Nobody is asking you to be perfect.
It’s enough to just do the best you can do today with what you have inside you right now.
Oftentimes, we put too much pressure on ourselves to please other people.
Whatever you feel when you wake up is good enough; just start with that and make the most of today.
Start where you are.
Use what you have.
Do what you can.
Tap..✌️
When thinking about life, remember this:
no amount of guilt can change the past,
and
no amount of anxiety can change the future.
You know you sometimes think yourself into unhappiness and depression.
But did you know, you could also think yourself into happiness?
By positive thinking, you will be well, you will prosper, you will get in touch with what you want & what you meant to be.
Become the master of your thoughts.
Stop thinking about how tough life is.
Stop thinking about the future and the past.
Think of positivity and love, and express these thoughts daily.
You will become what you think. (Not my words.)
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When thinking about life, remember this:
No amount of guilt can change the past.
And,
No amount of anxiety can change the future.
(Not my words.)
Your life is right now, it’s not later.
It’s not in that time of retirement,
it’s not when the lover gets here,
it’s not when you’ve moved into the new house,
it’s not when you get the better job.
Your life is right now.
It will always be right now.
– Esther Hicks.
Accept that living in the present moment, with your present desires, is the best, the highest thing you can do.
-DEEPAK CHOPRA.
All we can do is take things one day, one moment, at a time.
To get too caught up in where we’ve been or where we’re going, only takes you off your path.
The present is all we have.
So in order to honor your existence here on this planet, it’s important to root yourself firmly to the moment you are in.
Pull your mind from the past and future.
Live in the now.
Tap OUT..✌️
You know you sometimes think yourself into unhappiness and depression.
But did you know, you could also think yourself into happiness?
By positive thinking, you will be well, you will prosper, and your prayers will be answered.
Become the master of your thoughts.
Stop thinking about how tough life is.
Stop thinking about the future and the past.
Think of your good deeds and love.
And express these thoughts daily.
You will become what you think.
Tap OUT..✌️
It’s so easy to beat ourselves up for mistakes we’ve made in the past.
Mistakes are part of being human and they are part of being alive.
Our mistakes are blessings and opportunities to keep learning and expanding.
But even when you learn from your mistakes, don’t expect to never make another.
You will and that’s okay.
Keep growing and embrace each challenge as a chance to learn something new and you will be amazed by how easy it is to move on.
Mistakes are nothing more than opportunities to learn, grow, and better our future.
Tap OUT..✌️
It never ceases to amaze me how time moves so quickly through our lives.
The older I get, I find that it just goes faster and faster.
When you are a kid, each day seems like it could last forever.
It makes me realize that we have to savor each moment, however big or small, and every person that comes into our lives.
Don’t let the day pass you by.
Do something meaningful for yourself or someone else.
The past is a ghost, the future a dream and all we have is now.
Tap OUT..✌️
When thinking about life, remember this:
No amount of guilt can change the past,
&
No amount of anxiety can change the future.
It never ceases to amaze me how time moves so quickly through our lives.
The older I get, I find that it just goes faster and faster.
When you are a kid, each day seems like it could last forever.
It makes me realize that we have to savor each moment, however big or small, and every person that comes into our lives.
Don’t let the day pass you by-do something meaningful for yourself or someone else.
The past is a ghost, the future is a dream and all we have is now.
Tap OUT..✌️
Don’t get stuck.
Move, travel, take a class, take a risk.
There is a season for wildness and a season for settledness, and this is neither.
This season is about becoming.
Choose to become something big.
Don’t lose yourself at happy hour, but don’t lose yourself on the top of success either.
Stop every once in a while and go out to coffee or climb in bed with your journal.
Now is your time.
Walk closely with people you love.
Don’t get stuck in the past, and don’t try to fast-forward yourself into a future you haven’t yet earned.
Give today all the love and intensity and courage you can, and keep travelling honestly along life’s path.
Tap OUT..✌️
There’s a difference between hanging on to the past and learning from it.
What’s done is done, and I realized it’s important not to dwell because I can’t change what’s already happened.
But at the same time I want to be mindful of the past and learn from my mistakes and my successes in life.
The future excites me too, but at the end of the day, all we have is this moment now and we must cherish and love it.
Make a conscious effort to live in the present today.
When you catch yourself obsessing over the past or worrying about the future just remember to be right now.
Learn from the past and share your experiences with others.
Cherish the present and look forward to the future.
Tap OUT..✌️
If we want to achieve great things, we must be intentional to focus on the right things, even when chaos arises.
If we are not intentional with our thought life, then our human nature will automatically focus on the problem rather than finding and creating solutions.
What you focus on multiplies.
So undoubtedly, when you focus on your problems for too long, they will begin to feel big and overwhelming.
When you allow your problems to be the loudest voice in the room, you lose sight of hope and possibility.
While it’s important to acknowledge the problems that exist, no good can evolve from focusing on your problems.
It will not change your situation, make things better, or shift the atmosphere and pave the way for a breakthrough.
Here’s the good thing: the problems you face, while they may be roadblocks, they cannot keep you from the future that was intended for you.
ONCE AGAIN; WHAT YOU FOCUS ON MULTIPLIES.
Tap OUT..✌️
DON’T COMPARE your actual self to a hypothetical self.
Don’t drown in a sea of ‘what if’s.
Don’t clutter your mind by imagining other versions of you, in parallel universes, where you made different decisions.
The internet age encourages choice and comparison, but don’t do this to yourself. Theodore Roosevelt said; Comparison is the thief of joy.
You are The you.
Past is the past.
The only way to make a better life is from inside the present.
To focus on regret does nothing but turn that very present into another thing you will wish you did differently.
Accept your own reality.
Be human enough to make mistakes.
Be human enough not to dread the future.
Be human enough to be, well, enough.
Accepting where you are in life makes it so much easier to be happy for other people without feeling terrible about yourself.
Tap OUT..✌️
Life is rarely ever predictable.
The truth is: we were never guaranteed that we would have the answers for everything or feel certainty in every situation.
That’s part of this journey’s adventure to get from where we are to where we want to be, we are required to trust, hope, and believe, and dare to blaze the trail even when the path in front of us looks near impossible.
The secret to life isn’t about knowing the future or having the perfect roadmap, but rather having faith for the future and the spirit of a pioneer.
IT’S OKAY NOT TO KNOW HOW THINGS ARE GOING TO TURN OUT.
Tap OUT..✌️
Take chances.
Strive to be the person who does things differently, because beautiful things are disappearing each day, and you cannot live your life according to the rules of those who have created a dying world.
You have to rewrite the rules.
You have to strive for more.
Just work to differentiate between the person you truly are, and the person the world has told you to be.
Figure out how you want to live your life on your own terms.
Figure out how to take up space within your own definition of what it means to live fully, and wholly, and in pursuit of the things that truly move you, inspire you, and add a rich happiness to your life.
Stand up for a future that is your own.
This is how revolutions were started.
This is how change occurs.
Tap OUT..✌️
13 Reminders:
1. The past is in the past, focus on the future.
2. Opinions do not define reality.
3. Everyone’s journey is different.
4. Time is the essence of healing.
5. Judgement is a confession of character.
6. Overthinking will lead to paralysis/sadness.
7. Happiness is an inside job, found within.
8. Positive thoughts, create positive actions.
9. Smiles are contagious.
10. Sprinkle kindness, it’s free.
11. You only fail if you quit/do not try.
12. What goes around, comes around.
13. The quicker you choose to move forward, the quicker the suffering ends.
Tap OUT..✌️
Every morning, we get a chance to be different.
A chance to change.
A chance to be better.
Your past is your past.
Leave it there.
Get on with the future part.
Life is rarely ever predictable.
The truth is: we were never guaranteed that we would have the answers for everything or feel certainty in every situation.
That’s part of this journey’s adventure to get from where we are to where we want to be, we are required to trust, hope, and believe, and dare to blaze the trail even when the path in front of us looks near impossible.
The secret to life isn’t about knowing the future or having the perfect roadmap, but rather having faith for the future and the spirit of a pioneer.
IT’S OKAY NOT TO KNOW HOW THINGS ARE GOING TO TURN OUT.
Tap OUT..✌️
If you’re feeling down, ask yourself “what’s wrong with this moment?”
Chances are that you’re upset about something that happened in the past or you’re anticipating something that might happen in the future.
But is there anything wrong with this exact moment?
Probably not.
So stop worrying.
And if there is something wrong with this exact moment, there’s only 3 things you can do to fix it:
REMOVE yourself from the situation,
CHANGE something,
or ACCEPT it.
(This video got nothing to do with the post above. I own a health supplement business in Bangalore, i know how making it big in India at current market scenario is way more easier & exciting compared to UK or USA. It’s an developing economy & emerging markets are always choice of investors. Yes INEQUALITY is an issue, but there’s way more beyond to that side of the story.)
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13 HEALTHY REMINDERS FOR A HAPPY YOU:
1. The past is in the past, focus on the future.
2. Opinions do not define reality.
3. Everyone’s journey is different.
4. Time is the essence of healing.
5. Judgement is a confession of character.
6. Overthinking will lead to paralysis/sadness.
7. Happiness is an inside job, found within.
8. Positive thoughts, create positive actions.
9. Smiles are contagious.
10. Sprinkle kindness, it’s free.
11. You only fail if you quit/do not try.
12. What goes around, comes around. Karma it is.
13. The quicker you choose to move forward, the quicker the suffering ends.
Tap OUT..✌️
Life is rarely ever predictable.
The truth is: we were never guaranteed that we would have the answers for everything or feel certainty in every situation.
That’s part of this journey’s adventure to get from where we are to where we want to be, we are required to trust, hope, and believe, and dare to blaze the trail even when the path in front of us looks near impossible.
The secret to life isn’t about knowing the future or having the perfect roadmap, but rather having faith for the future and the spirit of a pioneer.
IT’S OKAY NOT TO KNOW HOW THINGS ARE GOING TO TURN OUT.
Tap OUT..✌️
The real glow up isn’t proving the people from your past wrong.
It is finally feeling so content and hopeful about your future that you stop thinking about them entirely.
When you want to change your life in order for it to look different, and only that, you are still orbiting around the opinions of people who didn’t love you, and didn’t have any intention to.
A real glow up is authentic.
It is lifting off all the cover-up bullshit and addressing the real problems.
It is healing.
It is changing, for good.
It is, for the first time, prioritizing your heart over someone else’s eyes.
The real glow up is realizing that you have nobody to prove wrong but yourself. (Not my words.)
Tap OUT..✌️
DON’T COMPARE YOUR actual self to a hypothetical self.
Don’t drown in a sea of ‘what if’s.
Don’t clutter your mind by imagining other versions of you, in parallel universes, where you made different decisions.
The internet age encourages choice and comparison, but don’t do this to yourself.
Theodore Roosevelt said; “Comparison is the thief of joy”.
You are you.
The past is the past.
The only way to make a better life is from inside the present.
To focus on regret does nothing but turn that very present into another thing you will wish you did differently.
Accept your own reality.
Be human enough to make mistakes.
Be human enough not to dread the future.
Be human enough to be, well, enough.
Accepting where you are in life makes it so much easier to be happy for other people without feeling terrible about yourself.
BE YOU.
Tap OUT..✌️
It’s so easy to beat ourselves up for mistakes we’ve made in the past.
Mistakes are part of being human and they are part of being alive.
Our mistakes are blessings and opportunities to keep learning and expanding.
But even when you learn from your mistakes don’t expect to never make another.
You will and that’s okay.
Keep growing and embrace each challenge as a chance to learn something new and you will be amazed by how easy it is to move on.
Mistakes are nothing more than opportunities to learn, grow, and better our future.
Tap OUT..✌️
Past reconciliation doesn’t mean future consideration.
Forgive but never forget.
Live a life where there’s no need of second chances.
Every morning, we get a chance to be different.
A chance to change.
A chance to be better.
Your past is your past.
Leave it there.
Get on with the future part.
This is your life.
You have everything you need inside you to live the life you have always dreamed of.
Take all that you have learned and experienced and create your own reality.
The beautiful part about life is that if you don’t like where you are, there’s always a new moment and a new day to start again.
Make smart, educated decisions.
Encourage yourself to make the choices today for the future you want tomorrow.
You can steer yourself any direction you choose.
(Not my words.)
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How many times have we done something “wrong” and then regretted it later?
As long as we learn something from it, the experience is not wasted.
We aren’t perfect.
We are here to learn from our mistakes and imperfections, not beat ourselves up for them.
Think about how to alter your regrets into lessons for the future.
Nobody is perfect.
As long as we continue to strive to be better, our imperfections are part of our journey.
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Only those who will risk going too far can possibly find out how far one can go.
We learn by trying, by pushing the envelope fearlessly with conviction.
It’s better to try and fail than to imagine what would have happened.
The what if’s can be debilitating.
Don’t hold back on what matters to you.
See how much of yourself you can give.
See how far you can go.
Try your hardest to have the life you want today so you never have future regrets.
Ask yourself this question today;
What can you do today to create the life you want tomorrow?
Tap OUT..✌️
It’s so easy to beat ourselves up for mistakes we’ve made in the past.
Mistakes are part of being human and they are part of being alive.
Our mistakes are blessings and opportunities to keep learning and expanding.
But even when you learn from your mistakes don’t expect to never make another, you will and that’s okay.
Keep growing and embrace each challenge as a chance to learn something new and you will be amazed by how easy it is to move on.
Stay consistent in your walk of life & don’t be afraid to make new mistakes.
Mistakes are nothing more than opportunities to learn, grow, and better our future.
Tap OUT..💪
It’s so easy to beat ourselves up for mistakes we’ve made in the past.
Mistakes are part of being human and they are part of being alive.
Our mistakes are blessings and opportunities to keep learning and expanding.
But even when you learn from your mistakes, don’t expect to never make another.
You will and that’s okay.
Keep growing and embrace each challenge as a chance to learn something new and you will be amazed by how easy it is to move on.
Mistakes are nothing more than opportunities to learn, grow, and better our future.
Tap OUT..✌️
Just remember:
Whatever goals you are working on right now, you have to work at them every day.
It’s not enough just to write out your goals and visions for the future; you have to work hard to get anything in life.
Make a point to spend every day of the month doing at least one thing to bring you closer to your goal.
Your goals must keep you motivated towards a better tomorrow & a better version of yourself.
People often say that motivation doesn’t last.
Well, neither does bathing, that’s why we recommend it daily. (Not my words.)
Tap OUT..💪
We’re all here on this earth for a reason.
Some of us know when we are very young what we want to become, and some of us may need more time to discover themselves.
No matter when you discover your future, you have a specific purpose on this earth.
Your voice is unique and beautiful.
When you find out what makes you happy, embrace it and never let anyone tell you that you can’t live your dreams.
List everything you want to accomplish in life.
It doesn’t matter how big the dream sounds, the bigger the better.
Find your purpose, find your voice.
Tap OUT..💪
You can forgive someone and yet not want anything to do with them.
People need to understand that forgiveness is for past reconciliation and not for future consideration.
Your body sheds your tired skin every twenty seven days.
You were not made to hold your past within you.
You were not made to carry it all on your back.
You physically let go of every bad thing that has ever touched you, of every pair of foreign hands that unbuttoned your shirt but never your demons; you let go of every regret, of every insecurity.
You are always gifted a clean slate.
Remember that your tongue is the strongest muscle in your body.
You were made to speak, so speak loudly and communicate honestly about how you feel.
Speak about what hurts you, about what has broken you.
Speak about your story, share it with the world.
Letting go does not mean you stop caring.
It means you stop trying to force others to.
Tap OUT..✌️
If your relationship to the present moment is not right, nothing can ever be right in the future.
Because when the future comes, it’s the present moment.
– Eckhart Tolle.
(This video got nothing to do with the post above. During Syria & Yemen crisis, EU absorbed almost half million refugees/migrants. Current data shows almost 160,000 of those have just gone missing/out of records. Nobody knows whether they are dead, turned into angels or terrorists. I guess it’s right time to take a strong stance against illegal migration at every part of the world. Corona virus cases are going high once again & winter is around, no one is ready for more bullshit.)
We already know that no one is perfect.
But knowing that doesn’t keep us from doing things we might feel badly about later.
Your mistakes & understanding to own them makes you unique.
But when the same mistake is repeated often; that’s a sign of inconsistency in your character, which can later birth numerous bad habits & a peculiar tendency to become a systematic liar.
Start from owning your mistakes one by one.
I’ve found in times like that it’s best to come clean and own your mistake.
People will be so much more forgiving and sympathetic when you are honest about it because they can relate.
Even better, you will inspire them to do the same thing by showing them how honest and beautiful you can be without being perfect.
Stay strong.
Tell on yourself today about something you feel badly about having done or said in the past.
We should regret our mistakes and learn from them,
but never carry them forward into the future with us.
Tap OUT..✌️
Figure out what you want to do with your life and just do it.
Dedicate a separate journal for you to write down all of your goals.
And don’t just stop at journaling, make detailed steps towards achieving them.
Stopping sitting around and half arsing your way through things because you can’t seem to find any direction,
because seriously, life is what you make it and sometimes you need to get up and force yourself to do the things you know will benefit future you.
Things like I’m still young or I’m too old are out of the question.
No matter how old you are,
what you study or where you study,
use the time you have right now to learn & hustle.
I mean really hustle.
Because you don’t want to look back and say you should’ve worked harder, trained harder, tried harder, thought harder, loved harder or fought harder.
DISCIPLINE & CONSISTENT APPROACH towards all your EFFORTS are your only two best friends in your journey.
Don’t give yourself a reason to have regrets later on in life.
Tap OUT..✌️
As you move forward, I hope you have the courage to do things differently,
to be the kind of person who takes the risk,
to be the kind of person who leads with their heart and shows up in their life with a ruthless dedication to learning, growing and enjoying the hell out of their moments here consistenly.
DISCIPLINE & CONSISTENCY with your approach are the two tools which can empower you, make you stand out of the crowd in the race of becoming a better Human.
I hope you have the courage to never let comfort or apprehension convince you that you are better off staying still.
I hope you have the courage to trust the part of yourself that knows there’s more out there for you,
the part of yourself that is easy to quiet when you’re trying to live by the rules and the expectations of a world that has bred so much dissatisfaction and sadness.
I hope you have the courage to trust the part of yourself that seeks freedom from those trends, from those boundaries,
and I hope you have the courage to go after whatever it is that genuinely makes you want to get up in the morning.
I hope you have the courage to find the things in life that ignite you and deepen your understanding of the world and those within it.
I hope you have the courage to fight for a future that inspires you, even if it doesn’t look the way you thought it would.
I hope you have the courage to change.
I hope you have the courage to trust in the person you’re becoming. (Not my words).
Tap OUT..🤗
The thing about pain is, it won’t last forever.
And it kills you right now, but with time it gets better.
The thing about scars is, they all start to fade.
Until nothing is left of the cuts that were made.
The thing about today is, there’s always tomorrow.
And if you can’t find your smile, i have one you can borrow.
The thing about help is, beside you it stands.
But it won’t know it’s needed, unless you reach out your hand.
The thing about love is, you can’t feel it’s touch.
Until you let someone know that, this world is too much.
Tomorrow is not promised.
Not a single second or minute is.
So, live for today.
Keep the promises you make.
Take action on the things you desire and need.
Remind those that matter to you, that they are loved and you are grateful for them.
Never leave someone you care about on negative terms.
Give more than you take.
Make the calls you’ve been telling yourself you’ll do ‘tomorrow’.
Let the small shit go.
Never go to bed angry.
We will all die one day.
So learn to live each day with the promise to yourself that “it’ll be better than yesterday”.
Tap OUT..🤗
Look at it this way:
“Everything you’re currently doing is the past that you’ll be talking about in your future”.
At the same time, every thing you’re currently doing is the future you’ll be living.
How you choose to live in this moment is what creates your past and your future.
The funny thing is, a lot of us are stuck in the past or the future, not realizing that now is the only time we truly have to create our lives.
How to free your mind from the past:
A lot of people haven’t learned the art of letting go,
the art of forgiveness,
and the art of acceptance.
Many people carry around too many regrets,
hold onto grudges,
and carry around loads of mistakes.
Understand one thing clearly:
“You can’t change what has already happened”.
You have to learn to stop victimizing yourself and let go.
You have to free your mind from the weight of the past.
Good or bad, your past experiences occurred to mature you, not to keep you stuck.
Forgive yourself for them, accept what happened, and gracefully let go.
You have better things be creating with your mind right now.
MANIFEST A POSITIVE YOU RIGHT NOW.
Tap OUT..👍
When you live with unforgiveness in your heart, you become debilitated, unable to move and show up in the world in the way that you were created to all because, you took on the spirit of offense and chose not to forgive.
So, you see while at times, you may feel like it’s your right to hold offense and not forgive and while you do have free will you must also understand that what you felt was a “right” will also be the very thing that strips you of your ability to live in freedom. And, so in your quest to experience justice, you’ll only instigate the greater injustice against yourself, your we being, and your future.
Know this:
FORGIVENESS IS POWERFUL.
FORGIVENESS IS FREEDOM.
It liberates you from offense, from bitterness, and from the negative spirits that will invade your heart, soul, and mind and prohibit you from being a source of light in the world.
So, forgive even when it’s hard, even when the person across the table is undeserving.
(This paragraph got nothing to do with the post above. I am still a part-time employee because of my student status & business interests. Workplace environment gets messy when somebody sends a package without mentioning employee ID, especially when we all are working from home since the beginning of this pandemic. It’s tough to explain further. Please don’t send gifts to my office address.)
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Hangout with people who fit your FUTURE, not your past.
Don’t fuck up a good thing by digging too much.
We all have a history. If you want someone, work on being their future.
In case you want to grow into a bigger better person, your past mustn’t dictate your present or future. Most believe “past is 100% indicative of future”. Everyone screws up sometimes and we’ve all been hurt in some way, be taken advantage of or have been accepted less than we deserve, but you shouldn’t regret any of it as every negative situation is a chance to learn something and they help us make better choices.
The next time you’ll learn who you can trust, what you want in a friendship or relationship or a business partnership, how to read people and to detect insecurity, you figure out who you are and how to be yourself and most importantly to appreciate the good things in your life over own flaws. Life is fun, let it be.
Tap OUT..🤗
Nobody can predict the future; the idea is to have a firm grasp of the present.
– Peter F Drucker.
It’s dumb to believe that your best days are behind you. When we’re young, It’s common to hear older people tell us that we’re living the best days of our lives. Although that may be true for them, It doesn’t have to be true for you. When great things happen in our lives, It’s normal to feel bored or to be underwhelmed by the events that came after, maybe you spend a year abroad or experience the best day of your life. And once you return to reality, everything pales in comparison. This remarkable memory might be in your past.
But surely there are more great things still to come. If you want to be happier, drop the belief that your past will always be better than the future. Looking forward to what’s to come will permit those things to arrive. As i always say, TOMORROW IS ALWAYS AN UPGRADE TO OUR TODAY.
Tap OUT..👍
Well, we all make mistakes dear. So, just put it behind you. We should regret our mistakes & learn from them, but never carry them forward into the future with us.
– L.M. Montgomery.
One can’t be present if they are looking backwards, or for that matter forward. This is a tricky one to explain because it seems to imply that past and future don’t matter, somewhat seeming to contradict our vision for a better tomorrow. But that’s not really true. Let’s look at it like, as humans we often have the tendency to get caught up in thoughts about past achievements & failures. And sometimes, it’s living in our dreams of future that hinder us from seeing the potential of present. We tend to forget that present counts much more than the past or the future. Actually the steps that you take in the present are more important than the memories of the past & dreams of the future.
You need to deal with the past & the future while living in present. Take your sweet time and go back to the past once in a while to collect necessary lesson, then come back and live in your present without reliving those same low points of life. Use lessons from the past and also use dreams of a grand future to drive yourself to take the necessary steps that’s required right right now. We all might have dealt with bad memories and bad experiences in our past, that mustn’t stop us from seeing the light of a beautiful tomorrow. I always say this “TOMORROW IS ALWAYS AN UPGRADE OF TODAY”.
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Everything that you do is somehow connected. The past, present & the future all are connected. Your past & present hold significant sway over your FUTURE. You should realise that “no one step” will suddenly shoot you into the future of your dreams. Every single step you have ever taken and the ones you take right now are equally important. Your future is actually culmination of your previous choices & steps. So all of them count.
Therefore, make an effort to take steps which are consistent with your destination. Only that way you can get there. That’s how you reach/fetch GOALS. (Not my words).
Tap OUT..💪
We all hate the sound of alarm. Yet we all use it repeatedly for different use cases almost everyday.
Try something different next time. Talk to yourself once, Just wake up. You will not hate it as you used to & talking to yourself makes your brain work more efficiently. Double whammy to that laziness.
My new prayer to God every morning “Help Tap to grow into a stronger stable sorted sober sensible sassy soul from a stubborn stupid sleepy sucker, so that he can pull me out of bed 6AM every single day resulting a happy humble horny happening Tappie till he reaches bed once again at 10.30PM”.
Tap OUT..👍🤗
35% of leadership qualities are by birth. So make sure you bang(or get banged by) a truthfully passionate individual while making a baby.😜
Someday the only promise I am gonna make to my forever next; “Doesn’t matter what goes right or wrong, your future will have nothing like my past.”
My only response when someone says “I miss yesterday’s Tap”; book a bus/train/flight ticket & meet him, at present moment TAP is a way stronger sober future focused baddie.
I don’t have time to look back.
Tap OUT..😘
There is a saying: GOOD-BETTER-BEST is like PAST-PRESENT-FUTURE. I don’t know how people will accept it. I will always suggest one thing “work & always have high expectations from yourself”, tomorrow is always a upgrade of today.
My curiosities are my future opportunities. I mark myself closely whenever I develop interest towards something, that’s the reason my tongue to bones all speak the same line when I start something new.
Never try to fix yourself, you are not broken. You are just beautiful. Instead of that fixing, do the true right things from now for better positive outcome for your future.
No, LOVE has nothing to do with finances or charisma of the other side. But, you already know what’s your comfort zone/future goals & who can be worth it to share that same way!!
Just like you can’t use that same smartphone in your hand for more than 2-3 years, you want to upgrade it even if you are using it. Life is just like that. It needs a upgrade time to time. See your parents, how many times you changed your home/TV/location/furniture/whatever. Life is exactly like that. It needs upgrades not just monetarily, it needs upgrades in every aspect. You need your emotional growth & qualifications/skills/work too need the same.
If you aren’t seeing the same in your partner, don’t let him/her be your LIFE PARTNER. Someday you will surely lose your attraction/passion/mojo towards that person if they are not driven towards a better life. LOVE is a big word. Don’t misuse it, use it when you find your forever or else go happy fuck around for a while. Having tons of sex with multiple partners is OK if your moral allows you & you get that much attention. Misusing that word LOVE to gain little passion is not OK, it will tear you down slowly.
Ask yourself how long did you let that LOVE cook inside you, ask yourself what’s gonna be the result when time tests you with good or bad situations!! BE TRUE to yourself first. Time heals all when intentions are true in head/heart & your mouth speaks the same.
The best way to predict your future is; first check the predictions, then rectify/create it your way.💪
I am not afraid of the FUTURE, afraid of past bullshit repeating again.
Love means, we constantly improve communication & consistency, practice patience. It also means just leave when things aren’t equal anymore.
6 signs you aren’t in LOVE:
1. You moved things fast with your partner.
Infatuations thrive on speed, while LOVE takes time to develop. Infatuations live in illusion. Love can survive reality. When you quickly jump into a relationship with someone, you base it off your dreams more than whose really in front of you. Common examples are; thinking about a future with them, lusting after some legit emotions or obsessing about them for anything in your head. All of these are done after months and years of knowing them, that you just slipped/skipped.
2. You expect them to be flawless.
And you get angry or upset over them when you see their true colours. Do you believe in soulmates or fate? It sounds good in theory. But we all know infatuations also need perfection to survive. We need our partners to be consistently well dressed, good with their words or impressive with their accomplishments, meantime you are not giving them space to be honest. Love on the other hand is grounded. When you love someone, you accept their imperfections, you work through the bad and enjoy the good together.
3. You are not comfortable enough around them. Who hasn’t felt self-conscious about saying the wrong thing or making bad decisions/impressions? But when you truly fall in love with someone, that’s when you can let loose and stop caring so much. Those who have a strong sense of love and belonging are more open to vulnerability. Whereas those who feel disconnected with their partners consistently build their walls up. When you don’t share your emotions and struggles nor secrets with someone, you haven’t fully loved.
4. You become more distant.
It’s normal for passion to intensify initially only to taper off, which isn’t gonna help you into a steady relationship. But two people in love will still want to be around each other frequently. That’s another reason people in love plan a life together equally over indulging in rest activities. If you find yourself wanting to get away from your partner more and more these days, often because you’d rather go hang out with your friends or family or cat/dog, then something’s up.
5. Your mind is elsewhere.
With mind soon your heart also follows the same route. Partners who are in love tend to maintain a focus on their counterparts. When you notice the little things about them or express concerns when the two of you run into conflict, it shows you care for them. If you avoid those tough conversations or slip away from arguments, you also stop emphasizing their importance in your life.
6. You developed anxiety.
Have you been experiencing digestive problems or have trouble sleeping/over sleeping? Anxiety can show in this bodily disfunction. You might have something you need to get off your chest and dread how to break the news off to your partner. Remember you can only run away from the truth for so long before it catches upto you.
Forcing LOVE when it’s absent will only hurt the two of you. Both of you deserve to find love elsewhere if it can’t be found in your relationship.
Where do you think you stand on your feelings? Dig deeper, learn yourself with little Truth and self evaluation.
There will always be some people who are left in past. Reason: YOUR FUTURE DEMANDS SOMETHING BETTER.
Do something, make sure your FUTURE will be carved in history someday.
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