If we want to achieve great things, we must be intentional to focus on the right things, even when chaos arises. If we are not intentional with our thought life, then our human nature will automatically focus on the problem rather than finding and creating solutions.
What you focus on multiplies. So undoubtedly, when you focus on your problems for too long, they will begin to feel big and overwhelming. When you allow your problems to be the loudest voice in the room, you lose sight of hope and possibility.
While it’s important to acknowledge the problems that exist, no good can evolve from focusing on your problems. It will not change your situation, make things better, or shift the atmosphere and pave the way for a breakthrough.
Here’s the good thing: the problems you face, while they may be roadblocks, they cannot keep you from the future that was intended for you. ONCE AGAIN; WHAT YOU FOCUS ON MULTIPLIES.
Just always be the better person. And make your intentions pure. What and who you are is what you’ll attract, what you’ll maintain. Pain is inevitable and it will always exist, but if you focus on understanding what you are feeling and why you are feeling it, you will overcome it.
You have to chase the things that ignite you. You have to do the things that bring you joy. You have to surround yourself with the people who bring you back home to yourself, with the people who respect you and embrace you in ways that make you feel like you are worthy and accepted and celebrated and loved. You have do the work to heal yourself, even when it hurts especially when it hurts, so that you do not continue to approach your life within the boundary of what is heavy within you. You have to put yourself out there, and you cannot worry about what other people think, you cannot rob yourself of experience or happiness or inspiration because you are scared of how you will be perceived. You have to be unapologetic in the way that you exist here. You have to believe that your ideas, and your hope, and your being, deserve to take up space. You have to believe that you have purpose.
Because our existence is finite. And as hard as that is to understand, as hard as that can be to connect with, from time to time remind yourself that in the most human way we are all living on borrowed time. We live as if we are promised the experiences and the potential we are chasing, we live as if we have control over what happens to us. But we don’t, and that is liberating, because it is pressing there is urgency within the lesson. It is meant to wake you up. Life is meant to be lived. (Not my words).
What you want EXISTS. Don’t slow down until you get it. And never settle for less.
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If it didn’t workout, she doesn’t EXist in my life. No-one is allowed to term me “EX“. The other side’s low self esteem & betrayal made it fall, my efforts & enthusiasm were/is always on point.
I am celebrated among my friends & workers. I strongly believe in KARMA. The people i connect are chosen, No-one will ever say bad shit about me. I still struggle to sleep whenever I think “someone is hurt because of me”.
Being a human I too have enough negative qualities; I am overindulging to challenges, money, attention & intimacy. I accept that always (Some LEO thing). That will never change in me. Maybe my ONE will have enough strength to tame that beast in me someday. Till the time I am single, I enjoy all what I should be enjoying.