Happiness doesn’t start with a relationship.
Happiness doesn’t start with a vacation.
Happiness doesn’t start with a job.
Happiness doesn’t start with money.
It’s how you deal with stress in each little moment that determines how well you achieve happiness in the end.
If you want life to be happier, you need to change your present response.
Happiness starts with you.
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This moment right here, while you’re reading this, is all you have.
You have yourself,
You have your life,
&
You have today,
That’s all you ever need.
We spend so much time focusing on the past or our future that we forget how blessed we are to still be here surrounded by beautiful things.
Try to live in the moment.
Appreciate the life you are living right now and how blessed you are to still be alive today.
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When thinking about life, remember this:
no amount of guilt can change the past,
and
no amount of anxiety can change the future.
This moment right here is all you have.
You have yourself and your life today, which is all you ever need.
We spend so much time focusing on the past or our future that we forget how blessed we are to still be here surrounded by beautiful things.
Try to live in the moment.
Appreciate the life you are living right now and how blessed you are to still be alive today.
Cherish the moment.
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We hurt ourselves because we obsess about the end of our journeys.
Focus on staying in the moment, on being grateful for where you are today.
– S. Mcnutt.
You can’t skip chapters, that’s not how life works.
You have to read every line, meet every character.
You won’t enjoy all of it.
Hell, some chapters will make you cry for weeks.
You will read things you don’t want to read.
You will have moments when you don’t want the pages to end.
But you have to keep going.
Stories keep the world revolving.
Live yours, don’t miss out.
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Even if the current circumstances in your life make you question how you’ll ever get to where you want to be, you have to understand that everything you are currently experiencing or have experienced has a PURPOSE.
Because those previous steps BROUGHT you to where you are today, MOLDING you into the person that you are.
But remember:
There are still so many moments to experience that will bring you joy and CLOSER to your DESTINY.
More laughs, more books to read, more people to meet, more risks, more love, more pictures to take, more places to see and more food to taste.
Once you BELIEVE you’re worthy of having MORE, you’ll realize you have the POWER within you to BRING those things to life.
You still have time to live the life you’ve always imagined.
KEEP GOING.
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You can’t skip chapters, that’s not how life works.
You have to read every line, meet every character.
You won’t enjoy all of it.
Hell, some chapters will make you cry for weeks.
You will read things you don’t want to read.
You will have moments when you don’t want the pages to end.
But you have to keep going.
Stories keep the world revolving.
Live yours, don’t miss out.
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Resolutions to consider:
• Consistently connect with people who fill you up.
• Practice being vulnerable.
• Stop fighting to be right.
• Apologize less often for things that aren’t your fault.
• Become less people pleasing.
• Allow things to be good enough instead of perfect.
• Practice what you know to true or helpful.
• Educate yourself at least 30 minutes everyday (read a book or watch any informative video).
• Create more joyful moments.
• Follow what you feel.
• Get in touch with your intuition.
• Don’t be shy to inform others when something isn’t working for you.
• Be an authentic version of yourself.
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Hope will guide you every step of the way making sure that you find your way to the other side of this moment.
This is not the final stop in your journey.
Take a deep breath.
Look for the north star of hope, get to higher ground, you’ll see a path exists.
So, choose to look for possibility even when reality shows you a dead-end.
Last but not least, remember that inside you is all the bravery and courage you need to get to the other side of this moment.
DON’T TAKE YOUR EYES OFF HOPE.
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Wherever you are,
be there totally.
LIVE IN THE NOW.
Don’t let your life go by unnoticed.
Life is made of moments full of beauty and magic, waiting for us to notice.
You must not let the distractions and busyness keep you from experiencing everything this beautiful life has to offer.
Get out into nature, slow it all down.
Watch more sunrises with the only intent of watching the sun gloriously rise.
Look at your partner’s face deeply and tenderly, with the only intent of truly seeing them.
When life feels like it’s spinning around you and you can’t catch up, return to the beautiful moment of now, where everything is exactly as it should be.
Notice your breathing, notice where you are tense.
Release. Breathe. Feel. Notice.
(Not my words.)
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Write down what you need to get done today.
Put an estimated duration time next to each task.
Open your exercise book or create a document.
Open up a timer, set yourself a deadline and start working.
If you need a break, do a plank for the length of a song for 3 minutes.
Once that 3 minutes is up, get back to work.
Before you go to bed, make sure everything that’s due tomorrow is done.
Learn to get shit done.
There’s nothing more sexier than putting work on yourself to develop DISCIPLINE.
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Never regret being a good person, to the wrong people.
Your behaviour says everything about you.
And their behaviour says enough about them.
Accept that living in the present moment, with your present desires, is the best, the highest thing you can do.
-DEEPAK CHOPRA.
All we can do is take things one day, one moment, at a time.
To get too caught up in where we’ve been or where we’re going, only takes you off your path.
The present is all we have.
So in order to honor your existence here on this planet, it’s important to root yourself firmly to the moment you are in.
Pull your mind from the past and future.
Live in the now.
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NOTE TO SELF:
You can’t control how other people receive your energy.
Anything you do or say gets filtered through the lens of whatever they are going through at the moment, which has nothing to do with you.
Just keep doing your thing with as much love and integrity as possible.
– Marcandangel.
When you wake up each morning, take a moment to think about the kind of life you want to have.
Consciously choose to have a happy life.
Choose a life that is filled with love, laughter, good health and success.
Then begin your day focused on the things you can do to make this your reality.
Choose a happy life.
(This video got nothing to do with the post above. Shared it because I liked it.)
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Document the moments you feel most in love with yourself.
What you’re wearing,
Who you’re around,
What you’re doing.
Recreate and repeat.
– Warsan Shire.
I am slowly learning how to just be in this moment.
How to survive.
How to exist.
How to live.
How to thrive.
How to understand that I cannot control life.
How to understand that I can only experience life in both it’s light and it’s dark stages.
I am slowly learning how to laugh and cry and feel through it all.
I am learning how to welcome the confusion and the joy that come with loving and living and breaking.
I am slowly learning how to accept where I am.
I am slowly learning how to simply believe in what I am becoming.
I am becoming a better version of myself, and that journey is just AMAZING.
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Privacy & secrecy are two different things.
People don’t get it, i don’t say it & that’s the only reason I fuck with my closed group of 17 friends.
Value your privacy & stay away from those who disrespect it.
Maintain your secrecy unless someone is worthy enough to protect it.
– Tap.
Very few people are time tested. Even fewer come to my house like it’s their own house, open my fridge & eat my alpro chocolate hazelnut ice cream or sugarfree cheesecake without asking. There’s nothing but love & respect for all who joined me in my happiest/darkest/toughest/delighted hours.
Wishing you all a happy new year.
I wish you fill your life with enough good Karma & moments worth living on repeat.
Do what lights up your head.
Move where your heart feels home.
Fetch your goals.
Once again: HAPPY NEW YEAR 2023.
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We have to realize that our lives could be gone in a moment.
There are no guarantees that we will be here how long.
Learn to live each day to the fullest.
Don’t complain.
Don’t focus on what’s wrong.
Be grateful for the opportunity to experience each day.
It never ceases to amaze me how time moves so quickly through our lives.
The older I get, I find that it just goes faster and faster.
When you are a kid, each day seems like it could last forever.
It makes me realize that we have to savor each moment, however big or small, and every person that comes into our lives.
Don’t let the day pass you by.
Do something meaningful for yourself or someone else.
The past is a ghost, the future a dream and all we have is now.
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Mindset.
It’s all about mindset.
From the moment you wake up to the moment you rest your head at night.
Everything is up to you.
Your emotions.
Your thoughts.
Your perceptions.
Your reactions.
Every moment.
Everything is about your mindset.
(This video got nothing to do with the post above. If I like some video, I suggest it. Coldfusion is one of my favourite YouTube channels. Watch it for some entertainment & information.)
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Document the moments you feel most in love with yourself,
what you’re wearing,
who you’re around,
what you’re doing.
Recreate and repeat.
– Warsan Shire.
Remember, inner peace begins the moment you take a deep breath and choose not to allow another person or event to control your thoughts.
You are not what happened to you.
You are what you choose to become in this moment.
Let go, breathe, and begin again.
– Marcandangel.
It never ceases to amaze me how time moves so quickly through our lives.
The older I get, I find that it just goes faster and faster.
When you are a kid, each day seems like it could last forever.
It makes me realize that we have to savor each moment, however big or small, and every person that comes into our lives.
Don’t let the day pass you by-do something meaningful for yourself or someone else.
The past is a ghost, the future is a dream and all we have is now.
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People should fall in love more.
Fall in love with the way your coffee swirls as soon as you pour the milk in.
Fall in love with the rare moment when your pet doesn’t ignore you.
Fall in love with person who tells to have a good day.
Fall in love with the waiter who gives you extra fries.
Fall in love with sweaters in winter and cold lemonade summer.
Fall in love with the moment your head hits the pillow.
Fall in love with talking to someone until a.m.
Fall in love with the days you hit the snooze button over and over again.
Fall in love when a lover stares at you for hours.
Fall in love with the stars when they look at you.
Fall in love the sound of someone breathing.
Fall in love with the bus if it’s on time or if train comes early.
Fall in love with everything possible.
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Keep the honest moments close to your heart.
Especially the ones that are the most human.
When you laugh until your ribs ache with your friends, when you feel stars exploding inside of you from falling in love, when life breaks you open and those tears of transformation pour like a river from your soul.
Life is really quite simple.
We get to experience this planet for a brief while.
We get to learn how to love ourselves and one another for the strange, messy, and magical creatures we are.
What a gift it is to have a human life.
If you look a little closer, there is always something to be grateful for.
True GRATITUDE isn’t ignoring the darkness.
It’s participating with your whole heart in whatever moment life brings.
It’s leaning into the unfolding process and having the courage to not need all of the answers.
(Not my words.)
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Document the moments you feel most in love with yourself, what you’re wearing, who you’re around, what you’re doing.
Recreate and repeat.
– Warsan Shire.
You can’t skip chapters, that’s not how life works.
You have to read every line.
You have to meet every character.
You won’t enjoy all of it.
Some chapters will make you cry for weeks.
You will read things you don’t want to read.
You will have moments when you don’t want the pages to end.
But you have to keep going.
Stories keep the world revolving.
Live yours, don’t miss out.
(This video got nothing to do with the post above. Time to clap for Liz Truss, the shortest serving prime minister in UK’s history. 6 weeks all it took to fuck the country’s economy & stock market, made it fall 310+ billion dollars. We also saw the lowest ever pound sterling to USD since 1985.)
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Remember, inner peace begins the moment you take a deep breath and choose not to allow another person or event to control your thoughts.
You are not what happened to you.
You are what you choose to become in this moment.
Let go, breathe, and begin again.
– Marcandangel.
We have to realize that our lives could be gone in a moment.
There are no guarantees that we will be here at this time next year.
Learn to live each day to the fullest.
Don’t complain.
Don’t focus on what’s wrong.
Don’t retaliate to negative people.
Don’t react to negativity in general.
Be grateful for the opportunity to experience each day.
Be an authentic version of yourself shamelessly.
(This video got nothing to do with the post above. Watch the economic story of UK, which is gonna get even more worse with time. Thanks to conservative dummies. My analogy being a senior data analyst for fintech industry; every country which made cash transfers to people during COVID are gonna suffer a lot economically, because it was all funded by government borrowing.)
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We have to realize that our lives could be gone in a moment.
There are no guarantees that we will be here at this time next year.
Learn to live each day to the fullest.
Don’t complain.
Don’t focus on what’s wrong.
Be grateful for the opportunity to experience each day.
There are so many popular figures who want people to think they are strong and tough because they use substances and party all night long.
To me, strong is when you can sit through your problems and feel your emotions, when you don’t have to hide them.
There have been nights where I’ve had to sit on my hands because I want to act out, because I physically can’t sit still in the pain or I’m trying to distract myself from living in the moment.
Stop running and start dealing with life and your problems.
It could be as simple as not checking your phone when you’re uncomfortable or alone.
Listen to what’s going on in your mind and respect the thoughts coming to you.
If you’re spending your entire life chasing the next party, what are you running away from?
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Make each day your own beautiful work of art.
Take time to do things that inspire you before you get started with your day.
Take a walk outside to simply be with the sun as it rises;
let its boundless glow inspire you and fill you with warmth.
Read a few pages of a book that fills you with light.
Hug your loved ones or play with your puppy for a few extra minutes.
And as you go about your day, remember that there is magic all around you even if some days it’s harder to find.
At the end of your day, take a moment as you rest your head on your pillow to find gratitude for all the wonderful things you experienced and created throughout your day.
Because even if this day wasn’t extraordinary,
even if this day was an average one,
it played a part in your beautiful life,
and that’s something to be wonderfully grateful for.
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This is what you don’t do:
Don’t let this world make you bitter.
Don’t let the actions of other people turn you cold on the inside.
Certain things happen that hurt us, people come that leave us, and most of all there are moments when you’re bound to fall.
Don’t let those things make you unkind.
It’s okay to cry.
It’s okay to be sad.
But it’s never okay to do other people wrong just because you were done wrong.
We’re human.
We break.
We make mistakes.
But don’t let pain and sadness run your life.
Wake up in the morning and do what you think is right.
There are moments in your life where you feel like giving up and you can’t take it anymore.
It’s okay.
Breathe.
Inhale.
Exhale.
I know you’re weak.
But the things that show your weak side are also the same ones that make you stronger in the long run.
It’s all about taking whatever life throws at you and learning from it.
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This is life, and it is what it is.
Shit is gonna happen.
It’s gonna get complicated.
We’re gonna relapse.
We’re gonna need time-outs.
We’re gonna be weak.
We’re gonna be strong.
We’re gonna lose our shit and yell for people to get the fuck out of our lives.
We’re gonna break down and beg some people to stay in our lives.
Some days we’re gonna feel everything all at once.
Other days, we’re gonna feel nothing at all.
We’re gonna be in some bad spaces, we’re gonna be in some amazing ones.
We’re gonna get on our knees crying and hurting and begging for help.
We’re gonna get on our knees and pray just to say thank you.
We’re gonna have moments when we know exactly what we want, and we’re sure.
We’re gonna have moments when we legit have no fucking clue what we want, and we’re confused.
This life shit isn’t a movie, and I think sometimes, we forget that.
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Life becomes more meaningful when you realize the simple fact that you’ll never get the same moment twice.
Life is fun, let it be.
People settle because they’re afraid something better won’t come along.
They fear they aren’t good enough.
You are worth exactly what you want in life, but you have to believe it or you won’t attract something better.
Take a moment to realize your worth.
Don’t ever settle.
If you’re feeling down, ask yourself “what’s wrong with this moment?”
Chances are that you’re upset about something that happened in the past or you’re anticipating something that might happen in the future.
But is there anything wrong with this exact moment?
Probably not.
So stop worrying.
And if there is something wrong with this exact moment, there’s only 3 things you can do to fix it:
REMOVE yourself from the situation,
CHANGE something,
or ACCEPT it.
(This video got nothing to do with the post above. I own a health supplement business in Bangalore, i know how making it big in India at current market scenario is way more easier & exciting compared to UK or USA. It’s an developing economy & emerging markets are always choice of investors. Yes INEQUALITY is an issue, but there’s way more beyond to that side of the story.)
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No matter what is going on in your world, no matter what happens today, do everything with a joyful heart.
During the highs and lows, choose a stance of celebration.
Every day, choose to find something to be thankful for.
Decide to find the gold, and resolve to look for the happy moments.
If you can’t find anything to be joyful about, remember this: you are alive with a beating heart and air flowing through your lungs.
This means your work here is not finished, and you haven’t reached your story’s end.
You have a purpose; you have a dream that needs you to bring it to life.
That is something to be joyful about and celebrate.
DO EVERYTHING WITH A JOYFUL HEART.
(This video got nothing to do with the post above. Apparantly PROFESSIONAL MODEL BLOWER is a real thing, even though this video is hella funny. 2 minutes of pure fun. Don’t miss it.)
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We hurt ourselves because we obsess about the end of our journeys.
Focus on staying in the moment, on being grateful for where you are today.
-S. Mcnutt.
KNOWING THESE 7 FACTS WILL MAKE YOU INFINITELY HAPPIER:
1. Wake up every morning, say, ‘this is going to be the best day of my life’, and it will be.
2. The moment you realize you are responsible for every aspect of your life is when you are completely free.
3. You don’t have to be in a relationship to be happy.
You just have to understand yourself.
4. To love yourself, simply be yourself.
5. Life is in constant flux.
Savor the moments we enjoy and know that those we don’t will pass.
6. The self is always changing.
What matters is how we create the self we wish to be every moment.
7. We only have so much time.
It’s okay and crucial to cut off things that are unnecessary.
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More than anything I really believe we are put here on this earth to enjoy the time we have.
Life is precious so don’t get hung up or bent out of shape over the small stuff.
Enjoy the present moment and have fun, whatever that means to you.
Enjoy free time with family and friends.
Enjoy a laugh and make some memories.
Enjoy learning & making people feel the goodness of life.
Life is fun, let it be.
(This instagram post got nothing to do with the post above. Shared it because i liked it. I am not too much into shopping. Fast fashion brands & discounts in malls/online stores never excite me to purchase anything. I buy something when i am very specific about what i want. Most clothes/sneakers i wear are usually gifted by friends/brands during my birthday/thanksgiving/christmas or any random Monday. But i am a big sucker for watches. Now a days i prefer a good automatic or chronograph watch, but sometimes i still wear G-Shock watches from my high school/engineering college days.)
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What does cool mean to you?
To me, cool means living for more than the next moment.
Cool doesn’t mean having the latest Dior, knowing people, being on the list, and sitting at Lucien.
Cool means you are your authentic self.
Cool means you walk the walk.
Cool means being a good fucking person.
Cool means when you are alone, you can stand to be with yourself.
Cool means listening when others speak.
Cool means holding doors open and smiling.
Cool is compassion, understanding, love, and boundaries.
Cool is being good.
BE A GOOD PERSON WITHOUT ANY SECOND THOUGHT.
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When you wake up each morning,
take a moment to think about the kind of life you want to have.
Consciously choose to have a happy life:
one that is filled with love, laughter, good health and success.
Then begin your day focused on the things you can do to make this your reality.
CHOOSE A HAPPY LIFE.
Stop waiting for friday, sunday or for summer,
or for someone to fall in love with you,
or for anything in life.
HAPPINESS is achieved when you stop waiting for it and make the most of the moment you are in NOW.
THE FOUR AGREEMENTS:
1. BE IMPECCABLE WITH YOUR WORD.
Speak with integrity.
Say only what you mean.
Avoid using the word to speak against yourself or to gossip about others.
Use the power of your word in the direction of truth and love.
2. DON’T TAKE ANYTHING PERSONALLY.
Nothing others do is because of you.
What others say and do is a projection of their own reality, their own dream.
When you are immune to the opinions and actions of others, you won’t be the victim of needless suffering.
3. DON’T MAKE ASSUMPTIONS.
Find the courage to ask questions and to express what you really want.
Communicate with others as clearly as you can to avoid misunderstandings, sadness and drama.
With just this one agreement, you can completely transform your life.
4. ALWAYS DO YOUR BEST.
Your best is going to change from moment to moment; it will be different when you are healthy as opposed to sick.
Under any circumstance, simply do your best, and you will avoid self-judgment, self abuse and regret.
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We have to realize that our lives could be gone in a moment.
There are no guarantees that we will be here at this time next year.
Learn to live each day to the fullest.
Don’t complain.
Don’t focus on what’s wrong.
Be grateful for the opportunity to experience each day.
We have to realize that our lives could be gone in a moment.
There are no guarantees that we will be here at this time next year.
Learn to live each day to the fullest.
Don’t complain.
Don’t focus on what’s wrong.
Be grateful for the opportunity to experience each day.
Always be the best person you can be.
Be kind even when you’re tired.
Be understanding even when you’re angry.
Do more than you’re asked, and don’t ask for anything in return.
Don’t silently expect anything either.
Listen when someone talks, and really listen too, stop just thinking of how you’ll reply.
Never jump over a conversation that’s initiated by other person.
Tell people that you love them and that you appreciate them.
Go out of your way to do things for people.
Be the greatest person you can possibly be and when you mess up, make up for it in the next moment or minute or day.
One thing you should never do?
Never spend your time trying to prove to anybody that you’re great, your actions will speak for themselves and we only have limited time on this earth, don’t waste it.
If someone doesn’t see your light, don’t worry.
Like moths, GOOD PEOPLE are attracted to flame and to light, and they will come.
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You can’t skip chapters, that’s not how life works.
You have to read every line, meet every character.
You won’t enjoy all of it.
Hell, some chapters will make you cry for weeks.
You will read things you don’t want to read.
You will have moments when you don’t want the pages to end.
But you have to keep going.
Stories keep the world revolving.
Live yours, don’t miss out.
BE YOU.
(This video got nothing to do with the post above. It’s a Punjabi song & i have to talk about it. There’s Tory Lanez, i knew there’s something about girls & heart break. This guy needs to leave that feelings train. Now the good part; Diljit Dosanjh, the best Punjabi singer of all time i guess & his presence/MC is out of this world.)🔥
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Deep down you know exactly what you’re capable of.
There’s even moments where you get a glimpse of all the potential you have.
You can get there.
You just have to be willing to sacrifice the habits, things, and situations that are standing in the way of your SUCCESS.
If you’re feeling frightened about what comes next, don’t be.
Embrace the uncertainty.
Allow it to lead you places.
Be brave as it challenges you to exercise both your heart and your mind as you create your own path toward happiness; don’t waste time with regret.
Spin wildly into your next action.
Enjoy the present, each moment, as it comes, because you’ll never get another one quite like it.
And if you should ever look up and find yourself lost, simply take a breath and start over.
Retrace your steps and go back to the purest place in your heart, where your hope lives.
You’ll find your way again.
BE YOU. LIFE IS FUN, LET IT BE.
(This video got nothing to do with the post above. I share what moves my head or heart. No matter where this war is heading, it’s a big shake to the core of basic human values. & The way we are treating refugees speaks a lot.)
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You’ve got to ask yourself what you’re living for & who you’re living for.
And if none of those answers begin with you then you’re living your life wrong, you’re living a lie.
Everything you do should revolve around you.
Every person, every place, ever moment should start and end with you.
This is your life and you shouldn’t spend it on dull things, in people who don’t understand the type of love you carry within your bones.
Because you only live once and it’s your job to make it count.
So let every day be yours, own it, remain consistent in your walk of life and never apologize for being who you are.
(This video got nothing to do with the post above. In case this entire generation falls behind our journey towards humanity & a healthy civilized society, this app called TIKTOK is the sole reason behind it which gave them taste of instant gratification & memory span of a goldfish.)
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Don’t let a mad world tell you that success is anything other than a successful present moment.
-Eckhart Tolle.
The world is not a game in which you lose if someone else wins.
Another person’s success does not mean you have failed.
Another person’s beauty does not mean you are ugly.
Another person’s romance does not mean you are unloved.
Another person’s happiness is not a shadow on yours.
The world trains us to think that the good things in life are like one piece of cake.
We fight for it, the best person earns it, and everyone else is left to fight for scraps.
But SUCCESS is really getting yourself into the kitchen and making your own damn dessert, and then sharing it with everyone you adore.
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If you’re feeling frightened about what comes next, don’t be.
Embrace the uncertainty.
Allow it to lead you places.
Be brave as it challenges you to exercise both your heart and your mind as you create your own path toward happiness; don’t waste time with regret.
Spin wildly into your next action.
Enjoy the present, each moment, as it comes, because you’ll never get another one quite like it.
And if you should ever look up and find yourself lost, simply take a breath and start over.
Retrace your steps and go back to the purest place in your heart, where your hope lives.
You’ll find your way again.
– Everwood.
(This video got nothing to do with the post above. Lee Evans never fails to crack you up. And this one on Cardiff, watch it coz it’s hilarious. Let’s say 2 minutes hilarious & 2 minutes unreal.)
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Sometimes when things are really trying and painful all we can think is, why on earth do I have to go through this, why do I deserve this?
But there’s a better way to approach a trying moment in life.
Instead of resisting it, try surrendering to it and considering that there’s a reason it has been given to you and not somebody else.
If you are dealing with it, it is part of your journey.
The next time you go through a trying time, find the ways in which you can grow and learn instead of dwelling on your suffering.
I know it’s an experience that I need to have if God’s putting me through it.
(Not my words.)
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There are plenty of moments in our lives when we struggle with making decisions, whether they’re small or large.
Our heart can be telling us one thing, our head another, and our friends something entirely different.
It’s important to weigh all options, then do what your heart truly believes is right.
Don’t just do what your friends are telling you to do, you must make your own decisions based on your intuition.
Next time you have to make a decision, weigh all the options, especially those of the heart, while measuring the logical side in head.
Only do what your heart tells you to.
-PRINCESS DIANA.
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We humans do not understand compassion.
In each moment of our lives, we betray it.
We know of its worth, yet in knowing we then attach to it a value, we guard the giving of it, believing it must be earned.
Compassion is priceless in the truest sense of the world.
It must be given freely.
– Steven Erikson.
This is your life.
You have everything you need inside you to live the life you have always dreamed of.
Take all that you have learned and experienced and create your own reality.
The beautiful part about life is that if you don’t like where you are, there’s always a new moment and a new day to start again.
Make smart, educated decisions.
Encourage yourself to make the choices today for the future you want tomorrow.
You can steer yourself any direction you choose.
(Not my words.)
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A beautiful day begins with a beautiful mindset.
When you wake up, take a second to think about what a privilege it is to simply be alive and healthy.
The moment you start acting like life is a blessing, I assure you it will start to feel like one.
Time spent appreciating is time worth living.
Your life will pass one way or another.
The events that will unfold are the events that will unfold.
You will meet amazing people who you are meant to.
You will find the opportunities you need.
You will desire what you want.
The choice is not what you experience, but how.
How is everything.
How is golden.
How closes doors and it opens them.
How creates something out of nothing.
It is not the years we live, but HOW we live them.
It is not who we cross paths with, but how we love them & appreciate them.
It is not what we are given or not, but how we take what’s in front of us and turn it into all we ever needed it to be.
It is how we experience life, day in and day out, in the quietest moments and biggest ways.
The HOW is the way.
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Nobody knows how long we are on earth for; you don’t want to waste your time here stressing about the next day.
You should just appreciate the moment and try to cherish it as often as you can.
Realise that time is limited and challenge yourself to live each day to the fullest.
What is a way you can live your life to the fullest today?
Yesterday is history.
Tomorrow is a mystery.
But TODAY is a gift, make the best of it & make the most of it.
(This video got nothing to do with the post above. I like SNL for some valid reasons. One of the best skits from Pete Davidson.)
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Our lives consist of the beauty we fill them with, the more beauty we surround ourselves with, the richer our lives will be.
But wanting everything more and more blocks us from enjoying the things we already have.
It’s good to want things in life, but it’s also important not to be greedy.
Don’t obsess over what you don’t have, feel grateful for all that you do have.
There’s a traditional Irish saying connecting to this thought of being grateful & practicing gratitude;
May you live as long as you want and not want as long as you live.
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When you wake up each morning, take a moment to think about the kind of life you want to have.
Consistently consciously choose to have a happy life: one that is filled with love, laughter, good health and success.
Then begin your day focused on the things you can do to make this your reality.
A happy life is a CHOICE, choose it wisely.
(This video got nothing to do with the post above. Watch it & please understand the importance of general knowledge & basic day to day information. Just checking your Google feeds may help you escape embarassing situations. I mean, look at these fools.)
You can’t skip chapters, that’s not how life works.
You have to read every line, meet every character.
You won’t enjoy all of it.
Hell, some chapters will make you cry for weeks.
You will read things you don’t want to read, you will have moments when you don’t want the pages to end.
But you have to keep going.
Stories keep the world revolving.
Live your story, don’t miss out.
Now this paragraph is for my close friends.
The question is; “Was i angry on Frank?”
Answer is: No, i laughed at his tiny mind in November-2019.
I was applying for PhD research scholar positions in Berlin. New city for me, Frank took me & few friends to an EXOTIC CAR MEET-UP, that too in a Dacia Duster. Not judging the car, any Dacia or VW is a good daily driver. But, I was laughing at the idea of going to an EXOTIC CAR MEET-UP in a DACIA DUSTER.😂
(No matter how much i praise a Tesla, i am a petrolhead by heart. I am a sucker for all AMG & BMW M-series cars, manual rear wheel drive please.)
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DISCIPLINE IS ABOUT MAKING CHOICE AFTER CHOICE CONSISTENTLY THAT’S ALIGNED WITH OUR INTENTIONS.
IN ANY MOMENT, WE CAN MAKE A CHOICE THAT SUPPORTS AN INTENTION.
OR WE CAN MAKE A CHOICE THAT SUPPORTS AN OLD HABIT, A LACK OF INTENTION OR A FEAR.
ATTITUDE,
HAPPINESS,
OPTIMISM,
KINDNESS,
GIVING,
RESPECT,
GROWTH,
LOYALTY,
TRUTHFUL COMMUNICATION,
WHATEVER CHOICE YOU MAKE, MAKES YOU.
CHOOSE WISELY.
(This video got nothing to do with the post above. If you are watching from USA, watch it for investment tips. If you are watching from any other part of the world, watch it for some general knowledge on money. I am a big fan ot Kevin O’Leary. I saw him giving a 100 score to someone for the first time, that too to an Indian guy. My blood goes back to eastern part of India. Parents are next to god in our culture. And nothing comes above family values & money management skills.)
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I feel blessed that I’ve pretty much always known what I wanted to do with my life.
But I know plenty of people who are still figuring out what that means to them.
As long as you stay consistent and keep following your dreams even if they feel underdeveloped, you will find that place within yourself.
Are you doing what you’ve always wanted to do?
If you’re not, there’s no time like the present.
Sometimes a thought of “Toxic positivity” may make you think “Let’s stay stuck to my current reality”.
But ask yourself whether that’s helping you evolve!
Don’t go with what others tell you.
Always accept suggestions, but take your own decisions.
One step at a time.
Start this moment.
Follow what you feel.
If things were easy to find, they wouldn’t be worth finding. (Not my words)
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If your relationship to the present moment is not right, nothing can ever be right in the future.
Because when the future comes, it’s the present moment.
– Eckhart Tolle.
(This video got nothing to do with the post above. During Syria & Yemen crisis, EU absorbed almost half million refugees/migrants. Current data shows almost 160,000 of those have just gone missing/out of records. Nobody knows whether they are dead, turned into angels or terrorists. I guess it’s right time to take a strong stance against illegal migration at every part of the world. Corona virus cases are going high once again & winter is around, no one is ready for more bullshit.)
IF SOMEONE asks,
“Has the best moment of your life arrived yet?”
We may say that it will come very soon.
But if we continue to live in the same way, it may never arrive.
We have to transform this moment into the most wonderful moment,
and we can do that by stoping,
stopping running to the future,
stopping worrying about the past,
stopping accumulating so much.
You are a free person; you are alive.
Open your eyes and enjoy the sunshine, the beautiful sky, ocean, nature, animals and the wonderful children around you.
Breathing in and out consciously helps you become your best, calm, fresh, solid, clear, and free, able to enjoy the present moment as the best moment of your life.
Every Moment is different.
No Moment stays forever.
That is not scary or sad.
That’s the beauty of it all. (Not my words).
(Post is over. This paragraph is about me. That WONDERFUL CHILDREN written above caught my attention after i scheduled this post. My heart goes weak towards babies, puppies & horses. Babies sooth my soul. Puppies/dogs make me a marathon runner every morning or evening. And horses are oversized puppies in my eyes. My friends say i am a kind human. I think my kindness is more of a fatherly instinct, there’s a huge provider mentality dad lives insides me who just wants to pamper kids, spoil his family & pet pets. And yes i am single & someday i want few dozen babies+puppies.😂)
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Life can be fulfilling at both 16 and also 60. 25 and 35.
Joy is timeless.
Learning how to make the most of where you are does not have an age cut-off or a deadline.
You will always be able to sit and wonder about things that could have gone differently.
But you can also trust:
you have not missed out on what was meant for you.
I know it’s hard to trust when so much is unknown,
so instead of trying to make sense of it all at once,
take it all color by color, tree by tree, scent by scent, take it one by one.
You don’t have to take it all in at once.
Take in the newness of it all one moment at a time without worrying about the moments to come.
Let that be enough.
Breathe deep and let this moment be enough.
Let this be a place where you find peace.
Remember the ground beneath your feet, you belong here.
No one has taken your place.
You are not too far from grace.
Your story might be unfolding differently than expected but that doesn’t mean it won’t be beautiful.
Where you are meant to be, you will be in time, no matter your age or stage of life.
Life is fun. Let it be.
Let it flourish at it’s own pace.
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It’s the little things in life.
It’s the people who don’t just text you, but take the time out of their day to put you in their schedule; no matter how busy they are.
It’s the friends that are authentic and don’t fake what they feel.
The people who are straight with you and accept you for who you are; down to the raw scars and burns.
It’s the pure feeling of happiness while driving your AMG when you’re listening to music with people you love and there is absolutely no where else in the entire world you would rather be.
It’s the feeling like we’ll live forever, like we’re young forever.
It’s the love that soothes our heart which makes life feel happy to die for.
It’s the love that breaks our hearts but knowing the feeling of pain and feeling the pain, but getting through the pain; only to be grateful for the feel of life, the feel of living.
Moments and little things, acts that make every breathe so incredibly amazing.
That’s what I live for;
these moments that make us feel infinite.
Life is fun. Let it be.
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Every moment of your life is deeply meaningful and plays a significant part in your journey.
A lot of time we judge the moment because things don’t go our way but if you look life backwards you understand that those moments made you evolve and brought a shift in your consciousness.
Whatever you are going through right now will not make sense to your human mind.
You can’t comprehend the life order of universe through logic.
But sooner or later all the dots will connect and you will realize that everything was concerned all along.
So instead of judging the moment learn to embrace every moment.
Your higher self/consciousness is all about trusting the divine and seeing the deeper truth in every moment.
Trust can only come from a place of surrender.
Surrendering doesn’t mean you let go of free will.
It simply means you let go of the things that are not under your control.
Instead of flowing against the current of the river you become the flow.
Enjoy every moment & everything is connected, it’s for your higher good.
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In LOVE, I have been elated and brokenhearted and felt every emotion in between.
As I’ve gotten older I’ve learned to embrace the painful parts, because I realize they make me stronger and they are just parts of life.
It hurts to power through the rough times but just like a muscle, it must be exercised before it’s able to become stronger.
Think about a specific painful moment in your life,
and then think about how that feeling didn’t last forever even though you thought it would.
Remember that life will continue to go on and time really does heal all wounds.
I’m grateful for all the love and all the heartache I’ve experienced in my life.
Both have been equally wonderful.
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Remember you are not promised tomorrow.
So how are you going to ensure that you crash your heart into your life?
How are you going to ensure that you leave this world, whenever it happens for you, with a soul that is tender and full and weathered in the best way?
With a soul that was never asked to make itself smaller, with a soul that was never waiting for the day it was skinnier, or prettier, or cooler, or more successful, in order to take advantage of the time it was given?
We cannot wait to be the people we have always dreamed of being.
We cannot wait for life to perfect itself.
There is no right time, there is no perfect circumstance.
We have to leap, even when our legs are shaking.
We have to show up for ourselves not in 3 months, or 5 years, or 10 years, but now.
In this moment.
Because every single day is a blessing.
Every single day is a gift.
Do not lose sight of that.
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Keep the honest moments close to your heart.
The ones that are the most human.
When you laugh until your ribs ache with your friends,
when you feel stars exploding inside of you from falling in love,
when life breaks you open and those tears of transformation pour like a river from your soul.
Life is really quite simple.
We get to experience this planet for a brief while.
We get to learn how to love ourselves and one another for the strange, messy, and magical creatures we are.
What a gift it is to have a human life.
If you look a little closer, there is always something to be grateful for.
True gratitude isn’t ignoring the darkness.
It’s participating with your whole heart in whatever moment life brings.
It’s leaning into the unfolding process and having the courage to not need all of the answers.
LIVE for the MOMENTS you can’t PUT into WORDS. (Not my words).
(This paragraph got nothing to do with the post above. Whoever thinks something brewing between TAP & DEMI after seeing my snapchat stories, i am SORRY to disappoint you once again. Actually I was trying to teach her horseriding, but later i had to calm down the horse because DEMI scared him. She scared a canadian warmblood within 5 minutes. And i am afraid of her since the fall of Holy Polish empire. We are bestfriends, that’s all. SORRY MY ROYAL BITCH, YOU KNOW I HATE YOU.😋😘)
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Each of us leads unique lives with experiences that nobody else will ever completely understand.
Your story holds so many valuable lessons that can help inspire, teach, and motivate someone else.
Should you choose to share it!?!
In life, I have heard so many different stories.
Just by listening, I learned so many different things.
I’m so thankful I found the courage to share my story as well and talk about what I’ve been through.
Not only has it helped me, but it has helped give perspective and strength to so many other people, my people to be precise.
I encourage you to do the same.
Share your story with someone who is worth your time.
You never know how one sentence of your life story could inspire someone to rewrite their own.
No matter what you have been through in life, good or bad, don’t take it for granted.
There are lessons in every moment of our lives.
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We always hear “Slow and steady wins the race”, and though I love this idea.
I actually love the idea of slowing down to savor the little moments in life even more.
Living in our fast-paced world today, it’s easy to get into a busy routine and sometimes we literally don’t have time to catch our breath.
Not only is this not healthy for our bodies and our stress levels, but it takes the joy out of whatever we’re doing.
I’ve found that time goes quickly, and if I don’t stop and slow down, I miss the little moments.
So whatever place you’re rushing to or goal you are rushing to get, remember to enjoy the process too, otherwise what’s the point?
When you start to get wrapped up in your busy life, pause, take ten deep breaths, and try meditating or doing something that calms you down.
STAY STRONG & STAY CONSISTENT WITH THE WAY YOU ARE. (Not my words).
Slow and steady enjoys the race.
-MIKE BAYER.
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We assume success is about being famous, rich and owning expensive things.
But if you’ve pulled yourself out of a dark place, that’s a great success in itself.
Don’t forget that you’re winning each day you don’t give up and you make it through to the next.
Did you know that you’re achieving great things every day?
It probably doesn’t seem like it if you’re always looking ahead to the next thing.
Nevertheless, many of the things you’ve achieved today are things you dreamed about in the past.
You just don’t notice them in the moment they happen.
Or they pass you by too quickly.
Although we shouldn’t get so comfortable with our achievements that we become complacent and stop moving forwards, we should make time to celebrate them.
Otherwise you’ll look back on your life and think you didn’t do anything significant.
But if this were true, your life would always have remained the same.
Celebrate your achievements, even though they are little.
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Document the moments you feel most in love with yourself,
what you’re wearing,
who you’re around,
what you’re doing.
Recreate and repeat.
– Warsan Shire.
If I’ve learned anything from life,
it’s that sometimes the darkest times can bring us to the brightest places.
I’ve learned that the most toxic people can teach us the most important lessons;
that our most painful struggles can grant us the most necessary growth,
and that the most heartbreaking losses of friendship and love can make room for the most wonderful people.
I’ve learned that what seems like a curse in the moment can actually be a blessing,
and what seems like the end of the road is actually just the discovery that we are meant to travel down a different path.
I’ve learned that no matter how difficult things seem, there is always hope.
And I’ve learned that no matter how powerless we feel or how horrible things seem, we can’t give up.
We have to keep going.
Even when it’s scary, even when all of our strength seems gone, we have to keep picking ourselves back up and moving forward, because whatever we’re battling in the moment, it will pass, and we will make it through.
We’ve made it this far.
We can make it through whatever comes next.
(Not my words).
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I like people who have a sense of individuality.
I love all humanly expressions, conversations and anything awkward and imperfect, because that’s natural and that’s real.
Show yourself, do not pretend otherwise.
I think it’s beautiful the way you sparkle when you talk about the things you like or you don’t like.
And I like it when people disseminate, when they open up and dare to be completely honest, and when they laugh at the smallest things and then look into eyes.
There’s nothing more soothing when you are yourself and show who you are.
I always appreciate this.
All I can do is, look around, looking at that happy happening scene in my head again, there is warmth and familiar energy that we do not want to say goodbye to.
I am grateful for everything, for those beautiful moments.
Beauty is the way you hold yourself.
It’s how you treat people.
The way you love.
It’s self-acceptance.
Beauty is in your soul.
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Being genuine doesn’t mean you have to be strict & rude about your opinions on life. You can be genuine yet a fun loving person.
1. Value and respect the fact that you are a totally unique individual, with your own destiny to fulfill.
2. Believe in who you are, what you think and believe, your gifts and talents, and what you have to offer to those around you.
3. Refuse to give into negative feelings of anxiety, self doubt or insecurity. In fact, “fake it till you make it” is the most stupid line which can damage your authenticity forever. So ignore how you feel just reacting to the moment, and act the way you should be and you want to be.
4. Choose to switch off the old tapes that keep on playing in your head, and try to visualize your goals and then push on and seek to reach them.
5. Don’t pay any attention to what others think about you. The most important judgment should be yours, and yours alone. If you live in constant fear of what others think about you, it will only hold you back from realizing your potential. Also, you’re not a clone of others as each of us is different. Don’t be afraid to be unique or to stand out against the crowd.
6. Accept that you have good points, and areas for growth. We’re all a mix of different qualities, and flaws, and traits. We all make mistakes, it’s what you do with them matters. So embrace the fact you’re human and won’t always get it right.
7. Also, develop a tough skin and don’t take insults personally. Look back and laugh, don’t cover or criticise yourself. It won’t help if you’re sensitive or worried all the time. It’s better to forgive yourself, and then move on again.
8. Develop your ability to think creatively. Try out those new ideas, and choose to live outside the box.
9. Seek to enjoy this moment, and to live life in the present. Be grateful for the small things, and savour all you have.
10. Understand happiness, anger, sad, arrogance & upset, all are temporary human emotions. You have to go through everything. The earlier you accept it the better.
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If there’s even a slight chance of getting something that will make you happy, risk it. Life’s too short, happiness is lived in moments and such moments are too rare.
Live what makes you feel alive.
Be proud of how you’ve been handling these past months, the silent battles you fought, the moments you had to humble yourself and pat yourself on the back.
Celebrate your strength.
(Not my words)
If there is ever a day when you feel tired of saying good for them and you are wondering when things will be good for you, take heart with great hope, and consider all the things this season of growing will lead into. Like an ocean that awaits many miles way, you may not be there yet, but you are surely on your way.
So take your time while you are journeying, travel light, be safe. For there will come a time when you finally arrive on those shores and you will be so glad you did not settle. You will be so glad you did not give up. You will be so glad you did not sync yourself to someone else’s pace and chose instead to anchor yourself in the steady rhythm of grace. And after everything you went through, you arrived where you needed to be on time, and everything will be fine. Not perfect, but fine. For every beautiful thing will happen in its TIME.
(NOT MY WORDS)
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THE DON’T DO LIST:
Don’t let this world make you bitter. Don’t let the actions of other people turn you cold inside. Certain things happen that hurt us, people come that leave us, and most of all there are moments when you’re bound to fall. Don’t let those things make you unkind human. It’s okay to cry. It’s okay to be sad. But it’s never okay to do other people wrong just because you were done wrong.
We are HUMANS. We break. We make mistakes. But don’t let pain and sadness run your lives. Wake up in the morning and do what you think is right. There are moments in your life where you feel like giving up and you can’t take it anymore. It’s okay. Breathe. Inhale. Exhale. I know you’re weak. But the things that show your weak side are also the same ones that make you stronger in the long run. It’s all about taking whatever life throws at you and learning from it.
(Not my words).
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7 FACTS TO MAKE YOU HAPPIER IN LIFE:
1. Wake up every morning, say, “this is going to be the best day of my life,’ and it will be.
2. The moment you realize you are responsible for every aspect of your life is when you are completely free.
3. You don’t have to be in a relationship to be happy. You just have to understand yourself.
4. To love yourself, simply be yourself.
5. Life is in constant flux. Savor the moments we enjoy and know that those we don’t will pass.
6. The self is always changing. What matters is how we create the self we wish to be every moment.
7. We only have so much time. It’s okay and crucial to cut off things that are unnecessary.
(Not my words)
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We do not remember days, we remember MOMENTS.
-Cesare Pavese.
Certain things must be kept personal no matter how clumsy life gets, two such things which bug us the most are past resentments & fears and weaknesses.
Everyone has fears and weaknesses and sharing these things will not provide you comfort. People enjoy seeing other people’s weaknesses, so don’t feed them. You can study up on your fears and weaknesses or if that isn’t working, get some professional help.
Resentments about the past or constantly digging up the past, It’s not going to help. Those past experiences can easily affect today. Do not let these define the moment you are in. The best thing you can do is to express yourself in the moment. This way you can prevent past regrets and resentments. Forgive others in order to be peaceful, move on and let go.
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Every WRONG seems RIGHT for the moment until you meet it’s consequences.
You may not be strong at this moment, but being BRAVE is always easy. Face your demons.
The moment you realize you got nothing much to lose, you have everything to gain. Dare yourself to understand the value of ZERO, it’s just a do-over.
Only two times I behave totally impossible; when my doctor uses local anesthesia on me for medical reasons or when someone is messing up with my girls during night outs/trips outside my city for a good time.
It’s not my habit to break pinky fingers. My anger is always in my control till my other sweetheart’s smile is intact. The moment that smile is broken, some bones are also meant to be broken. I am a typical rusty boy, pure impatient & total asshole.
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