This moment right here is all you have.
You have yourself and your life today, which is all you ever need.
We spend so much time focusing on the past or our future that we forget how blessed we are to still be here surrounded by beautiful things.
Try to live in the moment.
Appreciate the life you are living right now and how blessed you are to still be alive today.
Cherish the moment.
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Focus on developing certain habits if you want to live a happy & fulfilled life:
1. Ignore nonsense.
2. Talk to the point.
3. Learn new skills.
4. Help less fortunate.
5. Laugh.
6. Wake up early.
7. No entitlement.
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We hurt ourselves because we obsess about the end of our journeys.
Focus on staying in the moment, on being grateful for where you are today.
– S. Mcnutt.
Stop running away from negative emotions.
Stop running away from feelings.
Stop pretending like you have it all together.
Start accepting that you feel messed up.
Let yourself breakdown to get ready for a breakthrough.
Sometimes when you are always focusing on being positive, you are avoiding the pain that makes you stronger.
DON’T BE POSITIVE, BE AUTHENTIC.
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6 months of:
– Hard work
– Consistency
– Focus
– Discipline
Can change your life forever.
If you focus on the hurt,
you will continue to suffer.
If you focus on the lesson,
you will continue to grow.
Stop running away from negative emotions.
Stop running away from feelings.
Stop pretending like you have it all together.
Start accepting that you feel messed up.
Let yourself breakdown to get ready for a breakthrough.
Sometimes when you are always focusing on being positive, you are avoiding the pain that makes you stronger.
DON’T BE POSITIVE, BE AUTHENTIC.
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SUCCESS has three ingredients:
Consistency, Discipline & Focus.
Focus on making progress, not perfection.
Every good thing takes time.
You can’t rush things.
Growth is not linear, but a journey; one filled with challenges and opportunities to push to your destination.
No one can do it for you, it’s your journey.
And there will be days you’ll want to give up, but you can keep going.
There are no shortcuts to get there, so you have to embrace the process.
Think progress, not perfection.
Allow yourself to grow in the process.
Make room for failure too.
Just do your daily practice and cultivate a kind heart.
Bet on hard work.
Abandon impatience.
The results will come down when they’re ready.
Remember, consistent small steps are way better than just one big step with no further progress.
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Trust me, nobody is as successful as social media makes them look and nobody is as pretty as filters make them seem.
The only healthy and worthwhile comparison is you yesterday vs you today.
Focus on that.
I started growing when i stopped:
• Dwelling on what “could” have been.
• Letting the fear of failure hold me back.
• Blaming others for my own mistakes.
• Returning to toxic habits for comfort.
• Basing my worth on other’s opinions.
• Focusing on what’s out of my control.
• Denying who I authentically am.
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An Eagle was sitting on a tree resting, doing nothing.
A small rabbit saw the eagle and asked him;
“Can I also sit like you and do nothing?”
The eagle answered;
“Sure, why not.”
So, the rabbit sat on the ground below the eagle and rested.
All of a sudden, a fox appeared, jumped on the rabbit, and ate it.
Moral of the story:
To be sitting and doing nothing, you must be sitting very, very high up.
(This music video got nothing to do with the post above. I must have shared it couple times already, one of my favourite songs which stays on my playlist both in gym & also while flying. Check it.)
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How to get rid of your adult problems;
– Wake up early.
– Work out regularly.
– Eat good, real food.
– Live below your means.
– Hangout with true friends who share similar goals & vision.
– Focus on building more than one source of income.
– Do what you love for work.
– Don’t get into meaningless relationships.
– Never hit the snooze button.
– Create a routine.
– Write down your plans & journal your life’s journey with it’s success.
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When you wake up each morning, take a moment to think about the kind of life you want to have.
Consciously choose to have a happy life.
Choose a life that is filled with love, laughter, good health and success.
Then begin your day focused on the things you can do to make this your reality.
Choose a happy life.
(This video got nothing to do with the post above. Shared it because I liked it.)
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We have to realize that our lives could be gone in a moment.
There are no guarantees that we will be here how long.
Learn to live each day to the fullest.
Don’t complain.
Don’t focus on what’s wrong.
Be grateful for the opportunity to experience each day.
I INVEST my time and energy where it feels right for me.
I CHOOSE to focus on experiences that are life sustaining, not life draining.
How to make yourself do what you don’t want to do:
1. Rather than listening to the voice in your head that is screaming “I hate this & I don’t want to do this”, think about why it is a GOOD thing to do.
2. Instead of trying to pretend that you don’t feel this way, accept that you are feeling very blah and negative.
3. Don’t think about results and how well you think you’ll do, as this could raise your feelings of anxiety and fear, just think about “right now” and the first thing you can do.
4. Accept that life is tough, and is full of things that suck, but recognise that doing hard stuff is better in the end.
You’ll likely have more choices and freedom, if you do.
5. Just do a little bit for now, then give yourself a proper break, then go back and do some more, and soon you’ll find you’re in the flow.
6. Don’t allow your mind to wander and think of other things.
Stay focused for that short time and then stop, and have fun.
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Trust me nobody is as successful as Instagram makes them look and nobody is as pretty as filters make them seem.
The only healthy and worthwhile comparison is you yesterday vs you today.
Focus on that.
Stop worrying about other people understanding you.
Get in touch with yourself instead.
Focus on what makes you happy, what makes your soul feel at peace.
You are your biggest commitment.
So start loving your flaws, your awkwardness, your weirdness, your intensity, your vulnerability, your everything.
Life becomes so much more fulfilling when you are just simply yourself.
The world keeps spinning whether people understand you or not.
So why not make this next trip around the sun about you!
BE YOU.
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If we want to achieve great things, we must be intentional to focus on the right things, even when chaos arises.
If we are not intentional with our thought life, then our human nature will automatically focus on the problem rather than finding and creating solutions.
What you focus on multiplies.
So undoubtedly, when you focus on your problems for too long, they will begin to feel big and overwhelming.
When you allow your problems to be the loudest voice in the room, you lose sight of hope and possibility.
While it’s important to acknowledge the problems that exist, no good can evolve from focusing on your problems.
It will not change your situation, make things better, or shift the atmosphere and pave the way for a breakthrough.
Here’s the good thing: the problems you face, while they may be roadblocks, they cannot keep you from the future that was intended for you.
ONCE AGAIN; WHAT YOU FOCUS ON MULTIPLIES.
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Observe yourself when you feel fear or anger.
Focus on the feeling.
Don’t focus on what’s caused it.
Not the stimulus, the stimulation.
Most strong reactions we feel are reactions to the past, not the present.
(If it’s hysterical it’s historical).
We will be more effective when we move beyond unconscious programming and respond from a place of peace.
We will be at PEACE sooner when we deal with information not inflammation.
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While you may not have control over everything that happens in life, you do have control over your mindset and perspective.
You can choose to think that you’re down on your luck, or you decide to see that you are being set-up for something extraordinary.
You can choose to focus on all the chaos happening around you, or you decide to look for the good that is emerging.
You can choose to live in a state of victimhood, or you can decide to live from the stance of a champion.
Make the decision that come what may, you are going to be good and beautiful and something magical.
Not because the world’s problems finally faded away, but because you chose to start changing your perspective.
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DON’T COMPARE your actual self to a hypothetical self.
Don’t drown in a sea of ‘what if’s.
Don’t clutter your mind by imagining other versions of you, in parallel universes, where you made different decisions.
The internet age encourages choice and comparison, but don’t do this to yourself. Theodore Roosevelt said; Comparison is the thief of joy.
You are The you.
Past is the past.
The only way to make a better life is from inside the present.
To focus on regret does nothing but turn that very present into another thing you will wish you did differently.
Accept your own reality.
Be human enough to make mistakes.
Be human enough not to dread the future.
Be human enough to be, well, enough.
Accepting where you are in life makes it so much easier to be happy for other people without feeling terrible about yourself.
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KINDNESS is one of the most underrated traits in the world.
We focus so much on material things and attention, but forget that it is KINDNESS that brings us a fulfillment that warms our soul.
-The Better Man Project.
We have to realize that our lives could be gone in a moment.
There are no guarantees that we will be here at this time next year.
Learn to live each day to the fullest.
Don’t complain.
Don’t focus on what’s wrong.
Don’t retaliate to negative people.
Don’t react to negativity in general.
Be grateful for the opportunity to experience each day.
Be an authentic version of yourself shamelessly.
(This video got nothing to do with the post above. Watch the economic story of UK, which is gonna get even more worse with time. Thanks to conservative dummies. My analogy being a senior data analyst for fintech industry; every country which made cash transfers to people during COVID are gonna suffer a lot economically, because it was all funded by government borrowing.)
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The point is not to become a “dangerous cold person”.
It’s more about becoming an unbothered, accepting, content, and focused person.
Cool not cold.
Change your mindset.
Educate yourself.
Stay positive.
Cut off shitty people.
Eat healthy.
Focus on your goals.
Spend some time alone.
Read books.
Drink more water.
Take care of your skin.
Be an authentic version of yourself.
(This video got nothing to do with the post above. I am done with Tiktok tits since a long while. There’s an enormous amount of dislike for that garbage in my eyes. Watch it to know what I posted & why!)
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We have to realize that our lives could be gone in a moment.
There are no guarantees that we will be here at this time next year.
Learn to live each day to the fullest.
Don’t complain.
Don’t focus on what’s wrong.
Be grateful for the opportunity to experience each day.
10 daily reminders;
– Kindness is free.
– It’s okay to have bad days, But don’t let those bad days make you believe you have a bad life. They will pass.
– Everyone’s journey is different.
– You are loved and you are enough, always.
– Spread love & positivity.
– Focus on the things you can control and let go of things you can’t.
– Don’t put so much pressure on yourself to have it all figured out.
– You need to believe in yourself first, so others can believe in you.
– Stop comparing yourself to others.
– Nobody has it all figured out (even if it looks like they do).
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I love the glow you get from MINDING YOUR OWN BUSINESS and LETTING GO OF NEGATIVITY.
You no longer waste your time and energy stressing out or worrying about things that don’t evolve you.
You start focusing your energy on getting better.
You start feeling better.
You start looking better.
You even start attracting better.
Everything changes.
EVERYTHING CHANGES FOR THE BETTER.
(If you are living in UK, watch this without getting panicked. I mentioned this in few 2019 blog posts about how UK is moving towards an EMERGING MARKET ECONOMY status like some third world developing nations. Now that we know Liz Truss is the new Prime Minister, watch this 6 minutes video for more.)
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Change your mindset.
Educate yourself.
Stay positive.
Cut off shitty people.
Eat healthy.
Focus on your goals.
Spend some time alone.
Read books.
Drink more water.
Take care of your skin.
Be an authentic version of yourself.
(This video got nothing to do with the post above. One of my favourite sketches by Key & Peele, watch it.)
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We hurt ourselves because we obsess about the end of our journeys.
Focus on staying in the moment, on being grateful for where you are today.
-S. Mcnutt.
Just because people are being bad to you, doesn’t mean you should sacrifice the same energy to them.
Don’t go through that kind of effort.
The best thing you can do is to completely ignore them and focus on what makes you better.
It’s hard, but know that you deserve only good and positive vibes.
You were not born to embrace and express negativity.
Maybe the people around you might have brought that side out of you, but naturally you’re nothing like those people.
You are way better than that.
Keep working towards your human side.
There’s nothing more attractive than KINDNESS & EMPATHY.
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If tou truly want something you will make it happen, do not blame the conditions.
We create our own destiny.
It is we who decided what we can and can not do.
Work hard and put your heart and soul into your work.
Use every second to think about how you can achieve your goal.
Focus on your own stuff.
Everybody walks a diffrent path.
Do not try to walk someone else’s path because that is not going to work.
And most important, DO WHAT YOU LOVE.
(This video got nothing to do with the post above. Sharing it because it’s buzzing in my head since past two days. Of course it’s an awesome track.)
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13 HEALTHY REMINDERS FOR A HAPPY YOU:
1. The past is in the past, focus on the future.
2. Opinions do not define reality.
3. Everyone’s journey is different.
4. Time is the essence of healing.
5. Judgement is a confession of character.
6. Overthinking will lead to paralysis/sadness.
7. Happiness is an inside job, found within.
8. Positive thoughts, create positive actions.
9. Smiles are contagious.
10. Sprinkle kindness, it’s free.
11. You only fail if you quit/do not try.
12. What goes around, comes around. Karma it is.
13. The quicker you choose to move forward, the quicker the suffering ends.
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Just always be the better person.
And make your intentions pure.
What and who you are is what you’ll attract, what you’ll maintain.
Pain is inevitable and it will always exist, but if you focus on understanding what you are feeling and why you are feeling it, you will overcome it.
DON’T COMPARE YOUR actual self to a hypothetical self.
Don’t drown in a sea of ‘what if’s.
Don’t clutter your mind by imagining other versions of you, in parallel universes, where you made different decisions.
The internet age encourages choice and comparison, but don’t do this to yourself.
Theodore Roosevelt said; “Comparison is the thief of joy”.
You are you.
The past is the past.
The only way to make a better life is from inside the present.
To focus on regret does nothing but turn that very present into another thing you will wish you did differently.
Accept your own reality.
Be human enough to make mistakes.
Be human enough not to dread the future.
Be human enough to be, well, enough.
Accepting where you are in life makes it so much easier to be happy for other people without feeling terrible about yourself.
BE YOU.
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Stop worrying about other people understanding you.
Get in touch with yourself instead.
Focus on what makes you happy, what makes your soul feel at peace.
You are your biggest commitment, so start loving your flaws, your awkwardness, your weirdness, your intensity, your vulnerability, your everything.
Life becomes so much more fulfilling when you are just simply yourself.
The world keeps spinning whether people understand you or not so why not make this next trip around the sun about you.
BE AN AUTHENTIC VERSION OF YOURSELF FEARLESSLY.
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When you wake up each morning,
take a moment to think about the kind of life you want to have.
Consciously choose to have a happy life:
one that is filled with love, laughter, good health and success.
Then begin your day focused on the things you can do to make this your reality.
CHOOSE A HAPPY LIFE.
Get up.
Get a routine.
Get outside when you can.
Get moving.
Get focused on the day in front of you.
(Not the month or year.)
Don’t live inside hypothetical catastrophes.
Focus on what you can control.
(Even if it is your breathing.)
Don’t beat yourself up for not baking banana bread.
LIFE IS FUN, LET IT BE.
(This video got nothing to do with the post above. When something is informative & important to my knowledge, i try my best to share it. Watch it if you have 11 minutes to spare. Recently we are talking about our planet without political agenda, i am happy to see this change.)
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Stop worrying about other people understanding you.
Get in touch with yourself instead.
Focus on what makes you happy, what makes your soul feel at peace.
You are your biggest commitment, so start loving your flaws, your awkwardness, your weirdness, your intensity, your vulnerability, your everything.
Life becomes so much more fulfilling when you are just simply yourself.
The world keeps spinning whether people understand you or not.
So why not make this next trip around the sun about you!!
(This video got nothing to do with the post above. There’s a reason why i don’t believe in crypto/NFT bullshit even though i own some of it. I understand & believe in the technology of blockchain. There will be a time in future when crypto currencies will go mainstream, those currencies will be made under government regulations by banks after 10-15 years. Current entire crypto market will crash soon or sooner. But when fools are busy fooling fools, it’s a fun sight to watch.)
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Care your body.
Care your mind.
Stay away from toxic people.
Unfollow on social media.
Talk to the people who stayed with you at your worst and still stay there at your side.
Romanticize every moment of your life.
Love yourself.
Everything will be better if you FOCUS ON YOURSELF.
We have to realize that our lives could be gone in a moment.
There are no guarantees that we will be here at this time next year.
Learn to live each day to the fullest.
Don’t complain.
Don’t focus on what’s wrong.
Be grateful for the opportunity to experience each day.
Fears stop you from all things possible.
Don’t let fear get in the way of anything, especially your dreams.
Did you know that FEAR is actually an acronym that stands for False Evidence Appearing Real?
In other words, your fears are not real because they’re not actually happening they’re based on things that haven’t happened yet and therefore don’t exist.
Replace a fear with a wish or a dream for your life and choose to focus on that instead.
Too many of us are not living our dreams because we are living our fears.
-LES BROWN.
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You have ONE LIFE.
Don’t spend it scrolling through everyone else’s
Don’t spend it wishing you had someone else’s
Don’t spend it comparing it to someone else’s
Don’t spend it competing with someone else’s
Don’t spend it talking about someone else’s
Don’t spend it recounting your mistakes
Don’t spend it rehearsing your failures
Don’t spend it focusing on your limitations
Don’t spend it living in regret
Don’t spend it paralyzed by fear
Don’t spend it listening to the naysayers
Don’t spend it living purposelessly.
Live it.
BE YOU. Live your life it’s fully yours.
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If we want to see success in our lives, we must intentionally work towards what we’re purposed to do.
We cannot get distracted by anything outside of our purpose or compromise our creativity, vision, or convictions because we believe that we’ll obtain more success or get more recognition or praise through our change in direction.
It doesn’t work like that because, success is connected to purpose- not trends of popularity.
One of the definitions of success is “the accomplishment of one’s goals”.
We have to keep OUR GOALS in front of us, not someone else’s.
So, stay on track.
Believe in yourself and your purpose.
Trust that as you stay faithful to what you know you ought to be doing, you will experience astronomical success that will leave you with a sense of fulfillment and will impact the world around you.
YOUR SUCCESS IS CONNECTED TO YOUR TO PURPOSE.
(Not my words.)
(This video got nothing to do with the post above. Watch it if you got little time. And Yes i know “Why Highly Successful Entrepreneurs Build Stupid Simple Businesses!!”.)
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7 TYPES OF NEGATIVITY TO KILL:
1. PERFECTIONISM.
Trying to achieve something that’s literally unattainable will only result in you feeling “less than”.
2. JUDGEMENT OVER YOURSELF AND OTHERS.
When you are judgemental, you are only focusing on the negative qualities in yourself and others.
3. SELF-DOUBT.
Self-doubt is a weed that will take over your life if you don’t kill it at the root.
4. ASSUMING THE WORST WILL HAPPEN.
If you never think things will be better, they won’t be. This removes hope.
5. WORRY.
Worrying changes nothing except your health and mental state.
6. COMPLAINING.
When you focus on the negative things, you are really setting yourself up for never being content or happy.
7. TRYING TO CONTROL EVERYTHING.
You can’t control everything and when you try and inevitably fail, you will only blame yourself.
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Get up.
Get a routine.
Get outside when you can.
Get moving.
Get focused on the day in front of you.
(Not the month or year.)
Don’t live inside hypothetical catastrophes.
Focus on what you can control, even if it is your breathing.
Don’t beat yourself up for not baking banana bread.
When we choose to focus on what we have we are instantly happier people.
Gratitude is said to be the emotion that is most connected with happiness.
Even the wealthiest person in the world can think of things they don’t have.
It’s not about accumulating more things; it’s about focusing on the joy and beauty in your life by focusing on what is great in your life.
Don’t decide happiness based on your material possessions, but on the love in your life today.
Be thankful for what you have; you’ll end up having more.
If you concentrate on what you don’t have, you will never, ever have enough.
-OPRAH WINFREY.
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I know that everybody worries about what’s coming next, but in my experience it doesn’t do any good.
It just makes you more stressed out and usually you’re just worrying about things that may never even happen.
Today and this moment is all we have, so stay present and focused and count your blessings for today and trust that the rest will fall into place.
Count your blessings today.
No need to worry about tomorrow, when we’ve been blessed with today.
(Not my words.)
While you may not have control over everything that happens in life, you do have control over your mindset and perspective.
You can choose to think that you’re down on your luck, or you decide to see that you are being set-up for something extraordinary.
You can choose to focus on all the chaos happening around you, or you decide to look for the good that is emerging.
You can choose to live in a state of victimhood, or you can decide to live from the stance of a champion.
Make the decision that come what may come, this new year is going to be good and beautiful and something magical, not because the world’s problems finally faded away, but because you chose to start changing your perspective.
ONLY YOU CAN CONTROL YOUR PERSPECTIVE.
(Not my words.)
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Having really big dreams is wonderful.
But in order to achieve them you have to start setting goals and writing them down.
It’s not enough just to think about them.
You have to actively pursue them.
The best feeling is crossing one of your goals off your list after you’ve worked so hard to achieve a dream.
Make a list of your goals for the year.
Stay focused and start making strides to cross them off your list.
Set goals and dream big.
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We all want to be liked and loved, but when we focus on this instead of making sure we love ourselves first, we get lost in other people’s opinions and we stop living honestly.
If someone calls you a name, don’t let it bother you, don’t react.
Feeding into their drama will only negatively affect your character.
What makes you special and unique?
Think about one of your eccentricities and embrace it every day.
When we are consumed by what other people think of us, we allow them to dictate how we live our lives, and then without realizing it, we lose touch with who we are.
Respect your individuality.
BE YOU.
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Just remember:
Whatever goals you are working on right now, you have to work at them every day.
It’s not enough just to write out your goals and visions for the future; you have to work hard to get anything in life.
Make a point to spend every day of the month doing at least one thing to bring you closer to your goal.
Your goals must keep you motivated towards a better tomorrow & a better version of yourself.
People often say that motivation doesn’t last.
Well, neither does bathing, that’s why we recommend it daily. (Not my words.)
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GOD is not in a hurry, you are.
That’s why you are tired.
That’s why you are anxious, and stressed, and disappointed.
You just need to remain true & consistent with the way you are in your walk of life.
Trust that what’s meant to be yours, will be yours.
We have to realize that our lives could be gone in a moment.
There are no guarantees that we will be here at this time next year.
Learn to live each day to the fullest.
Don’t complain.
Don’t focus on what’s right or wrong.
Be grateful for the opportunity to experience each day.
It’s been 5 years & i am always in a different city/country at this time of the year. I met some amazing people & lost touch with few. Most of them helped me shape & build what i am today. I can’t change everything & i accept what’s coming wholeheartedly. At the end i must agree, life is beautiful & i am grateful.
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You can’t please everyone and you’re not supposed to.
I’ve taken a lot of criticism and even read horrible comments on the Internet, but I can’t let that bring me down.
I have to keep being who I am for the people in my life that matter and that will be enough.
Don’t try to please everyone, just focus on pleasing yourself.
Become a better version of yourself by remaining consistent in your path to life.
If someone is overcriticizing you, don’t feed into them by responding.
There is only one way to avoid criticism:
say nothing, be nothing, do nothing.
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6 RULES TO KICK ASS IN LIFE:
1. Know that your only competition is who you were yesterday.
2. Earn, save and invest before you spend.
3. Avoid negative people, life is too short.
4. If you don’t go after what you want, you will never get it.
5. See failure as a beginning, not an end.
6. Our habits decide our future, remain consistent with what you do in life.
6 months of hardcore focus and alignment can put you 5 years ahead in life.
Don’t underestimate the power of consistency and desire.
You have what it takes to become the best that you can be.
Don’t ever doubt yourself.
Harness your power.
Exceed your expectations.
CONSISTENCY ALWAYS WINS.
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When you wake up each morning, take a moment to think about the kind of life you want to have.
Consistently consciously choose to have a happy life: one that is filled with love, laughter, good health and success.
Then begin your day focused on the things you can do to make this your reality.
A happy life is a CHOICE, choose it wisely.
(This video got nothing to do with the post above. Watch it & please understand the importance of general knowledge & basic day to day information. Just checking your Google feeds may help you escape embarassing situations. I mean, look at these fools.)
EXPLORE MORE.
GIVE YOURSELF A BREAK.
STAY FOCUSED ON THE GOOD.
DON’T STOP BELIEVING.
FEEL IT.
STAY HUMBLE.
FIND JOY IN THE LITTLE THINGS.
FEEL THE BREEZE.
HAVE A GREAT DAY.
-Frachella.
(This video got nothing to do with the post above. I guess this is the best sketch by SNL on such MTV garbage.)
Pay more attention to what stirs your heart.
Pay attention to the music that makes you want to cry, or dance, or jump right out of your skin.
Pay attention to what makes you happy truly happy,
the kind of happy that drips from your bones,
the kind of happy that gives you hope,
and makes you believe that you have a reason to be here.
Pay attention to the things that make you laugh, the things that make you smile.
Really focus on figuring out what compels you.
Really focus on discovering the aspects of the world that interest you and challenge you and make you want to learn and grow.
You have to pay attention,
To the things that make you believe in being alive.
To the people that support you and build you up and make you feel like you’re understood in a world that can sometimes feel like a haunted and hurtful place.
You have to pay attention to the life you want to create for yourself.
Because you are in charge of your own happiness.
You are in charge of who you become.
So, if something makes your soul feel like it is finally home, pay attention to it.
Whether it is a job, or an idea, or a goal, or a person, or a place, just follow what makes you feel alive.
Just make your life your own.
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There is someone out there in the world that doesn’t have to be forced to fit into your puzzle called LIFE.
Do not take the risk of settling for someone if you’re uncertain of your feelings just because you want some kind of companionship.
There is someone out there who is meant for you.
Leave the door open for them to come in.
Until then: Focus on you.
Focus on pursuing your goals and give yourself the opportunity to make your dreams come true without being distracted by detours.
Surround yourself with family, loyal loved ones and successful people, that way you’ll learn how to succeed from them.
Learn to better yourself everyday by taking what they teach you and teaching what they taught you.
Be patient and keep yourself busy.
Allow love to catch up to you, but on its own time.
PATIENCE IS FUCKING GOLDEN. (Not my words).
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Don’t be embarrassed of your situation.
Most people are covering up the same situations with filters and smiles.
Make a plan,
cut off distractions,
stay focused,
and execute consistently.
You’ll make it.
CONSISTENCY IS MORE IMPORTANT THAN PERFECTION.
(This trailer got nothing to do with the post above. This is the story of Serena Williams. Will Smith back at his game again. Respect.)
If we want to achieve great things, we must be intentional to focus on the right things even when chaos arises.
If we are not intentional with our thoughts on life, then our human nature will automatically focus on the problem rather than finding and creating solutions.
What you focus on multiplies; so, undoubtedly, when you focus on your problems for too long, they will begin to feel big and overwhelming. When you allow your problems to be the loudest voice, you lose sight of hope and possibility.
While it’s important to acknowledge the problems that exist, no good can evolve from focusing on your problems. It will not change your situation, make things better, or shift the atmosphere and pave the way for a breakthrough.
Here’s the good thing: the problems you face, while they may be roadblocks, they cannot keep you from the future that was intended for you.
FIGURE OUT & FETCH SOLUTIONS.
WHAT YOU FOCUS ON MULTIPLIES.
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I am yet to reach 30s & i can say one thing from my observation & experience; “People who aren’t successful/happy with their life, always find reasons to justify their lie/cheat/nonsense/inconsistency every single time with the easiest predictable way”.
Now why i focus on these two words “SUCCESS” & “HAPPINESS” in most of my posts?
My answer is; A successful person is more focused on his success rather than rest garbage of life. I am saying it for a relationship as well. Even research studies show successful people hardly cheat in a relationship because they have better things to achieve in life.
So what goes wrong here; when you aren’t happy with yourself or when you aren’t successful in your career/finance/your own goals/dreams, even you don’t know what HAPPINESS means to you. You swing every possible way without next thought in search of that happiness to every wrong place. Nobody can bring happiness to your life. We humans are engineered to like predictable things, i mean a predictable tomorrow with what’s gonna happen, what lifestyle we gonna enjoy, what house we gonna live, what will be our next vacation, what will be our next vehicle, all such things. In modern world most dream big, but sadly it’s daydreaming. Big dreams bring sadness when you see them fading away. It’s your responsibility to sort out your own life first.
Find your peace within yourself. Find your happiness within yourself. Find what “SUCCESS” means to you within yourself. A stable YOU is the priority, rest can join later.
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Stop worrying about other people understanding you. Get in touch with yourself instead. Focus on what makes you happy, what makes your soul feel at peace. You are your biggest commitment, so start loving your flaws, your awkwardness, your weirdness, your intensity, your vulnerability, your everything. Life becomes so much more fulfilling when you are just simply yourself.
The world keeps spinning whether people understand you or not so why not make this next trip around the sun about you. Be you.
(Not my words).
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People are always divided with opinions towards a happy life. Some believe MONEY is important & some believe LOVE is important. This fight between MONEY & LOVE is so peculiar that i laugh at it whenever this discussion pops up.
What nobody talks about is, both are a painstakingly time consuming slow process till you reach it’s epitome. Most people purposefully lie about both of these two. At the end, you get exactly what you invest. Even a small lie has it’s consequences, Karma keeps a count of it’s course. People fail in MONEY (material growth) or LOVE because of their impatient behaviour or inconsistency. Stay calm, quiet, upfront and focused while you are fetching something purposeful in life.
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You can not think of two things at the same time. In your quest for improvement, it’s vital that you concentrate on the things that truly matter. Your focus helps you place your attention on those values that will primarily assist you in attaining the heights you seek. Focusing on postive emotions, development & goals will leave you with no time to focus on negative things.
When you find yourself in a not so pleasent circumstance, always look on the brighter side. It might be a difficult thing to do when you form the habit of recognising the lessons in negative events. You will learn from these experiences & get even better. FOCUS on the positive side of life while FOCUSING on one prime meaningful thing at a time.
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If you waste your little time everyday worrying for things which didn’t go as you want, you might end up wasting years out of your 70-80 year life at the end for nothing in return. Focus to see the brighter side of why/how you reached here & appreciate your journey.
Worrying is not a solution to any problem. Tap OUT..😘
Truthful people focus on finding a solution rather than mourning over past problems.
If you feel you need loads of time to accomplish a dream, focus on making it happen instead of giving up. Time will pass either ways.
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Never ever feel like GOD isn’t answering your prayers. Focus on building a stronger FAITH in you about yourself. Your almighty sees, you already got enough tools to make shit happen.
Sometimes a paycheck is not enough, then just focus on building yourself for the better. Fun is something when you find yourself truly indulged in right set of people.
And when the same paycheck is extra, you are ready to enter a relationship. That’s the time loyality & intentions will be tested. Prove yourself. LOVE blossoms beautifully under financial freedom.
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People who live in the moment always forget the best ones of such kind are “DRUG ADDICTS”, yeah all drug abused suckers live in their exact 3 hours timeframe of ecstasy till they die.
Wanna live a life, fix-focus-fetch a goal. Waking up to make something happen in your life is the biggest addiction. And hell you have no idea about the everlasting pleasure.
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Some people are so dead on their ass that, they have to come back & portray as if they do give a fuck.
Remember one thing will always be with you; “YOUR MONEY“. Work on that, focus on your independence & Happiness. A positive outcome is awaiting when you are popping with little wealth.
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First try to be “BANKABLE”, You can be “BANGABLE” later. 😜
The point is; It’s high time, FOCUS ON YOUR COINS.
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Love is free, joyful, happy & bliss. Some people make it negative, heavy & toxic. If you feel the same, focus on yourself & EXIT.
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