Date her who walks you till your car. Date her who dares to steal your hoodie in front of your face. Date her who wants to meet your parents, and is respectful towards them. Date her who respects your siblings and family members. Date her who’s kind to animals, its a reflection of how she’ll treat usual people. Date her who makes you smile. Date her who looks confident with or without makeup. Date her who will listen to your complain or accomplishments. Date her who doesn’t force you to do things you don’t want to. Date her who will come hang out and cuddle just cause she can. Date her who loves you through the good and the bad. Date her who has seen you angry, happy, sad, and still feels for you. Date her who has a hunger for SUCCESS & hunger for more beyond that. Date her who actually utilises her time to the fullest, so that she can value your TIME. Now you know you aren’t entertaining someone boring/sluggish.
Life can easily remain exciting happy happening even in a relationship if you are dealing with a stronger individual, stronger in finance & faith.
Typing this post to highlight modern day deliema among teens who flex their perfect 3-month long relationship before they catch their partner cheating on them with their bestfriend, which is hilarious & utter nonsense to my brain. Currently this world is filled with bit too much garbage to my eyes, let’s say bit too much social media delusional PDA. Single & slaying life, that’s my current status. And i am in no mood to change this for a while. But someday I definitely want to get married & pump 90-95 babies inside my future wife. Babies & puppies are angelic to my eyes. Hope to be a good father to few daughters as well as few boys. When my daughter wants to date someone, i will suggest to see at least two out of these three qualities in her future partner; 1. Millionaire. (We have designed a world where every happiness & comfort comes with a cost. I hate those who try to enter/entertain relationship without being financially stable). 2. Master’s in engineering or finance. (Educated people never go boring because they have more idea/opinion/view about the world we are living in). 3. Man enough to run 5km while rocking a 6-pack abs. (A fit person is well aware of personal hygiene, aesthetics & manners).
(All i want to share is; I suggest everyone to follow a journey towards fitness & financial stability. When you are SUCCESSFUL with life, you are more happy & in tune with yourself, which helps you to stay away from all kinds of negativity such as lying, cheating, inconsistency & any other deceptive behaviour.)
Found this video in YouTube recommendations today. Happy to share i too wanted to become a doctor after my high school, but somehow right now i am a senior data analyst. See this 5 minute long video to understand what a DATA ANALYST goes through & why you shouldn’t become one.
MONEY; doesn’t matter you like this word or not, it’s a vital part of our life. Planning a happy life without MONEY is like fooling around with yourself. MONEY is directly linked to our happiness because of certain basic human instincts. Every change in life also brings some lifestyle changes which requires more money to afford a stable life further.
Question is; “Is just MONEY enough to be HAPPY?”. Answer is; No. We need money, but we also want a sassy relationship, a stable career, a strong family bond, some reliable friends & you have to pack ton of gratitude in your heart. Creating a successful life takes lots of time & energy, MONEY is an amazing accelerator here.
Before all you have to tell yourself “MONEY IS A MAJOR DRIVER/ENABLER OF HAPPINESS”. Valuing MONEY doesn’t mean being materialistic, MONEY must be spent the right way or on moments/experiences/investments which will help you create memories while generating happiness”. See the video by CNBC MAKE IT below to understand what i am talking about.
(This post is for the people who have the desire & dedication to achieve goals/success in life with a purpose. Not talking to the ones who already know they can’t reach this level of financial stability. A soldier who already dropped weapon is of no one’s use.)
Financial stress can impact our mental health badly. Most of us either suffer or have suffered from the problem of “not keeping a budget”. If you don’t budget, you could be spending more than you’re making without even knowing it. It’s totally normal to stress about money, after all having enough means having security. But financial stressors are also one of the worst things when it comes to your mental health.
Budgeting is about keeping track of what you spend, but it’s also about changing your habits. If money causes you daily worry, you need to take advantage of the power you have to reduce or eliminate your financial issues. If you want to improve your mental health, consider lessening the amount of money you spend on wants, negotiating your bills for lower rates and creating an emergency fund. Financial stability is a major step towards healthy happy mindset.