coffee or climb in bed with your journal. Now is your time.
Walk closely with people you love. Don’t get stuck in the past, and don’t try to fast-forward yourself into a future you haven’t yet earned. Give today all the love and intensity and courage you can, and keep travelling honestly along life’s path.
When it is time for something new, you will feel it. You will feel a desire to let go, to shed layers, to move, to re-create. You will know because there will be subtle shifts all around you. You will release the old because you are really clearing the path for what’s ahead. Trust this process. Know that life does not take from us anything unless there is something else awaiting its replacement. Understand & value the importance of subtle shifts.
(This video got nothing to do with the post above. I found it fun to watch, so it’s a fun to share. I didn’t know there’s a foster banana liquor. Now my travel diaries include one more place in 2022. I like trying such recipies even know i am not a big fan of alcohol.)
When it is time for something new, you will feel it.
You will feel a desire to let go, to shed layers, to move, to re-create. You will know because there will be subtle shifts all around you. You will release the old because you are clearing the path for what’s ahead.
Doesn’t matter whether you broke up with someone or you are trying to woo someone, if you are sure about approaching LOVE “MAKE SURE YOUR SINGLEHOOD IS PROVEN FOR SOME MONTHS AT LEAST, PAST PEOPLE HOLD YOU BACK FROM A PROSPEROUS FUTURE“. A clean and fully healed heart makes things easier for both to move ahead together towards a successful tomorrow.
Doesn’t matter what’s your state of mind right now, learn to face your truth & responsibilities. We need to move forward in life always, don’t lapse it.
One tiny tip; do something for your financial stability. That’s gonna lift you higher on a longer run. Progress is the only pattern of life. Don’t smash your growth by holding yourself back in any negativity.
Indecisiveness causes insecurities. Insecurities cause self-doubt. You start expecting the worst, allowing yourself to take every wrong step & sabotage own growth in life.
Find a motive to live. Set a goal. Take decisions: stay stuck to it. If you can’t find reasons behind your actions/words/moves, don’t do it because they are bullshit. Be True to yourself first, everyone will acknowledge with time. Investment in self growth gratifies self-respect and self-esteem. Be a TRUE you.
Whenever people ask me about something called “LOVE” now a days. I just tell them two words, “Empathy & Consistency”. If a person lacks both, you certainly not need to move on from them. You just need to keep walking on moving forward. Keep on walking, the other person knows they can push you back. Be in a high vibration, don’t open yourself to pain & vulnerability.
It’s you who needs to learn lessons, don’t let other person’s negativity distract your growth. You treat people with kindness, love, care, attention & admiration. You don’t get that always back & in fact a lot of times you don’t. That openness can invite people to abuse you.
First protect yourself while still maintaining a open heart & mind, which can be a very challenging lesson. You don’t need someone perfect, you just need someone who can win you.