Don’t let this world make you bitter. Don’t let the actions of other people turn you cold on the inside. Certain things happen that hurt us, people come that leave us, and most of all there are moments when you’re bound to fall. Don’t let those things make you unkind. It’s okay to cry. It’s okay to be sad. But it’s never okay to do other people wrong just because you were done wrong. We’re human. We break. We make mistakes. But don’t let pain and sadness run your life.
Wake up in the morning and do what you think is right. There are moments in your life where you feel like giving up and you can’t take it anymore. It’s okay. Breathe. Inhale. Exhale. I know you’re weak. But the things that show your weak side are also the same ones that make you stronger in the long run. It’s all about taking whatever life throws at you and learning from it.
Be gentle on your loved ones who lack the strength to leave toxic situations. What looks easy from the outside, may be a war they fight internally. What feels like danger to you, could be a comfort zone for their insecurities. What you think requires action, may require PATIENCE.
DON’T SETTLE. Turn off shitty movies. If a conversation’s dead, cut it. If the meal’s shitty, avoid the restaurant. If you’re not on the right path, simply get off it. Don’t entertain what doesn’t entertain you.
You need to ignore what everyone else is doing and achieving. Your life is about breaking your own limits and outgrowing yourself to live your best life. You are not in competition with anyone else. Plan to outdo your past, not other people.
TOMORROW IS AN UPGRADE OF TODAY.
(This 3 minutes video got nothing to do with the post above. It’s about when can we expect an end to this pandemic in 2022.)
I’m a firm believer in leaving this world a better place for future generations. Being an optimistic person has presented me with so many extraordinary opportunities to give back, to volunteer, and to touch so many lives along the way. I’ve had the privilege of advocating for those dealing with bullying, eating disorders, and mental health issues. Everyone has causes close to their hearts, so whatever you’re passionate about, do something to make a difference. Do your part to make this world a better place.
I have been through enough ups & downs in my close to 30 life. I gave myself oppertunity to live/work/study in 4 cities/countries. I graduated engineering & MBA way back. The friends who entered my life those days are still intact, that’s my biggest flex. My address will change again next year. I will not say i enjoy travelling, everyone does. I will say, i relocate every 2-3 years. The more people i came in touch with the more i understood, we live in a world of WEAK MEN & GIRLS BUSY IN TIKTOK. Proper inconsistency at play. Still there’s hope to experience a world focused on growth, happiness & fulfillment. WISHING YOU ALL A PROSPEROUS NEW YEAR 2022. LOVE AND RESPECT.
Avoid people who mess with your head. Avoid people who intentionally and repeatedly do and say things that they know upset you. Avoid people who expect you to prioritize them but refuse to prioritize you. Avoid people who can’t and won’t apologize sincerely. Avoid inconsistent approach & disrespect.
It’s during the toughest times of your life that you’ll get to see the true colors of the people who say they care about you. Notice who sticks around and who doesn’t, and be grateful to those who leave you, for they have given you the room to grow in the space they abandoned, and the awareness to appreciate the people who loved you when you didn’t feel lovable.
Bottom line: Be OK with giving the gift of your absence to those who do not appreciate and respect your presence.
Now a days we usually see LOVE triangle situations, they are nothing less than a hell on earth. Whoever does that gets nothing except bad karma.
If you have faced it, just leave both of them with whatever they are upto. You are the legit person, don’t think about that cheap person who betrayed. You will get someone who is a million times beautiful & better than that past. Put your smile, be true to yourself, cleanse your heart, move away & move on.
There is nothing called white or black lie. Lie is a Lie & Liars can’t prove anything right. You pollute your core the moment you lie, from where you can’t spread anything positive. That’s one reason liars are indecisive about everything from LIFE to LOVE. They leave themselves juggling between situations or cycles. You will always mark a similar pattern of behaviour in a liar.
Saying it with own experience. The biggest gift I have given myself is MY LITTLE TRUTH. Yes it made me bitter and tough, but I learnt how to stand. If I do anything wrong in my life, I say it proudly before someone else barks about it & face the consequences. If you see anything right/good in me, keep it to yourself or say it to woo me. Either ways, appreciation should only come from other side. We need to keep on cleaning our mess & become a better version of self. Take this one tiny thing from me, Be a true you.