Constantly analyze yourself. Figure out why certain things upset you. Question your own motives. Understand your behavior. This creates a pathway for change.
Acknowledging why you do the things you do is the first step in shifting out of toxic patterns.
BE TRUE TO YOURSELF FIRST. BE REAL & BE A HAPPENING AUTHENTIC VERSION OF YOURSELF.
(This video got nothing to do with the post above. West blames Russia on invading a democratic European nation. Russia sites own reasons that may or may not seem reasonable to most people. I am not in support of both. This war displaced some 7 million people, we all must know the latest changes in map after the referendum.)
Constantly analyze yourself. Figure out why certain things upset you. Question your own motives. Understand your behavior. This creates a pathway for change. Acknowledging why you do the things you do is the first step in shifting out of toxic patterns.
Most people are so random that you can literally term them “dumb” or “stupid” with almost everything. It’s nothing but an unenthusiastic lazy mindset which functions without motive. They are unaware of what to expect from themselves. Fix your motive before you act, not just act but even before you speak. Humans are that kinda crazy who catch the smallest possible negative & present it as a ginormous pile of rubbish. When you notice a problem in yourself, work towards removing it.
You must have heard or seen this before “Actions must match words”, that’s true. Be cautious about it. But even before that’s sorted, never forget to sort your motive because it takes a lot of time to figure out where you are heading with your motive towards what you desire. Every action must be prompted by a motive. (Not my words).
Doesn’t matter what you are doing work wise; If it’s providing stability to your life, make sure you enjoy doing it. Without the drive to make it happen, you will lose mojo from self. That’s destructive.
HAPPINESS is nothing but enjoying yourself with your whole TRUTH & MOTIVE.
After you know WHO DO YOU LOVE, then make sure to find out WHY DO YOU LOVE as well. It’s needed for a long-term. You need a reason to be with someone. There is something you liked unique in your partner, or else why are you with him/her!!
Being in love with a bed-bug is hard no-matter how good is that money/boots/smile or sex. If a person isn’t driven, you can’t be with them on the longer run. A person without a goal is indecisive and they will only bring instability to your life.
Doesn’t matter which side you are in, try to be a better you with a motive. Motive/goal can be anything, being a better student/employee/business person whatever it is. First find your reason to strive/live, other side will celebrate you in LOVE.
Indecisiveness causes insecurities. Insecurities cause self-doubt. You start expecting the worst, allowing yourself to take every wrong step & sabotage own growth in life.
Find a motive to live. Set a goal. Take decisions: stay stuck to it. If you can’t find reasons behind your actions/words/moves, don’t do it because they are bullshit. Be True to yourself first, everyone will acknowledge with time. Investment in self growth gratifies self-respect and self-esteem. Be a TRUE you.