Tomorrow is not promised. Not a single second or minute is PROMISED. So, live for today. Keep the promises you make. Take action on the things you desire and need. Remind those that matter to you that they are loved and you are grateful for them. Never leave someone you care about on negative terms. Give more than you take. Make the calls you’ve been telling yourself you’ll do ‘tomorrow’. Let the small shit go. Let equations with inconsistent people fall. Never go to bed angry. We will all die one day, so learn to live each day with the promise to yourself that it’ll be better than yesterday.
(This video got nothing to do with the post above. I can’t believe that a group of people still deny global warming & climate change. Shared this tiny video because i wanted to share this issue.)
Self-care isn’t just holidays and massages. It’s working on your habits, mindset and healing your past. It’s removing toxic thoughts, inconsistent people and places in your life. Self-care is living intentionally, purposefully and consciously.
Throughout the years I have learned three major things:
1. Sometimes bad things happen to good people and sometimes you might think you know someone, you might think they’re on your side but deep down inside they’re not. Pay attention. Inconsistent people use WORDS to cover up the truth with lies.
2. Almost everything we go through we can’t control. That means, if it’s yours, then somewhere down the line it’ll return to you and if it’s not, then you have to make peace with it and move on. It’s as simple as that.
3. Letting go is never an easy thing to do. No matter how many times you’ve rehearsed it. No matter how many times you’ve played it in your head. It never goes as planned and almost always does it sting a little harder than you thought. (Not my words.)
Someone can be madly in love with you and still not be ready. Someday that “I LOVE YOU” will fall short. They can love you in a way you have never been loved before and still not join you on the bridge. And whatever their reasons, you must leave. Because you never ever have to inspire anyone to meet you on the bridge. You never ever have to convince someone to do the work to be ready. There is more extraordinary love, more love that you have never seen, out here in this wide and wild universe. And there is that love who’s out there somewhere worth of a stable relationship. (Borrowed paragraph from a previous post)
Relationships aren’t hard, It’s people who are inconsistent and lazy to put time and effort. We all want growth in every aspect of life while expecting to grow stronger together in a relationship. If your relationship isn’t helping you become a better version of yourself, then you are in a wrong relationship.
The most basic human tendency is to keep seeking a better tomorrow. Personal growth is the major priority, a journey to achieve joyful living. Life is fun, let it be.
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