Happiness doesn’t start with a relationship. Happiness doesn’t start with a vacation. Happiness doesn’t start with a job. Happiness doesn’t start with money.
It’s how you deal with stress in each little moment that determines how well you achieve happiness in the end. If you want life to be happier, you need to change your present response. Happiness starts with you.
If you can’t manage $1,000, you can’t manage $10,000. If you’re not happy on your own, you won’t be happy in a relationship. If you don’t feel good now, you won’t feel good when you have everything you’re working toward.
Money doesn’t make you good with money. Love doesn’t make you love yourself. Success doesn’t make you happier unless you are already happy. You are your own foundation. If your foundation is not solid, nothing else can stand on it.
If you can’t manage $1,000, you can’t manage $10,000. If you’re not happy on your own, you won’t be happy in a relationship. If you don’t feel good now, you won’t feel good when you have everything you’re working toward.
Money doesn’t make you good with money. Love doesn’t make you love yourself. Success doesn’t make you happier unless you are already happy.
You are your own foundation. If your foundation isn’t solid, nothing else can stand on it.
The longer I live the more I realize the impact of attitude to life. Attitude, to me, is more important than facts. It is more important than the past, than education, than money, than circumstanstances, than failures, than successes, than what other people think or say or do. It is more important than appearance, giftedness or skill. It will make or break a company, a church, a home.
The remarkable thing is we have a choice every day regarding the attitude we will embrace for the day. We can’t change our past. We can’t change the fact that people will act in a certain way. We cannot change the inevitable. The only thing we can do is play on the one string we have, and that is our attitude. I am convinced that life is 10% what happens to us is 90% how I react to it. (Not my words.)
You get what you expect, have you noticed that? You expect to survive, and so you do. You expect to have a roof over your head, and so you do. You expect to live alright, and so you do.
But you don’t expect extraordinary things, so they don’t come. You don’t expect magnificent money to flow into your experience and so it cannot get in. The only thing that comes to you is what you are expecting to come to you.
Tired? – Sleep earlier. Out of shape? – Exercise/workout. Low energy? – Eat healthier food. No time? – Stop watching TV. No money? – Get a second job/save/side hustle. Too complicated? – Start small and try first. No knowledge? – Grab a fucking book.
We live in a world where 99.9% of private yacht, private jets, mansions are owned by men. But it’s always 99.9% women who upload those images in Instagram. Men who really own things don’t even want to come to picture, they enjoy staying random. Suddenly you see a stupid maze of nonsense just in these 3 lines.
While making money, you will come across million such examples. It’s people who achieved too little always speak more words than that’s necessary.
Money never comes from poor to rich or to the ones who work hard for it. Money comes to those who can manage it from those who can’t manage it.
(Few lines said by my bestfriend Demi’s dad i always remember.)
The longer I live, the more I realize the impact of attitude on life. Attitude, to me is more important than the past, than education, than money, than circumstances, than failures, than successes, than what other people think or say or do. It is more important than appearance, giftedness, or skill. It will make or break a company, a church, a school or a home.
The remarkable thing is we have a choice every day regarding the attitude we will embrace for that day. We cannot change our past. We cannot change the fact that people will act in a certain way. We cannot change the inevitable. The only thing we can do is play on the one string we have, and that is our attitude. I am convinced that life is 10% what happens to me and 90% how I react to it. And so it is with you, we are in charge of our ATTITUDES.
1. LOST MONEY can be found, but LOST TIME is lost forever. 2. LEARNING TO LEARN AND CHANGING YOURSELF IS A SUPERPOWER. 3. You are not your job, it’s more about your SKILLS, HABITS, LIFESTYLE CHOICES & DISCIPLINE. 4. Your happiness is your RESPONSIBILITY. 5. When it comes to POSITIVE ENERGY, LOVE & RESPECT; you get multiple times of what you give. 6. Any VICTIM MENTALITY INDIVIDUAL won’t stop working on you until they make you one VICTIM MENTALITY INDIVIDUAL, stay away from WOKE. 7. Your BEST TEACHER is your last mistake. 8. CONSISTENCY beats talent, and you have all resources within you be a SUCCESSFUL INDIVIDUAL.
The longer I live, the more I realize the impact of ATTITUDE on life. Attitude, to me is more important than the past, than education, than money, than circumstances, than failures, than successes, than what other people think or say or do. It is more important than appearance, giftedness, or skill. It will make or break a company, a church, a school, a home.
The remarkable thing is we have a choice every day regarding the attitude we will embrace for that day. We cannot change our past. We cannot change the fact that people will act in a certain way. We cannot change the inevitable.
The only thing we can do is play on the one string we have, and that is our attitude. I am convinced that life is 10% what happens to me and 90% how I react to it. And so it is with you, we are in charge of our ATTITUDE.
Half of 2022 is almost over. Let me suggest a happy beginning towards a better tomorrow to everyone who’s young or eager to grow. Remain consistent & create some healthy habits;
1. Always learn new skills. Learning is the only thing that keeps brain active & body young.
2. Create multiple income sources with your new skill-sets.
3. Says no to materialism. Stay away from fast fashion & other such stupid trends associated to it.
4. Learn to save 30% of your income. With time make it above 50%.
5. Learn how MONEY & Investment works. Invest part of the saved money
6. Workout 5 times per week.
7. Read something everyday & learn to dive into new experiences.
8. Value sleep, diet & good health.
(This video got something to do with the post above in the current world of tiktik tits & weak men, barely few understand WHAT’S MONEY!! In fact, it’s not just money. It’s a morally flawed world. The best line Charlie Munger said was: These people need to stay dumb like this, that’s how we get rich. Bitcoin is stupid, because it’s very likely to go to zero. I know people who literally follow crypto & NFT pages in Instagram as if it’s American treasury’s updates they are subscribing. And trust me there’s no scarcity of such dumbfucks.)
1. Give without expecting in return. 2. Trust without wavering. 3. Forgive without punishing. 4. Listen without interrupting. 5. Enjoy without complaint. 6. Answer without arguing. 7. Keep your promises. 8. Speak without accusing. 9. Be patient in all things. 10. Learn to let it go.
12 Habits you don’t realize are killing you slowly:
1. You skip breakfast/meals all the time. 2. You spend money you don’t have. 3. You are entertaining an unhappy relationship/friendship/marriage. 4. You text while you walk. 5. You skip your exercise/workout routine. 6. You snack when you’re not hungry. 7. You overwork yourself. 8. You bite your nails. 9. Your posture goes unchecked. 10. You have a severe lack of sleep. 11. You skip out on the vitamin D. 12. You load up on the caffeine.
Listen to that little voice inside yourself, like a loving parent or a good friend. This is the truest part of your soul, the key to your happiness. Sometimes thoughts, fears or other people get too loud and we can’t hear ourselves. Do what you need to do to get back in touch.
Today, follow what your heart tells you. Nobody but you knows what is right for you, so listen to your instincts.
(This video got nothing to do with the post above. Carl Ichan is a big name in the world of investment. You can call him investor, business magnate or corporate raider, nobody knows takeover game better than this man. Big fan & this trailer looks fun. Investment is so easy that nobody does it. Invest 1000 quids in S&P-500 every month, just that much puts you in top 0.3% richest in 10 years. Business & Investment are two best games of mature stable happy people.)
A lot of people are skeptical about giving a homeless person money. One thing you can do is buy a homeless person a meal or a bottle of water so at least you know they will get something nutritious to eat or drink. Last week i saw a homeless man and remembered that I had a protein bar & a pack of biscuits in my backpack. I went up to him and said, “I don’t want to offend you, but if you’re hungry, I’d love to give this to you.” He reacted like he had won the lottery. I couldn’t believe how something so simple could make him so happy.
Go out of your way to help a homeless person, or someone else in need, today. We lead a busy life without giving enough space to humility & humbleness in our hearts.
Humility is not thinking less of yourself. It’s thinking of yourself less. -C. S. LEWIS.
This post/story is about basic human decency. Yesterday i came across a horrible person, who misbehaved a small restaurant owner while paying for some eggy bread, pork pie & tea. He was short of some cash even though he came with entire family in a BMW X5. His argument started escalating over Apple pay, that too in a small & new cash only eatery. Later he went to ATM, withdrew some cash & paid for his food. According to his words; if you aren’t accepting Apple pay, you should go back to country side & he was some corporate employee for BAE systems. The words he used against that restaurant owner made me question his upbringing & it also made me realise what an highly educated asshole looks like. We live in a materialistic world where we literally judge someone looking at their clothes/house/car/phone/financial status, the last comes EDUCATION, QUALIFICATION, PERSONALITY & BEHAVIOUR, that too only if we enjoy a healthy interaction. So, Why these so-called few corporate employees belittle street food truck or small restaurant owners in their head!!
Because i mentioned these words “Materialistic world” & “Corporate Employee”, let’s talk about the money part first. Any engineer/banker/software developer/analyst with 3-5 years of job experience makes easy 95-130k salary per annum, no matter it’s Dollars/Euros/Pounds. Social security+Insurance+Tax, combined all are around 38-42% of entire income in most developed countries. Now monthly in hand salary comes close to 5200-6700 Dollars/Euros/Pounds.
Let’s talk about the small scale business owner who runs a food truck or a street food restaurant, here an easy quick meal costs 7-10 Dollars/Euros/Pounds. It can be a Full English breakfast/Tacos/Pastrami Sandwich/Doner kebab or a salad with tea/coffee/any kind of drink. They receive 80-90 such orders during lunch hour, mostly regular customers during a rush hour. And casually another 80-90 orders at evening because that’s the preferable time to cater tourists/students/kids/young people/couples. Total around 170 orders of 7-10 bucks food product, gross 1500 bucks everyday. Sunday everything is closed. So it comes to 1500×26=39000 worth of sales in a month, not the profit amount. If you deduct the raw ingredients+gas+rent+electricity+3-4 employees salary from that 39000, that small scale business owner is still left with easy 9000-12000 Dollars/Euros/Pounds in his hands every month.
Tried to show you an easy estimation in both scenarios. I am saying it from my experience. I know a half Indian brit who lives in Berlin, he started a ghost kichen sourdough pizzeria in Alexanderplatz in the middle of pandemic. Now it’s a small yet busy full blown cafe. His cafe is open only 4 hours every evening, but he makes way more than my salary. Even in terms of money, a small scale business owner enjoys a better financial stability compared to any employee. The good part is, EVERY BUSINESS OWNER IS HIS OWN BOSS. They work their ass off for their family, so that family can enjoy a life worth calling LIFE. I have studied 4 years bachelor’s in engineering, then MBA, now i am a PhD research scholar (still a student), i also have 4+ years of job experience as a data/research analyst & software developer. I bet that person who started a small mediocre petty drama must have studied something like i did. And most of the time people who work at multinational companies imagine they enjoy the best lifestyle compared to rest, which can be true. But does that allow anyone to be a jackass on streets? We can’t cure certain issues by cursing & shouting. Education is not just there for earning a qualification. If education isn’t making you humble, grateful & a better human, then you are simply a waste of time & energy for society.
(Forgot to schedule this post on Sunday. When i mentioned yesterday above, i am talking about an incident from Saturday. The restaurant owner i mentioned is one of my friends from A-level days.)
Let me tell you something funny today. Now a days we all hear once in a while someone random comes online in YouTube or any other social media & says, “You don’t need a school/college/university degree to be successful in life”. Even Elon Musk once said “You can learn almost anything from internet for free”. My question is; “As a human & society as whole, do we value free things?”. I totally agree you can learn any skill for free if you have a strong willpower. But that doesn’t take away the fact that a good school/college/university education is important. Rich people don’t want competition. It’s beneficial for them if a major chunk of population stays under qualified, cheap labour you know.
Let me bust all these crap today. Roughly 7.9 billion human population in our world & 92% adults don’t have a college/university degree. And the rest 8% people who have a college/university degree own 74% of entire world’s wealth. So don’t take advice from people who haven’t walked that path. In most cases what happens; even getting into a good university or any ivy league school is a big deal here, that says your mind is ready for the big game.
Education is necessary. Qualification is important. Skills you learned will take you places.
Nobody’s going to do your life for you. You have to do it yourself, whether you’re rich or poor, out of money or raking it in, the beneficiary of ridiculous fortune or terrible injustice. And you have to do it no matter what is true. No matter what is hard. No matter what unjust, sad, sucky things have befallen you. Self pity is a dead-end road. You make the choice to drive down it. It’s up to you to decide to stay parked there or to turn around and drive out.
LIFE ITSELF IS A PRIVILEGE. BUT TO LIVE LIFE TO THE FULLEST, WELL THAT IS A CHOICE. (Not my words).
Get honest with people about who you are, what you want, and how you expect to be treated. Standards only scare off the people not meant for you.
Some people have a problem, they can’t digest respect & good vibes. Stay away from those, such people don’t deserve your LOVE or ATTENTION.
My bestfriend DEMI asked me yesterday “whether i will stop hanging out with her after i get a girlfriend/partner/wife or someone significant?”. I am answering this with few lines, so that she can bookmark & read it as many times she wants. I hide nothing from no one.
Here’s my answer: My blood’s origin goes back to an eastern state of India called ODISHA. Since childhood i was taught few things which are embedded in my mind now:
1. Study, learn, get qualified & make lots of money with that knowledge. Because society is either judgemental or materialistic which respects power of MONEY & KNOWLEDGE. 2. Live for love, respect, family, and LOVE+RESPECT towards family. That’s why we have huge families. 3. MONEY you made mustn’t be used to flex in front of others. Use it to keep your family happy. 4. Invest in gold & land, this is the big kicker. That’s the reason most Indian men crave to buy more than one property & Indian women are obsessed with 24 carat pure gold jewelleries.😂 That’s all.
So one day when i enter a stable relationship, the sole purpose is to start my own family someday soon or sooner. I know whom & what to prioritise. But remember one thing dumb bitch, i feel like i know you since my past life. You are not just my bestfriend, i consider you family. You will always have 24/7 access to my house, my lap, a piggyback ride to beach & access to me no matter it’s pouring/sunny/snowing. Don’t get emotional DEMI, we are not discussing anything about this post during facetime.
Mama once said; “We don’t just entertain friends/relationships outta fun, we build them over time, we respect them & we keep them. That’s why never accept or serve discounted garbage”.
I was in my teen days. I was still getting pocket money from parents. I wasn’t able to understand those heavy/right words. I thought my mum was talking about not buying discounted clothes/stuffs or wasting money with friends during weekend trips. Most of my friends know i hate discounted clothes now too. In fact, i don’t have a single piece of clothing from any fast fashion brands.
Coming closer to my 30, now i am understanding that she told me not to hangout with people who have discounted/cheap personality/approach/attitude/mindset, It took me almost 14 years to figure out the real meaning behind those wise words. Being a MAN means progression of understanding, knowledge, acceptance & virtue while developing better habits.
(This video got nothing to do with the post above. Watch it to understand how your shopping habits are shaping a climate & humanitarian disaster. There’s a reason I never buy clothes from H&M, Zara, TK Maxx or any store/brand with 50% discount board. I buy clothes which cost at least a hundred quid or more, and i wear them for ages. They stay with me because, I know I have spent enough money to buy them. And i fully remember how much I paid, I have a photographic memory. Fun part is, I still have t-shirts, jackets, hoodies & sneakers from my 8th grade & engineering college days which fit perfectly even today. FYI, I am a sneakerhead & my love for watches is something divine.)
Beggar wants money right right now. Daily wage workers want money at the end of their workday, let’s say daily payments. Employees work because they want monthly salary. Businessman invests money & waits for few months to recover his investment with some profit on top. Share market investor invests & waits for years to see where his investment heading next.
Now, let’s talk about the fun part in it. There are only two winners in this money game. 1. The businessman who’s is building wealth while working for himself. 2. The stock market investor is building generational wealth. Here i am referring those who invest in hedge funds & multi-bagger stocks.
In other two cases of employees & begger, the person who wants money earliest is the poorest one. Actually in all 4 scenarios, the person who waits the longest for MONEY is also the RICHEST, he is the one who has the highest amount of PATIENCE. Never run behind EASY/QUICK MONEY, the outcome will be devastating. Urge towards EASY/QUICK MONEY is the reflection of cheap mindset, lack of knowledge & major character flaws in a person’s PERSONALITY. Learn about how MONEY works in our current world & have PATIENCE in learning. Same i can say for education, relationships & weightloss journey/fitness as well, your PATIENCE is the only determining factor. God has a perfect timing for everything; never early, never late. It takes a little patience and faith. But it’s worth the wait, always.
(This video got something to do with the post above. If you have patience, watch it. And the title of this video is: WHY SUCCESSFUL PEOPLE ARE AGGRESSIVELY PATIENT!.)
Be strong, be kind, be free. Do things that make you proud of yourself. Surround yourself with people who bring out your best qualities. And distance yourself from the people who do the opposite. Hangout with people who are ready to exchange knowledge with enough understanding about what they are saying & why. For example; Don’t just follow someone’s words because they said “Investing in stock market/real estate/crypto will make you money/rich”. 95% of these people don’t even know how to multiply 12*13 without a calculator. Do you really think such dumbfucks can advice anyone on finance? Forget finance, if someone is saying something without knowing enough about it, that person is a complete fake nut. Stay away from such morons. Fun story: Most people who invest in bitcoin think it’s more like a virtual currency, but hardly few know it was designed as a medium of transaction. It’s more like Western Union Money Transfer.
Be true, true to yourself and true to your morals. Stand up for yourself. Don’t let people take advantage of your kindness and soft heart. Don’t take shit from anyone, and don’t put yourself down. Believe in yourself and believe in your journey. Be good to yourself. Be unapologetically you. Embrace your imperfections. Accept the fact that when you grow, sometimes you lose people and that’s okay. Celebrate your every success and learn from failure. Learn to accept that, first you have to learn a lot about anything & everything before jumping in. And most importantly, never ever let anything stand in the way of the person you are becoming. BE A TRUE YOU. (Not my words).
We’ve been infected with this idea that LOVE is an emotion only felt between two people. But love is universal. It’s an energy, a contagious force, a beautiful gift.
To offer money to a homeless man is to love. To smile at a stranger is love. To be grateful, to be hopeful, to be consistent, to be faithful, to be truthful, to be considerate, to be brave, to be forgiving, to be proud of yourself, is also to LOVE.
First have a lust towards a beautiful life. I am talking about your OWN LIFE. Never obsess about chasing love. Chase goals. Chase dreams. Chase the behaviors that are going to make you better.
You don’t chase love; you allow that to find you by accident, and when it finds you on accident, you’ll know that is was supposed to find you PURPOSEFULLY.
(This paragraph got nothing to do with the post above. It’s my movie review for FREEGUY. Watched in ODEON IMAX, the movie & experience both were amazing. One of the best movie theater i visited so far. Friends said, it’s a great one time watch, but i will definitely watch it again. Don’t miss it. My friends also suggested it’s even better in 4DX 3D. The only part i didn’t like was my bestie DEMI ate 4 chocolate cupcakes, a litre of cold drinks & a whole large tub of popcorn like a hungry pig. I must agree, most girls who look good are some kinda sorcerers. It’s impossible to look fly while eating that much amount of garbage.)
Date her who walks you till your car. Date her who dares to steal your hoodie in front of your face. Date her who wants to meet your parents, and is respectful towards them. Date her who respects your siblings and family members. Date her who’s kind to animals, its a reflection of how she’ll treat usual people. Date her who makes you smile. Date her who looks confident with or without makeup. Date her who will listen to your complain or accomplishments. Date her who doesn’t force you to do things you don’t want to. Date her who will come hang out and cuddle just cause she can. Date her who loves you through the good and the bad. Date her who has seen you angry, happy, sad, and still feels for you. Date her who has a hunger for SUCCESS & hunger for more beyond that. Date her who actually utilises her time to the fullest, so that she can value your TIME. Now you know you aren’t entertaining someone boring/sluggish.
Life can easily remain exciting happy happening even in a relationship if you are dealing with a stronger individual, stronger in finance & faith.
There are two days in every week about which we should not worry. Two days which should be kept free from fear and apprehension.
One of these days is YESTERDAY with all it’s mistakes. Yesterday has passed forever beyond our control. All the money in the world cannot bring back yesterday. We can’t undo a single act we performed. We cannot erase a single word we said. Yesterday is gone. Its faults and blunders, Its aches and pains.
The other day we should not worry about is TOMORROW. With it’s possible adversities, It’s burdens, It’s large promise and poor performance. Tomorrow is also beyond our immediate control. Tomorrow’s Sun will rise, either in splendor or behind a mask of clouds, but it will rise. Until it does, we have no stake in tomorrow, for it is yet unborn.
This just leaves only one day; TODAY. Any person can fight the battles of just one day. It is only when you and I add the burdens of those two awful eternity’s yesterday and tomorrow that we break down. It is not the experience of today that drives people mad. It is the remorse or bitterness for something which happened yesterday and the dread of what tomorrow may bring. Let us therefore live but one day at a time. BE YOU & LIVE YOUR TODAY. (Not my words).
Suddenly social media has created so many experts who brag about their success stories. Most of these only talk about their success. Half of these dumbfucks have little to nothing success in their field, rest half are just scammers.
Genuine people who made it big will never sell their recipe to success. Because it’s personal. My journey with my relationships, friendships, religion, finance & career, all are personal to me. I may give tips to my son one day, but why will i tell some random person to follow my steps & make it happen, if i already made it so far walking on my own!!? Nobody helped me become what i wanted to be. The journey wasn’t smooth sailing. And i also know nobody will put similar effort to be where i am.
Ask Elon Musk how he got into Tesla without founding it & how it’s the world’s highest valued automobile manufacturing company in stock market while making only 0.13% of cars in this world!!? Will he ever tell you in a while how that happened? It’s consistent rigorous efforts of time & discipline, that’s paying off right now.
Stop selling success stories. Now we live in a world where people first need to know what they shouldn’t do. I want more people to talk about setbacks. Failures & struggles are fun too. I don’t know why people avoid that part! If you can’t enjoy the struggle, you don’t deserve the SUCCESS.
Stay away from people with negative vibe & toxic mindset. Here is a HOW TO or WHOM TO;
1. Entertain those who exchange attention & mutual admiration.
2. Stay away from “Dry texters”, these kind of people can figure out a problem in everything that’s soothing to your head or heart. The thing is, they are just not interested in you. The earlier you understand, the better. Read more on this by clicking here. In general, every conversation with a dry texter is a pointless nonsense, it’s going nowhere. If communication sucks, just cut it or back off humbly.
3. Also stay away from those whose screen time in instagram is more than 4 minutes a day. (Most successful people don’t even use such apps in their phone, they have hired agencies to keep fools stuck to create a brand value for their name. And i bet you don’t want a fool in your life).
4. If someone’s social circle is too random, that’s a sign of major inconsistency in their personality.
5. Never believe those who say bullshits like; “MONEY IS NOT THAT BIG OF A DEAL, I WOULD RATHER FOCUS ON LOVE OR FAMILY”. These are the double whammy of fickleness & fake ideology. We are living in 2021, a happy LOVE & a happy FAMILY both come with a bill.
Enough said about what not to. Click here to read a previous post on what are the green signals of a healthy humanly equation. Hope you have a good one.
PEOPLE DON’T HAVE THE PATIENCE TO BUILD A BUSINESS FOR 3 YEARS WHILE NURTURING OWN IDEA, BUT THEY HAVE THE PATIENCE TO GO TO WORK FOR SOMEONE ELSE NEXT 30 YEARS.
(There is no difference between any inconsistent partner in a relationship & an impatient person with career/money. Both have zero idea about WTF they are doing with own life. You will always hear lines like “GO WITH THE FLOW” from this kinda people. And remember it’s only dead fishes who go with the flow.)
Build big with bliss, banter, badassery & balance.
Typing this post to highlight modern day deliema among teens who flex their perfect 3-month long relationship before they catch their partner cheating on them with their bestfriend, which is hilarious & utter nonsense to my brain. Currently this world is filled with bit too much garbage to my eyes, let’s say bit too much social media delusional PDA. Single & slaying life, that’s my current status. And i am in no mood to change this for a while. But someday I definitely want to get married & pump 90-95 babies inside my future wife. Babies & puppies are angelic to my eyes. Hope to be a good father to few daughters as well as few boys. When my daughter wants to date someone, i will suggest to see at least two out of these three qualities in her future partner; 1. Millionaire. (We have designed a world where every happiness & comfort comes with a cost. I hate those who try to enter/entertain relationship without being financially stable). 2. Master’s in engineering or finance. (Educated people never go boring because they have more idea/opinion/view about the world we are living in). 3. Man enough to run 5km while rocking a 6-pack abs. (A fit person is well aware of personal hygiene, aesthetics & manners).
(All i want to share is; I suggest everyone to follow a journey towards fitness & financial stability. When you are SUCCESSFUL with life, you are more happy & in tune with yourself, which helps you to stay away from all kinds of negativity such as lying, cheating, inconsistency & any other deceptive behaviour.)
Found this video in YouTube recommendations today. Happy to share i too wanted to become a doctor after my high school, but somehow right now i am a senior data analyst. See this 5 minute long video to understand what a DATA ANALYST goes through & why you shouldn’t become one.
I don’t know why nobody teaches this in business schools. When you have an entrepreneurial mindset, you must have to be good with your communication skills with almost every kinda people irrespective of their class, qualification, occupation or age. When you are on the right track towards your success & goals, never miss this tiny advice.
YOU HAVE TO BUILD GOOD RELATIONSHIPS WITH: 1. Accountants. 2. Lawyers & Tax Advisors. 3. Product development specialists. 4. Engineers & Architects. 5. Marketing Experts. 6. Graphic Designers & Web Developers. 7. Fitness/Mental Health Coaches.
Your contacts are worth more than real Money. The group of people you hangout with talks a lot about your personality.
MONEY; doesn’t matter you like this word or not, it’s a vital part of our life. Planning a happy life without MONEY is like fooling around with yourself. MONEY is directly linked to our happiness because of certain basic human instincts. Every change in life also brings some lifestyle changes which requires more money to afford a stable life further.
Question is; “Is just MONEY enough to be HAPPY?”. Answer is; No. We need money, but we also want a sassy relationship, a stable career, a strong family bond, some reliable friends & you have to pack ton of gratitude in your heart. Creating a successful life takes lots of time & energy, MONEY is an amazing accelerator here.
Before all you have to tell yourself “MONEY IS A MAJOR DRIVER/ENABLER OF HAPPINESS”. Valuing MONEY doesn’t mean being materialistic, MONEY must be spent the right way or on moments/experiences/investments which will help you create memories while generating happiness”. See the video by CNBC MAKE IT below to understand what i am talking about.
(This post is for the people who have the desire & dedication to achieve goals/success in life with a purpose. Not talking to the ones who already know they can’t reach this level of financial stability. A soldier who already dropped weapon is of no one’s use.)
Financial stress can impact our mental health badly. Most of us either suffer or have suffered from the problem of “not keeping a budget”. If you don’t budget, you could be spending more than you’re making without even knowing it. It’s totally normal to stress about money, after all having enough means having security. But financial stressors are also one of the worst things when it comes to your mental health.
Budgeting is about keeping track of what you spend, but it’s also about changing your habits. If money causes you daily worry, you need to take advantage of the power you have to reduce or eliminate your financial issues. If you want to improve your mental health, consider lessening the amount of money you spend on wants, negotiating your bills for lower rates and creating an emergency fund. Financial stability is a major step towards healthy happy mindset.
There is nothing like “SETTLE DOWN” for something. And never settle for mediocre. Self-assured people have a vision of what they want and they go for it. Let’s say CONFIDENT PEOPLE for better understanding. They don’t hold back & allow their fears to keep them from trying. They push themselves to go above and beyond. They set the bar high for themselves and demand excellence. They know they are as deserving of the best in both work and life.
Confidence is SEXY & you are the most expensive person in your life. People often forget to look at mirror & say “YOU DESERVE THE BEST”.
This video on Donald Dump got nothing to do with today’s post. Sad to see couple of dumbfucks still believing in voter fraud garbage what this orange piece of shit pukes. While claiming to be world’s oldest strongest democracy, America has shown last week that there is a new breed of homegrown terrorists blooming. I don’t believe in religion, race or nationalism. Hope people will rise above all to cherish humanity one day.
People are always divided with opinions towards a happy life. Some believe MONEY is important & some believe LOVE is important. This fight between MONEY & LOVE is so peculiar that i laugh at it whenever this discussion pops up.
What nobody talks about is, both are a painstakingly time consuming slow process till you reach it’s epitome. Most people purposefully lie about both of these two. At the end, you get exactly what you invest. Even a small lie has it’s consequences, Karma keeps a count of it’s course. People fail in MONEY (material growth) or LOVE because of their impatient behaviour or inconsistency. Stay calm, quiet, upfront and focused while you are fetching something purposeful in life.
During my engineering college days I was part of a group with all electronic & rap music enthusiasts. We all planned to form a band together, because that time was all about boy bands or music groups like black eyed peas, linkin park, back street boys, pussycat dolls. There were two lead guitar players in our group, sometimes i still see EMY from electrical engineering branch playing drum, i was good at playing piano/electric keyboard/launchpad, there were two singers with high pitch vocals & it was an amazing combination of 6 young energetic people. The best part is we all failed together in becoming a band. I loved the failure part of it, because we weren’t something unique or better for the same reason. Studying engineering is a tough journey on it’s own, we didn’t put enough time into our music.
Most of the time i see young people peep into an idea which is more like lust towards Money or Fame that they don’t deserve. Today i am talking about something called “Group goals”. I am saying it out of observation & experience. Whenever someone says “I am planning to do something different with friends or in a group, let me assure you that amazing nonsense will never materialize to real world“.
We don’t see the same dream with 5 others. If you aren’t habituated to walk alone towards your GOALS, your GOAL is nothing but a daydream.
Just as a farmer plants seeds and expects a period of harvest, whatever you sow- you will also reap. Whatever you do unto people will eventually be done unto you. When you choose to treat people right, you will also discover they often reciprocate & behave more positively towards you too. It may take time as seeds often take time to grow, but your words/actions/thoughts eventually always yield their harvest. They may return to you as love, money or happiness.
You should therefore be kind & courteous to people irrespective of circumstances. Remember your actions or even your reactions will comeback to you somehow. As you sow, so shall you reap.
I don’t believe in partnerships, strictly talking about work & money/business. Whatever i own in life fully belongs to me & this will never change. That’s the reason i hate unenthusiastic people who think everything will be served on plate without putting enough efforts. Again that’s the only differentiator of what kinda HUMAN BEING you are, what’s your actions towards what you want to achieve!!
If you truly want to achieve something, work your way out & stay away from those who can’t bring their A-game to the table. Unenthusiastic people are toxic for your growth.
My bestie bitch once said; “never ever believe that person who says I LOVE YOU & I AM SORRY at the same time”. She said it not because i was going through some kinda heartbreak, but because she thought “I WAS SPOILED WITH UNNECESSARY ATTENTION”. This post is dedicated to Demi.
All i want to share today is something about generic relationship traits. I always push this idea about leading a “TRUTHFUL LIFE”. Loyal, Legal, Good, True, Beautiful, Gentle, Elegant, Law-abiding, Modest; not many people find these words cool enough. This is a world where people think “baby mama” sounds chic compared to a lawfully wedded wife. I am little old school in terms of visualising a togetherness. That’s the reason I just get bored of those who lie, cheat, hide shit or talk unnecessary trash. I see ton of young people waste their precious years of life stuck in their or other’s irrelevant nonsensical deceptive ways. Heartbreaks are not new, so are cheaters.
Build yourself to be a stable person before entering a relationship, then allow the strongest possible person in your eyes to accompany you. I am talking STRONG in terms of values, morals, mindset & YEAH MONEY TOO. We live in a world where everything has a cost associated to it, there is nothing wrong in being little materialistic. A relationship is not about settling down for someone. It must help you grow stronger physically, emotionally & financially as well. Let people take their sweet time to prove their worth. Exclusivity is earned. You are the most expensive person in your life. 😘ZK.
When somebody talks about my EGO or arrogance without meeting me in person, I can come to only one conclusion that “this person has a poor sense of understanding people”. I am not some celebrity or politician who can be mean for no reason. The best quality about me is “I love being random”. If you are one of my close buddies, one thing you know about my mindset is “I love money but I hate the fame associated to it”. Goal of my life is to make money & stay random. Only thing you can judge about me over internet is my race or my opinions, beyond that rest is your presumptions which is nothing but pure bullshit.
Very few understand your behaviour begins with your ability to accept, accept new information, accepting people & accepting yourself for what you are. We live in a world where people counter others with baseless crap lacking enough juice to back their words. It’s nothing but result of a lazy unenthusiastic mindset. If you are reading this please don’t mind being appreciative to others no matter what goes right or wrong. Being nice costs nothing. And a smile or goodwill you earn in return is priceless. Life is fun, let it be.
Most of the time my friends ask me about which stock to buy so that they can make some easy quick money without taking any risk. And my answer remains same every single time “If you aren’t into it, don’t rush in”.
I am sharing this today because few of these same dumbfucks have started sort of a campaign on my name to list few stocks which will become profitable during this pandemic. “How you can make money in share market investments or What’s your advice on learning something new to upgrade career/salary or How you can write an amazing blog!!” the reason I never talk about these because I don’t believe there is a shortcut to any. It takes time to understand yourself, your qualifications, your skills, your money management skills, your expense habits, your passion & goals. The same I can say for stock market, it takes time to research & track each and every stock before putting money into it. Most of the time it’s like walking on double edged sword, I am talking both profit & loss. Take a timeout. Sit down with yourself for a while. Keep talking to yourself about what you want from yourself. The more answers you find, the better decision making power you can accumulate inside you. That’s where the key to SUCCESS lies. If your way to SUCCESS has something to do with investing in shares/stocks, you will learn that the proper way.
I swear I love money over anything/anyone, & I am brutally honest about it. But there is always a but in everything we are going through. “NEVER DO SOMETHING IF THE SUCCESS IS TOO EASY”, I learnt this lesson after getting my butt kicked twice. Can’t negotiate that in me.
I love the journey of earning & fetching something with time. That’s the reason I don’t believe in lottery or betting. There is nothing called easy success, easy money or easy relationship. If it’s easy, anyone can have it. If anyone can have it, I don’t want it. DESIRES are expensive by nature which makes them DESIRABLE. You have to work & earn it.
Losers are always a product of their circumstances & winners are always a product of their DECISIONS. And Money is a decisive person’s game.
I am a fan of everything where there is money, it can be a news/an article or a video like this. Whatever Kevin O’Leary talks about Money always packs tons of sense. He is known as Mr.Wonderful for a reason. If you are in your 20s or 30s, these YouTube video reactions he does with CNBC MAKE IT could be entertaining, amazingly informative yet educational for you no matter where you live or what you do for living.
Never ever take your work lightly no matter how it treats you. Figuring out own areas of interest is another topic, but that makes life happening while driving you towards your purpose.
Your work is your identity. I have seen people working their ass off till their idols became rivals. In every scenario “RESPECT & MONEY WERE THE MOTIVATION”. Learn to be consistent if you want to be respected, money will follow the same path.
People have 3 faces. One they show to the world. Second they show to their friends & near dear ones. Third they hide it from everyone only to themselves.
I will not say I don’t have secrets in life. But I have shared it one after another time to time, mostly where I am the villian of that story. If there is something bad in me, the first one who talks about it will always be me as well. I was never a victim in my life, I can’t be & I don’t want to be. I have the exact amount of rudeness alive in me where I can show middle finger to all those who try to mess with my vibe. I live with a tiny principle “MAKE MONEY, BE TRUE & KIND. DONE.” I don’t have 3 faces.
I know I am rude, ruthless, ambitious, enthusiastic, self-invested, truthful & desirable. I use & misuse every single word I mentioned. In my dictionary, there are no other emotions exist which can overpower TRUTH. You see LIAR written, you read & pronounce it as liar. I see/read/pronounce nothing but an INSECT in it, I said I am ruthless.
Starting this post by thanking few who were able to put some trust behind the brand I am creating. I don’t see myself having a strong idea about business, but I am excited for money. I put money into ventures only when I can get it back in a year or two max, so that it can still run on zero investment. I have a gang of friends who stand strong for me like a mountain in everything I do. I am a person who keeps on switching places time to time because life seems more fun that way. Few friends literally take care of my shit like their own. This is the reason I am spoilt since ages.
Hell NO, not thanking these old fuckers. It’s for those who joined my tiny supplement business & clothing brand as a customer. Now I see few are turning out to be consumers to me. I work with handful people. It’s not about manpower, it’s about me giving more time to it. It’s a process of struggle & fun both. Fingers crossed, It always keeps on getting better. This is the place https://tapone.life where you have to click on 30-July-2020. Wishes accepted with whole heart & arms wide open.
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Some follow their passion & some follow their person.
Earlier one wins life. Later one may win little love if the other person is on same page, in 2020 chances are still thin to expect truth out of someone’s head/heart.
(Reading all my posts/thoughts one person gets little scared of me sometimes, Please don’t. I adore you my polish bum. Can’t expect/ask more from you. I took my long sweet time or still taking more, hella unsure with it. Because I am still very much in love with money, pizza & cheesecake.😜 You are making my new city’s excitement 2X & I am not even started yet. Muaaaaaaahhhhhhh.)
Stop taking things personally. We all are collateral damage to somebody else’s bad decision. You can apply it to all scenarios of life related to love, job, money or family. Take a chill. Don’t be too sensitive. No-one is mean to you. You are incredibly amazing as a true you.