Tag: expectation

Tru2Day1641

Expectations aren’t wrong.
Unrealistic expectations are the problem, and that’s in your control, so that’s your problem.

Fix your stupid brain before blaming someone else.

True me.. Tap-1479..

I’m a firm believer that everything happens for a reason.
I don’t believe in coincidences.
I think that things happen the way that they are supposed to.

When you really look at and evaluate every experience you’ve had, it’s a direct result of your actions and thoughts.

Don’t fight or wish away unexpected occurrences.
In time, and in its own way, it will prove to better your life in some way.
Everything happens for a reason.

Tap..✌️

True me.. Tap-1468..

Do not let the world make you hard.
Do not let pain make you hate.
Do not let the bitterness steal your sweetness.
Take pride that even though the rest of the world may disagree, you still believe it to be a beautiful place.

Be a soft-hearted individual.
Here being soft means, being a kind hearted individual at places the world expects you to not care.

Tap..✌️

True me.. Tap-1467..

6 months of hardcore focus and alignment can put you 5 years ahead in life.
Don’t underestimate the power of consistency and discipline.
You have what it takes to become the best that you can be.
Don’t ever doubt yourself.
Harness your power.
Exceed your expectations.

CONSISTENCY IS WHAT TRANSFORMS AVERAGE INTO EXECELLENCE.

Tap..✌️

True me.. Tap-1404..

So you want to be happy?

Then stop letting the smallest things ruin your whole entire day.
If you’re bored with your daily routine, do something unexpected.

Stop complaining about how alone you are when you’re surrounded by people who actually care about you.
Forget all the drama and let go of all the grudges you’ve been holding.
Stop wasting time lingering over all that you could have, should have and would have done.
Stop spending your days thinking of how much better you could do.
Stop longing for something that has been and always will be out of your reach.

Just live the days as they come.
Wake up every morning and smile at the wonderful day that awaits you.
Take a risk for once.
Let yourself be happy, because you deserve it.

Tap..✌️

True me.. Tap-1390..

To attract better,
you have to become better yourself.
You can’t do the same things and expect change.
You can’t blame anyone or anything.
It’s time to take responsibility for your reality.

Start transforming your mindset.
Start upgrading your habits.
Start being more positive.
Start being a true real version of yourself.

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Tru2Day1478

Stop forcing yourself to live up to other people’s expectations.
Stop going through life making decisions based on other people’s desires, especially as they don’t have to live with the results of those choices.

Own your life.
It’s your soul, your mind, your heart and your body.

True me.. Tap-1358..

You get what you expect, have you noticed that?
You expect to survive, and so you do.
You expect to have a roof over your head, and so you do.
You expect to live alright, and so you do.

But you don’t expect extraordinary things, so they don’t come.
You don’t expect magnificent money to flow into your experience and so it cannot get in.
The only thing that comes to you is what you are expecting to come to you.

Tap OUT..✌️

True me.. Tap-1353..

Avoid people who:

1. Mess with your head.
2. Intentionally and repeatedly do and say things that they know upset you.
3. Expect you to prioritize them but refuse to prioritize you.
4. Can’t and won’t apologise sincerely.
5. Act like the victim when confronted with their abusive behavior.

Tap OUT..✌️

True me.. Tap-1352..

You are allowed to fail.
You are allowed to start again from scratch.
You are allowed to change your mind.
You are allowed to try over and over again.
You are allowed to struggle.
No path is ever a perfectly straight line.
Your path will twist and turn in directions you never expected.
It will bring you unexpected highs and lows that make you stronger.

You don’t need to have it all figured out right now.
Because you will get where you are meant to go in time.

TOUGH TIMES NEVER LAST, BUT TOUGH PEOPLE DO.
(Not my words.)


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True me.. Tap-1342..

I don’t believe in coincidences.
I think that things happen the way that they are supposed to.
When you really look at and evaluate every experience you’ve had, it’s a direct result of your actions and thoughts.

Don’t fight or wish away unexpected occurrences.
In time, and in its own way, it will prove to better your life in some way.
I’m a firm believer that everything happens for a reason.

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True me.. Tap-1334..

Many of us have gotten so used to playing to the expectations of society, of our families, of our friends, and of our minds, that we don’t even allow ourselves to consider who we really are or what we really need.
We ignore the calls of our hearts, giving our lives, instead, to the demands of an outside world built on fitting in.
We can stop this, right now.

We can choose to listen to ourselves, to heed our deepest callings, whatever they are.
We can give ourselves the freedom to be whoever the hell we want to be in this world.
Right now, if we choose to.
And why wouldn’t we?

CHOOSE TO BE YOU & CHOOSE YOURSELF EVERY POSSIBLE MOMENT.

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True me.. Tap-1291..

Avoid people who:

1. Mess with your head.

2. Intentionally and repeatedly do and say things that they know upset you.

3. Expect you to prioritize them but refuse to prioritize you.

4. Can’t and won’t apologise sincerely.

5. Act like the victim when confronted with their abusive behavior.

Tap OUT..✌️

True me.. Tap-1287..

Self-discipline is a form of FREEDOM.
Freedom from laziness and lethargy,
freedom from the expectations and demands of others,
freedom from weakness and fear and doubt.

Self-discipline allows a pitcher to feel his individuality, his inner strength, his talent.
He is master of, rather than a slave to, his thoughts and emotions.

– H.A. Dorfman.

(This video got nothing to do with the post above. Big fan of SNL. Watch it for some fun, shared it for the same reason.)

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True me.. Tap-1260..

Sometimes it’s better to just let things be.
Let people go.
Don’t fight for closure.
Don’t ask for explanations.
Don’t chase answers.
Don’t expect people to understand where you’re coming from.

You got to keep fighting for you because no one got you like you got yourself.

(This music video got nothing to do with the post above. I watched Avatar during my engineering school days before a decade+ time. Watched Avatar: The way of water last week. This movie deserves to be experienced in IMAX 3D. And this music by The weekend is even more amazing than anything he produced before.)

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True me.. Tap-1247..

To attract better, you have to become better.
You can’t do the same things and expect change.
Transform your mindset.
Upgrade your habits.
Fix your finance.
Think positive.
Be a shameless authentic version of yourself.

Be hopeful and consistent with your evolution.
It all starts with you and how you feel about yourself.
BE YOU.

(This video got nothing to do with the post above. I like some of DJ Khaled’s songs from previous albums. This one stays on my playlist even during travel or workout.)

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True me.. Tap-1241..

Stay true to yourself.
Do your own thing and don’t worry about what people say.
It might not make sense to them.
But that’s ok.

Don’t expect everyone to understand you.
They don’t have to.
It’s between you, your higher self and your almighty.
So keep going.
Be you.

(This video got nothing to do with the post above. Shared it because it’s the best ever stand-off. Big fan of Key & Peele. Watch it.)

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Tru2Day1339

We often want it so badly that we ruin it before it begins.
Overthinking.
Fantasizing.
Imagining.
Expecting.
Worrying.
Doubting.
No matter what you want, just let it naturally evolve.

True me.. Tap-1138..

It’s funny because when you were a child,
you believe you can be anything you want to be, go wherever you want to go.
There’s no limit to what you can dream.
You expect the unexpected,
you believe in magic,
you believe in fairy tales,
and you strongly believe in possibilities.
Then you get older.
That innocence is shattered.
And somewhere along the way the reality of life gets in the way.
You’re hit by the realization that you can’t be all you wanted to be.
You might have to settle for a bit little bit less.

BE REAL.
BE YOU.
BE THE MOST AUTHENTIC VERSION OF YOURSELF.
BECOME WHAT YOUR HEART PUSHES YOU TO BE.
IN THIS WORLD OF INSTANT GRATIFICATION & UNREAL EXPECTATIONS, YOU BEING A REAL YOU IS THE BEST GIFT YOU CAN GIVE TO YOURSELF & THE SOCIETY.

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True me.. Tap-1137..

You are allowed to fail.
You are allowed to start again from scratch.
You are allowed to change your mind.
You are allowed to try over and over again.
You are allowed to struggle.

No path is ever a perfectly straight line.
Your path will twist and turn in directions you never expected.
It will bring you unexpected highs and lows that make you stronger.
You do not need to have it all figured out right now.
Because my beautiful friend, you will get where you are meant to go in time.
(Not my words.)

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True me.. Tap-1084..

It’s not enough to just love doing something if you want to be good at it.
You have to practice every day.
If you just show up on the day unprepared, you won’t fulfill the high expectations that you have for yourself.

Take time out of your life to practice your passion.
Do whatever you need to do that will propel you toward your goals.
Whatever your practice or passion is, you must exercise DISCIPLINE.

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True me.. Tap-1032..

Be a walking contradiction.
Be strong and soft.
Be deep and lighthearted.
Be beautiful and intelligent.
Be confident and humble.
Be someone with a quick wit and a cheap sense of humor.
Be content climbing a mountain and enjoying the sweetness of doing nothing.

The world may try and classify you as one thing because that is far easier to understand than a person who has a little bit everything in them.
And you may feel misunderstood for a while, but just remember your people can only find you if you’re brave enough to be yourself.
There are parts of you that you have yet to discover.
There is greater love that you have yet to find.
There are experiences that are far beyond your imagination.
And it’s all waiting for you.
Life is waiting for you.
So set aside your expectations and go explore it.

Tap OUT..✌️

True me.. Tap-1027..

TEN WAYS TO SHOW LOVE:

1. Give without expecting in return.
2. Trust without wavering.
3. Forgive without punishing.
4. Listen without interrupting.
5. Enjoy without complaint.
6. Answer without arguing.
7. Keep your promises.
8. Speak without accusing.
9. Be patient in all things.
10. Learn to let it go.

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True me.. Tap-1022..

Be a walking contradiction.
Be strong and soft.
Be deep and lighthearted.
Be beautiful and intelligent.
Be confident and humble.
Be someone with a quick wit and a cheap sense of humor.
Be content climbing a mountain and enjoying the sweetness of doing nothing.

The world may try and classify you as one thing because that is far easier to understand than a person who has a little bit everything in them.
And you may feel misunderstood for a while, but just remember your people can only find you if you’re brave enough to be yourself.
There are parts of you that you have yet to discover.
There is greater love that you have yet to find.
There are experiences that are far beyond your imagination.
And it’s all waiting for you.
Life is waiting for you.
So set aside your expectations and go explore it.
(Not my words.)

Tap OUT..✌️

True me.. Tap-1021..

I hope you have the courage to do things differently,
to be the kind of person who takes the risk,
to be the kind of person who leads with their heart and shows up in their life with a ruthless dedication to learning, and growing and enjoying the hell out of their moments here.
I hope you have the courage to never let comfort or apprehension convince you that you are better off staying still.
I hope you have the courage to trust the part of yourself that knows there’s more out there for you, the part of yourself that is easy to quiet when you’re trying to live by the rules and the expectations of a world that has bred so much dissatisfaction and sadness.
I hope you have the courage to trust the part of yourself that seeks freedom from those trends, from those boundaries, and I hope you have the courage to go after whatever it is that genuinely makes you want to get up in the morning.
I hope you have the courage to find the things in life that ignite you and deepen your understanding of the world and those within it.

I hope you have the courage to fight for a future that inspires you, even if it doesn’t look the way you thought it would.
I hope you have the courage to change.
I hope you have the courage to trust in the person you’re becoming.

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True me.. Tap-874..

6 RULES TO KICK ASS IN LIFE:

1. Know that your only competition is who you were yesterday.
2. Earn, save and invest before you spend.
3. Avoid negative people, life is too short.
4. If you don’t go after what you want, you will never get it.
5. See failure as a beginning, not an end.
6. Our habits decide our future, remain consistent with what you do in life.

6 months of hardcore focus and alignment can put you 5 years ahead in life.
Don’t underestimate the power of consistency and desire.
You have what it takes to become the best that you can be.
Don’t ever doubt yourself.
Harness your power.
Exceed your expectations.
CONSISTENCY ALWAYS WINS.

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True me.. Tap-865..

One of my favourite feelings is laughing with someone and realizing half way trough how much you enjoy them and their existence.

Things are expected of you of your whole life, you are expected to make career, that you score well and have achieved a certain status.
But life is not about status and work.
These are extras.

What matters is that you can develop as a person.
That you simply learn, discover and enjoy your journey.
So instead of worrying about the numbers and status, you have to enjoy the journey and the small moments that can mean so much more.

I don’t want to be around people anymore that judge or talk about what people do.
I want to be around people that do things.
I want to be around people who believe in slow & steady progress.
I want to be with people who gradually grow a rich character and a bank account.
I want to be around people who remain consistent with their words, approach, intentions & journey of life.
I want to be around people that dream and support and do things.

Supportive people bond long-term with growth mindset.
Oppertunist comes to score petty short-term goals, it takes time but you will get rid of them today or tomorrow. (Not my words.)

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True me.. Tap-780..

You can’t heal on someone else’s agenda,
by someone else’s standards,
in someone else’s timeline,
with someone else’s rulebook,
for someone else’s benefit,
under someone else’s expectations,
or by someone else’s urging.
Your healing is for you, by you, within you, about you, and through you.
Until you make healing for you instead of for others, healing will be out of reach.

Healing yourself will ask more of you,
more rest,
more self love,
more letting go,
more time for learning,
more space for transformation,
more honesty about how you feel,
more time developing good habits,
more courage to try new practices,
more time cultivating your inner peace,
more faith in yourself and the process.
HEALING DOESN’T MEAN THE DAMAGE NEVER EXISTED.
IT MEANS THE DAMAGE NO LONGER CONTROLS OUR LIVES.

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Tru2Day859

Rejection doesn’t hurt, expectation does.
Lying doesn’t kill, denial does.
Forgetting doesn’t heal, forgiveness does.
Efforts doesn’t matter, consistency does.

True me.. Tap-738..

I have outgrown many things.
I have outgrown relatives who gladly offer criticism but not support.
I have outgrown my need to meet my family’s unrealistic expectations of me.
I have outgrown people who wear masks and secretly rejoice at my misfortunes. (Not the corona situation face mask).
I have outgrown shrinking myself for those who are intimidated by my intelligence and outspoken nature.
I have outgrown friends who cannot celebrate my accomplishments.
I have outgrown people who conveniently disappear whenever life gets a little dark.
I have outgrown those who take pleasure in gossiping and spreading negativity.
I have outgrown dull, meaningless conversations that feel forced. I hate smalltalk.
I have outgrown those who don’t take a stand against ignorance and injustice.
I have outgrown trying to please everyone.
I have outgrown society constantly telling me I’m not beautiful, smart or worthy enough.
I have outgrown my tendency to fill my mind with self doubt and insecurity.
I have outgrown trying to find reasons not to love myself.
I have outgrown anything and anyone that does not enrich the essence of my soul.
I have outgrown many things.
And I’ve never felt freer.
(Not my words).

The goal is to become an upgraded version of my real self & a better HUMAN BEING every next day of this life. And i am connected to everyone who’s a part of that journey. If we have a steady flow of communication, you are celebrated in my books.
There’s no WONDER without some WONDERFUL people in life.
SOMETIMES LIFE SEEMS UNCOMFORTABLE BECAUSE YOUR OLD LIFE DOESN’T FIT ON YOU ANYMORE.
YOU’VE OUTGROWN THE OLD YOU.

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True me.. Tap-656..

Few steps to self care which reflects your self respect:

1. If it feels wrong, don’t do it. It’s not worth it.

2. Say exactly what you mean. You don’t need to be a people pleaser.

3. Trust your instincts, let’s name it intuition if you want.

4. Never speak bad about yourself. Never give up on your dreams.

5. Don’t be afraid to say no. Don’t be afraid to say yes.

6. Be kind to yourself & practice the same towards others.

7. Let go of what you can’t control. Expectations are the thief of joy.

8. Stay away from drama and negativity.

9. Prioritise yourself and your goals, you have to face both forever.

10. LOVE those whom you can respect.

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True me.. Tap-654..

Be a walking contradiction.
Be strong and soft.
Be deep and lighthearted.
Be beautiful and intelligent.
Be confident and humble.
Be someone with a quick wit and a cheap sense of humor.
Be content climbing a mountain and enjoying the sweetness of doing nothing.

The world may try and classify you as one thing because that is far easier to understand than a person who has a little bit everything in them. And you may feel misunderstood for a while, but just remember your people can only find you if you’re brave enough to be yourself. There are parts of you that you have yet to discover. There is greater love that you have yet to find. There experiences that are are far beyond your imagination. And it’s all waiting for you. Life is waiting for you. So set aside your expectations and go explore it. Life is fun, let it be.
(Not my words)

Tap OUT..🤗

True me.. Tap-635..

HOW TO CREATE A W-E-A-L-T-H MINDSET;

W-WRITE DOWN WHAT YOU WANT.

E- ENVISION YOUR FUTURE.

A – AFFIRM YOUR DESIRE.

L-LISTEN TO YOUR INNER VOICE.

T-TAKE ACTION AND TRANSFORM.

H – HOLD THE VISION.


SUCCESS IS NO ACCIDENT. IT IS HARD WORK, PERSEVERANCE, LEARNING, STUDYING, SACRIFICE AND MOST OF ALL, LOVE OF WHAT YOU ARE DOING OR LEARNING TO DO.

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True me.. Tap-601..

Never expect affection or approval from a narcissist. They always focus on your faults. Narcissist boost their own self-worth by demanding special treatment garnering obedient followers and establishing the highest expectations from others and they enjoy inflating their egos by making other people feel bad about themselves. That’s why they focus on what you do wrong in life.

A narcissist will keep a laundry list of your mistakes faults to use when it’s convenient for them at the same time. They’ll overlook your successes and anything that you do right? Keep that in mind. In the next time you’re trying to gain approval or affection from a narcissist, no matter how hard you try nothing will ever guarantee their support.

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True me.. Tap-592..

Most people always start worrying too much about being nice. Before i say anything against you, let me be clear I appreciate you & your concern.

My way of thinking is little different. Kindness can affect both the giver and receiver in a positive way, but worrying about whether or not you’re nice enough can actually hurt you. Feeling anxious when you think about how others perceive you can be a huge drain on your energy. You need to remember that your needs must be met before you can give to others. If you forget to leave some mental energy for yourself, you could find yourself suffering from burnout or depression. Always first prioritise yourself.

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Tru2Day663

Remember…

The way you think and feel about yourself, including your beliefs and expectations about what is possible for you, determines everything that happens to you.

(Not my words.)

True me.. Tap-536..

Business is not a game of money for me, i started with a purpose & i am loving the journey. Most people struggle to figure out priorities which results in a poor choice of living. There is no such mantra/shortcut to success. START SLOW & FINISH STRONG. Have little expectations from others & huge faith in yourself.

While building business my standard is customer’s preference, not the competitor’s product. Even while a pandemic is raving our world, I was lucky enough to grow throughout this year 2020 little stronger stable every single day. 2021 and it’s a long ride, i don’t have enemies but i have competitors. That’s all i can say about the reason “why i usually get bored of random people time after time & my contact block list keeps on increasing”. I have a small group of friends who keep pushing me to reach my higher self. When i say “my people”, i mean my people who are smart, caring, driven, funny & i swear i am sold. Life is fun, let it be.

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Tru2Day601

Change will not come if we wait for some other person, or if we wait for some other time. We are the ones we have been waiting for. We are the change that we seek.

– Barak Obama.

True me.. Tap-487..

With time moving up we see young people showing less intrest in relationships, basically most of us suck at COMMITMENT. Nobody answers you why!! But you will definitely spot a bunch of those who will say; “They are the perfect oak but weather is not helping. Claiming to be perfect is nothing but stupid”.

Answer: Expectations & optimism, It depends on what you expect from yourself & how optimistic you are about it!! There are many who aren’t stable with life, I am not talking about that problem. It’s just that, people know what they can ever be & becoming stable/rich someday is just an unachievable dream for them. This is what makes a person feel like they aren’t good enough. That’s where all desires start limiting one after another. And you never desire to buy a subway/train ticket to your next street in your city, you can do that anytime you want. You desire to travel/fly to Disneyland or a nice beach vacation out of your country and you start saving for that. Relationships are like that DESIRE, you invest little after little time to get something bigger one day. All sums up to; No matter it’s relationship or any other goals of your life; DESIRE BIG, HAVE EXPECTATIONS ONLY FROM YOURSELF, INVEST YOUR ENERGY WITH TIME, REMAIN OPTIMISTIC ABOUT THE OUTCOME & STAY AWAY FROM THE CHEAP IF YOU EVER WANT EXPERIENCE EXPENSIVE.

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