True me.. Tap-1218..
Stop worrying about other people understanding you.
Get in touch with yourself instead.
Focus on what makes you happy, what makes your soul feel at peace.
You are your biggest commitment.
So start loving your flaws, your awkwardness, your weirdness, your intensity, your vulnerability, your everything.
Life becomes so much more fulfilling when you are just simply yourself.
The world keeps spinning whether people understand you or not.
So why not make this next trip around the sun about you!
True me.. Tap-1211..
If we want to achieve great things, we must be intentional to focus on the right things, even when chaos arises.
If we are not intentional with our thought life, then our human nature will automatically focus on the problem rather than finding and creating solutions.
What you focus on multiplies.
So undoubtedly, when you focus on your problems for too long, they will begin to feel big and overwhelming.
When you allow your problems to be the loudest voice in the room, you lose sight of hope and possibility.
While it’s important to acknowledge the problems that exist, no good can evolve from focusing on your problems.
It will not change your situation, make things better, or shift the atmosphere and pave the way for a breakthrough.
Here’s the good thing: the problems you face, while they may be roadblocks, they cannot keep you from the future that was intended for you.
ONCE AGAIN; WHAT YOU FOCUS ON MULTIPLIES.
True me.. Tap-1206..
Observe yourself when you feel fear or anger.
Focus on the feeling.
Don’t focus on what’s caused it.
Not the stimulus, the stimulation.
Most strong reactions we feel are reactions to the past, not the present.
(If it’s hysterical it’s historical).
We will be more effective when we move beyond unconscious programming and respond from a place of peace.
We will be at PEACE sooner when we deal with information not inflammation.
True me.. Tap-1205..
While you may not have control over everything that happens in life, you do have control over your mindset and perspective.
You can choose to think that you’re down on your luck, or you decide to see that you are being set-up for something extraordinary.
You can choose to focus on all the chaos happening around you, or you decide to look for the good that is emerging.
You can choose to live in a state of victimhood, or you can decide to live from the stance of a champion.
Make the decision that come what may, you are going to be good and beautiful and something magical.
Not because the world’s problems finally faded away, but because you chose to start changing your perspective.
True me.. Tap-1200..
DON’T COMPARE your actual self to a hypothetical self.
Don’t drown in a sea of ‘what if’s.
Don’t clutter your mind by imagining other versions of you, in parallel universes, where you made different decisions.
The internet age encourages choice and comparison, but don’t do this to yourself. Theodore Roosevelt said; Comparison is the thief of joy.
You are The you.
Past is the past.
The only way to make a better life is from inside the present.
To focus on regret does nothing but turn that very present into another thing you will wish you did differently.
Accept your own reality.
Be human enough to make mistakes.
Be human enough not to dread the future.
Be human enough to be, well, enough.
Accepting where you are in life makes it so much easier to be happy for other people without feeling terrible about yourself.
KINDNESS is one of the most underrated traits in the world.
We focus so much on material things and attention, but forget that it is KINDNESS that brings us a fulfillment that warms our soul.
-The Better Man Project.
True me.. Tap-1186..
We have to realize that our lives could be gone in a moment.
There are no guarantees that we will be here at this time next year.
Learn to live each day to the fullest.
Don’t focus on what’s wrong.
Don’t retaliate to negative people.
Don’t react to negativity in general.
Be grateful for the opportunity to experience each day.
Be an authentic version of yourself shamelessly.
(This video got nothing to do with the post above. Watch the economic story of UK, which is gonna get even more worse with time. Thanks to conservative dummies. My analogy being a senior data analyst for fintech industry; every country which made cash transfers to people during COVID are gonna suffer a lot economically, because it was all funded by government borrowing.)
The point is not to become a “dangerous cold person”.
It’s more about becoming an unbothered, accepting, content, and focused person.
Cool not cold.
True me.. Tap-1158..
Change your mindset.
Cut off shitty people.
Focus on your goals.
Spend some time alone.
Drink more water.
Take care of your skin.
Be an authentic version of yourself.
(This video got nothing to do with the post above. I am done with Tiktok tits since a long while. There’s an enormous amount of dislike for that garbage in my eyes. Watch it to know what I posted & why!)
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