Sooner or later, you have to start.
Stop saying you’ll do it ‘one day’ and just do it.
At some point you have to make the first move.
You have to make all the things you plan inside your head happen.
You need to start taking steps to get what you want even if they are baby steps.
It’s time to start working on that life you have always dreamed of.
Put the fear of failure aside and just do it.
The one thing more scary than starting is regret.
Tap..✌️
The longer I live the more I realize the impact of attitude to life.
Attitude, to me, is more important than facts.
It is more important than the past,
than education,
than money,
than circumstanstances,
than failures,
than successes,
than what other people think or say or do.
It is more important than appearance, giftedness or skill. It will make or break a company, a church, a home.
The remarkable thing is we have a choice every day regarding the attitude we will embrace for the day.
We cannot change our past.
We cannot change the fact that people will act in a certain way.
We cannot change the inevitable.
The only thing we can do is play on the one string we have, and that is our attitude.
I am convinced that life is 10% what happens to us is 90% how I react to it.
(Not my words.)
Tap..✌️
Signs of PROGRESS;
1. Less fear.
2. Less internal conflict.
3. Longer moments of peace.
4. More doing.
5. Less worrying.
6. Deeper understanding of one’s intentions.
7. Understanding the difference between attention & affection.
8. Increased sense of control.
9. Increase in self-confidence.
10. Delayed gratification.
Tap..✌️
8 CANCERS TO AVOID;
1. Complaining.
2. Gossiping.
3. Envying.
4. Comparing.
5. Consuming.
6. Doubting.
7. Fearing.
8. Hating.
Tap..✌️
Observe yourself when you feel fear or anger.
Focus on the feeling, not on what caused it.
Not the stimulus, the stimulation.
Most strong reactions we feel are reactions to the past, not the present (if it’s hysterical, it’s historical).
We will be more effective when we move beyond unconscious programming and respond from a place of peace.
Deal with information, not inflammation.
(Not my words.)
Tap..✌️
Twenty years from now you will be more disappointed by the things you didn’t do than by the ones you did do.
So throw off the bowlines.
Sail away from the safe harbor.
Catch the trade winds in your sails.
Explore. Dream. Discover.
-MARK TWAIN.
You have to be fearless about pursuing your dreams.
You have to be willing to leave your comfort zone to grow not only as a human being but to push your own boundaries.
I encourage anyone chasing dreams to be fearless; go into emotional areas that aren’t always comfortable or comprehensible.
Do something out of your comfort zone today.
Sometimes the things that scare us help us grow.
Tap OUT..✌️
I know the easy option is to keep waiting until you are ‘ready’ but it’s going to get to a point where you realise that ‘someday’ is today and that there is no right time.
Ignore the fear of failure and jump when you need to.
It’s better to fail than to not try at all.
The key to success is for you to make a habit throughout your life of doing the things you fear.
– Dolmar Cross.
How to make yourself do what you don’t want to do:
1. Rather than listening to the voice in your head that is screaming “I hate this & I don’t want to do this”, think about why it is a GOOD thing to do.
2. Instead of trying to pretend that you don’t feel this way, accept that you are feeling very blah and negative.
3. Don’t think about results and how well you think you’ll do, as this could raise your feelings of anxiety and fear, just think about “right now” and the first thing you can do.
4. Accept that life is tough, and is full of things that suck, but recognise that doing hard stuff is better in the end.
You’ll likely have more choices and freedom, if you do.
5. Just do a little bit for now, then give yourself a proper break, then go back and do some more, and soon you’ll find you’re in the flow.
6. Don’t allow your mind to wander and think of other things.
Stay focused for that short time and then stop, and have fun.
Tap OUT..✌️
Life is precious, and it’s what you do with it that keeps you alive on the inside.
It’s not enough just to live and take that gift for granted.
Each one of us has fears, but the more we work to overcome them, the more we are able to enjoy our lives.
Fear varies by perspective or experience.
The thing is, if you’re living your life in fear, then you’re just not living.
I believe that life is a prize.
But to live doesn’t mean you’re alive.
Try to face one of your fears today.
Tap OUT..✌️
Observe yourself when you feel fear or anger.
Focus on the feeling.
Don’t focus on what’s caused it.
Not the stimulus, the stimulation.
Most strong reactions we feel are reactions to the past, not the present.
(If it’s hysterical it’s historical).
We will be more effective when we move beyond unconscious programming and respond from a place of peace.
We will be at PEACE sooner when we deal with information not inflammation.
Tap OUT..✌️
You have one life.
Don’t spend it scrolling through everyone else’s life.
Don’t spend it wishing you had someone else’s life.
Don’t spend it comparing it to someone else’s life.
Don’t spend it competing with someone else’s life.
Don’t spend it talking about someone else’s life.
Don’t spend it recounting your mistakes.
Don’t spend it rehearsing your failures.
Don’t spend it focusing on your limitations.
Don’t spend it living in regret.
Don’t spend it paralyzed by fear.
Don’t spend it listening to the naysayers.
Don’t spend it living purposelessly.
You have one life. Live it.
Tap OUT..✌️
Be so fucking committed to your growth that you’re willing to say NO without guilt and YES without fear.
People settle because they’re afraid something better won’t come along.
They fear they aren’t good enough.
You are worth exactly what you want in life, but you have to believe it or you won’t attract something better.
Take a moment to realize your worth.
Don’t ever settle.
I know the easy option is to keep waiting until you are ‘ready’ but it’s going to get to a point where you realise that ‘someday’ is today and that there is no right time.
Ignore the fear of failure and jump when you need to.
It’s better to fail than to not try at all.
Put everything on the line for your dreams.
Gamble high, go all in.
There’s no playing it safe when it comes to this.
There’s no fear.
If you’re going to do something, risk it all.
Let everyone know what you’re doing, leave nothing in the safety net.
It’s going to be scary, you’re going to feel uncomfortable and that’s normal.
But don’t be so afraid to try something and be all about it.
You have to do what you’re passionate about.
(This Avatar: The way of water trailer got nothing to do with the post above. I remember i saw the first Avatar movie with 12 of my engineering school friends. Happy to see this series getting a major reboot.)
Tap OUT..✌️
Fears stop you from all things possible.
Don’t let fear get in the way of anything, especially your dreams.
Did you know that FEAR is actually an acronym that stands for False Evidence Appearing Real?
In other words, your fears are not real because they’re not actually happening they’re based on things that haven’t happened yet and therefore don’t exist.
Replace a fear with a wish or a dream for your life and choose to focus on that instead.
Too many of us are not living our dreams because we are living our fears.
-LES BROWN.
Tap OUT..
Your anger?
It’s telling you where you feel powerless.
Your anxiety?
It’s telling you that something in your life is off balance.
Your fear?
It’s telling you what you care about.
Your apathy?
It’s telling you where you’re overextended and burnt out.
Your feelings aren’t random, they are messengers.
And if you want to get anywhere, you need to be able to let them speak to you, and tell you what you really need.
(This video got nothing to do with the post above. Adults seeking advice from elementary school kids on how to cope up with life, literally the world is losing it’s sense of balance. Thinking of kids, this is more than cute in my eyes. I asked my friend Frank’s 20 month old nephew what he wants to eat when we were in supermarket. He replied; “EVERYTHING IN THAT” while pointing his finger to the ice cream freezer. Why can’t adults be this simple as kids!! LIFE IS FUN, LET IT BE.)
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The more energy you spend living your dreams, the more that energy will spread to other people.
Your courage to live your dreams will give people courage, inspiration, and freedom to start living out their own dreams.
You’re a living example of what some people feel is impossible.
There’s no greater gift you could give someone like that.
If you’re feeling fearful or uninspired about your dreams, spend time with a friend who is motivated and draw inspiration when needed.
When you do your best and live out your dreams, you inspire others to do the same.
Tap OUT..✌️
I used to run and hide from my feelings especially when I felt something that was upsetting, painful, or uncomfortable.
But over time I’ve learned to accept all of my feelings.
I know that in order for me to work through them, I must first honor and embrace all emotions.
They are a part of me.
Therefore they are meaningful and valid.
Pick a feeling that you’re afraid or ashamed of.
Feeling fear, anger, or sadness is okay as long as you don’t let it define you.
Embrace your emotions and remind yourself how valuable they are.
Don’t invalidate your feelings. Honor them.
Tap OUT..✌️
It’s so important that children feel like they can think and talk openly.
Parents and teachers are meant to inspire young people be role models to children and students.
Don’t put down their views and opinions.
Let them know their value and intelligence.
No matter your age, make sure you always inspire, nurture, and support others.
Let children read whatever they want and then talk about it with them.
If parents and kids can talk together, we won’t have as much censorship because we won’t have as much fear.
-JUDY BLUME.
(This video got nothing to do with the post above. If you are someone like me who plays Assassin’s creed during weekend, you will definitely know this song. It’s actually an 17th century Irish folk song. Yes it’s little quirky & cheeky. Someday next year onwards i will sing it to my future kids like a nursery rhyme.)
Tap OUT..😍
Listen to that little voice inside yourself, like a loving parent or a good friend.
This is the truest part of your soul, the key to your happiness.
Sometimes thoughts, fears, or other people get too loud and we can’t hear ourselves.
Do what you need to do to get back in touch.
Today, follow what your heart tells you.
Nobody but you knows what is right for you, so listen to your instincts.
(This video got nothing to do with the post above. I talk very little about games even though i play Xbox games almost every weekend for 1-2 hours. This game trailer looks amazing. Happy to see video game developers connecting cultures & deities.)
Tap OUT..✌️
People settle because they’re afraid something better won’t come along.
They fear they aren’t good enough.
You are worth exactly what you want in life, but you have to believe it or you won’t attract something better.
Take a moment to realize your worth.
Don’t ever settle.
DISCIPLINE IS ABOUT MAKING CHOICE AFTER CHOICE CONSISTENTLY THAT’S ALIGNED WITH OUR INTENTIONS.
IN ANY MOMENT, WE CAN MAKE A CHOICE THAT SUPPORTS AN INTENTION.
OR WE CAN MAKE A CHOICE THAT SUPPORTS AN OLD HABIT, A LACK OF INTENTION OR A FEAR.
ATTITUDE,
HAPPINESS,
OPTIMISM,
KINDNESS,
GIVING,
RESPECT,
GROWTH,
LOYALTY,
TRUTHFUL COMMUNICATION,
WHATEVER CHOICE YOU MAKE, MAKES YOU.
CHOOSE WISELY.
(This video got nothing to do with the post above. If you are watching from USA, watch it for investment tips. If you are watching from any other part of the world, watch it for some general knowledge on money. I am a big fan ot Kevin O’Leary. I saw him giving a 100 score to someone for the first time, that too to an Indian guy. My blood goes back to eastern part of India. Parents are next to god in our culture. And nothing comes above family values & money management skills.)
Tap OUT..✌️
Your life is your own.
I want you to read that sentence until it sinks all the way down inside your gut and meets every last impulse that tells you to put your intuition on pause,
to place yourself second,
to squeeze and bend and break into the molds of what everyone else wants you to be.
Your life is your own.
I want it to pass through your head so many times it slowly clears out the debris of your fear.
I want you to meditate on it until you realize that you are not too strange,
you just have the courage to be your true self,
you are not too different,
you just have the courage to follow your own heart,
you are not unworthy,
you are just honest about the very natural human experience of feeling unworthiness.
Every person alive wishes to embody these very same forms of freedom.
They are not judging you,
they are expressing the parts of themselves they’ve judged into silence.
Your life is your own, and it always will be.
You must find the courage to claim it, or it will pass by you untouched, a glimmering, lost potential of all that could have been. (Not my words).
Tap OUT..✌️
BE SO BUSY LOVING YOUR LIFE THAT YOU HAVE NO TIME FOR HATE, REGRET OR FEAR.
You always have to believe that things are working out for you no matter what.
Being patient and trusting the process means that you believe you’ll receive the seed you’ve sowed.
Don’t let worry, fear, and anxiety make you dig up what you’ve planted just to see if it’s growing.
You can rise up from anything.
You can completely recreate yourself.
Nothing is permanent.
You’re not stuck.
You have choices.
You can think new thoughts.
You can learn something new.
You can create new habits.
All that matters is that you decide today and never look back at those things & people holding you back..
LIFE IS FUN, LET IT BE. (My words).
(This video got nothing to do with the post above. My bestie suggested, i saved it offline because of a busy morning & i watched it while flying. Whatever this person is doing is a legit mindfuck. A guy named Javier from Valencia-Spain is stuck in 2027, really!?! Thank god i am not using tiktok. But whatever this person is posting/playing is awkwardly creepy.)
Tap OUT..✌️
Pro-tip: Don’t let the toxic mixture of fear and laziness fuck with your goals, ambition and productivity.
No one knows what you need to do more than you do.
Cry when you need to, It’s relieving.
Laugh when you need to, It’s healing.
Sit alone half an hour when you need to, It’s necessary.
Surround yourself with random friends when you need to, It’s eye-opening. Especially listening to someone carefully is a dose of nectar to our eager mind & heart. Living by your needs is not easy, no one said it was. But a fact that you should always remember is this: “You are more worthy of being taken care of than anyone around you. And I don’t mean the superficial kind of care. I mean the care that your soul needs”.
Everyone around you is struggling somehow. Everyone around you is trying to reach a goal, a destination, or a dream. Just as you might not expose your worries to the world, no one else has to. Remember that you are a work in progress. You are not perfect & you are not expected to be PERFECT.
Do not allow the fear of falling to stop you from jumping.
Do not allow the fear of responsibility to stop you from committing.
Do not allow the fear of exposure to stop you from shining.
(Not my words).
Tap OUT..🤗
Never let your fear decide your fate.
Don’t be afraid to start over again. This time you’re not starting from scratch, you’re starting from experience.
Once you start a working on something, don’t be afraid of failure and don’t abandon it. People who work sincerely are the happiest.
-Chanakya (Ancient Indian Teacher).
May your choices reflect your hopes, not your fears.
-NELSON MANDELA.
(This video got nothing to do with the post above).
Certain things must be kept personal no matter how clumsy life gets, two such things which bug us the most are past resentments & fears and weaknesses.
Everyone has fears and weaknesses and sharing these things will not provide you comfort. People enjoy seeing other people’s weaknesses, so don’t feed them. You can study up on your fears and weaknesses or if that isn’t working, get some professional help.
Resentments about the past or constantly digging up the past, It’s not going to help. Those past experiences can easily affect today. Do not let these define the moment you are in. The best thing you can do is to express yourself in the moment. This way you can prevent past regrets and resentments. Forgive others in order to be peaceful, move on and let go.
Tap OUT..🤗
If you listen to your fears, you will die never knowing what a great person you might have been.
– Robert Schuller.
There is nothing called CONFUSION or FEAR, it’s all about SELF-ESTEEM. Those who are afraid of changes seem BORING & OLD to me. Confidence is SEXY & YOUTHFUL.
With time moving up we see young people showing less intrest in relationships, basically most of us suck at COMMITMENT. Nobody answers you why!! But you will definitely spot a bunch of those who will say; “They are the perfect oak but weather is not helping. Claiming to be perfect is nothing but stupid”.
Answer: Expectations & optimism, It depends on what you expect from yourself & how optimistic you are about it!! There are many who aren’t stable with life, I am not talking about that problem. It’s just that, people know what they can ever be & becoming stable/rich someday is just an unachievable dream for them. This is what makes a person feel like they aren’t good enough. That’s where all desires start limiting one after another. And you never desire to buy a subway/train ticket to your next street in your city, you can do that anytime you want. You desire to travel/fly to Disneyland or a nice beach vacation out of your country and you start saving for that. Relationships are like that DESIRE, you invest little after little time to get something bigger one day. All sums up to; No matter it’s relationship or any other goals of your life; DESIRE BIG, HAVE EXPECTATIONS ONLY FROM YOURSELF, INVEST YOUR ENERGY WITH TIME, REMAIN OPTIMISTIC ABOUT THE OUTCOME & STAY AWAY FROM THE CHEAP IF YOU EVER WANT EXPERIENCE EXPENSIVE.
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Most humans plan things with hope but take actions looking at their fear, which is an impossible kinda combination to achieve SUCCESS. An achiever is nothing but a random man who just kept his believe stronger on himself & his time. It’s the effort which matters. If your intentions are good, it’s gonna be easy to translate them into actual deeds.
Sometimes it’s difficult to win, but not impossible. And one thing everyone will agree for sure, “It’s hella fun to do the impossible”. Keep thriving.
Tap OUT..🤗
Never try to do anything that’s outside of who you are. A forced smile is a sign of what feels wrong in your heart, so recognize it when it happens. Living a LIE will reduce you to one.
– Ashly Lorenzana.
There is a reason I always say liars are the insects of a healthy society. Every cheater, thief, murderer, rapist, narcissist, fraudster have one thing in common; “Their string of lies”. Whenever you encounter a liar, make sure you cut that equation clean out of your life. Those who are reading this, remember to gift yourself some ample dose of self-respect every morning. Live a life where there is no second chances, so that you will never entertain a liar or never commit that same mistake.
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Keep your desire to succeed above your fear to fail. SUCCESS is nothing but doing what you love to do between you wake up at morning & hit bed at night.
Most dangerous enemies are fear, anger, confusion and despair. First overcome which attacks from within, success assured.
Tap OUT..💪
People with dead souls don’t understand FEAR. People with a brave heart face FEAR. UNDERSTAND FEAR, it’s an important part of LIFE.
People fear talking about mistakes. I have done crimes. Whatever comes to my head/heart always reaches my mouth instantaneously. Not afraid or not running away from my past anymore. It took time to heal & find my true-self. In LOVE with the way I vibe.🤗
Go out and bask under sun or go ahead conquer the wrath of a storm, both have something for you.
Swapped ego to self-respect, fear to challenge & anger to mockery; TAP for a reason.
Sometimes people reject goodness out of fear.
Predicting someone is easy. You don’t even know; your fear, amaze, truth, lie, happiness, horror, anger, amusement, everything has it’s own voice pitch/sound. It’s called “SLATE OF SOUNDS”.
Tap OUT..😜
Doesn’t matter you are talking good or bad about me, you are talking about me & I am loving it. I am a man of disciplines. Even when I play, I have a standard. There is a reason behind your fear or hate towards me; you know I am truthfully right with my ways, always.
Tap OUT..😘
My only fear; someday I will become lazy & stop asking more from myself. I can’t see myself like that.
Life will throw challenges. You have two choices, run from it or run at it. Be brave, run at it & face it.
The title should be; Another GREAT FIND!!
Games are something I make & I let others follow. Please try harder to crack my inner core, remember I started from ZERO each time I failed. & I have no fear to start over again anything/everything which will prosper my desires and demands.
In a relationship if someone is not moving up with time; just move forward with your life towards your goals & success, with or without them. You need a better you tomorrow. If deserving & you both are meant to be together, the other person will step up to catch up.
Courage is not about being fearless, it’s about facing the FEAR.
Your LOVE makes me strong & your FEAR makes me even more stronger. Be a True you.
There is nothing called CONFUSION or FEAR, it’s all about SELF-ESTEEM. Those who are afraid of changes seem BORING & OLD to me. Confidence is SEXY & YOUTHFUL.
Places to go & people to see.
Or
Let people go & places to see.
In both cases, you win big time. Don’t rush, don’t panic, never fear. Be true to yourself. Tomorrow is always an upgrade of today.
Tap OUT..💪
Don’t get feared & plan this journey of life. Rather travel & enjoy. Strive positivity. 😘
I don’t understand those people who put head in their butthole & expect everything will turn out in their favour. 😂
Some people put a front like they are happy as fuck, without any such gain. If you have sorrow or some emotions inside, pour it out to seem like a legit human.
You can’t catch a fish without hook. Stop damaging your own brain with mindgames.
People may hurt, scold, betray, abuse & break your heart. Stay strong, don’t behave like a pussy. Everything happens for a reason. Your other side is earning their karma by misusing you. At the end someone beautiful is coming to clean all & adore you for what you are. Your Truth & goodness will be rewarded at any cost. Stay positive, vibe right.
Tap OUT..😘
Choices made under anger/guilt/fear/deceit can’t be undone.
Everyone I connect wants to know bit about my life. Trust me I do nothing exciting like you think. But I always do something that others neglect or fear to do. My niche for happiness is to figure out where less crowd is heading & reach there before all. Less competition, less headache.
In a nutshell, I am just a pile of unfinished business & mysterious in almost every way. I know where/what/how much & why to reveal. I talk, but I only talk that’s predecided. Life is not something which is juggling for me anymore. This quarter century of life has given me enough instances to focus or forgive on situations that need their own shape of ending.
To be continued..
Death shouldn’t be your fear. Those who love us will miss us; that should be your FEAR..
IF YOU LOVE SOMEONE, GIVE YOUR BEST TILL YOU GET THE BEST.. 😘
Fear is poison. Some of the worst atrocities happened in this world because of FEAR. Learn how to confront & deal with it. Don’t react to it when you face it. Get back to your peace, calm or love for a moment. You have the answers within yourself.
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