Certain things i wish i knew sooner:
1. If taking care of yourself means letting someone down, then let someone down.
2. Never let rejection lead to self-rejection.
3. What happened yesterday may not be your responsibility, but how you behave today is upto you.
4. Obsessing over the things that society said you’re supposed to do will kill your happiness.
Everyone is different and your path to happiness will be different too.
5. My low maintenance relationships are my strongest.
6. If you want to enjoy your life, don’t subscribe to other people’s definition of ‘fun‘.
Your fun belongs to you, make sure you define it.
7. Stop expecting honesty from people who lie to themselves.
People who are inconsistent aren’t going anywhere in their life, stop planning a journey with them.
8. If you learn to read books, you can be smart.
If you learn to read yourself, you can be anything.
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Tag: inconsistent
True me.. Tap-1079..
Three major lessons you must learn for an easy smooth sailing life;
1. Sometimes bad things happen to good people and sometimes you might think you know someone, you might think they’re on your side but deep down inside they’re not.
Pay attention.
Actions speak louder than words, inconsistent words mean nothing and such words are just another way to cover up the truth with lies.
2. Almost everything we go through we can’t control.
That means, if it’s yours, then somewhere down the line it’ll return to you.
And if it’s not, then you have to make peace with it and move on.
It’s as simple as that.
3. Letting go is never an easy thing to do, no matter how many times you’ve rehearsed it, no matter how many times you’ve played it in your head, it never goes as planned and almost always does it sting a little harder than you thought.
(Not my words.)
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True me.. Tap-1040..
Throughout the years I have learned three major things:
1. Sometimes bad things happen to good people and sometimes you might think you know someone, you might think they’re on your side but deep down inside they’re not.
Pay attention. Inconsistent people use WORDS to cover up the truth with lies.
2. Almost everything we go through we can’t control.
That means, if it’s yours, then somewhere down the line it’ll return to you and if it’s not, then you have to make peace with it and move on.
It’s as simple as that.
3. Letting go is never an easy thing to do.
No matter how many times you’ve rehearsed it.
No matter how many times you’ve played it in your head.
It never goes as planned and almost always does it sting a little harder than you thought.
(Not my words.)
Tap OUT..✌️
SUCCESS IS OVERRATED!!
When we say “STRIVE TO BE SUCCESSFUL”, we must mention SUCCESS in what form!
In my eyes SUCCESS is an amazing form of accomplishment & it can be anything.
You are a good student, that’s a SUCCESS.
You are a good employee who loves & enjoys his/her job, that’s SUCCESS.
You are an entrepreneur or a businessman to a profitable venture, that’s a SUCCESS.
You lost 10kilo body weight in a month for shooting a music video, that’s SUCCESS.
You travelled 41 countries before turning 29, that’s SUCCESS.
You are truthful about what you are, that’s SUCCESS.
You never showed deceptive or inconsistent characteristics, that’s SUCCESS.
You are confident & consistent, that’s SUCCESS.
You never allowed bad times or bad people bring down your vibe, that’s SUCCESS.
You were patient with time to get what you wanted, that’s SUCCESS.
You baked the best sourdough pizza & sugarfree cheesecake for all your 17 friends, that’s a SUCCESS.
You know your bestfriend DEMI is a crybaby & despite that you had a long conversation about all your differences in opinion while grabbing her by waist, even that’s a SUCCESS.
SUCCESS is such a wildly overrated word that makes most people scared to even think about it.
We must use this word “SUCCESS” in our day to day life to feel more fulfilled in our way of living.
AS LONG AS YOU KEEP GOING,
YOU’LL KEEP GETTING BETTER.
AND AS YOU GET BETTER,
YOU GAIN MORE CONFIDENCE.
THAT ALONE IS SUCCESS. (Not my words.)
Consistent effort with clean intentions always leads to SUCCESS.
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Tru2Day1085
Don’t lower your frequency to play games and become a part of an inconsistent toxic cycle.
Revenge depletes your energy and steals from you.
Move forward.
What you remove your attention from will cease to exist.
Get better.
Attract better.
You are too great to entertain such energies.
BE YOU & STRIVE TO BE A BETTER VERSION OF YOURSELF.
Tru2Day1036
SELF-CARE isn’t just holidays, sauna and massages.
It’s working on your habits, mindset and healing your past.
It’s removing toxic thoughts, inconsistent people and nasty places from your life.
It’s living intentionally, purposefully and consciously.
True me.. Tap-893..
Nobody is perfect.
Equally important is knowing how to forgive yourself.
Do not obsess over your past mistakes.
The more you obsess and hold on to it, the more energy and power you give it.
So let it go, learn from it, and move on.
Forgive yourself for a mistake you made or something you’ve done that you now regret.
Allow yourself to let it go.
Leave all your inconsistent behaviour behind.
Learn to be in sync with life.
It can be your career, hobbies, relationship or your health, learn to be CONSISTENT if you want success in any field of your life.
Live with no regrets.
Life is fun, let it be.
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True me.. Tap-882..
You can’t please everyone and you’re not supposed to.
I’ve taken a lot of criticism and even read horrible comments on the Internet, but I can’t let that bring me down.
I have to keep being who I am for the people in my life that matter and that will be enough.
Don’t try to please everyone, just focus on pleasing yourself.
Become a better version of yourself by remaining consistent in your path to life.
If someone is overcriticizing you, don’t feed into them by responding.
There is only one way to avoid criticism:
say nothing, be nothing, do nothing.
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Tru2Day973
You don’t have to communicate, keep in touch with, and be nice to people who are inconsistent & who affect your wellbeing in a negative way.
You don’t have to put up with something you don’t like.
Don’t make yourself stay in a toxic environment that will be ruining your life little by little.
Tru2Day970
Most people are just INCONSISTENT, pretend to do lot many things without being serious about anything.
TRUSTING SOMEONE IS THE TOUGHEST PART.
And there are two reasons why we don’t TRUST people.
First: We don’t know them.
Second: We know them.
(This video got nothing to do with the post above. I heard about mincemeat oat cookies for the first time from this Scottish chef. I am a baker by heart, especially pizza & cheesecake are two of my biggest weaknesses.)
True me.. Tap-857..
You do not have to deal with:
People who are critical.
People who reject you.
People who are inconsistent.
People who are abusive.
People who retaliate.
People who downplay your achievements.
People who secretly want your life.
People who refuse to improve.
Stop wasting your time dealing with toxic, inconsistent, negative, energy-draining people.
Some people are wired for negativity.
They love retaliation, being argumentative, combative and abusive.
Let others talk about you or against you, doesn’t matter good or bad.
Your job is to protect your peace.
Keep walking towards a truthful consistent life.
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True me.. Tap-853..
Some people think;
ADVENTURE is dangerous,
DISCIPLINE is brutal,
TRUTH is lethal,
LOVE is hard,
& LIFE isn’t moving.
These are all low-key narcissistic inconsistent personality traits which brings severe unhappiness to life.
And all you gotta do is; stay away from those who think like this.
ADVENTURE brings joy.
DISCIPLINE teaches you to be consistent.
TRUTH is core of basic human values.
LOVE is beautiful.
& LIFE is fun.
You have to carry this attitude forward in life.
Remain consistent with the way you are.
That helps you to be in sync with life.
Hangout with those who reflect & second your thoughts.
A happy person is not a person who’s always in a good situation, but rather a person who always has a good attitude in every situation.
VIBE WITH YOUR TRIBE.
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Tru2Day946
You deserve someone who can’t WAIT to talk to you
& spend time with you
& get to know you
& fall in love with you.
Stop settling for halfhearted, lukewarm, hesitant, inconsistent & indecisive.
It’s soooooooooo much better to be alone than to be with someone who makes you FEEL ALONE.
Tru2Day932
Be disciplined about what you respond and react to.
Most people are inconsistent, that’s their comfort zone.
Not everyone or everything deserves your time, energy and attention.
Stay in your light. Vibe with your tribe.
Tru2Day905
Healthy relationships feel boring to people who are used to relationships filled with toxicity, inconsistency & drama.
They are not sure what to do with LOVE that is calm, kind, drama free, non toxic & doesn’t require them to constantly make painful sacrifices.
A healthy relationship is fun, consistent & always smooth sailing even during bad times, PERIOD.
(This paragraph got nothing to do with the post above. I promised to pay for one friend’s weekend trip & vacation. But 11 CMU cunts responded over facetime & iMessage within 15 minutes of my post. All i can say is, you assholes make me feel like superman or some kinda happy excited kid with so much care & attention. Ton of respect & love. I am grateful & delighted. Because it’s a celebration, entire vacation is on me. Click here DEMI, talking about this post, I HATE YOU.)😂 Pasted wrong link here, now corrected.
True me.. Tap-597..
Comparing yourself to others is a toxic human trait which does nothing but resulting in poor self-confidence. Perfection is an impossible idea and while it’s easy to say that “it’s okay to make mistakes” and “nobody’s perfect”. Sometimes it’s harder to apply those ideas to yourself. When you compare yourself to others, you’re doing everyone an injustice. If you focus on what makes you unique like your skills and potential only in comparison to other people, there will always be someone who outdoes you and you’ll always end up feeling bad.
Instead concentrate on where you are in your path of growth everyone learns different things at different paces at different times in their lives. Where you’re at is just as valid as where everyone else is.
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True me.. Tap-573..
I hangout with the same set of friends since past 500 years if i am right. Let me answer the reason why so!?? I already know who true friends are, so never really felt the need to have new ones. I am very cautious while living my life independently unless someone is this compatible, and by this I mean, they think the same, express the same ideas and they have the same values. Reason behind all is a flimsy world where people come to life with ulterior agendas. I have always said that i hate two kinds of people; 1-People who lie, 2-Inconsistent people.
And my observation says every inconsistent person is a low-key liar. And there is no big or small lies, every lie is a lie. Back to point 1 again, people who lie are nothing but boring. That’s the reason i have a small group of friends that i cherish like life. Liars never understand; BEING BAD IS ACCEPTABLE IF YOU ARE REAL.
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True me.. Tap-545..
What we don’t discuss about LIES? Some people lie to manipulate but few might be lying in an entirely different way. Lies of omission could be keeping you up at night. Maybe you’re unhappy with your relationship or your career. You could be lying to yourself or others, lying others that you’re satisfied when you aren’t. Are you hiding in the closet preventing others from knowing your true identity or maybe you told an outright lie and you’ve been carrying it with you for a long time!?! Whatever Secrets you’re protecting you can let the lie go by telling a trusted friend. Once you share the truth, the falsity fades away. Even when you believe that lying is the best or most moral decision, it can still take a toll on your conscience. You can move on from the regrets in a truce that are holding you back. Let go of the lies and live your life with honesty for happier existence.
Now if you saw this video, i would love to see every liar/cheater in this exact same position as this woman. Correction, there should be a database of cheaters so that people with healthy happy mindset can be aware whom to date & whom to wham bam thank you mam!! Not a single cheater understands these bold italic lines; “You are bound to sink if you put two legs in two boats. Just break up if you aren’t happy with someone. Be blunt & say it. Take a 3-6 month break to get rid of memories from previous relationship. That will help both to get rid of those up & down toxic cycles. Then start your next chapter from a clean slate”. When you lie about your income tax, property, anything illegal or criminal act, there is a law everywhere to deal with it. The fun part, there is no such things to deal with cheaters in a relationship. If you ever lie or cheat your partner, never expect a forgiveness. That’s just cheap & the only nature of CHEAP is; it gets cheaper with time. I can say the same for every inconsistent person. Learn to follow a consistent truthful life for your own happiness, that’s attractive & sassy af. Hope i was able to make little sense in my post.
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True me.. Tap-500..
There are liars, cheaters, thieves, criminals, Donald Trump & all sort of other deceptive people, all have one thing in common is their “LIE”. Basically all are different degree of LIARS. On the other hand there is also another set of equally lackluster group of folks known as “INCONSISTENT PEOPLE”. And i swear they are even more worse compared to LIARS. Liars are a turn off, but it takes a little time to catch their lies. But inconsistent people are way more prominent in their part of nonsense, you can catch their INCONSISTENCY very next moment. Another funny part, most LIARS are INCONSISTENT by nature.
My post was to make everyone aware of any INCONSISTENT person around. You don’t need to confront them, just get rid of them. Right people vibe & match your energy, then stick for a long run no matter what’s your taste or status!! Liars will never connect to this school of thought. Truth is trust. Be blunt to block any inconsistent person from life, that’s the best gift you can give yourself before 2020 is over. Still another month away, let’s end it on a good note.
(This paragraph has nothing to do with the post above. We are slowly but surely recovering from this pandemic. I wish/hope everyone is taking care of own health and happiness. Today i am not around family or my same set of friends that i have spent previous few amazing years, i am talking about geographical distance here. This is the time we used to share some warmth, have some nice sugery/greasy yummy food & create few good memories meanwhile. I didn’t host any kinda party this year because of COVID-19, that money was meant to be spent for my people. So many things didn’t go as planned. What breaks my heart is those people whose lives & livelihood got effected. Went to a nearby homeless shelter today asking whether i can donate some sweatshirts/jackets/blankets because it’s almost winter. They replied, there is enough winter clothes available except some winter woolen socks because they always run short. I bought socks for everyone in that homeless shelter & i wasn’t even able to spend the whole thanksgiving dinner money. Only message i wanted to share here; YES we all are going through a tough time. Do your tiny bit towards the needy even if you want to flex/share it in your instagram or YouTube. There is nothing wrong is spreading the right. HAPPY THANKSGIVING.)
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True me.. Tap-460..
LIARS lie everyone a different lie. LIARS look for pleas & discounts with everything they do. The only thing that’s consistent about a LIAR is their INCONSISTENCY. That’s why LIARS can’t love & even if they do, you can’t trust them. And I catch lies, I am arrogant about it & I don’t lie.
You don’t need a right person to be in a relationship. First you need to be the right person, who can be trusted while remaining TRUTHFUL & CONSISTENT towards yourself.
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Tru2Day209
Liars are inconsistent, unreliable, narcissistic, untrustworthy, deceptive, low self-esteem, indecisive, attention seeking jealousy driven egotistical creatures. Guard yourself from such.
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