Never chase another human being.
Instead, chase your curiosity.
Chase your development.
Chase your goals.
Chase your passion.
Strive to work for something bigger than yourself, and instead of trying to convince someone that you fit within their world, build your own world.
Tap..✌️
Sometimes you are the toxic person.
Sometimes you are the mean negative person you’re looking to push away.
Sometimes the problem is you.
And that doesn’t make you less worthy.
Keep on growing.
Keep on checking yourself.
Keep on motivating yourself.
Mistakes are opportunities.
Look at them, own them, grow from them and move on.
Do better, be better.
You’re human. It’s okay.
Check yourself.
Tap..✌️
It’s so important to acknowledge your weaknesses and imperfections.
It may seem hard at first, but once you begin to recognize and come to peace with your weaknesses, you actually have an honest place to start improving.
We shouldn’t strive for perfection because it doesn’t exist.
When we accept others for who they are and love ourselves unconditionally (flaws and all), we have an opportunity to be open, to be courageous, and to learn.
There’s a chinese proverb which goes like;
“Gold can’t be 100% pure, and people can’t be fully perfect”.
Look at your weaknesses and think about how you can improve in a healthy way.
Tap..✌️
You can disappoint people,
and still be good enough.
You can fail,
and still be smart, capable and talented.
You can let people down,
and still be worthwhile and deserving of love and admiration.
We all make mistakes sometimes.
Take a deep breath.
You are allowed to be human.
– Marcandangel.
(This music video got nothing to do with the post above. Music video is uploaded recently, but it’s almost 13 years old song, still a vibe.)
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Fun fact:
Humans are deuterostomes, which means that when they develop in the womb the anus forms before any other opening.
Which basically means at one point you were nothing but an asshole.
Some people never develop beyond this stage.
I think sometimes people believe that worrying has some kind of productive purpose.
Worry sucks all your energy and joy out of whatever it you’re doing.
It’s human nature to worry, but when we do constantly, we run into more problems.
It may give you something to do, but you don’t get anywhere.
The next time you worrying about something, try to remember that you aren’t always in control.
Instead, do practical things like make budget or create a schedule.
Be proactive & let go of stress.
After all, it won’t change a thing.
Worry does not empty tomorrow of sorrow; it empties today of it’s strength.
Tap OUT..✌️
If we want to achieve great things, we must be intentional to focus on the right things, even when chaos arises.
If we are not intentional with our thought life, then our human nature will automatically focus on the problem rather than finding and creating solutions.
What you focus on multiplies.
So undoubtedly, when you focus on your problems for too long, they will begin to feel big and overwhelming.
When you allow your problems to be the loudest voice in the room, you lose sight of hope and possibility.
While it’s important to acknowledge the problems that exist, no good can evolve from focusing on your problems.
It will not change your situation, make things better, or shift the atmosphere and pave the way for a breakthrough.
Here’s the good thing: the problems you face, while they may be roadblocks, they cannot keep you from the future that was intended for you.
ONCE AGAIN; WHAT YOU FOCUS ON MULTIPLIES.
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DON’T COMPARE your actual self to a hypothetical self.
Don’t drown in a sea of ‘what if’s.
Don’t clutter your mind by imagining other versions of you, in parallel universes, where you made different decisions.
The internet age encourages choice and comparison, but don’t do this to yourself. Theodore Roosevelt said; Comparison is the thief of joy.
You are The you.
Past is the past.
The only way to make a better life is from inside the present.
To focus on regret does nothing but turn that very present into another thing you will wish you did differently.
Accept your own reality.
Be human enough to make mistakes.
Be human enough not to dread the future.
Be human enough to be, well, enough.
Accepting where you are in life makes it so much easier to be happy for other people without feeling terrible about yourself.
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I don’t desire much.
I like sunsets and looking at the sky.
I love eating good food and having conversations with humans.
From time to time I think I sing well in the shower.
I’m just a fan of being alive.
-Sylvester McNutt.
This is what you don’t do:
Don’t let this world make you bitter.
Don’t let the actions of other people turn you cold on the inside.
Certain things happen that hurt us, people come that leave us, and most of all there are moments when you’re bound to fall.
Don’t let those things make you unkind.
It’s okay to cry.
It’s okay to be sad.
But it’s never okay to do other people wrong just because you were done wrong.
We’re human.
We break.
We make mistakes.
But don’t let pain and sadness run your life.
Wake up in the morning and do what you think is right.
There are moments in your life where you feel like giving up and you can’t take it anymore.
It’s okay.
Breathe.
Inhale.
Exhale.
I know you’re weak.
But the things that show your weak side are also the same ones that make you stronger in the long run.
It’s all about taking whatever life throws at you and learning from it.
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Just because people are being bad to you, doesn’t mean you should sacrifice the same energy to them.
Don’t go through that kind of effort.
The best thing you can do is to completely ignore them and focus on what makes you better.
It’s hard, but know that you deserve only good and positive vibes.
You were not born to embrace and express negativity.
Maybe the people around you might have brought that side out of you, but naturally you’re nothing like those people.
You are way better than that.
Keep working towards your human side.
There’s nothing more attractive than KINDNESS & EMPATHY.
Tap OUT..✌️
I think sometimes people believe that worrying has some kind of productive purpose.
Worry sucks all of your energy and joy out of whatever it is you’re doing.
It’s human nature to worry, but when we do it constantly, we run into more problems.
It may give you something to do, but you don’t get anywhere.
The next time you are worrying about something, try to remember that you aren’t always in control.
Instead, do practical things like make a budget or create a schedule.
Be proactive and let go of the stress.
After all, it won’t change a thing.
Worry does not empty tomorrow of its sorrow; it empties today of its strength.
Tap OUT..✌️
DON’T COMPARE YOUR actual self to a hypothetical self.
Don’t drown in a sea of ‘what if’s.
Don’t clutter your mind by imagining other versions of you, in parallel universes, where you made different decisions.
The internet age encourages choice and comparison, but don’t do this to yourself.
Theodore Roosevelt said; “Comparison is the thief of joy”.
You are you.
The past is the past.
The only way to make a better life is from inside the present.
To focus on regret does nothing but turn that very present into another thing you will wish you did differently.
Accept your own reality.
Be human enough to make mistakes.
Be human enough not to dread the future.
Be human enough to be, well, enough.
Accepting where you are in life makes it so much easier to be happy for other people without feeling terrible about yourself.
BE YOU.
Tap OUT..✌️
Attitude is a choice.
Happiness is a choice.
Optimism is a choice.
Kindness is a choice.
Giving is a choice.
Respect is a choice.
Whatever choice you make makes you.
Choose wisely.
– Roy T. Bennett.
If you start living for the smallest reasons, that’s when you know you’re really living,
the smell of rain after a thunderstorm,
the shades of pavements when it’s autumn,
the harvest season and the unspoken competition to pick the freshest tomatoes,
the mediocre midnights and the color of the sunsets,
the smell of bakeries early in the morning,
the frosty breeze of the fast-approaching winter,
the warmth of oven when baking christmas cookies,
the thickness of paper when flipping through magazine pages,
the smell of new books and new clothes and new things.
When you start looking at things, really really looking, you’ll start living.
Because then you’ll understand how it is to really be a HUMAN in this world full of people.
LEARN TO BE A HUMAN.
APPRECIATE & LIVE YOUR LIFE FOR YOURSELF.
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There are many people who walk around with big egos feeling righteous and more entitled than others.
It doesn’t matter where you come from or who you think you are, we’re all human beings with beating hearts.
A lot of times people judge others and assume that they’re right, but you can’t just assume your point of view is right.
You have to be willing to see outside of yourself.
There are so many people in the world and if you’re only asking yourself for answers, then you’re living your life in a bubble.
Think twice before you feel like judging someone, put yourself in their shoes and remember they’re entitled to their own opinions and perspectives.
They see the world differently.
You don’t deserve a point of view if the only thing you see is you.
-PARAMORE.
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We humans do not understand compassion.
In each moment of our lives, we betray it.
We know of its worth, yet in knowing we then attach to it a value, we guard the giving of it, believing it must be earned.
Compassion is priceless in the truest sense of the world.
It must be given freely.
– Steven Erikson.
Everyone makes mistakes in life.
But that doesn’t mean they have to pay for them the rest of their life.
Sometimes good people make bad choices.
It doesn’t mean they’re bad.
It means they’re HUMAN.
OPINION is really the lowest form of human knowledge.
It requires no accountability, no understanding.
The highest form of knowledge is EMPATHY, for it requires us to suspend our egos and live in another’s world.
It requires profound purpose larger than the self kind of understanding.
-Bill Bullard.
It’s so easy to beat ourselves up for mistakes we’ve made in the past.
Mistakes are part of being human and they are part of being alive.
Our mistakes are blessings and opportunities to keep learning and expanding.
But even when you learn from your mistakes, don’t expect to never make another.
You will and that’s okay.
Keep growing and embrace each challenge as a chance to learn something new and you will be amazed by how easy it is to move on.
Mistakes are nothing more than opportunities to learn, grow, and better our future.
Tap OUT..✌️
Just because people are being bad to you, doesn’t mean you should sacrifice the same energy to them.
Don’t go through that kind of effort.
The best thing you can do is to completely ignore them and focus on what makes you better.
It’s hard, but know that you deserve only good and positive vibes.
You were not born to embrace and express negativity.
Maybe the people around you might have brought that side out of you, but naturally you’re nothing like those people. You’re way better.
Stopping yourself from doing what’s wrong is not the same as choosing what’s right and doing it.
Don’t stand on the verge of being good.
Be as good as you can be. If you can give, give.
If you can help, help.
If you can make someone’s day by a simple act of kindness, make it.
Set the bar of success for yourself as high as the best that you can be, not as low as avoiding the worst that you can be. Big difference. (Not my words.)
Goodness is a choice.
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A lot of people are skeptical about giving a homeless person money.
One thing you can do is buy a homeless person a meal or a bottle of water so at least you know they will get something nutritious to eat or drink.
Last week i saw a homeless man and remembered that I had a protein bar & a pack of biscuits in my backpack.
I went up to him and said, “I don’t want to offend you, but if you’re hungry, I’d love to give this to you.”
He reacted like he had won the lottery.
I couldn’t believe how something so simple could make him so happy.
Go out of your way to help a homeless person, or someone else in need, today.
We lead a busy life without giving enough space to humility & humbleness in our hearts.
Humility is not thinking less of yourself.
It’s thinking of yourself less.
-C. S. LEWIS.
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Every difficult situation I’ve experienced has ultimately changed me for the better.
I’ve grown stronger as a human being and I have been able to advocate for others who are still struggling to be heard.
I can’t tell you what a privilege and honor it is for me to use my own pain to help people find strength and hopefully prevent unneeded suffering for many others.
These positive rays of light were only able to come through the darkness because I allowed them to,
because I was open to them,
and because I didn’t dwell on my past or my pain.
I simply honored it.
Find something positive about a struggle you’re facing and share it with someone who’s struggling.
They’ll know something better is coming to them too.
There is always an opportunity to turn a negative situation into a positive one as long as you are open to the possibility. (Not my words.)
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The fact that you’re struggling doesn’t make you a burden.
It doesn’t make you unloveable or undesirable or undeserving of care.
It doesn’t make you too much or too sensitive or too needy.
It makes you human.
Everyone struggles.
Everyone has a difficult time coping, and at times, we all fall apart.
During these times, we aren’t always easy to be around and that’s okay.
No one is easy to be around one hundred percent of the time.
Yes, you may sometimes be unpleasant or difficult.
And yes, you may sometimes do or say things that make the people around you feel helpless or sad.
But those things aren’t all of who you are and they certainly don’t discount your worth as a human being.
The truth is that you can be struggling and still be loved.
You can be difficult and still be cared for.
You can be less than perfect, and still be deserving of compassion and kindness.
Be you. (Not my words.)
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Let me tell you something funny today.
Now a days we all hear once in a while someone random comes online in YouTube or any other social media & says, “You don’t need a school/college/university degree to be successful in life”.
Even Elon Musk once said “You can learn almost anything from internet for free”.
My question is; “As a human & society as whole, do we value free things?”.
I totally agree you can learn any skill for free if you have a strong willpower.
But that doesn’t take away the fact that a good school/college/university education is important.
Rich people don’t want competition. It’s beneficial for them if a major chunk of population stays under qualified, cheap labour you know.
Let me bust all these crap today.
Roughly 7.9 billion human population in our world & 92% adults don’t have a college/university degree.
And the rest 8% people who have a college/university degree own 74% of entire world’s wealth.
So don’t take advice from people who haven’t walked that path.
In most cases what happens; even getting into a good university or any ivy league school is a big deal here, that says your mind is ready for the big game.
Education is necessary.
Qualification is important.
Skills you learned will take you places.
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In a generation of people who want to be heartless, and empty of feelings, then call it SAVAGE, it’ll be hard to be someone who is what a HUMAN should be.
Do not become like the world.
Be loyal,
be truthful,
be consistent,
be emotional,
and be full of feelings.
Be hungry for love,
be thirsty for affection,
and anything else human beings ought to desire.
With time moving up, you will experience people who match your energy, enthusiasm & optimism.
Let others be foolish and cold.
Don’t dim your light to become as dark as they are.
(This Instagram post got nothing to do with the post above. My love for G-Shock watches goes back to A-level/high school days. Not a secret i am a huge sneakerhead, but i love watches too. YES I have some 46 watches right now, 7 are Casio G-shock watches. And when my bestie DEMI sees this at evening, she can guess what to gift me during thanksgiving dinner.)😜
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I’m in that chapter of my life where GOD is making me STRONGER, which makes me HAPPY.
(This video got nothing to do with the post above. But it’s my blog & it’s my opinion, i have to share what comes from my head or heart. The outcome with religious conversions is always something like this. Today i will not say “how a so-called religion of peace is becoming a major source of radicalism”, that topic some other day. RELIGION in general should teach you a way of living life peacefully, first it must make you a better HUMAN.)
FIVE GENTLE REMINDERS:
1. The kindest people aren’t born that way, they are made. They are the souls that have experienced so much at the hands of life, they are the ones who have dug themselves out of the dark, who have fought to turn every loss into a lesson. The KINDEST people do not just exist, they choose to soften where circumstance has tried to harden them, they choose to believe in goodness, because they have seen firsthand why COMPASSION is so necessary. They have seen firsthand why TENDERNESS is so important in this world.
2. Surround yourself with people who are doing the work to HEAL themselves. Surround yourself with those who want to talk to you about IDEAS rather than other human beings. Surround yourself with people who LOVE and RESPECT themselves, people who are GENTLE and KIND and who ENCOURAGE CONNECTION. Surround yourself with people who genuinely show up in your life, people who don’t just want attention, or praise, or validation from you. Surround yourself with those who want to GROW with you. These people will change your life.
3. Being understood fosters a different kind of INTIMACY that is untouchable. The rarest, most profound kind of connection you are going to experience will not be with the person who instantly gratifies you, but rather, with the kind of human being who sees you clearly. Ask yourself who makes you feel the most you? Who sees you in ways you don’t see yourself? Who pours calm and ease into the heart of you? Those people who came to mind are rare and beautiful gifts. Never take them for granted.
4. Do not just be THANKFUL for the things you deem positive in life. Be thankful for the EMOTIONS you also deem negative, because it is within the darkness that we grow to APPRECIATE the light. The hardest things in life are building you, and reminding you of your capacity to overcome. At the end of the day, nothing you have experienced thus far has defeated you. There is POWER in reminding yourself of that. You are capable of braving the storms, that is what they are there to teach you.
5. Please don’t ever forget that so many human beings you come into contact with are all trying to heal themselves from the things they often do not discuss. Always choose to be KIND. Always choose GRACE.
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Writing is perhaps the greatest of human inventions,
binding together people who never knew each other,
citizens of distant epochs.
Books break the shackles of time.
A book is proof that humans are capable of magic.
-Carl Sagan.
Your life is your own.
I want you to read that sentence until it sinks all the way down inside your gut and meets every last impulse that tells you to put your intuition on pause,
to place yourself second,
to squeeze and bend and break into the molds of what everyone else wants you to be.
Your life is your own.
I want it to pass through your head so many times it slowly clears out the debris of your fear.
I want you to meditate on it until you realize that you are not too strange,
you just have the courage to be your true self,
you are not too different,
you just have the courage to follow your own heart,
you are not unworthy,
you are just honest about the very natural human experience of feeling unworthiness.
Every person alive wishes to embody these very same forms of freedom.
They are not judging you,
they are expressing the parts of themselves they’ve judged into silence.
Your life is your own, and it always will be.
You must find the courage to claim it, or it will pass by you untouched, a glimmering, lost potential of all that could have been. (Not my words).
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Despite what you may believe,
you can disappoint people and still be good enough.
You can make mistakes and still be capable and talented.
You can let people down and still be worthwhile and deserving of love.
Everyone has disappointed someone they care about.
Everyone messes up,
lets people down,
and makes mistakes.
Not because we’re inadequate or fundamentally inept,
but because we’re imperfect and fundamentally HUMAN.
Expecting anything different is setting yourself up for failure.
Also remember; committing the same mistake twice is not the sign of a healthy mind.
Keep that in mind & keep moving forward. (Not my words).
(This video got nothing to do with the post above. Stopping a mother from dropping her kid to school is the worst kinda crap you can slap on someone in the name of protecting environment. Sometimes people go bit too far with these environmental protection related protests. You aren’t allowed to deteriorate normal people’s life. Insulate Britain, protest in front of government officials or government offices where words can reach the right place.)
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Nothing is more important than empathy for another human being’s suffering.
Not a career.
Not wealth.
Not intelligence.
Certainly not status.
We have to feel for one another if we’re going to survive with dignity.
– Audrey Hepburn.
What kills a HUMAN soul?
Exhaustion, secrecy, inconsistency & fake fuckery.
And what brings a soul back from dead to a beautiful lively realm called LIFE?
Honest connection, consistent communication, grace & gratitude.
Keep the honest moments close to your heart.
The ones that are the most human.
When you laugh until your ribs ache with your friends,
when you feel stars exploding inside of you from falling in love,
when life breaks you open and those tears of transformation pour like a river from your soul.
Life is really quite simple.
We get to experience this planet for a brief while.
We get to learn how to love ourselves and one another for the strange, messy, and magical creatures we are.
What a gift it is to have a human life.
If you look a little closer, there is always something to be grateful for.
True gratitude isn’t ignoring the darkness.
It’s participating with your whole heart in whatever moment life brings.
It’s leaning into the unfolding process and having the courage to not need all of the answers.
LIVE for the MOMENTS you can’t PUT into WORDS. (Not my words).
(This paragraph got nothing to do with the post above. Whoever thinks something brewing between TAP & DEMI after seeing my snapchat stories, i am SORRY to disappoint you once again. Actually I was trying to teach her horseriding, but later i had to calm down the horse because DEMI scared him. She scared a canadian warmblood within 5 minutes. And i am afraid of her since the fall of Holy Polish empire. We are bestfriends, that’s all. SORRY MY ROYAL BITCH, YOU KNOW I HATE YOU.😋😘)
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We humans are weird creatures and this world is materialistic.
Winning someone’s heart is not enough, you have to put lots of energy to win their mind & body as well.
(This video got nothing to do with the post above. See this video to understand the benefits of ginger lemon water. If you talk to me as a friend or family, i think i might have suggested you this one little over 100 times.)
In a world that seeks connection,
we oddly avoid eye contact,
we time our text responses in order to protect ourselves from seeming too eager or too interested,
and
we hold our feelings back because we don’t want to seem overly emotional or unreasonable.
We silence our instincts,
and
at the end of the day instead of feeling good about ourselves,
we feel alone,
we feel misunderstood.
Remember,
it is okay to be emotional,
to seek help,
to confidently tell someone you enjoy being around that you are infatuated with them.
There is nothing wrong with vulnerability,
with being human,
for that is what creates depth within our relationships,
and
that is what ultimately unifies us.
If your feelings & emotions bring joy, show them.
Living a happy life means, do what you wish to do right now.
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I have outgrown many things.
I have outgrown relatives who gladly offer criticism but not support.
I have outgrown my need to meet my family’s unrealistic expectations of me.
I have outgrown people who wear masks and secretly rejoice at my misfortunes. (Not the corona situation face mask).
I have outgrown shrinking myself for those who are intimidated by my intelligence and outspoken nature.
I have outgrown friends who cannot celebrate my accomplishments.
I have outgrown people who conveniently disappear whenever life gets a little dark.
I have outgrown those who take pleasure in gossiping and spreading negativity.
I have outgrown dull, meaningless conversations that feel forced. I hate smalltalk.
I have outgrown those who don’t take a stand against ignorance and injustice.
I have outgrown trying to please everyone.
I have outgrown society constantly telling me I’m not beautiful, smart or worthy enough.
I have outgrown my tendency to fill my mind with self doubt and insecurity.
I have outgrown trying to find reasons not to love myself.
I have outgrown anything and anyone that does not enrich the essence of my soul.
I have outgrown many things.
And I’ve never felt freer.
(Not my words).
The goal is to become an upgraded version of my real self & a better HUMAN BEING every next day of this life. And i am connected to everyone who’s a part of that journey. If we have a steady flow of communication, you are celebrated in my books.
There’s no WONDER without some WONDERFUL people in life.
SOMETIMES LIFE SEEMS UNCOMFORTABLE BECAUSE YOUR OLD LIFE DOESN’T FIT ON YOU ANYMORE.
YOU’VE OUTGROWN THE OLD YOU.
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TIME decides who you meet in life,
your heart decides who you want in your life,
and your behavior decides who stays in your life.
Religion is good, but organized religion is a scam.
GOD created humans to be independent, creative, unique and beautiful with own mind & heart, so that we can choose between what’s right & what’s wrong!!
If your religion dictates how to pray, how to live, what to eat, when to eat, what to wear, what to think, then i am sorry to inform you that your God has already started cancelling you.
Don’t compare your actual self to a hypothetical self.
Don’t drown in a sea of ‘what if’s.
Don’t clutter your mind by imagining other versions of you in parallel universes, where you made different decisions.
The internet age encourages choice and comparison, but don’t do this to yourself.
‘Comparison is the thief of joy’.
You are you. The past is the past. The only way to make a better life is from inside the present. To focus on regret does nothing but turn that very present into another thing you will wish you did differently. Accept your own reality. Be human enough to make mistakes. Be human enough not to dread the future. Be human enough to be, well enough. Be honest while appreciating or asking forgiveness. Accepting where you are in life makes it so much easier to be happy for other people without feeling terrible about yourself. (Not my words)
That’s your answer to “HOW TO BE HAPPY!!”. Being happy is easy & simple. Life is fun, let it be.
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Whatever happening in Israel/Gaza/Palestine, it’s another British colonialism era blunder which was left to blast almost 100 years back. Let’s not go with the political side of it, i am highly unqualified to comment on that.
In short, it’s a situation which could have been avoided & it should be avoided. When it’s a fight between a right wing/left wing/liberal or radical group against a sovereign state, the winner must be the sovereign state. That’s how we can move move stronger closer together towards a democratic human society. Whenever you are left to choose between ideas & ideology, choose ideas because there’s space to think & grow.
Israel is a sovereign democratic country & it must protect its territory and interest irrespective of who says what, international support or few foreign media dishing out. I know few people will question my opinion & few will straight point it towards Islamophobia. Sorry to say I DON’T EVEN UNDERSTAND TOO MUCH ABOUT MY OWN RELIGION, so i am not the right person to like or dislike any other’s religion or faith. Let’s say, I CAN’T CONNECT WITH THE IDEA OF DIFFERENT RELIGIONS HAVING DIFFERENT GODS. If there’s a GOD, there’s only one who’s looking forward to see some better HUMANS on this planet. If you believe your GOD is true, he doesn’t need you to protect him, he is way bigger stronger powerful compared to your love or any other person’s hate. Follow his words & work towards becoming a better Human with time instead of nurturing/supporting any radical ideology. Seeing people suffer hurts whether it’s Gaza or the Corona virus situation in India. Hope to see a better tomorrow & leave a better open friendly world for next generation.
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THE DON’T DO LIST:
Don’t let this world make you bitter. Don’t let the actions of other people turn you cold inside. Certain things happen that hurt us, people come that leave us, and most of all there are moments when you’re bound to fall. Don’t let those things make you unkind human. It’s okay to cry. It’s okay to be sad. But it’s never okay to do other people wrong just because you were done wrong.
We are HUMANS. We break. We make mistakes. But don’t let pain and sadness run your lives. Wake up in the morning and do what you think is right. There are moments in your life where you feel like giving up and you can’t take it anymore. It’s okay. Breathe. Inhale. Exhale. I know you’re weak. But the things that show your weak side are also the same ones that make you stronger in the long run. It’s all about taking whatever life throws at you and learning from it.
(Not my words).
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Comparing yourself to others is a toxic human trait which does nothing but resulting in poor self-confidence. Perfection is an impossible idea and while it’s easy to say that “it’s okay to make mistakes” and “nobody’s perfect”. Sometimes it’s harder to apply those ideas to yourself. When you compare yourself to others, you’re doing everyone an injustice. If you focus on what makes you unique like your skills and potential only in comparison to other people, there will always be someone who outdoes you and you’ll always end up feeling bad.
Instead concentrate on where you are in your path of growth everyone learns different things at different paces at different times in their lives. Where you’re at is just as valid as where everyone else is.
Tap OUT..🤗
Right information is the real knowledge. The nature of a knowledgeable person is; he/she never tries to educate a fool.
Lying may be more common than you think. One study found that 40% of adults lie at least once in a day, usually in small ways. And even though some people lie more or less than others, a lie is a lie. So how do you navigate a world full of liars when you value honesty and integrity. Here are two major traits of genuinely honest people so you can decide whether you or someone in your life is truly a honest person:
1. They have a calm yet strong speaking voice. One of the easiest telltale signs of lying is an aggressive voice when you catch someone in a lie, they’ll often raise their voice in defense as a way to establish power. Honest people rarely become defensive when they’re asked questions, even if those questions seem accusatory in nature. When an honest person replies, their tone of voice is calm and consistent since there is no possible way they’ll be found out. They have nothing to worry about. There is no reason to lie or make up a story. There’s nothing to hide.
2. Honest people come across as rude sometimes. They are less concerned with catering to your feelings. They would rather tell you a truth that hurts then let you believe a lie that makes you feel good about yourself. They aren’t afraid to tell the truth, even if it means they’ll come across as rude or harsh. Because of this fact you might think an honest person is mean sometimes. If you’re not ready for the raw unadulterated truth, then don’t ask an honest person. They’re Not going to sugarcoat a situation or pretend that everything is OK. When it isn’t OK, they’ll present the facts and give their personal opinions even if it’s not what you want to hear. If you’ve ever received tough information from an honest person know that their intent is not malice, It’s HONESTY.
Tap OUT..🤗
In this post i am talking about action of collective efforts to create a collective effect in all aspects. It’s true that you will eventually reap what you sow, but we should also realise that our individual decisions & actions become our eventual contribution to society. All of our intention & action create massive energy that creates major effects for all. This energy is eventually transmitted into our society and the world at large. So make sure your action creates value & inspiration to others. Make concious effort to be good to people. Pursue your goals and passion step by step. Lead by example.
Whether you believe in Karma or not, I usually talk about fundamental principles of life which can help you be a better human. I hope your parents, friends, society and even your God expects that from you. To live a life of impact you genuinely desire mastering your skills and knowledge about gratitude, effort, action, selflessness & happiness. They all combined will help you reach a life of fulfillment. The best reward is the one that contributes to the whole.
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Most people are so random that you can literally term them “dumb” or “stupid” with almost everything. It’s nothing but an unenthusiastic lazy mindset which functions without motive. They are unaware of what to expect from themselves. Fix your motive before you act, not just act but even before you speak. Humans are that kinda crazy who catch the smallest possible negative & present it as a ginormous pile of rubbish. When you notice a problem in yourself, work towards removing it.
You must have heard or seen this before “Actions must match words”, that’s true. Be cautious about it. But even before that’s sorted, never forget to sort your motive because it takes a lot of time to figure out where you are heading with your motive towards what you desire. Every action must be prompted by a motive. (Not my words).
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I receive ton of thirsty texts, calls, dms, snaps every single day. Not proud of it because i am not proud of the body count streak i was into for a long long time. When i say “now my bank account is my boo”, i really really mean my words. People chase you thinking they might get a chance to experience the same exciting life that you live, that’s all. I am not against it. Basically that’s how we humans usually approach relationships & materials. We always desire something that’s beyond our reach/budget.
In relationships that same thing causes toxicity, any kind of relationships i mean, friends, family or romantic equations as well. Choose people with whom you can vibe & stick together for a long long time without getting bored of all generic unenthusiastic human traits. Chasing someone is not worth it, it drains energy resulting nothing. Choose those who choose you.
Tap OUT..😘
Being a HUMAN we are blessed with enormous amount of skills & talents. We explore few more than the rest, but still we all are capable of achieving something amazing. Keep asking yourself “What’s your accomplishments & what should have been your accomplishments!?!” If answers to both are different, you still got a lot to do & move that ass towards your work till you serve your purpose.
Measure yourself by what you should have accomplished with your abilities.
Tap OUT..💪
My posts are scheduled a month advance, this song got nothing to do with it. It’s just that I am a creature who wakes up to different songs buzzing in head looking at my mood. Shared it because TAP is dancing to it while baking chicken drumsticks & coconut cream egg pudding, caesar salad, mushroom soup for dinner.😝🤣
Be humble & cultivate humility towards every HUMAN you come in touch with.
(The only suggestion I will give myself if I could have met myself 10 years back.)
DO NEW MISTAKES. That makes us more HUMAN. Mistakes are not wrong, not learning the lesson from it is WRONG.
Be Human. Do different mistakes.😜
It took me plenty of courage & strong will-power to become a human from a disastrous monster on the run. I know, I am True to myself & everyone else. I dreamed a life without lies, all who fit there are onboard already.
Tap OUT..💪
Yes I fail sometimes. Failure is so human in nature. I am talking in terms of business/money perspective. But I never put good money/experience on bad money/experience once again.
Your ego, lying, cheating, manipulation, deceit, tampering, hiding, sidelining & sexual addiction all are DEVIL in a relationship which is there inside you.
Being a human, you have enough knowledge to understand & separate what’s right or what’s wrong!! People who bullshit always get confused between apology or appreciation. Don’t break something that you can’t fix. Don’t do something wrong if you don’t know how to ask forgiveness.
Tap OUT..👍
We all fail once or twice. We lie, we behave deceptive, we hide, we regret. Remember once or twice.
I have been through this as well. Now the best part about me is my TRUTH. The power in my voice is my determination. That TRUTH gives me enough courage to thrash anything/anyone that’s not meeting my standards. Doesn’t matter how good or bad it is, I don’t LIE. I am not a good person, still evolving as a Human. Striving to be a better stronger me.
Tap OUT.. Blessed..🤗
1: If a guy is standing next to a girl legs apart & hands flimsy, then that guy has close to zero intentions in pursuing the girl for a long-term commitment. It’s just some physical attraction.
2: At/before the age of 16, 80% of all people have already met or at least crossed path eye-to-eye with the person they will marry.
3: The inability to fall asleep at night means, chances you are awake in someone’s dream/thoughts.
4: When you tell your entire plan and goals to someone, your motivation goes low & chances to success narrows down. Be little secretive.
5: If you will try to make everyone happy, you will end up being lonely. Learn to let go the takers.
6: There are some instances of life which makes you understand you are wrong, actually you are more horrible than that. Please don’t fool your own brain.
7: Human brain spends most of it’s time replaying memories which aren’t gonna last, till you assure yourself you are 100% true individual.
8: If you are missing someone and can’t express it to them, you will end up physically sick too soon.
9: It only takes one negative thought to spoil & self sabotage your entire week.
10: Intelligent people are more likely to remain faithful and loyal in a relationship.
11: When you do anything bad to someone, it takes around 14 years to forget and forgive yourself.
12: Your favourite song is your favourite, because you associate a person or place to it.
13: Creative people always suffer from anxiety.
14: When you start lying to cover a lie, your self-esteem starts degrading and you start doubting over your each/every action.
15: The best person in your life is the one who comes to your mind first as you read this. Now please don’t read it again or think again.
Wanna know the only two things I hate on earth; Lie & Liars.
I respect everything & everyone that God created. Doesn’t matter you are a murderer or a thief; In case you have the guts to admit your truth, you deserve the same respect as I do being a HUMAN.
But liars, the worst part is they even imagine about faking a bullshit & believe they fooled someone with that. They forget it’s their mind which is already signalling them it’s a lie & they are already downgraded as a human in their own eyes. They lied themselves, not the other side.
Being a legit human what should be your step towards avoiding these insects; Put a bigger price tag on your emotions, legitimacy & real pride. So when such liars come with their 2 penny lies, they must understand how expensive it is to afford your truth.
Tap the TRUTH.. 😘
The world is actually running out of certain things like water & chocolate, tequila. My request+message to everyone of you; please stop wasting water in your day to day life.
Consume chocolate & tequila as much as you want before others finish it. 😂
Read the entire article here: https://m.indiatimes.com/culture/11-unexpected-things-the-world-took-for-granted-and-is-now-running-out-of-341476.html
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