True me.. Tap-1079..

Three major lessons you must learn for an easy smooth sailing life;

1. Sometimes bad things happen to good people and sometimes you might think you know someone, you might think they’re on your side but deep down inside they’re not.
Pay attention.
Actions speak louder than words, inconsistent words mean nothing and such words are just another way to cover up the truth with lies.

2. Almost everything we go through we can’t control.
That means, if it’s yours, then somewhere down the line it’ll return to you.
And if it’s not, then you have to make peace with it and move on.
It’s as simple as that.

3. Letting go is never an easy thing to do, no matter how many times you’ve rehearsed it, no matter how many times you’ve played it in your head, it never goes as planned and almost always does it sting a little harder than you thought.
(Not my words.)

Tap OUT..✌️

True me.. Tap-1040..

Throughout the years I have learned three major things:

1. Sometimes bad things happen to good people and sometimes you might think you know someone, you might think they’re on your side but deep down inside they’re not.
Pay attention. Inconsistent people use WORDS to cover up the truth with lies.

2. Almost everything we go through we can’t control.
That means, if it’s yours, then somewhere down the line it’ll return to you and if it’s not, then you have to make peace with it and move on.
It’s as simple as that.

3. Letting go is never an easy thing to do.
No matter how many times you’ve rehearsed it.
No matter how many times you’ve played it in your head.
It never goes as planned and almost always does it sting a little harder than you thought.
(Not my words.)

Tap OUT..✌️

True me.. Tap-986..

Always be the best person you can be.
Be kind even when you’re tired.
Be understanding even when you’re angry.
Do more than you’re asked, and don’t ask for anything in return.
Don’t silently expect anything either.
Listen when someone talks, and really listen too, stop just thinking of how you’ll reply.
Tell people that you love them and that you appreciate them.
Go out of your way to do things for people.
Be the greatest person you can possibly be and when you mess up, make up for it in the next moment or minute or day.

One thing you should never do?
Never spend your time trying to prove to anybody that you’re great, your actions will speak for themselves and we only have limited time on this earth, don’t waste it.

If someone doesn’t see your light, don’t worry.
Like moths, good people are attracted to flame and to light, and they will come.

Tap OUT..✌️

Sunday story time.. 06.

Everyone wants to know how i tolerate my bestfriend DEMI since past 700 years of our friendship because her attitude is bit aggressive?

Let me answer & YES, it’s a long answer:
We were attending Lory’s birthday party near Cardiff bay. Party was over & some Justin Bieber song started playing. DEMI walked towards me & said; “Rudey, my pussy is drying up because of this shit song. Let’s leave & let’s drive to Tenby. We will talk about everything after reaching the beach.”

We both laughed & i still remember those exact words. And Yes, DEMI still calls me RUDEY because of my rude/angry/grumpy face.
We went through a bad fight before 5 months of that birthday party & i stopped talking to Demi. I decided i must allow her some time to think & respond logically instead of continuing that fight.
Only few friends know Tenby is my favourite coastal town in Britain & i prefer afternoon swimming when i think about relaxing.
DEMI made the right choice with place & timing.
We went swimming & she broke the ice while chilling at beach. We had a long open vivid conversation about everything which went loose.
We were able to come back stronger.
Years gone & our equation keeps getting better with time.
No matter how much i deny, she is the sassiest angel i ever came across. Bestfriends for some good reasons, and i can’t appreciate more.

(DON’T ASK ABOUT THE PICTURE. OLD ONE & STOLEN FROM MY SNAPCHAT.)

27-Feb is the date we had a bad fight & we both stopped communication for 5 months. We both still talk about the stupid reason behind it & what we missed in those 5 months. We laugh at each other’s silent treatment. We tease each other about why that was just unnecessary.

We humans always take goodness for granted & our ego stops us from accepting our flaws.
We miss opportunities.
We disrespect good people.
Sometimes we hurt others without even knowing.
We make blunders easily.

But there are very few who accept & cross that path to acknowledge own mess.
Who says it’s easy!!
Very few are ready to talk about what’s wrong in them & why they are ready to change for better instead of farting from mouth “THAT’S HOW I AM”.
I admire those who strive to be a better human.
It’s easy to go vulnerable towards such people who come with clean intentions.
Every equation can be easy, soothing, happening & loving.
JUST CHOOSE THOSE WHO CHOOSE YOU.

Tap OUT..😘

True me.. Tap-953..

You can rise up from anything.
You can completely recreate yourself.
Nothing is permanent.
You’re not stuck.
You have choices.
You can think new thoughts.
You can learn something new.
You can create new habits.
Your consistent approach decides your fate.
All that matters is that you decide today and never look back.
SUCCESS is nothing but a DECISION to stay away from indecisiveness & inconsistency.

Godspeed lioness.
Copying some steps from my rulebook is an easy step. Even i learnt from best of the best in June-2019 while building my athleisure clothing brand. I thought this girl is a noob, she will need another year to understand business & brand positioning. But you surprised me once again.
Going exclusive to ASOS with a new clothing brand is a big deal. My people’s success contributes to a major chunk of my happiness.
Keep slaying. You know it’s all about love & respect.

Tap OUT..🤗

Tru2Day950

Vibe with people who got a beautiful heart.
Not necessarily a beautiful face.
Beautiful people are not always good.
But good people are always beautiful.

Tru2Day907

If someone is disrespecting or mistreating you,
there is something wrong with them, not you.

Good people don’t intend to hurt others.
Good people & good intentions go hand in hand.

True me.. Tap-785..

Throughout the years I have learned three major things;

1. Sometimes bad things happen to good people and sometimes you might think you know someone, you might think they’re on your side but deep down inside they’re not. Pay attention. True intentions take you towards right action. Actions speak louder than words. And wrong people use words to cover up truth with lies.

2. Almost everything we go through we can’t control. That means, if it’s yours, then somewhere down the line it’ll return to you and if it’s not, then you have to make peace with it and move on, It’s as simple as that.

3. Letting go is never an easy thing to do. No matter how many times you’ve rehearsed it, no matter how many times you’ve played it in your head, it never goes as planned and almost always does it sting a little harder than you thought.

(Not my words).

AT THE END OF THE DAY IT’S NOT ABOUT WHAT YOU HAVE OR EVEN WHAT YOU’VE ACCOMPLISHED.
IT’S ABOUT WHO YOU’VE LIFTED UP, WHO YOU’VE MADE BETTER.
IT’S ABOUT WHAT YOU’VE GIVEN BACK.

Tap OUT..✌️

True me.. Tap-716..

There are more good people in this world than bad. You may not think so, but it’s true. The bad ones make a lot of noise and cause a lot of trouble, so they’re the ones we see on the news and portrayed in books and films, but your average human being is a good human being. And that’s a fact.

Although it’s always important to be careful in life, from whom to trust to what time you walk home on your own, it’s also important to remember this. Sure, the guy who saves you from drowning might be planning to shave your hair off and sell it as a wig but, more likely than not, he’s simply trying to save your life. If most people were bad, nothing would ever get done. There would be no such thing as society.
So be alert, yes. Be sensible, yes. But try not to be afraid. If you’re afraid, you’re letting the bad guys win.
(Not my words).

Tap OUT..👍

Tru2Day816

Good people do not need laws to tell them to act responsibly, while bad people will find a way around the laws.

-Plato.

(This video got nothing to do with the post above. Watch it for some lighthearted fun.)