When you choose a LIFE PARTNER, you’re choosing a lot of things;
including your parenting partner, and someone who will deeply influence your children, your eating companion for about 20,000 meals, your travel companion for about 200 weeks, your primary leisure time and retirement friend, your career therapist, and someone whose day you’ll hear about 18,000 times.
Be wise & take your sweet time while choosing people. (Not my words).
(This trailer of Matrix got nothing to do with the post above. Yesterday i just finished my work, had my lunch & this trailer was dropped. My excitement for movies stays alive for certain reasons. Delighted to see Warner Bros rebooting this franchise.)
Defo I am single & Happy as hell. In no mood to be tied down in a relationship, my goals towards a secure tomorrow is my priority.
I take years to allow someone close to me. Earning Tap is a tough task. I would suggest you to stop trying, because I know you will give up & I don’t give a shit. Whoever approaches me with LOVE, they know the reason behind my denial.
I can share my status looking at this pic: Best friend is someone named “GRANNY”. I am definitely planning to hook up with her in 2070. Sorry DEMI.😂
No, LOVE has nothing to do with finances or charisma of the other side. But, you already know what’s your comfort zone/future goals & who can be worth it to share that same way!!
Just like you can’t use that same smartphone in your hand for more than 2-3 years, you want to upgrade it even if you are using it. Life is just like that. It needs a upgrade time to time. See your parents, how many times you changed your home/TV/location/furniture/whatever. Life is exactly like that. It needs upgrades not just monetarily, it needs upgrades in every aspect. You need your emotional growth & qualifications/skills/work too need the same.
If you aren’t seeing the same in your partner, don’t let him/her be your LIFE PARTNER. Someday you will surely lose your attraction/passion/mojo towards that person if they are not driven towards a better life. LOVE is a big word. Don’t misuse it, use it when you find your forever or else go happy fuck around for a while. Having tons of sex with multiple partners is OK if your moral allows you & you get that much attention. Misusing that word LOVE to gain little passion is not OK, it will tear you down slowly.
Ask yourself how long did you let that LOVE cook inside you, ask yourself what’s gonna be the result when time tests you with good or bad situations!! BE TRUE to yourself first. Time heals all when intentions are true in head/heart & your mouth speaks the same.
Who wants a good person as their life partner!! Who are you to judge someone good or bad? Most of the time these good jerks lose track & start faking shit. I can’t believe in something/someone which/who is unreliable. TRUTH & TRUST, it takes a zillion moments to earn both.
I would rather prefer the baddest bitch who can own me & truly grasp me as who I am. My only demand is, be Bad but True or Bad+True.