Self-care isn’t just holidays and massages. It’s working on your habits. It’s working on your mindset. It’s working on healing your past. It’s removing toxic thoughts. It’s removing toxic people. It’s removing places which didn’t serve best interest of your life.
It’s living intentionally. It’s living purposefully. It’s living consciously.
• Ask for what you need. • Stop basing your worth on how others see you. • Stop pretending; be honest with yourself and others. • Constantly ask yourself: “does this align with me?” • Honour your personal and professional boundaries. • Invest in relationships that matter. • Declutter; let go of things that no longer serve you. • Let your decisions be informed by your values. • Strive to identify and live your purpose.
Throw away the idea that you need to pause your life until you are fully healed, this is a different way of being attached to perfection. Real progress happens when you make better decisions in the midst of living. You can simultaneously heal your past while being open to the present.
There comes a very important time in your life where you need to sit yourself down and ask; “If you’re really living your life! Are you content or are you happy? Are you seeing or living?”
You only have one shot at this. Travel great distances if that’s what you please. Or stay at home and build a beautiful garden is that’s where you see yourself happiest. If you aren’t happy, then change. Analyze your life and get rid of anything that doesn’t make you happy. One day when you’re eighty years old, you’re going to wish you did. You’re going to wish you lived differently and there’s no way to go back and change it. LIVE YOUR ALL DREAMS, GOALS, DESIRES WHILE BEING THE MOST AUTHENTIC VERSION OF YOURSELF.
(This video got nothing to do with the post above. I liked this Ted talk by Bill Gates. And this pandemic could be the last pandemic we ever experience. Watch it if you have 15 minutes.)
You gotta start romanticizing your life. You gotta start believing that your morning commute is cute and fun. Every cup of coffee is the best you’ve ever had. Even the smallest and most mundane things are exciting and new. You have to, because that’s when you start truly living. That’s when you look forward to every day.
TAKE EVERYDAY AS A CHANCE TO BE A BETTER HUMAN BEING.
(This video got nothing to do with the post above. If you think the trucker’s protest is over, some new shit is already there to hit the fan.)
I’ve learned that no matter what happens, or how bad it seems today, life does go on, and it will be better tomorrow. I’ve learned that you can tell a lot about a person by the way he/she handles these three things: a rainy day, lost luggage, and tangled christmas tree lights. I’ve learned that regardless of your relationship with your parents, you’ll miss them when they’re gone from your life. I’ve learned that making a “living” is not the same thing as making a “life”. I’ve learned that life sometimes gives you a second chance. I’ve learned that you shouldn’t go through life with a catcher’s mitt on both hands; you need to be able to throw something back. I’ve learned that whenever I decide something with an open heart, I usually make the right decision. I’ve learned that even when I have pains, I don’t have to be one. I’ve learned that every day you should reach out and touch someone. People love a warm hug, or just a friendly pat on the back. I’ve learned that I still have a lot to learn.
I’ve learned that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel.
A beautiful day begins with a beautiful mindset. When you wake up, take a second to think about what a privilege it is to simply be alive and healthy. The moment you start acting like life is a blessing, I assure you it will start to feel like one. Time spent appreciating is time worth living.
1. The impact you leave on people & society with your way of living, thinking & behaviour. 2. The love that you get & give.
(This video got nothing to do with the post above. Only my friends know why i love basketball & i respect Shaq for his work+business ethics. Watch this video reason from 3.34 till next 2 minutes, those will be my rules for my kids in 2040.)
There are people who think someone will approach for a relationship & life will be all rose pink after that. We are living in the world where one swipe left/right, you meet someone. And next day that person is gone to someone else or better.
My philosophy is; I am building myself. I get along with strong headed or loyal heart people. The one who wants me will get me & not stop fighting till mission accomplished. Life is like 80% work & 20% rest bullshit. That’s how I roll. A romantic relationship is not the goal of anyone’s life. You don’t need LOVE to spoon or fuck. It depends on your morals how you entertain people. Build a TRUE amazing self before asking a stable secure relationship.