You can be vulnerable and still be powerful. You can have a gentle heart, but still be rock solid at your core. You can be calm as a breeze, but as fierce as a tiger. The best people embody both sides.
Be gentle on your loved ones who lack the strength to leave toxic situations. What looks easy from the outside, may be a war they fight internally. What feels like danger to you, could be a comfort zone for their insecurities. What you think requires action, may require PATIENCE.
Each and every one of us has their cracks and their flaws. We never had the intention of going out and becoming flawed, but that’s what happens in life. We make mistakes and we learn from them. That’s what makes us who we are.
I myself am made of flaws stitched together with good intentions. -AUGUSTEN BURROUGHS.
Find someone who loves you well. Someone who never belittles you even in the heat of an argument. Someone who is gentle with you, but does not treat you like you are fragile. Someone who knows what you are capable of, and celebrates those pieces of you. Not someone who is intimidated by your strength. Someone who doesn’t make you feel guilty for being flawed. It is not love’s job to punish you. And remember the person you love is just as broken as you are when they fall short. No one is perfect do not hold them to this standard.
Find someone who is patient, consistent, forgiving, and apologetic. Someone who practices forgiveness freely and often. Love someone who is humble, kind, and empathetic. Not only with you, but with a beggar on the street, or a stranger in the supermarket. Common courtesy is important. Compassion is important. Kindness is important.
Now that i mentioned something about relationships twice in a day, my university friends will again start questioning whether i am seeing someone! Let me answer even before that question pops up. Most of my posts are scheduled a month advance. Typing these two paragraphs today right before the post goes live.
I entertained something inconsistent for a while. Whatever happened, I am not strong enough to blame or hate anyone. Let’s say, that was my fault. I am in the process of becoming single. In Snapchat, if you see my hands resting on some girl’s fine 🍑, high chances it’s either my bestie DEMI or my neighbour girl. Yes, i have a ting towards athletic girls.♌ But I don’t have a TYPE whom i want to date. First i have to be ready, next the connection must vibe positivity & remain consistent, that’s all. The most beautiful part about a girl where my heart goes little weak; when i feel she is grabbing my arms little stronger looking into my eyes with a wide big bright smile, while crossing baby/kid’s clothing section in shopping malls. Everyone knows i adore kids, they are angelic to me. 2023 goal is to become the best A+ dad world has ever seen, and i will settle to be a good B+ boyfriend/husband i guess.😂
Life in short:
Set goals. Smash it. Make money, make more of it. Shop. Travel. Eat. Save. Invest. Buy a house. Woo an angel/bitch as good/bad as you, fall in love till emotions lurk both, ram her each moment till your name echos back to your ear, try to be little gentle at some point & make that house a home together.